I'm messed up right now, I keep failing at everything. I don't know if the third eye is real but decided to give it a try so what do u think ? I'm 16 btw

Is sex boring not being able to see her body, facial expressions and how she feels?

For an example, there was an older woman who I still work with who hit on me continuously when I started working. An older woman who's still somewhat sexy for her age but I had no interest because she's married with kids. Was back then and still is. So I ignored her whenever she'd try to flirt. Told me that I needed a cougar one time and would always tell customers how much of a cutie I was, etc. Well now she's stopped completely, that was a year ago and she doesn't do any of that anymore. She'll sometimes talk trash and will try to be little me and one day I brought up how she was a year ago and told her what happened to what she was saying before, that she never talked all that trash when she was all over me. She denied it all and said she never did or said anything anything. Another chick who I work with did the exact same thing, but this one only has a boyfriend. Denied it all when she tried belittling me (she's got like 7 years on me. In our 20s) and I brought up how she acted and she denied it all and tried to act dumb as if I had no idea what I was talking about. I ignored both cause they were taken.

So I message my friend and I told her I was having a rough time and I needed to talk to someone. She replied with hope everything is okay! This isn't like her.... Usually she always asks what's wrong... she told me many times she's there to listen to me when I need it. How should I reply back back to her?

Ok so theres this guy - never thought he'd like me, or that I would too. On halloween, I was wearing my costume to school, and it was a little showy, no straps and a skirt ending about a little more than half my upper thigh. So he was staring at me the whole time that class, I dont know if its just a boy thing checking out a girl or what. Then the next day, this girl I barely know told me "omg he totally likes you! he was staring at you all day during class yesterday!" and I was like haha no but then started actually thinking about it. If he did like me I kinda liked him back too? kinda. Now we've been talking WAY more than we last did. I think since the girl brought it up to him (she asked him and he was like uhh haha...) hes stared at me in class everyday since. We talk like everyday in little like chats, nothing too deep. Like we make each other laugh but mostly we talk in groups, with other people in the conversation too. We snapchat each other every day, maintaining a streak.. I feel like hes always trying to make a conversation but it always ends up a lil awkward. Advice?

he always helps with things and is eager to talk. He often asks questions like "are you a bad girl?" once he even asked me if a guy has ever seen me naked before. No joke. he has even tryed to hold my hand. I'm pretty shure he likes me. But what do you think? Should I ask him out? We are both 14 in freshmen year of HS btw.

I know this is stupid, but I just can't get this guy out of my head. (I'm in high school) This german guy he was in my ap physics class for two weeks in the beginning of school year and I think his schedule changed because I didn't see him in that class anymore. That's the only class I had with him. He and I would make eye contacts with each other in the hall way. In the beginning, I smiled at him kinda and he smiled back. And my smile was because I was happy to just see him and stuff. sigh. I know this part sounds stupid but i heard that random smiling in germany is considered idiotic so i tried to smile less to him. After that, we kinda like glanced at each other. but then i started avoiding his eye contact like my body immediately does when I tried to look back. Then, this week, he would avoid eye contact with me by being on his phone. Now, there's a reason why I specifically said german guy because I heard their meaning of staring and eye contact are different from America? He came to America this school year. What do you think this means?? Tell me what your opinion of this and don't sugar coat.

Im a female and Im attracted to men and everything but everything else I really dont want or care for, I havent been comfortable around men my whole life and I just dont want anything from them, Is that weird? I dont ever want a boyfriend or to get married? I also hate being alone just because of safety reasons but thats it.

So this summer i met this girl and we did a couple of things that i thought i was ready for, and i say i thought because when we got to it i really wasnt ready. She was going to give me head and i was totally nervous and I couldn't get it up, she obviously wasnt mature enough and told her friend and sooner or later they were laughing at me. The thing is im still having sexual anxiety because of this, should i go out and do it right with someone else? Or ehat until im ready?

He often sits by me, so close that he's touching me. He teases me. He jokes with me. He seems to smile around me. I think he finds excuses to touch me. He also just randomly touches me in some way. I catch him looking at me a lot. He says my name a lot. He kept calling me "buddy" the other night and I don't know if that's a good or a bad sign lol. Also, when all of us were deciding to go to Applebee's and I said I wanted to and I asked him if he did, he said, "if you want to, then I want to." He just seems kind of interested In me, but I don't know if he's like this with other girls when I'm not around. I only see him like twice a week, I don't go to school with him or anything. But are these all signs that he likes me? Because I feel like they are. I feel like I had some other things to say but I can't think of them. Anyway, any advice is appreciated.

