They are insane they have parties over there almost every night and they turn into huge orgies. There are bodies humping all over the place. I saw a couple on the porch yesterday humping and they fell over the ledge and continued to hump on the ground. It was naaasty. Our houses are close together so we hear all of the moanig and humping sounds. It was absolutely hilarious at first. It was a little embarrassing when I had company though. They asked me what it was and I had to act like it wasn't normal. I don't want them thinking I live in a bad neighborhood. What type of drugs are they on? They stay up all night and hump!

I've been close friends with this girl for years since she was about 11 years old and her parents are okay with it. I'm 20 and I have the best memories with this girl - she makes me laugh, made me feel confident when I was nervous about my high school graduation, and we really trust each other. She's about 14-15 now and in high school but people have told her at school that it's not okay? I know she's more popular than I was in high school and she's a cheerleader now so she has some pretty judgemental girls around her who cares about popularity 24/7. We're both female and she's the closest thing I have as a sister. She's just as fashion-obsessed as I am and she reminds me of myself when I was younger.

I have a friend for more than 2 years. But a few months ago she told me a secret about his depression. But I said something and she thought I made fun of her (but not). She told me never to talk to her anymore. She was ignoring all my messages ... we did not speak for 2 months ... but on Wednesday I sent her roses with a friend. She thanked me, and also told me that it made her day better !!!! But we have not talked much yet, She's still distant !!!! Will you see me again as a friend? what do I do??

Sorry it's so long. I made this internet friend on this site called Quotev. I thought she was nice, and we have the same interests like anime, and rock music, another thing was that she said she was online home schooled just like I am. The problem is that after awhile we exchanged phone numbers, and she became super clingy like texting me all time, even when I told her I had ever important projects to do, or classes I needed to attend, but she'd say "Okay talk to you later.", but then keep spamming me, and became really distracting. After I couldn't handle the spamming anymore I confronted her about it, saying I'm not much of a talker/texter which is true whether it be on irl or on the internet, so I set some boundaries, and told her I'd text when, she had free time. She said she understood the spamming, and it stopped, that is for a couple of days. I asked her more than five times to stop spamming me, and she didn't so I started ignoring her, which she didn't like. She texted asking things like "Why are you ignoring me?" or " It's been 5 days let's not make it past 6." stuff like that, finally I answered, and told her why I was ignoring her. We talked it over again, I tried giving her one more chance, but she didn't stop spamming, so I blocked her, but I can't help but feel guilty for doing so. One the other hand I feel free to focus, and not obligated to answer when she wanted me to. Was I right to block?

Ok so I really disapointed the principle at my school for leaving school to go to lunch at mcdonalds then having the school lunch, and also jeopardizing the school, because my friend put a pen btween these doors so when we come back we can enter with the doors being unlocked but he caught us on camra. Right now i have the rest of the semester of lunch detentions with my friend. Me and my principle were cool with eachother so now hes really disapointed in me so what can i say after winter break in a letter to say im sorry for the whole situation and never will happen again.

Does the woman and girl in the picture look alike?

Me my friend and my other friend, used to hangout all the time in college. Well everyone drifted away and went into different friend groups, but i always had a crush on the friend. So a year later i sent her a text just saying hey and she posted on snapchat in that same hour I found out and said "the audacity of some people" we were never really that close, so maybe it was about something else and was justa coincidence? What do you think?

So she suggested we should get each other Christmas presents and so I took the time and got her something nice. When I opened her present I swear to god everything she gave me was second hand or had been previously given to her. I feel kinda hurt that she didn't take anytime to get me anything. Should I talk to her about it?

I had a little fight with my friend last night, but she doesn't know it's a fight. She doesn't think I'm mad at her but I am. I also sit with her and my other friend in the cafeteria, but after what happened, I don't want to eat lunch with her. I would like to sit with my math teacher and eat lunch in her classroom. She is so nice and she's my favorite. I'm just not sure if she eats lunch in her classroom, she might go to a different classroom and eat with other teachers. Do you think she would let me? (P.S if she says no, or I end up not asking her, I will most likely end up eating lunch in the bathroom) (P.P.S I have no other friends to sit with at lunch)

So I have this sleepover I have to go to but I don't fit in there there are 10 other girls and I like being there but I am the antisocial depressed one that dosent fit in (They don't know I'm depressed)

She s a *****.

