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- Question: I can't decide which fraternity to rush.?
- Question: How do I make friends when I have almost none to begin with?
- Question: My friend is giving me the cold shoulder for a trivial reason. Need advice?
- Question: How to tell my friend to stop talking to me in this tone.?
- Question: Is it bad that I have more adult friends than I do my own age? I'm an "old soul". Is it bad I don't want to smoke or drink? Please help!!!?
- Question: Why do munch friends think I'm stupid?
- Question: How do you get a friend to like you better than their other friends?
- Question: Do i invite a friend even though we have been growing apart?
- Question: I'm going to feel so guilty accepting a gift?
- Question: Is it safe to go to school after messing with a high school senior?
- Question: Who to talk to?
- Question: How to meet new people while being homeschooled?
- Question: Should I cut my friend off is she's affiliated with the mexican drug cartel?
- Question: Should i continue a one sided friendship?
- Question: HELLO IM AL PAL WHATS UR NAME?
- Question: I want to commit suicide at 11?
- Question: What should I do about this "Friend"?
- Question: Necesito ayuda con una amiga , estoy brava con ella pero sin razon pero sinceramente ahora me cae muy mal pero mi amiga me sigue queriendo?
- Question: What happens if you text and or call someone who has an AT&T Iphone when they changed their number?
- Question: Is it normal to shut someone out you have insecurities with as a friend and who doesn't take certain things seriously? Yea?
- Question: How do I deal with a friend who brags and is selfish?
- Question: Need advice: Friend is suddenly giving cold shoulder?
- Question: Why do I want to be his sibling so much?
- Question: HELP. Can someone help me give my friend someone answers?
- Question: My friends keep smoking at my place?
- Question: Does my cousin think he's better than me?
- Question: What do you do when you feel neglected by your best friend?
- Question: Is it weird for people who are college aged to send Christmas cards? Was thinking about sending the family Christmas card to some friends?
- Question: How to make more friends?
- Question: Being jealous of the male attention my best friend gets?
- Question: Fake Friends & Family? Or Is It Just Me?
- Question: HELP ME PLEASE , SUCH A BAD DAY.?
- Question: Help me ?
- Question: Should I break up with my boyfriend because I don't have fun with him?
- Question: My friend always comes to my house without me inviting her what should I do?
- Question: What does "I ll help you take care of you" mean?
- Question: Would you be friends with Aristotle if you met him?
- Question: How can I get thing back to how they were? I really love her?
- Question: Friend is giving me the cold shoulder for no reason?
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- Question: Should I break up with my best friend?
- Question: Am I wrong ?
- Question: Threatened over grades.?
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Question: I can't decide which fraternity to rush.? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 05:49 PM PST I am an international freshman at a pretty prestigious school. I have been going through the rushing process all fall *** my school practices winter rush. I became quite associated with one fraternity (A) because my weed dealer is the rush chair. I have become friendly with a lot of guys in that frat and feel quite comfortable there. I was certain this was the frat for me until I went to another frats (B) party and met some cool guys there too. Both frats are considered "upper tier" at my school, though frat A has a better reputation among guys while frat B throws better parties and girls swoon when they are mentioned. I have also begun noticing that frat A's parties aren't particularly great and many of the brothers I don't know are strange to me. Frat A associates with some nice sorority girls but they aren't the hottest on campus. Frat B has a bit of a douchy rep with other frats but they mix with the hottest girls and once you actually talk to the brothers they are very down to earth. Frat B also seems to be building one of the strongest pledge classes on campus and I would hate to miss out on being a part of that. So there is my dilemma; do I rush frat A which is chill , where I'm friendly with a lot of guys, who throw average parties, mix with average girls and will have an okay pledge class. Or do I rush frat B, which is cool, I have a few good friends but don't know a bunch of them, they throw good parties, mix with hot girls and will have a good pledge class? |
Question: How do I make friends when I have almost none to begin with? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 05:22 PM PST I'm a 20 year old year old college student who has almost no social life at all. I have basically one friend who I see basically whenever he has time, since he's busy working two jobs right now in life. He's quite an antisocial fellow like myself, we both really don't have friends outside one and other. I'm not really happy about my lack of friends and social life. But I really don't know where to start to make friends. I go to a community college but because of my schedule I hardly have time to be on campus to really get a chance to socialize. Normally I got there for my 1 class that day and go straight to work after. In between semesters right now so I got a little more free time now, what course of actions should I take to start making some more friends. |