I always go to the same fast food restaurant on my lunch break because I just love the food I get. Then when I was at a store with my boyfriend, the employee from that fast food restaurant recognized me and said hi to me, (it's a dude) and then I said oh hi back and left and my boyfriend got all mad and said who's that and I told him that he works where I go get lunch on my lunch break and he stayed silent the whole way home and then he was acting all serious and I asked him why is he acting like that and he said "because of what happened earlier, it's just weird" and I'm like yeah I know it's weird and then we got into an argument like really ? He got me so mad to the point I told him he's getting mad over something stupid and told him to leave my house and so he did. We argue a lot and we've been together for 8 months. There was points when I wanted to leave him because of his short tempers and jealousy but I stayed. I don't know what to do, I'm tired of his tempers and arguements over dumb shiitt. He overreacts too much.. I work at a grocery store as cashier and at a retail store as cashier too and of course customers are going to say hi to me when I'm off the clock or somewhere else..

This happened a long awhile ago but I'm asking this to put my mind at ease. When I was about 16-17 I created my account on Facebook, it was during the time where there was both Facebook and Messenger. Less than 2 days after I created my Facebook account I get a friend request from a boy I hadn't seen since elementary school. I was reluctant at first since my time at school was horrible but in the end I accepted it. We started talking and he quickly asked me to put a picture of myself in my MSN but I said no because I'm ugly and he sounded disappointed. He asked me for my cellphone number and my e-mail, I said yes and gave them to him. As soon as we talked on MSN he confessed he was "in love" with me. I never had a crush on him or thout of him that way and certainly I did not see that coming so I was stunned, confused and horrified. When he demanded to know how I felt about it I didn't know what to answer as I wanted to let him down gently but he couldn't take "No" for an answer and went on to say how he has adored me since kindergarten (I have almost no memories of him then except that he laughed when I fell on mud) and how he was always "nice" to me but I reminded him that ignoring someone isn't the same as being nice. I almost never interated with him except one time where we played together and I (accidentaly) hurt him. He never spoke to me after that even though I felt horrible about it. I hold no grudges though. I rejected him because 1)Unlike many teenagers I wasn't boy crazy and in fact the idea of dating disgusted me 2) I was chubby and had saggy breasts due to scoliosis, a bad diet, a hideous haircut and refused to date until I fixed all of that 3)He was hideous as a child, something every girl in our classroom agreed with, he didn't look so bad as a teen but it still put me off and he was still a creep 4) Even if he was the most handsome man on Earth I would've still refused because I've known that guy since we were 5 and when I look at him I still see that boy and the thought of dating, kissing and doing "other things" with someone I still saw as a kid disgusted me. I tried to scare him off nicely by pointing out my biggest flaws as both the little girl he remembered and the ones I had then but to no avail. I also looked up his cellphone number on internet (don't know why though) and I found out he was also giving his number to extremely beautiful women around the same time he was writing to me. It didn't bother me though. He kept calling, wrote me a very short poem and posted embarrassing lovey dovey stuff on his Facebook with my real name and everything. The worst was when he wrote on his MSN, where all of his contacts would see, how he wanted to "feel me carressing him" and "(me) letting (him) love (him)". I was embarrassed out of my mind and deleted him from Facebook. After a few years we ended on good terms and now he has a girlfriend and I'm truly happy for him. My mom thinks I was selfish for not wanting to date him but I'm not going to date someone I'm not attracted to just because he says he "loves" me and even tried to guilt trip me into going out with him due to his birth mother abandoning him but that's not MY fault. Was I wrong for not dating him?

I'm a 17 year old guy and I like this girl right now that I can't stop thinking about. We're on winter break so we have 2 weeks off from school and I've been depressed just thinking about not seeing her for 2 weeks. I get more depressed when I listen to music and think about her. Has anybody else had this before? How can I overcome it?

