Family: Question: My brother in law VERBALLY BULLIES me ALL the time and it's making me want to KILL MYSELF!? PLEASE HELP ME !??!?!:(?

Question: My brother in law VERBALLY BULLIES me ALL the time and it's making me want to KILL MYSELF!? PLEASE HELP ME !??!?!:(?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 01:42 PM PST

He's done this for years,and I can't handle it much more..He treats me like ****,picks on me all the time,tells his kids to bully me too,and all that...They had a toy nerf gun a bit ago he said to his kids "Be nice to everyone else but its okay to be mean to her (Me)..He also always picks on me,verbally bullies me,etc..And NOBODY stands up for me..And I can't stand up for myself bc I don't have the guts to tell him to **** off..He told me once I was 'moderately ok looking" and ruined my self esteem even more..He told me if he died he wouldn't miss me and that he never liked me...I dread Christmas bc I have to see him tomorrow and get this **** AGAIN..I'm 17 and sick of it..He treats me like utter crap,yet treats another girl my age that they know like God and like worships her..He is the biggest *** and I just want to escape and never see his asshole self again but he's family and I can't escape it..And he lives next door to me so even worse:(

Question: Why is my brother such an asshole?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 01:39 PM PST

When my mom askes him for money he gets mad and if he doesn't get mad he needs to feel needy like he would say what would you do without me? We would be fine without him we done it before he is 27 I am 21. He never buys his child anything he is almost 2 years old my mom does it all buys him clothes and everything my brother doesn't really do sh*t gets mad if I ask him to do a favor by just taking out the trash in the bathroom we share. He asked me to turn down the tv I did a little but he came and ask again and got mad because thinks I didn't do it but I won't turn it all the way down he always has his up when I was younger and asked him to turn it down because I needed to sleep he never did, he still always have it up loud and doesn't think twice so why should I? He gets mad when he doesn't get what he wants he's like a child.

Question: Is it OK for teen brother and sister to bathe together?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 01:32 PM PST

I'm a 17 year old guy. As a matter of fact just last week was my 17th birthday and my family had rented a beautiful suite in Atlantic City to stay over night to celebrate. After we went out for dinner, my parents decided to spend a few hours in the casino while my sister and I hung out in the room. Long story short, after a long day and parents weren't around, I decided to take a bath in the really cool, jacuzzi style spa bath tub in the room. After I was already in, my 20 year old sister walked into the bathroom. Seeing I had already made the bath and that there was plenty of room, she asked if I would mind if she joined me. I was a bit surprised with the request but I wasn't weirded out. We have had a very open and respectful relationship over the years and have seen each other naked plenty of times. I said sure and she casually removed her clothes and entered the bath. I couldn't help but look at her as she came in, simply because I hadn't seen her completely nude, up this close in a few years and it was certainly a much different body than I had remembered. However, I remained mature and certainly wasn't aroused, just surprised with the event. Anyway after maybe 20 minutes we got out, rinsed off and changed. Everything went back to normal since then. Is this ok that we did this together?

Question: Any good comebacks for an abusive step mother? I want something that ll shut her up when she says something awful?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 01:31 PM PST

Nothing to obviously mean but still hurtful

Question: I made my sister cry what should I do ?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 01:27 PM PST

Me and my friend were watching the lifetime channel they showed a movie about that little pageant girl that was killed 20 years ago. My little sister saw parts of it she got upset now she's crying not only that she's scared to go to bed tonight and tomorrow. Especially tonight since we're at our grandmas house and our grandma has a basement. We're getting ready to go to Christmas dinner I feel bad I made her cry. How can I help her feel better ?

Question: My parents want to take my money from from me?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 01:24 PM PST

What can i do? i just did a joob (im 14) and i have 260$, right now my mom is angry because im not giving my money to her which I OWNED! i dont know what to do, i need to hide my money somewhere but WHERE. Even my dad asks my money becuase he wants to spend it on alcohol. please help me, i worked hard for that 260$.. thanks

Question: How can I tell my mom my bros and sis need more discipline?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 01:12 PM PST