Ok I want to make this as short as possible but yesterday I got a haircut and I got a side fringe. I told one of my friends (A) I might be getting one and she told me she wanted to get one too. Just today I was speaking to another one of my best friends (B) and she said that A was angry that I got a side fringe because she apparently thought of the idea first. -__- To me it is just hair. Friend A started to say really mean things about me. Friend B has screenshots to prove it and now I don't know what to do. Friend A is getting so pissed over just hair.. and I don't know how to tell her and explain it's no worth fighting over. Someone please help me and give me advice

I m in a situation where I had a best friend, but she left. Then I made a new one, and she s all I have. I ve been noticing some things over the corse of a couple weeks, that really don t feel good. She purposely ignores me because she thinks it s funny, she talks to others like I m not around when I m trying to say something, she doesn t help me out with things when I help her, I can t tell her any secrets from the fear of her telling them, she makes everything about herself, and she purposely puts people down because she feels like it. I would have left her by now, but I have nowhere else to go. What do I do? I don t want to suffer loneliness.

I'm a girl, and in seventh grade. My parents fight a lot, and they don't talk to me much. This has been going on since third grade. Ever since, I have paid close attention to my friends and teachers. In school, if I'm done with my work, I will sit and watch my teachers, and pay attention to what they do, like how they walk or talk, and how they react to things. Is this normal? Also, I have no siblings, so I'm basically all alone at home. I don't know what to do about this, should I change anything that I do? Thanks.

I have no idea why . We weren't that close up until recently. I started getting close to her and i can tell she was happy about it . Last time i saw her i gave her her birthday present and we hung out togather . I then had to get off somewhere along the road because my other two friends were there and asked me to join them . I thought this might be the reason but when i think about it I didn't just choose them over her because we were already on out way home when they called me and another thing is that that place was somewhere along the road so it's not like i was a bother . Anyway after that , i sent her a msg thanking her and it was all fine and she responded normally . After a week i sent her a msg just as a means of keeping in touch and it's been two days and she still hasn't responded . I know her phone isn't broken because i have her on snapchat and she still uploads . I want to send her a msg there but I don't want to seem too eager about it. I think she blocked me on whatapp but not on purpose ? Idk if that's an option or it's just me hoping that's what it's all about . What should i do ? I suck at making friends and she's my first friend that i got to know by myself and not through someone else. Pls help

lo que paso es que fuimos a una fiesta y tomamos un poco con unos amigos al irnos a nuestra casa el me dejaria en la mia ya que pasa por ay entonces nos fuimos solos y ala mitad del camino me abrazo no me solto asta llegar a mi casa cuando iva entrar me beso y tambiene dio un beso en el cuello y otro en el cachete y se despidio yo no supe que contestar y me meti a mi casa y no lo comente ahora nose que decirle si lo iso nomas porque estaba un poco tomado o siente algo por mi a mi siempre me a atraido pero me da miedo perder su amistad si no siente lo mismo que puedo hacer?

why I can't have any friend ? everytime I met someone I am kind, funny, trying, I remember small things about people and events but then people leave me, they find other friends and leave me the same situation is with boyfriends I am over 30 and I am alone all my life, I do not know why nobody can love me and why I am not enough I am smart, inteligent, kind and good person and hard working, maybe I am ugly to everyone. I just do not understand why nobody likes me

I've had the same group of friends since I was in the sixth grade (I went to a small K-12 high school). I've picked up a couple of new friends here and there but only when my other friends are around to make me feel comfortable. When my friends are around, I'm outgoing and funny even with new people, but when I don't know anyone in a situation, I tend to shut down and be almost completely silent. I was well liked in high school, but I never made any friends at work or at summer camps. I'm worried college is going to be like those situations, and I get so miserable because I'm an extrovert and I love being around people, but I'm like an awkward, quiet extravert. People generally don't take an interest in me when meeting me for the first time so that doesn't help, either. I don't understand why though. I'm cute & petite, not intimidatingly beautiful or anything but just good looking enough to where I would think people would take an interest in me, I always dress nice, I drive a nice car, not saying that those are the things that matter but I think that those kinds of things usually attract attention and get people to want to talk to you and be around you. So honestly, all that to say I don't think it's my looks or that I'm not "cool" enough to have friends, I really think it's that my personality and that I'm not interesting/funny/talkative enough Can I get any advice for making friends and being better at meeting people? also just an FYI I'm an eighteen year old senior now, I'll be going to college this August