I dated a guy about 7 years ago. We dated for awhile and then I ended the relationship. He had wanted to get married but I didn't want to marry him. He was the nicest guy but I wanted to date other people. He tried a few times after to date me again but I rejected him every time. It's been about 7 years. He's remarried with children and I am still single (I've had relationships but they all ended for similar reasons). I adopted some children and currently live a busy life as a single mom. I ran into this guy recently and I felt so much regret seeing him with his family. He went on and found a great girl and I'm alone. Why didn't I appreciate him 7 years ago? How can I look at the same person with a completely different view of them? I would NEVER date a married man and have no interest in anything with him as he's married. I just have a lot of regret about the past and wish I could find peace about it.

So I started dating my boss a year ago and we had sex a few months ago nobody from work knows we been dating! But he wants to get serious he told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and he wants to have kids with me before hes 40! I fo have feelings for him But I'm scared, I feel like we are so different we come from different cultures, he has 4 kids and that scares me a lot. I dont know them but what about if they dont like me!?!?!...

Okay, so I am a high school junior and he's a senior and we've known each other for over three months now. He hugs me every time we see each other and he even snuck from behind and lightly hugged me while I was kneeling in front of my locker. I had lunch once wuth him before his shift at work and we chatted for a while. He was very curious and even asked me if I've ever been hit on by another girl. When I messaged him on facebook for the first two times we had a long chat with long well-thought answers from him. However, the last few times he was busy and disappeared after a couple messages. He didn't even answer the last time and I am the one to always initiate online conversations. This is probably the main reason to doubt whether he likes me along with the fact that he hasn't asked for my phone number yet. Anyway, a couple weeks ago I messaged him that I was going to ice skate with my sister and we didn't have a ride so I asked him whether he wants to give us a ride and join us. He refused because he wrote he didn't have a car (which I found out is true). Was it wrong that I had my sister with me and did I sound like I just wanted to use him? I really want to ask him again. Should I do it and will it sound clingy? Also, it is winter break so I won't be seeing him until after New Year.

I met a guy at the place I started working at a couple months ago and I have a huge crush on him. Originally when we started talking he didn't know I was 17, but when he found out he still asked for my number.. I know there is an 11 year age gap, and I'm technically a minor but I'm really attached to him at this point. I quit my job because I couldn't stand seeing him so often, and I thought it would help me get over him. But it didn't impact my feelings. We've been texting everyday for a few weeks and we've been on one date, where all he did was hug me after he walked me back to my car. He admitted he's attracted me, but would be fine waiting until I'm 18 to get serious about a relationship... But I don't think I could wait that long I would have to hide this from my parents which feels wrong.. But I'm so crazy about him, I don't know, it might be worth the moral problems. Any advice from someone in a similar situation? Well we no longer work at the same place, I don't really know how anyone would find out

Hey I'm 15(m) and I really want to ask this girl out but the thing is that I'm scared I'm not good at kissing and it's very important to girls. So does it come naturally or what plz help

She doesnt know I know. Shes been dating a girl for 2 months. Shes 14. I dont know if its a phase or forever, and she hasnt told me yet and whenever I ask something lowkey about it she just jokes around and says "I'm dating myself". I really want to talk to her about it and I want to make her feel like I'm there to talk to. I should probably just wait for her to come out on her own but I dont know how to tell her that she doesnt have to keep secrets from me and can tell me anything. Shes been a major ***** to my other friend and I lately and igoring us but I think I know why now- she has a girlfriend and wants to focus more on her... I mean, I'm happy for her but like its kinda bad that shes ignoring us, not telling us why, etc etc. Help?

I have been talking everyday to this guy I met at work. He talks to me everyday both at our job and on snap. We went on a date to a musuem last week, took a walk around the city in this rooftop park looking place, then ate the whole day. He drives me home more often too. We will talk about anything, our life, interests, family. He's coming to my house to watch a movie this week and we planned to go to a drive in soon too. He will send me pics when he wakes up in the morning, he'll ask if I'm feeling better from being sick,etc. We will prob have our first kiss when he comes to watch a movie at my place. It's been two months since we met. We slowly are getting closer and seeing each other more when we r not at work.it all feels normal like we get along well nothing feels weird. I like him a lot.also I wouldn't go kissing any guy either. I have never dated I'm 19 in college.

