My girlfriend has been going through a divorce for the past 9 months. We met 3 months ago, he had an ongoing affair, she was faithful the entire time. He kept making things difficult for her, much of it by using the kids. Now, for the sake of the kids health insurance and ability to go to college, she is trying for a bifurcation and also for contempt because he refuses to pay for things for the kids ordered by the court. her bifurcation hearing is in 3 days. I'm not familiar with how that process works, whether it is granted that day or if there are more court dates for the bifurcation. I know the assets are settled on at a later date. Of course we are both hoping she will officially be divorced by the end of the year so that he has no reason to do anything but move on and she can too I'm not getting into the middle of the divorce myself, other than her letting me know what's going on since it affects both of us. We don't talk about it around the kids and don't want them pulled into it

Long story short. I was married for 14 years, and I had 4 kids with my ex-husband. He pays me $1,800 a month for child support every month. He cheated on me, and I took everything that I could away from him. He said that I was unfair, and I said that I didn't care. You reap what you sow. @ Rick, why would you run?

I am a proud member of the tribe, a perfect male jewish specimen if I do say so myself. The perfectest of all. I am astonishingly excellent in every regard. However, I cannot say the case is the same for my fellow semitic women. They have ugly noses to absorb extra free air, they nag and never know when to shut up and get on their knees to worship my hebrew hammer and appreciate it in its full glory, they are angry feminists, they mostly overweight, they do not shave their bodies, and they are not exotic. I want a perfect shiksa goddess but she must convert because I only want Jewish children and not inferior goy ones to carry my name. I already have a child that I do not consider to be mine. A filthy goyish h ooker tricked me into nutting into her when she told she was on the pill. But I refuse to acknowledge it because it is not jewish and I didn't plan to father it. I want a real jewish wife with real jewish children. Where can I find a hot shiksa to convert and worship my cawk, and be a perfect female specimen to outdo herself in her glorious perfection day after day and treat me like the emperor that I must be treated as in my very own home?

how would you react if she brought home her fiance for you to meet, and he turned out to be white?

She keeps telling me to take a shower and brush my teeth. I told her it's too cold for me to shower or wash my hair. What does she want me to do? Freeze to death? It's winter and I shouldn't have to take a shower when it's cold. It's too cold to take a bath too. It's in the 30s right now and so bitter cold. She says she won't have sex with me until I shower but it's too ******* cold.

ive been married to my husband for 14 months now but we dated for 2 years before getting married. when we met he said he was agnostic but calls himself muslim only to honor his family and heritage. i didnt mind because i am similar. i call myself christian but im liberal and am practically an agnostic. well while we were dating he was the most romantic guy. he was very liberal and open minded and tolerant of everyone but things started to change after he proposed to me. he said that i had to convert to islam if i want to marry him because he promised his family he would marry a muslim girl only. he promised that its only for his family and that i can still be christian. i agreed to do it. well as soon as we got married his attitude and personality totally changed. he started to get really bossy and his romantic side went away. he lost his sense of humor. he started being controlling and told me im not allowed to talk to other men. he forced me to delete all nonrelative males off my social media accounts. he also told me i have to dress more modestly now that im a married woman and yelled at me when i tried to wear slightly revealing clothes. even during the summer time he said i can't wear a bikini or shorts or a tank top. he said its CHEATING if im showing my body off to the world. he also took my car keys and doesnt let me drive unless i ask him for permission and then me makes me give him the keys back. he also has hit me on 4 occasions and yells at me all the time. he also forces me to pray 5 times a day even though he knows i am NOT really muslim. he said he knows im' not but a good wife must at least pretend for her husband. he said i shouldnt have married him if i wasnt willing to submit to him and honor his culture. i love him but I feel trapped and really unhappy. how can i make him behave how he did before we got married/?

My friend Sam and I are both dissatisfied with being single . We're not getting enough female companionship to satisfy us . We both want to find the right woman and get married . Sam's sister keeps telling him "You shouldn't need a woman to complete you !" . If a woman meets a man and decides "He won't like being married !", nobody will ever marry him . How can I be complete on my own without making women think "He won't like being married !" ? Thank you in advance for your answers .

He will say that they are hot because they have big boobs. He will try to tell me how hot other girls are. I am 20 and he is 23. We got married when I was 9 weeks along and we dated for a month before I got pregnant. Does he no longer love me?

when my wife passed away she was doing so many different drugs. No jail or rehab could stop her desire fro drugs.We all knew she would die but didn't know when. Now my daughter dropped out of college and is caring for her younger siblings. She also comforts me as a wife would comfort her husband. Should I give my daughter some of the life insurance proceeds?