Last year, I started a new school and had to make new friends, but I was awkward and didn't have great social skills, although I was super nice. Now, I am much more social and talkative and thats good but I feel like now because of that Im getting more sarcastic and meaner than I used to be and I don't like that. I also feel like some people get the wrong impression of me now because Im super talkative in groups but in smaller situations Im nowhere near as talkative and its really awkward unless I know someone super well. Do you think this is a change for the better or worse? Its nice I am more social but I took pride in how nice I was before and I also am afraid that people think IM talkative but then it will be awkward in smaller situations. What do you think?

So i have been best friends with the same girl for about 3 years now and it's been okay, I have this problem whenever she meets a new friend or someone that she's also really close to she seems to pick them over me and i keep confronting her about it and it normally stops are about a month and it happens again. Recently her and her bf got back together and it seems now more than ever shes picking him over me shes only concerned about hanging with him and she never tells me anything and she doesn't listen to me sometimes, so i confronted her about it again and now shes mad at me and idk why. I would just drop it and move on but this has happened to many times but I have no one else and we sit together in most of our class together and we share a group of friends so ill be the one kicked out. She never really seems there for me anymore and whenever i have a problem hers seems more important i tell her everything and she doenst. What should I do??

So about a month or so ago I bought Christmas gifts for my friends. The bags that I got them in were hanging on the pantry door downstairs. One day they weren't there anymore. I just assumed that my mom moved them to where she keeps Christmas gifts. Anyways, now today I wanted to begin wrapping them so asked her where they are and she said she put them on my dresser in my room. I go to my room and nothing is on any of my dressers, I checked my room inside out, and I even looked in many other spots of the house and they're not there. My mom said it's my fault and that she won't give me money so I can buy them again. What do I do!?

I'm a 9th grader and I want to ruin an older girl's prom date. Also I don't care what anyone else thinks because my parents didn't say I can't and they don't even spend time with me at all anyways because my mom is too busy with her celebrity/TV reality life and my dad is always working at a hotel. Believe me I've been a fake friend to over 120 people both online and real life friends. I don't have to be the good friend they want me to if I don't feel like it. I wanna do something that will get a huge angry reaction out of this high school senior because I'm tired of pretending to be a real friend when I never was all along. I've thought of spreading a rumor or lying to both her and her boyfriend for them to both believe something like one believes the other doesn't like them anymore or their partner is going out with someone else. I've only been in high school for a while but I've already had a huge amount of kids angry at me and half the kids in my grade writes hate comments about me on my locker door.

I'm fresh out of college and am back in my hometown. I was never a jock in high school or college but I was friends with a few. Last night I went out to the bar and ran into a few friends from high school and some of the jocks were there I was buddies with and they kept their distance from me most of the night until around last call when everyone was leaving. I asked them what their deal was and they said it was the way I was dressed. I just got out of work before I went so I had a generic non name brand clothes on. It got me thinking though. What was the big deal? I was never really close with them anyway but how come they care so much about how I was dressed that they avoided me until the end of the night?

Im 22. Been working here for over a year. He is 15 and has been here almost as long. Well my manager wants me to be kind of "in charge" but i have always been so nice. Me and him have always been kind of friends at work. We talk and laugh and tell each other about our personal lives. Well lately he has been "inlove" with him self. He is kind of concieted and the show off type. Lately he has been getting kind of bossy or grumpy with me. I guess its just him being a little tennage brat. Im sick of it i HATE working with him. I try my best not to blow up on him because that would be unprofessional i know. Should i just ignore him? No longer be his little friend at work? Treat the little brat like hes just another co worker and doesnt need to even talk to me about our personal lives?

I am a freshman in highschool already and people already have their go to best friend. I don t, I went to a different middle school than all of the kids. I could develop better friendships with the new friends I made but it would be easier if I would hang out with them. I have been asked to hang out but I usually decline because 1) I don t have a ride back home 2) I have three younger siblings the oldest being 10 years old and I don t know if they re able to stay alone for an hour or two without causing chaos. 3) I don t know what to do while hanging out. 4) My mom doesn t let me hang out because of my siblings and I don t know what to do. I want to have a social life but with my family it s hard. Please give advise. Thank you.