This guy says he likes me and all this cute stuff. He has a girlfriend though. And I also think I like him but Im not completely sure. And Im confused with this whole thing? Help.

I met a guy at the beginning of the semester and we recently went on a couple dates over the past month. He does not want to commit to anyone right now but would still like to hangout and stuff. I'm fine with that but I find that I get jealous when he hangs out with other girls. I don't know if I should keep being his friend, but I'm just feeling sad and jealous. What should I do?

She canceled the 4th date twice due to finals week in graduate school. I'm going out of state for the holidays. I won't try to reschedule again until January. We still talk over text and Snapchat, but is it a bad sign she cancels, reschedules, etc?

Ive dated a girl for 7 years since we were 16. she broke up with me a month ago after things started feeling forced and that neither of us were happy. I believed we could work through it since we loved each other but turns out I was wrong. we've had minimal contact and we both share a dog with our busy schedules. we don't see each other though when we pick up the dog nor have I seen her in person since. do you think I should just move on? I feel she may has but I'm not sure. I feel like the good times outweighed the bad. I just don't understand how you could just break things off so quick after 7 years.

hey all. I'm a 20 year old guy and I got a question for everyone. Why does being single hurt so much especially during the holiday season? I went christmas shopping today for my sisters and i felt so sad wile shopping because i don't have the chance to enjoy my holiday season with someone special like how other couples do. I'm such a good guy, with high respect for everyone but i am always scared that i will never be able to find that someone that i will be able to spend my life with and raise a family with down the road. How can i change this thought of mine?

I have a crush on this girl in my class and it turned out that she liked me back. My "friend" told her that I said she had a bad face and now she is mad at me but I can t really be sure my frieND told her that I didn t say that but she won t talk to me and I d9nt know If she still likes me. Please help I m very confused right now

So normally my crush and I snapchat each other all day. For some Reason he would snap chat me and I would send him something back and then he would leave me open. He did this 3 times today. Do you think something's up?

I'm done being nice and smiling. F*ck, I know I'm quiet, no need to be an a** about it ...What's something I can say when someone says dumb things like ''you never talk'' or ''you're so quiet''.

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My ex also wants us all to hang out and be friends... Is this not strange behavior on his part? They met in early December and already live together...I'm trying to wrap my head around the whole situation.

My boyfriend of 2 years is getting ready to be stationed somewhere else (as in we will be in 2 different countries). This will be for 3 years. I brought of the fact that I wanted to get married. He says he wants to marry me, but wants me to wait until he comes back to the states. What should I do?

it wouldn't be like a big party or any drinking. Im 15 so tey are kinda protective and strict and they don't want me to hang out with the guy I like which i think is unreasonable because I'm not going to do anything I will regret and he is a good and nice guy. Help! he's a sophmore and I'm a freshman so that might be a factor to why they are protective

I am 21 and she is 18, is it wrong? Because she looks like if she is 21 too, so whenever we go out and someone asks our ages and they find out shes 18 they go like "WOW YOURE 18!!! AND YOU ARE 21, NO WAY, YOU DONT LOOK LIKE" and idk how she feels about it but i feel awkward about it because its like if people are saying that it is wrong that we are together...

Ex. Guy- what do you want to eat Girl - it doesn't matter to me Guy- what about chili's Girl - no And then it goes on until she says what it is she wants

Long story short I really like this guy and he's considered "middle/upper class" popular:/ he's super sweet nice! He likes a popular girl and a bunch of people like him btw mostly popular people! I am not popular but I'm not a loser so... idk how to to talk to him I'm pretty shy especially around him, i don't know how to talk to him🙁😕I need help please I like him A LOT even tho I don't know him that well. I want to become at least friends with him before the end of the school year! Thanks!

So I was talking to this guy for four months, he was my first everything (literally). We were never officially together, but he only talked to me and I only talked to him. (in my friend's opinion we were in a relationship, just without the title) He was the first one to say, "I love you." and he also told me that I was his first love. He was obviously mine. Last night he told me that he wanted to end things because he decided that he didn't want to be in a relationship. He told me that he didn't want our "relationship" to turn into him just using me for s*x. He said that he was thinking about what we were and what he wanted when he told me this. And what he wanted was to be single. I was so confused because I feel as though it came out of nowhere. He said that he still loves me and that he'd like us to remain close but just as friends. And that if our love was true we'd end up together. Some additional information: we are both in college and both 19. He told me how he felt through text messages and said he would have rather told me in person when we got back to school (it's winter break) but it just happened to happen this way. Every time I think about him I begin crying agin. How do I handle this situation? I really love him and don't want to let him go.