Question: My friend is giving me the cold shoulder for a trivial reason. Need advice? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 05:13 PM PST I had noticed that my friend who I had known for 2 years has been acting distance and cold towards me. We were really good friends before and then all of a sudden she started acting like I don't exist, but she acts normal when we are with our group of friends. Like she cut off all contact with me out of the blue. I was thinking that maybe she had things going on in her life and she needed some space so I messaged her telling her if she needs anything that I'm there for her. But I noticed that she is only acting cold towards me, and she removed me from our whatsapp group chat that all my friends are in. That group chat is important because we all help each other with homework (we are university students). I tried asking her if we could talk so I could apologize if I did anything to offend her but she keeps making excuses like she has a doctors appointment and hurries off. I don't want to be pushy so I stopped asking after the second time. I asked a mutual friend if she told her anything about me and apparently she is mad because she texted me telling me to come to class and I responded 5 hours later saying it's too late. She knew I was working on labs at the time that were due in a couple hours. I always respond to her messages within a 15 minute time frame other than this time. I feel her silent treatment is very childish as she is 30 years old. Should I drop her as a friend or just treat her like an acquaintance? |
Question: How to tell my friend to stop talking to me in this tone.? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 05:08 PM PST Okay. so me and my friend get along well but sometimes he speaks to me in this demanding tone, and i noticed he only does it to me. I'll give you a couple of examples; "MOVE" "HURRY UP" "GIVE ME THAT" "PUT AWAY THE BOOKS" |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 05:03 PM PST I'm a senior in high school and I'm so much more mature for my age than I am with some of my old "best friends" adults tell me all the time that I should be really proud of myself for having such a good head on my shoulders, but when I feel completely alone and like no one even invites me places anymore it hurts. I'm the type of person to always be there for you and I'm very outgoing. I won the most outgoing superlative. I play sports, but all my friends drink and smoke. I don't do any of that. It's their life and I don't judge them they can do what they choose but I choose not too. My "best friends" just don't even talk to me anymore, they're always hanging out, never invite me anymore. I've talked to them and they just say "oh sorry I've been really busy. I still love you but life just gets in the way" but to the point where u make plans w everyone else and not me. Other people blow me off or sometimes don't even answer my texts but will snapchat me.. I just don't know what to do anymore. It hurts |
Question: Why do munch friends think I'm stupid? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:47 PM PST Alright, I'm a 13 year old girl I have lesions on my left temple and frontal lobes which cause me to have anxiety and have memory loss. So with this memory loss I seem to come on stupid. My friends and think I'm stupid. They think I need extra help with everything. If I mess up they say "Wow you're really stupid". It's like they don't even know that it hurts. I don't think I'm stupid but honestly I'm starting to. Also they always say I can't help my stupidity and it's not my fault. Also I'm always the one to help them out with THEIR problems. I never get helped with anything. It just really hurts, like a lot and they don't realize it. I just want to cry sometimes and want new friends that don't say I'm stupid or dumb. I just don't know what to do.. Can someone give me any advice? Please and thank you. |
Question: How do you get a friend to like you better than their other friends? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:46 PM PST We've known each other for almost 5 years I call her my best friend but I don't think she thinks of me as her best friend because she never says it. I'm just her friend. I also seems like she likes her other friends more than me because they always know the right things to say and I guess they have more in common. How do I get her to like me best? She's my favorite, and I just want to be her favorite. I know this sounds childish but at this point I really don't care. |
Question: Do i invite a friend even though we have been growing apart? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:43 PM PST A friend and i have been good friends since elementary school, but now (juniors in high school) have grown apart and don't really talk much anymore except for snapchat streaks. I was thinking about having friends over, and i'm not sure if i should invite her because she doesn't really talk to any of the friends that i want to invite but if she sees that i had people over my house on social media, i don't want her to feel left out. on the other hand, she's done some hurtful things in the past, but i still don't want to hurt her feelings. do i invite this friend or no? |