My buddy Bill invited me to come over to his house and hang out. When I got there he introduced me to his mom. WOW. I told Bill he was lucky to have such a beautiful mom. Bill said lets go swimming in his pool and we did. His mom came out of the house and decided to join us in the pool. OH MY GOD. Her bathing suit was the smallest I had ever seen in my life. It was a micro string bikini. It left NOTHING to the imagination. Suddenly I had a problem. I got a b0ner. I had to stay in the water until it went down. It would be totally embarrassing if either Bill or his mom knew I got a b0ner. I knew then that I could NEVER come over to Bill's house again because if I saw his mom, all I could think of was her in THAT bathing suit and something would come up. Someone please tell me how I can tell him that I can not come to his house again. Guys, is it possible he would understand my problem. Would he be insulted if I told him the real reason I could not come over and it be the end of our friendship?

I pulled a text prank and it wasn't lyric by the way, but he got all sensitive about it and when I told him I was going through what he was and said, "I held scissors to myself" he replied back saying, "scissors really" And now he's all mad. How do I apologize again? I apologized a lot and he didn't care he just went on about what he's going through ignoring that I was going through it also. He's mad because he thinks i'm making fun of what he's going through while I am too. I told him I made a mistake and i'm sorry but he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. How do I say a proper sorry?

I travel back and forth 5 days a week to go to college, I live 45 minutes away from the school, my best friend is the driver and two other girls travel with us. its 10 dollars a day, so usually its 50 dollars a week, same with the other two girls. I told my brother that the other night who used to travel back and forth to college with people and he was outraged by the price I was paying with two other girls traveling with us. He said if it was just me 50 would make sense, but with two other girls that was crazy, and when he carpooled he only charged 25 a week. I don't have the slightly clue how much gas costs, but when my friend told me the price the price didn't even go down when another girl started traveling with us. I can't really mention it to my friend because I don't want to get kicked out of the car, but am I paying a little to much? I can only work one day a week because I have to travel every day and I only make 50 a week so it does feel like a lot. There is no bus I can take, I live in a small town we don't have buses. And I live in Canada.

He's gay, that's what confuses me. I have lost of short term memory because of my nd. This gay supervisor and co-worker has been harassing, bullying me for 6 months. They nitpicky, get into my face trying to irritate me. The clients has been call me a Angel and they respond by saying he's stupid. I haven't really done anything wrong, they try finding stuff. Anything and ambarress me in front of the clients. The lady co-worker even got into my face saying why don't you hit me. She's trying to irritate me while the other guy is trying to embarrass me. They are also starting rumors that my whole family is slow.

I'm not good in English and I want to put a caption on INSTAGRAM for a friend who's leaving. Please add and improve. "You're gonna be leaving us soon. You're gonna leave your squad and it's different without you. You're always the one who plans what to do and you're always the one who love to surprise people, especially us your friends. Sadly you're not gonna be here on my birthday. The tomorrow of my birthday is your birthday!!! I'm so lucky that I have met someone like you. You're an amazing person and I love you for that. Well miss you (name)!"

Someone at school wrote an insulting message toward me on their page. I 'liked' it, then shared it on my timeline.

She's 'apparently' my best friend but lately she doesn't act like it. I'm not sure why, but it's like walking on eggshells with her. For example, she can never take a joke. So I can't really be sarcastic like I can with my other friends. But when she's in her bad mood she'll try to make others look bad, including me and one other friend. It's weird as well that we never just hangout together. Like we always have to have one other person with us. Which is okay, but sometimes I just want to hangout with her. And one last important thing, lately our conversations have become repetitive and just mostly about herself. And if I bring up myself, she shrugs and says something slightly and goes back to talking about herself. Guys, what do I do? I feel like the friendship is not worth it to me.

When it's some once or twice they may be working or sth.. but when they answer you after 12 hours (with 2 word responses) all the time they're not into you. Could you think of a smart quote to say a F uck off/bye?