My mom doesn't see it but my brother (who is second oldest) is growing up disrespectful. And my little brother is growing up being spoiled. And my sister thinks she can do anything she wants because she never almost never gets yelled at. I am the oldest and I grew up being abused by my mom. It got to the point where I have little love for her. And where I prefer my dad over my mom any day. My brother is always yelling back both my parents when asked to do chores and ends up not doing them. I tried to explain to them (specially my mom because my dad ends up whooping their butt and then they snitch on him and he gets in trouble) that the more they let him go easy the more he's gonna do it. Same with my little bro and sister. At the end of the day I end up doing their chores. I sometimes tell my mom about what she did to me in the passed and she goes against me and then I get yelled at and she feels offended and starts talking about how all my cousins went to college and I didn't. Even though I graduated back in June and planning on going to the military. Is there any other way to let her see that her kids aren't growing up to be respectful?? And trust me last Christmas my brother didn't get what he wanted from Santa Claus and started yelling at my parents and telling my little brother and sister that santa clause didn't exist that it was my parents all along. He didn't even get an assss whooping. Not even when he was throwing everything aroun

Question: I'm avoiding my dad/step mom on Xmas because they won't agree to start being respectful to me. Theyre trying to make me feel bad? Why?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 12:33 PM PST

-I have a long history of avoiding them. -My dad and step mom consistently says disrespectful things about my life. -They are wealthy and always put me down. -My dad thinks my avoidance of him is based off of when he cheated on my mom and left the family and never even apologized. -My dad never gives me advice when I go to him over stuff a son should be able to talk to his dad about. What he does is he'll say negative things towards me when I ask for advice and put me down by saying, as an example, "he never had that problem." -They give me back handed compliments, stuff like, "you look better wearing your hat. Wear your hat when you're with us. You're still a good looking guy, you just look better in a hat." -Because my dad jumped ship on being a family man, he was never concerned about how I did in school, never went to my games as a kid and was always kind of just mean to me but very sweet and loving to my sister and brother. -In essence, my avoidance of him is a reflection on how he and his step mom treat me. They, both through 3 marriages come off as saints to so many people. But they always act judgmental, vindictive and condescending towards me. Anyways, my dad bought me Xmas presents to make me feel bad for avoiding them for Xmas. -Is it selfish to avoid people who treat me bad but still love me? I don't want to be around them.

Question: Why does my brother ignore me?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 12:26 PM PST

My brother barely acknowledges my presence and only talks to me when he needs something. We are 3 years apart. I m the oldest. He just walks right past me and doesn t say a word. I keep reaching out to him and he has this look in hi eyes like get the f**** away from me. I can t think of a single thing that has happened that would have caused or warranted this. So why is he acting this way?

Question: Is it an affair? Or just simply us being assuming?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 12:13 PM PST

My sister just told me about the things that my mom does. Things like how she found out that my mom has a friend online, who she calls dear and keeps on exchanging words like I love you s and I miss you s. They ve also been chatting lately, more frequent than before. And it makes me scared of the possible things that could happen. I want to confront her about this. Talk to her as to what this could possibly be, but my sister doesn t want me to do that. She had asked once, about their endearment, and only got the basic answer of just friends without malice. I really want to talk to her and try to persuade her into stopping this before it could turn into something more chaotic. So is it alright?

Question: My relative shared on Facebook a charitable deed she did for someone is this OK or conceded?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 12:07 PM PST

Since it was online is it more for the whole world to praise her for the deed? Is this conceded

Question: How to survive living with my mom for one more year?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:49 AM PST

I'm a sophomore in high school. My mom is a horrible person. She starts arguments, she talks down on all of her kids, she's verbally abusive, and I have no way out. I'm currently 15. Next year I was going to get a job so that I could go straight from school in the morning to work and I would only have to sleep at home to avoid dealing with her bs but I have a whole year to go. So how can I avoid her and her arguments? I can't go anywhere. I'm on punishment. I do the chores I'm supposed to without being asked and I get good grades so what else could I do to be away?

Question: I got a cologne for Christmas and my birthday was in the same month so that was my combined gift?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:48 AM PST

I honestly want to cry because the cologne is almost the same price of something I would have loved. But I already have a cologne and I'm not too crazy about them. I specifically told my parents that I do not want cologne or clothes but they still got me cologne. I just wanna smash the bottle and get it over with.

Question: Why do you judge between what I can do and not do about taking custody of my niece...?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:46 AM PST

Yes I asked about any legal help for my health/disability information. That doesn't mean I'm severely disabled. I still am ongoing diagnosis because my doctor doesn't know for sure....she did diagnose me with hashimotos besides that I don't like to sit around I babysit a lot even in my condition and the parents are happy. I also have a family and a husband and I am capable of raising a child. I would do anything it takes even take on a job even tough I can't have hard manual labor I can do less physically demanding jobs it just will take all of my energy. Why I'm so concerned is because CPS already got involved when she was born and now she is around 18mobths still living with patents but I don't want to loose her to CP's if that's ever going to happen.....