Question: I'm going to feel so guilty accepting a gift? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:36 PM PST My best friend has an "old" laptop it's only two years old. It was $600 two years ago. My custom built computer broke this past weekend and he offered me his laptop for free because he just built his own computer as well. He loves playing online with me but I'd feel so guilty accepting the laptop. He's an amazing friend but I'd feel so guilty accepting it no matter how much I want to be able to play with him again. Should I take his offer or so no? If you think I should how do I deal with the guilt? |
Question: Is it safe to go to school after messing with a high school senior? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:34 PM PST Im a 12 year old girl in 7th grade and I ruined a high school seniors chance of becoming prom queen by spreading a rumor and forcing a break up between her and her ex boyfriend. Where i live they don't separate the age groups much and even though middle and high school are two different schools our district allows visitors on the school grounds and high schoolers often come to our school for programs and to help the younger kids. Some kids at my school told me that she wants to get revenge on me by bringing a group of older girls to create a fight and beat me up because she's really depressed the fact that everyone is avoiding her in her high school. One guy in my science class is her younger brother and told me she won't even come out of her room and she's crying every night to sleep. I didnt wanna go this far to the point where people might wanna beat me up. My parents dont even let me stay home when im sick because of their beliefs and in Asian cultures people like my parents believe in education very much so I'm sure theyre not gonna let me stay home over this middle & high school drama. Theres no way to avoid older kids even if theyre in a different school because our schools are only ONE block away and we see each other after school when walking home (also some middle schoolers are friends with them). Ive messed with kids my own age too in 5th grade but they didnt threaten me. |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:33 PM PST So my best friend was my go to friend. Any problem/ feeling I had, I was able to share with him. He was always there for me. I never had to bottle up my emotions but now we don't talk anymore. I have gotten really down on myself too. I don't have anyone else I can trust with all of this information in my life. Who do I go to? If he isn't there anymore I don't know who to talk to? Nobody understands but him. I don't know what to do???????!!!!!!?!?! What do I do???????? |
Question: How to meet new people while being homeschooled? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:31 PM PST I'm a girl, only child and only had one friend not even a best friend. My parents never had me in school, only child care for a few months, ages ago. My friend has moved and I'm lonely. I do have some people I talk to on social media but countries away from me. But I just need some ways to meet people. Thanks. |
Question: Should I cut my friend off is she's affiliated with the mexican drug cartel? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:17 PM PST |
Question: Should i continue a one sided friendship? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:15 PM PST |
Question: HELLO IM AL PAL WHATS UR NAME? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 04:11 PM PST |
Question: I want to commit suicide at 11? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 03:52 PM PST I hate my life soooo much. i am in a fight with my best friend and it doesn't look like we will get over it. my parents always yell at me and not my sister and they constantly take away my phone for no reason. i told my one friend who i thought i could trust but i found out that behind my back she thouht i was being over dramatic and stuff. I thought i could trust her. i just want to kill my self. i wish i had someone to talk to and someone who understood me. my parents hit me a lot too and im convinced they will divorce soon. i cry myself to sleep every single night. i cut myself, make my self throw up, and i try to get hurt. dont try to stop me. i love my friends but i only see them at school. its not worth coming home to a family who hates me |
Question: What should I do about this "Friend"? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 03:30 PM PST Okay so I have this "friend" that doesn't understand why I do want to be friends with her anymore. Here are the reason why I don't want to be friends with her: 1. She freaks out if I don't respond to a text or facebook message immediately. First of all, I work Full-Time and go to school part-time so I am really busy and sometimes I don't have time to respond. She doesn't work and only goes to school twice a week. 2. She uses me and other people. For example, she talked my bff into buying her over $100 dollars worth of junk that she didn't need and promised to pay her back when she gets a job. I understand giving her a few dollars here and there, but not making someone spend over $100! 3. She constantly wants me to take her places like out to dinner, to the movies, etc. She also wants me to pay for her. She can't drive so she is also always asking me to drive her places too. 4. She lies to even when she knows I already know what the truth is. 5. She complains about everything and tries to get my involved with all her drama even when the drama/problem has nothing to do with me How can I explain to her that I don't want to be friends with her? I can't just ignore her because she goes to my school and she is roommates with my bff. |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 03:22 PM PST La verdad seque ya no quiero ser su amiga pero no se como explicarle que ya no quiero ser su amiga porque pues no hay razón solo simplemente no quiero ser su amiga |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 03:18 PM PST does it say "this number is not accepting calls at this time" PLEASE NO!!! I WOULD CRY! MY FRIEND MIGHT HAVE DID IT or does it say "we're sorry, this number has been deactivated or is no longer available" PLS THIS ONE |