I am the tallest and skinny guy in class, which makes me look physically weak, i guess thats why people try to beat me up. I just dont like violence and beat up people, thats why i dont hit them back now its getting quite annoying no dont tell me to "get help from adult or report to teachers", i wanna deal with myself

So I woke up and I was on FaceTime with my best friend and I put my phone on my bed while she was still on ft for me to get some breakfast quickly so when I realized there was nothing to eat I went back to my room and found my mom going threw my phone and I was really pissed and too make Herslef look better she was like "who r u taking to" and I was like to my friend whom she knows and then she started screeming about how no ones talks to there friends early in the morning. I mean that's a total invasion of privacy I don't get why she doesn't trust me I don't TO anything and she always compares me to my friends on how they only hang out with girls and don't have any guy friends when in reality there all dateing and Bring there guy friends over all the time!

i'm about ready to punch them. thats how i feel. monday i may just walk out if they say something smart. I have been dealing with this for 6 months and now its at its end. They are trying to make me look srupid. they watch everything i do, talk about me rally bad, scream at me. now that i confront them now they are running their mouth about me to the clients. I made a few mistakes at the begining while learning but they made all kinds of mistake but yet they act like im dumb like i make a bunch of mistakes. now i'm walking on egg shells with them trying not to make any mistake but they still scream at me, talk behind my back. i already talk with my boss and if this dont change by monday, i'm putting my 2 weeks notice in.

I read a story about a schoolgirl who was literally burnt alive for rejecting a boy at school! Yes, she literally burned to death for not liking a boy at school back. Lighter fluid was poured everywhere on her body, and she was set on fire for 4 hours straight!! 4 hours of burning to death!! ALL because she rejected someone. Like, that was the only reason behind her death. The bastard who did this was violent and didn't dealt well with rejection. Wow. Murdering someone over an unrequited crush. What is wrong with this world?! She literally had arguably THE worst, most painful, most horrible, most tragic death ever in human history and it was ONLY because she rejected a boy. She was only 16. and the devil who did it was 17. Like what if she could had looked into the future, read her obituary, and saw that it said, "High school girl gets tortured and burnt alive for rejecting a boy at school." God! What is wrong with this world? If this was the reason behind the worst death ever in human history- a stupid teenage rejection- then the human race is COMPLETELY screwed!!! People die from natural causes, diseases, old age, and accidents every single day, and there is NOTHING I can possibly do to prevent it! But just how often does one get beaten and burnt to death for rejecting someone? Like, when you read, "Girl gets tortured, beaten, and burnt alive," you instantly gasped in horror. But if you read, "Girl gets tortured, beaten, and burnt alive for rejecting a boy at school, " you want to gasped, not necessarily at the tragedy and evil, but more at the stupidity of the human race. Similarly, if you have read the stupid story about the idiots who mistook ashes as cocaine, you didn't gasped and said, "What? They're only teenagers and they're already using drugs?" No. You were shocked at the absurdity of it. And the news media knows it. That's why they sensationalize stories and write dumb headlines. It's because they know that the stupidity of the human race never ceases to amaze people. Well, okay, I do agree that in some cultures and religions, people, unfortunately, do kill others for seemingly absurd reasons to an outsider's perspective. However, this murder wasn't about tradition, religion, or culture. It was about a silly teenage boy who killed a girl because he asked her to be his girlfriend, and she declined. That's all that it was about.

Hello, this entire year has been terrible for me. A trend I ve noticed that kept happening to me is that at work and at home is that people would always talk down to me at work treating me like a child and being rude to me with how I do my work. And at home where my roommates butt into my personal space and treat me like a 5 year old. It makes me feel terrible. Makes me feel like a worthlessness human being. I need a very demanding and frank way to do it so I can establish a ststus quo that I do things my way and for people not to talk to me that way. May be impossible. But I d appreciate the help.

She's talking to a guy who's affiliated with the most dangerous mexican gang...what should I do? Please help

I need an answer fast, this 45 year old beats up my friend a lot and makes him want to die, he told me he is going to beat him up really bad, and i don't know what to do! They live in Finland and I live in the us!!!!

Earlier this year, I made the retarded decision of joining the choir. The only reason I did this was because the teacher had said it would improve my drama (which it hasn't, I've actually dropped down.) and that sounded promising. I've just had the big Christmas concert and I despised every second of it. I was made fun of, I was humiliated and I don't even like singing. I talked to my mum about quitting and she got furious. She seems to have it nailed down that I'm a good singer (which I'm not) and wants me to do it. I don't even enjoy singing, how the hell could I be any good at it? That's not the only thing making me want to quit, it's the people there. I am the only person in my year group doing it (I'm in year 8) so I'm paired up with the Year sevens. These people are so annoying, it ruins any fun that could pottentialy occur. Also, the older students think I'm ****, and I agree. I really don't like the situation I'm in, and it doesn't look like I'm getting out of it either. My self esteem is low, but that isn't the issue here. I'm not accepted among certain people, I feel humiliated, I feel trapped and I generally don't even enjoy singing. Please help, I ******* hate my school life right now.