I'm 15 and a sophomore in high school. I have recently grown from an ugly, squeaky voiced midget to now being relatively good looking, tall, and deep voiced. And I still have a lot of trouble getting girls. At the end of freshman year, when I was still small, I asked out a girl who had acted very interested in me and she said that she wasn't ready for a relationship but maybe we could go to a game or something sometime. But after that, she never texted back and refused to talk to me. Then it recently happened again, this time with me having a deep voice. A girl I had been talking to for a while seemed really into me and had even brought up that she was single. I suggested we hang out sometime and she said ok and acted excited and flirty. So it's almost Xmas and she said she was too busy to hang out until after break, and that's fine. But since then (that was 4 days ago), she has gotten colder toward me and was very condescending to me when I talked to her today. And it's noy just those two. Other girls that I have talked to have acted cold toward me when I have tried to talk to them. I just don't understand why no girl wants me. I have good hygiene, I'm well groomed, I'm nice to girls, I wear nice clothes, I am tall, I have a deep voice. Yet they want nothing to do with me. Why?

I've been with my share of shitty guys-to the point I don't take things for face value & over analyze everything. So I met a guy at my friend's house about 6 weeks ago &I got a vibe from him. About 4 weeks ago we hooked up at our friend's house &I left without hearing from him (Facebook friends; no numbers) so I just let go as maybe a one night stand. 2 weeks ago we were both over our friends house again &we ended up hooking up. We both stayed over at our friend's &next afternoon he asked me to go outside with him &talk. He said he didn't want me to think he was an asshole &he liked hanging out with me &I agreed. Because I have been with real jerks before I took him saying "hanging out" as "hooking up," but he kissed me at the end of our talk.I pulled away a little & he said "why'd you do that?" I said "do what?" & he said "I don't know you just did something weird & he kissed me twice more. We went back in the house & started watching football. Through out the game he kept kissing me then laid on me. He fell asleep on me &when he woke up we hooked up again. Later he was talking to another friend about going to a ski resort at the end of February &turned to me & said "you can go too if you want." So now I don't know if by hanging out he meant getting to know me or hooking up or if he invited me to the resort just to be polite. He was also once married and got cheated on &divorced two years ago. Haven't heard from him since.

I would like to start off by saying I love her and I believe in not giving up but I don't know what to do anymore. She is always yelling. Doesn't think about sending me a hello good morning text. Puts the blame on me for everything and tells me I am always the reason for all of the stress in her life and then turns it around and says I treat her bad. Just this morning I woke up let her sleep in wrote her a nice love note, took a picture of the sunrise and sent her a nice good morning text before I went to work. 10:30 came and I haven't heard anything I called her and she was like yea what can I do for you. An arguemeant started and then she tells me I love wrecking her day and love the drama. She drinks almost everyday a lot. And the only thing she sees is how I am treating her in a bad way. She never looks at the way she treats me. Also she wants a friendship with her exs by texting them and she won't let me meet any of them. And when I say something about it I am the bad guy. I really need some help and advice. Oh also she tells me of course I love you.

I told her: I'm sure you're do well on you're exam. She said You're nice :) :)

A guy friend of mine came over for a dinner and movie. He had his arm around me during the movie and later we laid down to where my head was on his chest. He made an attempt to kiss me and I pulled away. I was uncomfortable 1. Because I didn't know when my roommate was coming home and 2. Because we aren't dating and haven't discussed feelings for each other so I don't know his intentions or where we stand. What do I do now? Should I text him and explain?

I get scared telling guys that I am. My last ex, on our first date, was very open about his sexual history (very promiscuous)....and I just felt he wouldn't be as into me because I've never been penetrated, so I kind of just lied. I found guys will take it two different ways...be turned on by it and desperately think they can take my virginity, or get turned off and quit talking to me. Not saving till marriage, just an actual real relationship....and I just haven't dated a guy long enough to see myself losing it to him. I've given oral to plenty of guys, just not have sex.