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Question: How do I deal with a friend who brags and is selfish? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:55 PM PST She's been my friend for over 3 years, and as the years go by it's like the more we become comfortable with each other the more I also dislike her at the same time. I don't think she intends to be brag, but gives extra detail and info that makes it so. And she's pretty oblivious to things. One of her friends also feel this way about her. I'm not necessarily jealous but it's something that drives me nuts. I also realized she's very selfish and ungrateful for what she has. For example. she'll exaggerate her parent's wealth, her future career income and then when looking at the things I want to do she'll say things like "that only makes this much $" as if degrading it, and talk about the amount of gifts she gets for Xmas. As for selfishness I mean for example if she asks for something from me I'll let her borrow it (like a jacket if it's too cold outside) but when it's the other way around she doesn't let me. She is my best friend but these things are like flaws that I really get annoyed by in a person that discourages me to talk to her. I don't want to feel like I dislike her or have to look down on her, so how does one deal with this without getting triggered? If I confront her (which I kind of have) she doesn't see it or believe it. Also I don't want to treat her the same way, because I don't want to feel like I'm a bad friend too. |
Question: Need advice: Friend is suddenly giving cold shoulder? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:53 PM PST I had noticed that my friend who I had known for 2 years has been acting distance and cold towards me. We were really good friends before and then all of a sudden she started acting like I don't exist, but she acts normal when we are with our group of friends. Like she cut off all contact with me out of the blue. I was thinking that maybe she had things going on in her life and she needed some space so I messaged her telling her if she needs anything that I'm there for her. But I noticed that she is only acting cold towards me, and she removed me from our whatsapp group chat that all my friends are in. That group chat is important because we all help each other with homework (we are university students). I tried asking her if we could talk so I could apologize if I did anything to offend her but she keeps making excuses like she has a doctors appointment and hurries off. I don't want to be pushy so I stopped asking after the second time. I asked a mutual friend if she told her anything about me and apparently she is mad because she texted me telling me to come to class and I responded 5 hours later saying it's too late. She knew I was working on labs at the time that were due in a couple hours. I always respond to her messages within a 15 minute time frame other than this time. I feel her silent treatment is very childish as she is 30 years old. Should I drop her as a friend or just treat her like an acquaintance? |
Question: Why do I want to be his sibling so much? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:52 PM PST There's this kid in my class, we're pretty good friends. I don't know why I always fantasize about us being siblings, it's odd to say the least. These fantasies are purely innocent, nothing sexual like that, just us getting into trouble, or eating together, stuff like that. I don't have a crush on him at all, at least I don't think I do, we are just friends. I find this so odd because I have closer friendships than him, but I don't fantasize about them being my sibling, only him. Why do I think about this? |
Question: HELP. Can someone help me give my friend someone answers? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:31 PM PST I have a friend who's dad is on trail for not paying child support. (I think he is on trail, he paid bail to not go to jail) Is my friends dad allowed to see my friend? My friend really doesn't like their dad and I want to provide some words of comfort. Advice and help would be much appreciated. (sorry if this is really vague I don't know much about this) P.s. this takes place in the state of IA) |
Question: My friends keep smoking at my place? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:27 PM PST My friend keeps smoking in my room, we re living in the dorms and he smokes a lot, when I tell him to stop smoking he says yes and five minutes later he lights up a cigarette |
Question: Does my cousin think he's better than me? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:25 PM PST He gets smart a lot and brags about how he goes to a private school and gets scholarships and things like that. He also brags about how he can get a lot of gifts for Christmas unlike me who can get two gifts.. I feel like I'm too nice to people, should I start being rude like he's rude to me? |