Gwen and I met in preschool and became best friends right away, telling each other everything and hanging every day Fast forward about seven years, we go to the first school dance together. We'd always been each other's valentine and our classmates typically assumed we were dating (or related) we ended up kissing after the dance, up in her room. From that time, we ARE a couple, and two years later, still going strong. Our friends know by now but we haven't told our parents, because we know rules would change: like we probably wouldn't get to have one-on-one sleepovers anymore, which happen often. See, we would cuddle, hold hands, and stay up half the night on the phone, even when we were in elementary school, so our parents don't suspect a thing. We're really open with each other. We haven't gone past making out and giving each other massages sometimes. We know to wait. But it's hard to have boundaries, when we trust each other totally. We change in the same room sometimes, other times one of us will be brushing our teeth while the other is in the shower. So yes, I've seen her naked, and vice versa. I mean sometimes she sits in my lap while we watch movies. I do get hard but she doesn't mind. Sometimes when we cuddle she lets my head rest on her boobs. Still, I think the most intimate thing we've ever done was me giving her a back/shoulder rub in just a bra. We haven't done anything that sexual. Are we too close, or going too far, for age thirteen? Are we healthy?

Okay so back in August this girl started at my job and we clicked and ended up being really good friends. Like really good friends. But one time I remember she said something she said "you know what really annoys me" and I ask what and she goes "you". Of course I laughed and asked why and she ended up saying that she thought I still looked pretty without makeup and that I irritated her. I thought it was just a funny playful thing and I brushed it off. But now, a couple months later it's like I literally somehow bother her?? I'm not conceited at all I'm actually very shy. And it's like she is now annoyed by me because she thinks I'm so pretty. She acts mean now almost like she's trying to overpower me. Like I've worked at my job for awhile that's why everyone knows me and were all cool. She sees that and she tries absolutely way too hard to be everyone's friend. It's so weird. It's like she's intimidated by me and she's trying to be me but way ruder and dramatic. I can't really explain I I hope someone out there can relate and tell me what they think I should do. She acted really nice when we first met. But now it's weird it's like she's so mean and just trying to be the best. Should i just not worry about it? I don't know how to keep this from bothering me!!!

I know a lot of people are self conscious and have social anxiety when it comes to talking to the opposite sex, but for me it s different. I am a guy that is very confident and charismatic with girls, which is why I have been fourtunate enough to have wonderful women in my life (gfs, family members, friends). I actual get more anxious and have a harder time connecting with other men. I feel competitive, or self concious, or needy, or inadequate when talking to guys... how do I fix this? It is going to be important in the future to have meaningful relationships with guys other than a couple of my close buddies..

Hello, I was trying to hit on one girl a couple of years back and she rejected me but said she really likes me as a friend. Then I visited her in her country and she introduced me to some of her friends because I asked her to. I got along with a few of them, maybe said a hing here or there I shouldnt have but ok. Then they came back to my country for a visit and I asked her if she wanted to meet up but she said she was busy, but this is a small city some she is sure we will see each other around. I did and her firends, who I just met didnt want to talk to me. When I sent them a friend request on facebook, they rejected it. Then a year later I meet her room mate and she was very nice, but then refused to accept me as a friend on facebook. When I saw her days later she barely wanted to say hi. Recently I was introduced to another girl, we were having a nice conversation and she told me to add her on facebook, I did but she didnt accept my request. It turned out this girl was a sister of that 1st girl. Questions Do you think she is talking crap about me? When I see her online on facebook, should I tell her what is going on and ask if she mentioned me in any way? What is the best way to deal with this situation? I havent heard anything from others that she said crap about me Thanks! I didnt say anything mean. We were in a conversation and I accidentally said that I was in a club dancing with a girl and she let me suck her boobs, which I know I should not have said, but I was excited and happy at the moment. I definitely did not talk crap about her or anyone else