My husband has been lying like crazy to me and my trust has already been compromised because I allowed him to cheat on me with multiple women 8 that I know of before we were married. He has also attacked me physically because I cursed him out when I feel intense pain from him hurting me. So l left and moved in with my dad am I wrong? I also ended the lease it will end in two months he will have to find a place for him and his biological kids. I left because I m pregnant and I just lost a child and didn t want to lose this one. I know my cursing is bad but that s all he focuses on not what he s doing to push me there. I feel so sad we were only married 5 months

I recently went through a divorce due to abuse, and now I'm in a new relationship. Everything was great at first, until we started spending more time together. Something about him makes me feel depressed now. He is a very nice person, but lately feels clingy (this didn't bother me the first month we dated?) and dependent on me, whereas boyfriends I've had in the past have been very outgoing and their own person. I don't know if my head is not on straight because of the dramatic change (going from a husband with a child and lots of drama to no husband, no kids, and I don't have any friends and my current boyfriend doesn't have much family and I haven't met them yet), or if I'm stuck on drama-filled relationships, or if I'm just not liking him anymore? Or if I want more from the relationship?

Three years living with a man and we only had sex three times. I know it's because of the porn and this is unacceptable to me so I kicked him out. He asked if I wanted to do something for Christmas. He has no family or friends. I told him I wasn't interested in friendship with him (we were supposed to get married in the fall) and that it's me or the porn. Hasn't contacted me since.

My wife is 23 and I'm 22. We have been married for 6 months. Before she became my wife she got an offer to go model fashion in New York City. That meant that she would've had to move there and we wouldn't be able to see each other because she would be busy. So she did something really unexpected and declined the offer. She said she loved me and said she couldn't be away from me. I tried telling her she should follow her dreams but she said that she loves me too much. I know my wife likes fashion so I got her a makeup set, some perfume and some clothing. I feel like my present won't match what she did for me last year. Do you think I'm a horrible husband?

My wife is 23 and I'm 22. We have been married for 6 months. Before she became my wife she got an offer to go model fashion in New York City. That meant that she would've had to move there and we wouldn't be able to see each other because she would be busy. So she did something really unexpected and declined the offer. She said she loved me and said she couldn't be away from me. I tried telling her she should follow her dreams but she said that she loves me too much. I know my wife likes fashion so I got her a makeup set, some perfume and some clothing. I feel like my present won't match what she did for me last year. Do you think I'm a horrible husband?

People should work through problems not split up over minor issues

my question is dumb. but I really want to know. I want to know why a man who many say is happily married would say to someone else all the terrible things about his wife. also she would post on fb funny little things they do together. This happened to me. he complained she always spent to much money, she gained to much weight, he didn't like mentioning her around me and if he did he seemed disgusted by it. Lately he comments on things she posts but to me its more like a friend post. People tell me that he will always be a cheting person. we did like each other but nothing happened so that's my question why would he

my husband every year will tell me I better not get him anything for Christmas because we don't have money. we will buy the kids tons of presents and he will always get me nice things for Christmas and my birthday. when it comes to his birthday or Christmas he will tell me not to buy him anything because we don't have the money to do so. I usually go ahead and do anyways. do men or people in general really get that upset if you go buy them something when they tell you not to? thinking of going to Wal-Mart today and getting him some stuff for Christmas. should I?

I divorced my verbally abusive husband. We have an 18 month old son. I noticed it looked like his ex wife, and mother to his two other kids, had moved in. I then looked at her Facebook and it is covered with photos of her and my son. She is calling him her little love and has some pretty disturbing pictures of them together. My ex lied about her contact with or son and basically lies about everything. What if anything can I do?

We were together for 2 and a half years and married for 2 years. We just separated 2 months ago. He did get a hold of me a few weeks ago and told me that he missed me and wanted to come back home. I haven't talked to him in about 3 weeks. He's been dating someone else for over a month. I made a horrible mistake walking away from him. I don't know if I should actually fight for him or to just let it be.

Men and Women should only get to have ONE spouse and shouldn't be able to remarry. Stop being wh0res and manwh0res! Its scientifically proved that kids don't do well in step families and are affected. http://www.stepfamilies.info/articles/the-effects-of-remarriage-on-children.php If you've remarried. You are a wh0re and a traitor to your children.

My husband and I have almost been married for 2 years I am 20 and he is 26. He is a good guy come home right after work does not go out only with me. Never see him on his phone beside with his family and friends I know. But I get this feeling he is cheating or speaking to someone he won't let me touch his phone I don't know his password and when I do have it in my hand he keeps watching me or takes it away. We do not have any social media the only thing we have is a joined instagram. Am I just being too much and thinking crazy or would u think something too if he so over the top with his phone.

He is calling up his female friends everytime we have disagreements or problems. If he gets mad at me about something there he goes - dialing them up on his cell phone at work to bash me and talk about whatever problem we're having. I know he does this because I have his phone bugged. This really bothers me - I feel we have no privacy and our lives are discussed via megaphone to all his friends. I asked him nicely to keep our private lives PRIVATE and that I'd appreciate it if our problems were kept private between us and our counselor. I felt horrible - we had an agument in which he said some things to me that were inappropriate but of course when he's telling his friends - I'm the one at fault and made out to act like I'm the one that caused our marital problems. I can't deal with him blabbing to everyone everything that goes on in our life. I feel like Cinderella with the evil mother in law and sisters in law. I have no chance after he blabs on me. And I'm trying to make our marriage work and be a good person and solve problems in a mature manner.