Question: What do you do when you feel neglected by your best friend? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:15 PM PST okay so what do you do when your best friend has a boyfriend that tells you to stop talking to her because I m getting in the way and she knows about it and says it makes her mad but does nothing about it and you feel like you re the only one who is trying to keep being friends not to mention she never texts you unless you text her first on that note, i have anxiety and is afraid of confrontation and she has anxiety and I m afraid if I do it ll mess everything up and if that messes up I won t have a best friend anymore ?? |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:15 PM PST Friends are guys and girls if that matters. I get a Christmas card from some of the girls, but not the guys. Don't know how they'd feel about getting one or if they'd care |
Question: How to make more friends? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:11 PM PST I mean, I'm not really "shy", I'm pretty outgoing. What happens to me is, I'll get into a new class, strike up conversations with about 3 or 4 kids around me, but I never pull the trigger of " you wanna meet up this weekend?" or something like that. We just chit-chat then when the class ends I never see them again. Any advice to help me is welcome because I'm very determined to, once my trimester ends in March, leave my classes with at least 1 friend. Additionally, I struggle to " pull the trigger" on asking a girl out because, I can never seem to think of a good way to word it, or when I'd put it out there. Plus I'd be worried she'd either say " no" or that she's already dating and that would be awkward. Any tips? Maybe I'm overthinking it and a simple, " Hey would you wanna go out sometime?" would suffice. Just to clear some air, I can talk to girls like casually, it's the next step I struggle with. |
Question: Being jealous of the male attention my best friend gets? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 02:09 PM PST So my friend recently started going out with this guy. They have not made it official, but it's clear that they have something going on and she told me she likes him. So, now he's always hanging out with her. Meaning most of the time when I hang out with her he's there, which makes me feel uncomfortable because I don't know how to act with him around. In addition, we don't hang out as much as we used to, and when we do he's usually there. So as a result I kind of don't like him. Initially, I thought this was because I was jealous about the amount of time my friend was spending with him, and while I do still think that is true, I also think some of it is that I'm jealous of the male attention my friend gets. For instance, she literally just broke with her now ex-boyfriend this past weekend and then already she now has another love interest. Which annoys me because guys barely pay attention to me( I've never had a boyfriend, but at the same time, I don't necessarily want a boyfriend)and the fact that's it's so easy for her to get male attention shortly after breaking up with her ex bothers me. As a result, I've been sort of cold/less social towards her, which I know is so mean. I'm also disappointed in myself for being so bratty/immature. I'm also confused as to why I'm feeling this way since I don't particularly want a boyfriend.I don't know how to get rid of this jealousy towards my How can I stop being jealous of my friend? |
Question: Fake Friends & Family? Or Is It Just Me? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 01:59 PM PST Well, ever since I graduated Highschool in 2015 I lost more and more friends for the oddest reasons. The major reason is the fact that I don't smoke weed anymore and everyone else does.. anyways fast forwarding to summer 2016, I was at the peak of success. I had a good job, money, and my health was great. Well, in August my father had gotten sick so I decided quit my job and move to North Carolina for a couple months until he got better which he did, Anyways by the time my father was healthy again I'm broke, with no money which is fine because money means nothing to me, I move back home in Maryland and my so called friends are giving me funny looks. Very funny looks. When I talk to them or look them in the eyes they seem a little off, even my cousin and brother who hang out together more than they hang with me because they're smoking buddies, started to give me looks because I'm broke I guess. When I had all the money in the world they wanted to hang out and go places and ride around in my car with me (they're all broke by the way so I helped them with money when we went out because that's what real friends do right? Yeah I know it's nobodies fault but my own for being kind.) but now that my car is in the shop, I'm broke, and down right now no one hits me up anymore, no one wants to hang, when I see them in person they ( my friends and family) look at eachother before they respond to me with little smirks and weird looks. |