Question: My mom will not let me make my own decisions?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:34 AM PST

I am almost 22 years old and live at home while I attend college. I do not have the money to move out, or I would have left a long time ago. My mom treats me like a child. I cannot make my own decision. Just today, she forced me to get out of my room to open Christmas presents. She told me if I did not get out of the room, she was going to call the cops and speak to someone on a mental health line. I am getting so sick of this. She continually uses the line, you live under my roof. I feel that I cannot make any decisions on my own. What should I do?

Question: Am I a pervert for doing this?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:20 AM PST

So, I'm a 14 year old girl, and my two younger female cousins, who are both 10, frequently take showers together as it is more convenient, since they hang out at each other's houses. Their parents know about this also. They have asked me about once or twice to shower them(not WITH them, but FOR them), and I have agreed to do it. They both haven't hit puberty yet. The parents, however, didn't know that I was bathing them. One of the girls told her mom about it, and her mom(who is my aunt) was like, "Really?" with a confused look on her face. Is this strange to you? I'm 14 yrs old, and I bathe my younger cousins. I don't think there's anything weird about it.

Question: My dad is condescending towards me?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:14 AM PST

He never takes anything I say seriously. He talks to me like I'm a little kid. He laughs at everything I say and mocks me. A few moments ago was the last straw. He started in again and I told him to stop, and he said "I'm not going to listen to the CHILD telling me to stop." He used the term child in a condescending way towards me all the time. I'm about to be 17 and he still treats me like I'm 6. I still have a bedtime. I'm not allowed to even watch R rated movies... my mom makes me tell her who I am texting everytime I text someone. I have tried having conversations with them about how I feel. They don't listen becuase I'm just a small child apparently. I told them about what I want to do after high school and they just laughed at me and did not take me seriously. The usual. Oh and by the way before you flip out and call me a brat or whatever, I am not trying to bash them in any way. I am just at my wits end and needed to vent. How can I get them to realize that I'm almost 17 and not 10? I am sick of being talked to like a little kid by them. I want to be treated like a teenager. That's all I ask.

Question: Homesick and dead inside?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:10 AM PST

hey so you can just call me B and to skip the long *** stories i like girls and my family doesn t know bc they don t support it and i ve been living in china for the past 6 years and my parents won t let me go back to america so i haven t seen my two best friends irl in 6 years i m only 16 i can t move out and all i wanna go home to america even if it s for 5 mins i m so homesick i miss my friends and my parents don t get that and they took me to a doctor and he diagnosed me with severe depression and all i wanna do is go home how can i convince them to let me go home and to show them in how much pain i am even being over here is causing me? help please i m not sure how long i can live like this...

Question: What to do what to do?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:07 AM PST

My brother is such a god damn slob, everywhere he goes mess here mess there, our house is basically a pigsty. He is told by parents to stop making messes countless amount of times but does not comply. I am usually the one who cleans up the house but it is pretty annoying and stressful after a while of cleaning his mess to please the parents when the house will just get dirty again. Anything tips, suggestions, ideas what to do will help.

Question: Family not talking after 6 years?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 11:00 AM PST

Parents died 6 years ago. Family wanted nothing to do with in-laws. They mad at us for associating with them. So, they stopped talking to us and inviting us to holiday gatherings. When they realized that they looked like the bad guys, they used us as the scapegoats, changed their "why they are mad" story and had everyone believing them. Now they claimed we didn't share enough of our lives with them and that we don't like them. They never shared with us. Why are we suppose to update them. It does work both ways doesn't it?

Question: Why some asian moms in the West DON'T CARE that their adult daughters not wanting to get married and move out?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 10:55 AM PST

Why do some asian mothers in western countries don't care that daughters stay single and want to live with their moms? Their daughter are 30 something years old, and don't want to get married and move out. They just want to live with their moms and eat mom's food everyday. BTW, the moms and daughters are both asian.

Question: I want to have sex with my aunt.?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 10:37 AM PST

She isn't related by blood and has no husband anymore and she is really lonely lately. How can I seduce her?