I was with my ex for 2 and a half years. We got married 6 months into our relationship. I knew I wouldn't rather spend my life with anyone else. He was more than my husband. He was my best friend. We did everything together. We did fight a lot and it was mostly on and off but we always ended up back together. I didn't treat him the way he deserved to be treated in the past. I put him down a lot. I emotionally abused him. He cried a lot cause of how I was treating him. It seemed like I didn't care at all when deep down it was killing me. I hated myself. I still hate myself. I never cheated on him or anything. I just took him for granted and thought he would always come back cause he did. I was just scared of getting hurt so I hid my emotions. I lost my mom to suicide when I was 4. I took my pain and trust issues out on him when he never deserved it. We've been separated for 2 months and I'm realizing what all I put him through. I didn't give him what he deserved. I'd do anything to take it all back. If me and him could switch, there's no way I would have put up with it for as long as he did. I wish I would have thought about that when I still had him. I tried protecting myself but all I did was destroy myself. He got with someone else 8 days after we separated this last time. I just don't understand why. I don't know if it's just a rebound relationship or not. Or if he's hurting as bad as I am or if he misses me as much as I miss him. He says he hates me but does he mean it ..

I am just in a horrible state of mind. Just certain things have lead up to me feeling this way. For starters we got married when i was 17 and we had a son when i was 18. And ever since we had him my spouse has not helped really do the things most fathers should do like bath, diaper changes, feed, play with, or hold him. And now our son is 3 and he still doesnt play with him or anything. And now just everything about the marriage is depressing for me. We have no sex life. He talks to me so rude. He calls me a *****. I feel like i just want to be able to be on my own and do what i want because right now i never get out of the house because i havent even been able to start working. Because of all my choices and i just want to finish getting my diploma and then get a job and then tell him that im just feeling like i dont want to be married anymore. I feel like im still 17 no job no school diploma not going anywhere for myself and when i talk to him about how i feel he just says you be alright. Like no. Im positive that im maturing and wanting to find my own feet in the world and be independent. Oh and to top it off when i text anyone he is always looking at my phone and saying im texting a boyfriend and saying he doesnt believe me. I just seriously feel like i am going to go crazy if i have this marriage forever. But what should i do? And also i think im slowly falling out of love with him but idk how to tell him that.... Im lost

A woman who enjoys sex and only wants it from her husband daily. She initiates sex by touching him not rough she performs oral gets him hard and he will sometimes (often) say He's tired and goes to sleep. She will ask him to make love to her even saying she would appreciate it.. He says no...She feels rejected by him more often than she he says yes. He says he likes having sex with her but has never initiated sex with her. She has told me how she wishes he would just tell her he wants to .... She has said that even when they do have sex he will only last at the longest 10 minutes and he cums. Which is why she probably wants it daily because she is not getting it properly... So what is your thoughts?? She is not an ugly woman... Why would he tell her no??

I've never seen anything wrong with it but it seems to be turning my girlfriend sideways. We were at a friends party yesterday and a close friend that I hadn't seen in almost a year came up to my girlfriend and I to say hello. She hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek almost near my lip and then shook my girlfriends hand. We talked with her for a while and then met up with some other peopleand parting ways. Everything was fine until we got home and then she just let everything out. Asking why did she kiss me and seem so happy to see me. I told her we were just friends and she was just being polite. Then she got mad and said I was defending her. We argued for a bit longer before she dropped it and I dropped her off. Looking back now I'm not sure if there's anything wrong with it. But is it inappropriate or was she making a big deal of it?

i married a woman 11 yrs my junior but after 5 years of marriage im starting to fancy younger gals. the gals im attracted to are between 16-22 i reckon . My wife is 28. she's still beautiful and i'm still attracted to her but now that she's approaching 30 shes starting to have that more mature look. She doesn't have the youthful glow and babyface of the younger gals. i'm worried that I won't be attractd to her anymore in a few years. her mum, for example, is 53 and i dont fancy her the slightest. her 22 year old sister on the other hand i do fancy. her mum is quite fit for a lady her age and takes care of her looks but despite that i feel repulsed just thinking of sex with someone who looks like that. clearly its natural for men to fancy younger women as its part of our evolutionary biology but we cannot act on our desires since most of us get married. obviously i'm not going to trade my wife in for a younger gal because i love her and im not daft enough to think i could get a woman even younger than my wife. i lucked out with her in the first place as I am not loaded. are there any men out there who are actually attracted to their middle aged wives or do all men long for the attention of a young honey and only stay with their wives because they know they cant do better?