Question: HELP ME PLEASE , SUCH A BAD DAY.? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 01:49 PM PST just had a really bad birthday , i cried last night for so long it was like a physical feeling of emptiness in my stomach, because i felt alone&i knew my birthday always reminds me that i have no one except my mother and some relatives.. no one said happy birthday to me except my mum,i have family which i'm grateful for , we had a trip planned for today , it was nice to get away for awhile , but everytime i think of going back to reality or i am reminded it's my birthday i get sad because it reminds me i have NO FRIENDS , Yes i love my family but i would like if my friends cared about me , funny enough the 3 "friends" i do have didn't call me or anything. my dad didn't call me either , any advise on dealing with this ? reality makes me feel depressed i've been holding in my tears all day . no one understands i'm just so sad inside, i would like to hear if you have any lonely times and how you deal with them . I really have no one to talk to. |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 01:43 PM PST Okay so there's this girl who moved here from Florida last school year and she started becoming good friends with my best friend. Apparently shes been talking crap about me over the stupidest things like how I sat on the bus with my best friend and claims I "stole" my best friend from her and she'd rant to my best friend about how I needed to get over my ex boyfriend (I was sad for a bit bc he had just broken up with me) yet people feel bad for her when she starts crying bc she broke up with her boyfriend bc she thought she was gay????? She'd say all this to my best friend (of course my best friend didn't talk about me) but omg pls help me tbh |
Question: Should I break up with my boyfriend because I don't have fun with him? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 01:30 PM PST I'm a seventeen year old (eighteen next week) senior in high school (girl) in the middle of my longest relationship so far (five months). I've dated two other guys in high school casually but both only lasted about a month. Anyway, because of my lack of experience I don't really know anything about relationships or what love feels like, so I don't know if I should stay with my current boyfriend or not. The downsides to this guy: he doesn't make me laugh. He doesn't appreciate my sense of humor, either. We don't have fun together. The upsides: he's sweet. He's always there for me. I completely trust him. He would never cheat on me or break up with me unexpectedly. He wants to stay together through college and I think it would be nice to have someone to talk to through those first few confusing months at least. He's a really good guy, the quintessentially good boyfriend who opens doors, brings flowers, pays for the meal, etc. Basically what it comes down to, is I don't have fun with him. But I know relationships aren't always supposed to be fun, you have to put work into it. But I can't help but feeling like I felt stronger emotions towards the last guy I was with, who I only dated for a month. He always told me he loved my sarcasm, that I made him laugh, and he made me laugh. My humor is a really important aspect of my personality to me, but my boyfriend doesn't see it or have any sense of humor himself. Is that a deal breaker? |
Question: My friend always comes to my house without me inviting her what should I do? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 01:29 PM PST |
Question: What does "I ll help you take care of you" mean? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 01:25 PM PST The other day a guy friend of mine was comforting me because I was sad and he said that to me.. what does it mean? |
Question: Would you be friends with Aristotle if you met him? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 01:03 PM PST |
Question: How can I get thing back to how they were? I really love her? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 01:03 PM PST My and my gf have been dating for almost 3 years now, and i've known her way before we started dating. I really love her from the bottom of my heart, she means the whole world to me, but, in the last few months, being with her seems to hurt me more than it makes me happy. We've been arguing/fighting a lot and even though it's never my fault I always end up apologizing to her because I just can't see her sad. It's really starting to look like i'm the only one that cares, i'm the only one who's willing to sacrifice anything for our relationship and I have. Idk, idk how to explain it. I'm starting to get depressed, I don't want to break up with her or lose her, but she's not even trying. I really want to get things back to how they were between us, back when we just started dating. What should I do? |
Question: Friend is giving me the cold shoulder for no reason? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 12:44 PM PST I had noticed that my friend who I had known for 2 years has been acting distance and cold towards me. We were really good friends before and then all of a sudden she started acting like I don't exist, but she acts normal when we are with our group of friends. Like she cut off all contact with me out of the blue. I was thinking that maybe she had things going on in her life and she needed some space so I messaged her telling her if she needs anything that I'm there for her. But I noticed that she is only acting cold towards me, and she removed me from our whatsapp group chat that all my friends are in. That group chat is important because we all help each other with homework (we are university students). I tried asking her if we could talk so I could apologize if I did anything to offend her but she keeps making excuses like she has a doctors appointment and hurries off. I don't want to be pushy so I stopped asking after the second time. I