Question: My parents didnt make me a birthday card?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 10:37 AM PST

So basically my 12th birthday was a month ago and my parents didnt make me a greeting card. Since it was my bat mitzva, it meant a lot for me. For my brother's bar mitzva they had a huge event with lots of greetings and gifts and whatnot. I didnt want an event, so my mom said that on christmas we can go on a vacation. I reminded her several times to plan it but its christmas and she forgot about it. The only people in my family that made me a birthday card were my sister aunt and grandma. I dont want to sound spoiled but I just feel disregarded.

Question: Is it strange for two 10-year-old girls to shower together?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 10:36 AM PST

My two younger cousins( They're NOT siblings) say that they frequently shower together. They usually hang out at each other's house, and they shower together because it saves water and time. I thought this was really strange. They said they've been doing since they were 7. One time, they even asked me to shower them for them (I'm 14.) But yeah, do most kids do this? Once again, they are NOT siblings. They're just cousins. Well, maybe I should add this to clarify. I'm Asian also, and in most asian cultures, same-sex bathing is considered normal. However, I just wanted to get another's person's perspective on this. One time, they even asked me( I'm a girl btw) to shower with them! And of course, I said no. Kids- they're so innocent.

Question: PLEASE HELP ADVISE----How can I get over and accept hurt my parents might cause tonight and tomorrow?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 10:17 AM PST

My mother refuses to share family time with my Dad's side. We are going to my aunt's tonight (Mom's sister) for dinner and tomorrow morning my grandmother and another aunt will be over (on Mom's side) and then the big dinner at my uncle's with again Mom's side. Some year's my Dad's family gets together and my mother refuses to share time with them so my Dad says no (when obviously if doing Christmas Eve with Mom's family we should do Christmas Day with Dad's or both as all live in 20 mile radius). Mom won't let us see Dad's family until New Years Day other then our grandmother tomorrow morning is coming by. So my question is if my grandmother reveals the whole family is getting together tomorrow (and it turns out my Dad said no to invite due to Mom's refusal to share) then how do I get over the hurt I will feel? This would cause me a lot of hurt but Mom already said I can't leave her thing by getting a ride to my Dad's families. New Year's Day last year was postponed and became February weekend (long after Christmas so had no holiday memory with them). Mom does not share is the problem. I am too young to do as I want (am 14). How do I cope tomorrow if this upsets me as it did last year?

Question: This friend is making me uncomfortable, what should I do?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 10:00 AM PST

She keeps asking me if she can crash at my place. She has a family back east and we are in California. My brother and I lost our mother to medical negligence. We haven't had a father , he abandoned us when we were kids. So it's just me and my brother who both work full time jobs and we don't want to let this lady just dump in our place. She works part time odd jobs, she can get a full time job just like me. I have borderline personality disorder and I work full time all week, I get up very early. This lady does not want to pay rent so she can have money to have fun every night, she is always at the bars, and clubs, and doing stuff every single night, another reason she does not want to pay rent is she is saving up to have a eye color change in Mexico so she sleeps in her car and she use to hint for money, too. She has been hassling other people and now she went through everyone and now trying to bother me with stuff. I struggle financially and I work long hours and hard for my money. I don't even know her that well. What should I do to end this slight friend ship? I'm a girl and I am not gay or bi so I am not interested in her giving me pussy commenter

Question: My brother didn't get me anything for Christmas. So should I take back his gift or throw it away instead of giving it to him (he;s an ***)?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 09:56 AM PST

Question: I am so mad my Mom won't let me see my Dad, how do I get over it and enjoy tomorrow?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 09:55 AM PST

She doesn't like him because he is an alcoholic so she punishes me. I am 16 and capable of seeing an alcoholic since he is not violent as long as he doesn't drive me.

Question: How to stop my brother from being hateful?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 09:55 AM PST

so guys this story is so sad because my brother hates me so much its like he wants to kill me so I try my best not to be mean but does that work NO...so I try not to do anything so ya do my parent care yes and no but I don't care so my life is hard so much things happen in my life so help me think of what way to make peace with my brother but I want to get him back to so can you help me

Question: I slept with my brothers wife, i take full responsibility, what do i do with my sex addiction from here?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 09:36 AM PST

My brother is Afghanistan at the moment which comes to what lead to my question... 3 months back ( end of Sept.) my sister in-law called me crying and sounded really depressed, i decided to go make sure she is okay and she invited inside her and my brothers home. We talked for a while, she cried and was emotional due to my brother being away on deployment. This was when i asked if she wanted to split a bottle of wine i had in my car and she agreed. I guess you can say we had to much to drink and all but we ended up not only having sex but making beautiful love. Her and i have a connection, a connection i can't explain to anyone or a connection i never had with anyone. So much of a connection i "finished" in her 5 different times, and now she is pregnant. Full on pregnant, we went to the doctors and i heard the heartbeat and saw the ultrasound. I am very happy to be having my first baby and so is she but i feel terrible about doing this to my brother, my flesh and blood. I do feel terrible about this but at the same time i am looking forward to my family that will soon be my everyday reality. I don't know how to tell my brother that i got his wife pregnant? I haven't even told my parents what i have done, i truly feel terrible. Please give me the best and honest advice you can. i appreciate it...

Question: My girlfriend's father is rich?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 09:15 AM PST

So if I marry her, will he include me in his will?

Question: I'm really hungry and haven't eaten for over a day?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 09:13 AM PST

Last time I ate was at December 22 my parents went to another country on the 23 and came back on the 24 really really early in the morning and i was expecting them to buy food since there is never food in the house but they didn't and i was begging them to go buy something or go to the store to at least get milk so i could make myself some hot cocoa with marshmallows but they didn't since they were tired and said they will go to the store in the morning but when they say that they never go or go to the store really late and it's 10 in the morning and i haven't gone to sleep yet since i'm really hungry and my mom will probably make food at like 5 or 6 in the afternoon any tips or things i should do because there is a Walmart and a few other restaurants that are less than 10 minutes away but i doubt my parents would let me go plz help and give me advice since i'm not an adult and have my own car, money, and go to places

Question: My mom treats us like MAIDS?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 09:03 AM PST

I am the only girl (14) and I have 3 brothers. This is what my free day consists of and keep in mind that we get no allowance and she screams at us : get dirty clothes from everywhere, sort dirty clothes into piles, wash and dry clothes, fold clothes, put clothes away, and the cycle continues. Take out trash, take out trash in bathrooms, clean bathrooms and room, feed the pets with this wet food stuff, feed pets with dry food, clean kitchen, do the dishes, put dishes away, vacuum house, pick up dog waste, and do a bunch of other miscellaneous chores for her. We get screamed at by our parents too. And what does my mom do? Nothing. She might OCCASIONALLY switch the clothes out and maybe clean the kitchen. The rest of her day is spent yelling at us, or watching TV. And she always complains about how "busy" she is!! She does nothing!! And my oldest brother is her favorite, and he does nothing. He is useless, he doesn't even know how to start a washer, and our mom gets mad at us if we call him out on it. He does little to no chores because he is her favorite, and he can't do anything (can't even fold a towel and he is NINETEEN). I love my mom and I appreciate what she does for it but does it sound like we do too much??! I might have 3 hours of free time each day. And this is on a weekend.

Question: Currently not talking to a family member but it's Christmas?? Please help.?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 08:23 AM PST

This family member is my cousin. We stopped talking because at his younger brothers birthday party, he was in a bad mood (I wasn't aware or I would've left him alone) and I cracked a joke with him and he snapped at me and told me off. I backed off immediately. I was gonna talk to him like nothing happened the next day but then he told family members that I was talking about him behind his back. Then he went around and said he wanted an apology from me, which is what I expect from me. Thanksgiving was awkward. Family wanted us to make up but we didn't. It's Christmas Eve today, I bought him a shirt of Star Wars (since he's in love with the movies). But should I give it to him? Now I'm second guessing myself. We used to be really close.

Question: Why does my mom seem happy about my cousin's breast cancer?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 08:22 AM PST

My mom just told me that my cousin has breast cancer and she said it with a HUGE smile on her face. She looked creepy. And she said that my cousin said don't worry about it.

Question: Mom giving unequal treatment to kids?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 08:15 AM PST

I live by myself. Last week, I asked mom if I could come over. That day, I texted and called mom before coming just to make sure I could still come over but she never replied. Mom made other plans with my sister and contacted me after. Don't know why she couldn't reply to tell me. She also hasnt contacted me since then nor did she invite me for Christmas but she would invite my brother and his wife. My sister is bossy with her and tells her how to raise my lil brother yet she still seems to favorite her. She gave sister birthday gifts but didn't wish me a happy bday. I don't understand and it's kinda hurtful. What do you think?