asked a mutual friend if she told her anything about me and apparently she is mad because she texted me telling me to come to class and I responded 5 hours later saying it's too late. She knew I was working on labs at the time that were due in a couple hours, hence the reason I was skipping class and responded to her message late. I always respond to her messages within a 15 minute time frame other than this time. I feel her silent treatment is very childish. Should I drop her as a friend or just treat her like an acquaintance? |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 12:27 PM PST So about a week ago my friends and i decided to do secret santa. This is a group of 7 friends so we drew names and we had a week to buy them something and we decided a day when we would bring it in. And when we switched presents i realized that my secret santa didnt get me anything while all of my other friends recieved something from their secret santa. Im not sure if i should be upset at this because i know its the season of giving but we were each assigned a person to give a present to.. and i didnt recieve anything.. |
Question: Why do I feel like I just lost a friend? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 12:24 PM PST Seriously I just went to a banquet and it was ... fun. I mean i liked it and my friends were there, but my closest friend kept talking to another of our friends and I kinda felt left out a little....and afterwards a lot of girls were taking pics and i was wishing I looked like them. Anyways afterward I just had this feeling of "sad" like I'd lost a friend but nothing had even happened. What is wrong with me? I feel like this a lot after doing things with people.... |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 12:21 PM PST my mom abuses me my dad ignores me i have no friends . today in school my bully keegan called me a wothless f ag and chocked me |
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Question: Why did he say this? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 12:14 PM PST It was my classmate and myself chatting with the prof. For some reason, the prof brought up the topic regarding poly-amorous and kept checking for my reactions? I felt shy so I looked away, and after he finished the topic, he made this comment about me to the classmate "it was too much info for her". Few days later, I tried to ask the prof out, but he rejected. I don't get why he mentioned those things? |
Question: Should I break up with my best friend? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 12:12 PM PST So I have a best friend, who I've been best friends with for around five years. But a few months ago I've been hanging out with another friend and my best friend stared hanging out with these three girls, who doesn't like me and I don't like them. But then they started inviting her to parties with some other of my close friends. It kind of hunted when I wasn't invited, but then they did again. My best friend didn't say anything about it, not to me or to them. Then I got sad and laid a distance to her. She was a lot with those three girls and they kept leaving me out. So now I am here and I am a little depressed all the time and it hurts when she is with them. I talked to her about it, but she hasn't really changed. I told her that I would think about it until Christmas vacation, but now it's almost here and I'm not sure if I should break up with her....... PS. I'm sorry if it is confusing or something, but english isn't my main langue. |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 11:55 AM PST Me and my friends got into a fight but I started talking about them when they started talking about me in this way I am sorta wrong but she's telling her mom and counsler on me for no reason now I could get expelled or suspended for "bullying" but she's no saint she did things too so I Said listen girl I'm sorry I hope we can just forgive and forget she said "I already told my mom and the consular and there's no reason for me to be sorry" I laughed so hard I fell to the floor and cried! |
Question: Threatened over grades.? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 11:21 AM PST So i had to do a science project for my honours class, and my parents said they would "do something bad" if i got lower than a c. well, i got an f. what do i do, i have no access to a phone, so i cant call anyone. |
Question: Friend is too demanding? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 11:04 AM PST My friend acts like I'm at her beck and call. She'll call me with last minute plans, for a favor or to complain, and she'll get upset if I'm unavailable. Like, I'm not gonna apologize for having other things going on in my life? I've definitely made time for her in the past when I've been busy, did she take it for granted |
Question: Which topics are important in mcse? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 10:52 AM PST |
Posted: 15 Dec 2016 10:43 AM PST I'm 22, been some sh*t when I was around 15 or 16. I'm not really a wimp at all, maybe I was but I'm not now. I don't know how can I hurt them the most, should I act as if I never got hurt by em or should I revenge now ? Give me something smart, please. I'd really want to go back in time and change things but I can't. |