Question: How to deal with my perverted sister?!?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 07:57 AM PST

I really hate my sister sometimes, she's an creep, she talks about her boobs, And asked me if I wanted to see her camel toe??! What the f&&&Ck?? And also when I was 8, she tried to get me to kiss her 14 year old friend, I love her, and sometimes she's reasonable, but other times, she's just gross, what do I do? (I'm her little Brother) Should I just stop talking to her? **** you all, you're all useless, all there is are trolls anymore on this damn site I guess, I just wanted some ******* help. Guess I'm leaving yahoo, "Don't let the door hit you on the way out" Or some **** I'm guessing someone will say to piss me off even further.

Question: My cousin has gone too far this time, should I confront her!?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 07:35 AM PST

So I'm used to my cousin copying my hair,clothes,style and choice of language. But I let it pass because maybe she just wants someone to look up to. But now she's taken it to another level. She went to my sister and manipulated my sister into telling her what clothes and shoes I bought for Christmas, she told my sister she would never talk to her again. My sister is quite a sensitive girl and picks up on others emotions. My cousin then went and got her parents to but her what I saved my money for. I also saved money for a year to get a rose gold iPhone 7 and for my birthday my parents surprised me with one, but my cousin told my parents I hated the rose gold one and loved the gold(my least Fav) I didn't mind I was thankful for getting the iPhone and then she goes and gets her parents to buy her one, in... ROSE GOLD. Ok so I was very annoyed but again let it pass. I also turned vegetarian because of a love of animals and I didn't mind if she copied that, the more the merrier! She then now says "i don't eat fish it's animal cruelty!" What about the other animals -_-. And I saw her eating fish today wtf and she goes round saying "I'm a vegetarian". She eats every animal... So that really did piss me off but again I let it pass, but I will not let her manipulate my sister! You can say mean things to me, but hurt my sister and I will get so mad, should I confront her? I'm so enraged! How dare she do that to my sister! I'm 14, my sister and cousin are 13.

Question: Do younger men really enjoy seeing their mother in law nude if she is in good shape ? I caught my son in law peeking?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 07:12 AM PST

Question: Was my cousin a *****? Did my stepdad and somewhat my mom did something? Please help me answer this?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 06:55 AM PST

Theee was a party I didn't want to go @ 1st but my mom convinced me and I dressed up nice. My cuz never saw me dressed we've only met 4X recently and all she's met me in a bun a sports shirt and pants. I went to the party thinkin' I'd make friends since I'm antisocial. I was sitting next to her mom and mine when she came and saw me then turned to her friends. This happened later that day in which I was talking and she took them saying WOO LETS GO PARTY. She knows I've never been I a party like that cuz we're not from here and we're staying in a house that's not even ours for the holidays. There were a group of guys our age one started staring at me time to time. It wasn't until she and her friends took all the guys to dance with vulguraly. Not that I mind I was much more hurt by her actions. The same guy sat down and said he didn't want to and this happened for 3X. I was starting to cry. I didn't but I respectfully bid my farewells to some family I got to meet and went home with my mom. I heard her say to my stepdad discreetly. LOOK WHAT UR NIECE DID TO MY DAUGHTER SHE REJECTED JER AND SHES CRYING. I tried to make a move and say hi but she never did. I went home and cried like I never have. Loudly. My stepdad saw me crying for hours until I fell asleep in a room. I woke up and my stepdad was scolding his family about what they did to me and my mom agreed saying that I cried for hours. Please tell me what to do. I don't want to stay here.

Question: Dad doesnt want ne anymore?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:57 AM PST

So long story short, my dad let me go live in florida with my sister and her parents. My mom and dad broke up, mom lives in florida and dad lives in. North dakota. So I'm herr with my dad to visit him for christmas break. Right as I get off the airplane he says I look ugly. Once I get to his house he asks me if I have a bf and I say yes. He asked if he was white and I said no because he is black. He hates me right now. He told me "you were the only thing keeping me living, now that I've lost you there is no reason to live anymore" he can't even look at me. Why does he have to be so f**ing racist? He even told me he wants nothing to do with me. Where am I supposed to go? I can't live with my actual mom, because she is homeless. I can't live with my sister and her parents because I can't just have them pay for me. Idk what to do. I honestly am so sick if my dad right now. He had so many plans for me in the future and now apparently they are ruined because I'm dating a black guy. He is a terrible parent. I'm lost and sad right now and dont know what to do.

Question: My sister is an alcoholic. Do I have the right to call a cab if she gets drunk tomorrow night since I am hosting instead of having her stay?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:49 AM PST

My kids are scared of her when she gets drunk and starts insulting everyone. She is a pretty severe alcoholic so one in three chance she comes sober, one in three chance she doesn't show up like last year, and one in three chance she comes drunk and insulting people like two years ago.