Question: How to find someone/ bump into them? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 10:13 AM PST There's some guy at college I want to find I know there full name and the person goes to the same college but on a different course. The college has around 10,000 students and 1,000 staff so it is very unlikely to just bump into them and I haven't bumped into them in over a year. There's no way to find this person on social media or email. How can I find them????? |
Question: My teacher makes me feel really uncomfortable? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 10:07 AM PST Please tell me if I m overreacting! So, last year in sophomore year in high school, I got an schedule change to Geometry (where this teacher is) and I started talking to new people and I noticed he always looked at me. He always walks around class, but he goes around my desk the most. Every time I look at him he s looking at me and he has this intense look on his face that makes me so uncomfortable! And every time I would talk to boys he would get really upset and kick them out! (Just the guys I would talk to, didn t happen to anyone else) He would never let me go to the bathroom and when I would be late he would sit me next to him and stare at me until the bell rang. And this year it got so much worse. I got him this year for math again (I m 16 now) and I was talking to my best friend (girl) and he would stand next to us to listen to our conversations, and when I told her I was bisexual, he got really mad!! And every time I would talk to girls he would be upset, and my friend would get creeped out too. he never cares when anyone else is late, but when I m late he talks to me for a long time and just keeps looking at me up and down and I can t take it anymore. I feel too bad every time I go to this class. I m sorry for making it long:( |
Question: I got them a Christmas present, they got me nothing...? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 10:03 AM PST There s girl and we re in the same group of friends and we hang out as a group all the time, but she doesn t like me (she told me she thinks shes too popular to be friends with me), and I m trying to be friends with here but when I make conversation I get nothing out of her. So as it s christmas soon we re giving gifts to all our friends at school and she bought hers in today and I m bringing mine in tomorrow and today I realised she didn t get me anything, I m not upset or anything, just think it s a bit rude. But I already bought her something so I don t know if I should give it to her cause I don t want to make her feel uncomfortable about not getting me anything but if I don t give it to her do I seem just mean? should I give it to her or not. P.S this is meant to like a special christmas cause it s our last year in high school and next year she s going to college and I m going to sixthform so its our last year together |
Question: What should I do about my math Teacher? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 09:08 AM PST So this year I had a really cool (or so I thought) math teacher named Joseph Rankin. I started talking to him and we became good friends at the beginning of the year. I even started bringing him delicious sausage and egg biscuits in the morning in addition to a ho ho. Just when I thought we were considered best friends, he completely embarrassed me during math class and made fun of me for bringing him delicious food. I've just been ignoring him now, but i miss the days when we used to be pals. What should I do; I just want him to apologize. |
Question: Is it normal to feel that love is not real and it's all fake now in days? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 08:51 AM PST |
Question: My friends called me annoying behind my back? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 08:39 AM PST At school today one of my best friends were being a bit bitchy towards me. I told another one of my friends and she agreed that they were and told me that the other day when I was out she had my test to mark and the girl that s being mean told her to mark it harshly so I get a bad mark and if I got higher than them i wouldn t stop boasting about it. ( I am kind of annoyed about this but anyway) when I got home I was asking another friend for advice on the situation and she said the reason the girl was rude to me all day was because today I was being annoying and they all thought it except for the friend who told me about the test. I am really upset and it has hurt my feeling how do I confront them? Help! |
Question: What do I do in my free time? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 08:18 AM PST suppose i just came back fromm my school and I have nothing to. my weekends end without doing anything. what should I do? oh making friends, if it was that easy I would have done years ago. |
Question: My friend keeps copying me? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 07:40 AM PST Basically my friend Hannah keeps constantly copying everything I do. First of all, she copies my fashion all the time- she asks where I get my clothes from then goes and buys them, she copies the bands I listen to, my hobbies just everything I do... I'm not the person who enjoys following the crowd and I enjoy my own individuality so having someone constantly copying me really annoys me... What should I do? |
Question: My neighbor s dog is annoying me. Should I get my asian friend to come over and eat him? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 07:30 AM PST |
Question: Why my boi right next to me be acting all gay n' ****? Posted: 15 Dec 2016 07:14 AM PST |
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