Question: Why is she doing this?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:31 AM PST

I am a 19 year old woman. My mom keeps yelling at me, cursing all the time. From the morning to the evening. She throws away my stuff, keep saying I stink, that I am a slut. She has been like this , but as I am nearing my 20's she is getting worse. I have a part time job but she is making me feel bad for not having a full time job like the other girls. I will go to nursing school next year. What should I do?

Question: If i keep asking my mom that if i was to become unemployed one day would she still give me a place to stay but she refuses and refuses to?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:24 AM PST

Give me an answer and gets very irritated and mad is it safe to say i probably would not have a place to stay if i became unemployed while living at my moms house?

Question: Hello, does anyone have any ideas to what should i give my mom? I have a gift for my dad but it would be awkward to not give one to my mom..?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:09 AM PST

I can t buy anything so it would be best if i could make something in my home Seriously, if someone actually has a good idea, you re my hero.

Question: Can I have my mom arrested for not letting me see my dad for Christmas because they're divorced?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:07 AM PST

Someone told me this is parental alienation so can I have her arrested for abuse? Or if my dad steps up to see her could you have her arrested? My dad is wonderful except he might not fight for the rights see me as much as he should my mom on the other hand pours all of her bitterness on to me and use me as a sounding board. She is keeping me from him at Christmas and I can't see him until New Year's Day. Now she is ruining my Christmas in order to get revenge on him.

Question: Since my aunt and her daughter are on bad terms should we mention the other in front of them at Christmas?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:06 AM PST

Like what if I say I was with aunt and we did such a such in front of the daughter or vice versa in front of them will be seeing them at different times as the two are sworn enemies

Question: Should my dad take my mother back?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:03 AM PST

My mother recently has begun begging my dad to take her back after she ran off three years ago. Eleven years ago my mother started becoming extremely irritable. Everything you did was done purely to aggravate and annoy her even if it was an accident. If you were 5 minutes late coming home she'd scream at you accusing you of doing drugs or drinking. She started refusing to do her half of the chores (Her chores included laundry and dusting, we each had our own days where we cooked meals and did dishes). She started believing that if she could just leave all her problems would go away. Her list of problems included her believe that we were purposely making her annoyed along with every day annoyances such as the store being out of an item we needed when it was her turn to go grocery shopping. According to my mom every friend and family member she has, has kicked her out and has been evicted from every apartment building she's lived in. She says all her neighbors were drug dealers because "They look at me funny when I walk past." According to her family they made her leave when she kept screaming at them both at the house and out in public and going on for hours. She once threatened to call the cops on her uncle and his boss because she believed the heart medication he took was secretly cocaine. I told my dad we shouldn't let her come back because she still clearly has the same problem and refuses to see a doctor and ran away from her family rather then seek help. My mother right now is in her mid to late 50's and was on no kind of prescription drugs at the time this started happening. She does not drink or smoke either. If me or my brother wanted to go hang out with friends, if we were late getting home even if she was aware of construction on the route and it would delay us. She once threw me out of the house because a friend asked her how my first year of high school was going and believed her friend was trying to tell her I was doing something bad. When I said I wasn't she called me a lair and threw me out. My dad let me in when he got home from work along with my brother.

Question: My brother steals sometimes for my parents when mad how do I get them not to steal my Christmas presents?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 05:02 AM PST

He is 17 years old install for my parents last Christmas

Question: My daughter's mother died, she's been living w/aunt and uncle to finish high school. They want me to give up custody to not pay for college?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 04:45 AM PST

Question: 18 year old girl alone on Christmas?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 04:32 AM PST

My Dad tried to kill me so I went to stay with mom few days ago to live but since she said I'm an adult now bounced off to celebrate with her friends I'm broke and alone besides her bipolar delusional parents she left me with who can't cook, only care about watching tv and are kind of grandparents you be happy died since their so cruel. My friends at old school moved on and I have no one at all and Christmas sucks for me any advice or words to make me feel better or how I can celebrate alone and broke since they stole my check from my sexual job I know they stole since they are delusional and spent after saying someone stole mail when really they used it to buy their crappy Christmas dinner of tiny turkey small enough to be new born and crappy pie and expensive bag of nuts and crap.

Question: 18 year old girl and alone on Christmas mom decided I'm adult and left me with her pathetic parents who live with us. Her mom keeps b***ing?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 04:25 AM PST

and complaining making me miserable and all they care about is watching tv and they can't cook. They called my food I made slop cause she can't cook. My mom who can cook ran off to L.A with her rich brother leaving me alone oh and I'm broke and my check hasn't come from my phone sex job and I think my delusional grandparents stole it since they said someone stole mail which makes no sense and bought egg nog even though their broke. I skipped two days of eating full meals cause house is bare of food and they refused to take me anywhere with $20 mom left me before leaving. They also bought extremely tiny turkey small enough to be new born and cheap gross pie with chemical filling. :( Any advice to make my Christmas happy?

Question: My mum is mean?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 04:07 AM PST

The latest thing she has said was if you dad gets a gf he will forget you, my dad has a gf called hazel she is lovely and he doesn't blank me out, she has said she will take away my presents, if i go to my dads i am not going on holiday! Advice

Question: Can I beat down my cousin for this?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 03:53 AM PST

A long time ago when I was 3 my cousin and I were playing Videogames in his room at my grandmas house (he was staying with them at the time) he then asked if I wanted to see something as a young kid I didn't know what to expect so I said yes and he closed and locked the door pulled out his penis and proceeded to have me perform sexual acts on him at the time I didn't really know what was going on but I remember the off feeling I had and how uncomfortable I felt but I couldn't get away because we were alone in the house. However I was embarrassed to tell anyone and to this day only 2 people (who I trust very much) know about it. But I'm 19 and I just recently in the last 2 weeks told them. Sexually it has completely messed me up and sex scares me and I'm afraid of doing sexual things because of it unless I can fully trust someone. And now I have nightmares about the whole situation. The emotional damage is growing and now as I just woke up from another nightmare about it I have an idea. I never see this cousin unless he's at a family gathering. He has a family now and a wife. I was thinking that when I see him I talk to him and bring that memory up to him and let him know the damage he caused me. Then immediately after I will proceed to beat the **** out of him in front of the family and won't stop until my knuckles are broken or my family pulls me off of him. I want to send a message to my family and show the pain and distress that have built up for 16 years.

Question: My mother's sister and the sister's son don't speak. Both have hurt the other. Should I get both coal and mail it to them for Christmas?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 03:22 AM PST

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic and my mother is divorcing him for it. Does divorcing an alcoholic help when an alcoholic is sick?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 03:21 AM PST

I know alcoholics can have mood swings and say mean things but so do people with dementia. Isn't divorcing an alcoholic just as mean as divorcing an Alzheimer's patient?

Question: Is this right of my mom to do?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 02:38 AM PST

So here's an example Every time we have an argument My mom tells me that she's gonna kick me outside from my house everytime she says that I feel sad and that she dosent care But when her and my sister fight I don't hear her say that to my sister I always feel depressed everytime my mom says that to me and I feel my mom dosent want me around What should I do ? This really bothers me I need advice and I'm not making this up

Question: I have a sister who is 11. She always lies about me to get me in trouble.She told my mum I tried to kill her when I didn't. idk what to do?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 02:29 AM PST

Question: Is it bad that my senile grandmother still doesn't know that Michael Jackson is dead?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 12:57 AM PST

He was her idol for a very long time, and we just didn't have the heart to tell her.

Question: Is my mom cheating on her husband?

Posted: 24 Dec 2016 12:53 AM PST

Sorry this is long. My mom started a new job in the summer. She met a guy at the job who started flirting with her. He is an ex-convict, married and was already cheating on his wife for 2 years with another woman. She knew that he was married and didnt care. Every time he would call she would get her phone and go out to the car to talk. She would also walk around the neighborhood to talk. People at work even began to get suspicious. She was fired from her job but kept talking to him. One day she would be mad at him, the next day she wouldnt. He even told her that he broke things off with the other woman of 2 years. I showed my mom he lied from an Instagram picture of the 2 together. I also seen a text that he sent my mom with a di*k pic. Fast forwarding my mom is still unemployed, she doesnt go anywhere during the day. My stepdad works overnight 6p-6a. This morning my mom woke up at 5:30 and woke me up to say if my stepdad asks me, she went to take my grandma to a doctor. Which we both knew was a lie. She was dressed up, had makeup on, which she very seldom does. When she got back home at 10 she was acting very strange and couldn't even look at me. Her text messages were going off like crazy and she just kept looking at her phone the entire time I talked to her. Her makeup was smeared and hair was kind of messed up. She was also very tired. I asked her was she with him and she got mad. Please give your opinion. Do you think she is cheating?