ok so i've taken to hiding in my married female neighbors bushes to masturbate as i stare at them in their yards or homes if i can see inside. i do this out of courtesy, not to make them feel uncomfortable by having to see my massive hebrew hammer in my hands and me in my state of ecstasy as i furiously pump it. in the past i got arrested for doing it openly and following them around and begging them to look and touch. i understand why i got arrested and stopped doing it. but why am i being punished now for doing it in private in bushes? why is this trespassing, when nature should belong to everyone, including the bushes on someones private property. it is what the god of the torah commanded to all. why am i being persecuted then and arrested, charged with tresspassing, sexual harassment, stalking, and so forth? im not harssing or stalking anyone. i'm not talking to them or making me touch me. i'm not raping them or trying to get their attention. i'm leaving them alone. i'm just sitting in the bushes in private and masturabting because i am a proud man and it is what we do. i also happen to be a proud jewish man and i believe that this is why i am being persecuted. it is because they are antisemites and feminists who especially hate proud strong jewish men with primal manly urges. they call the police and i get arrested each time and locked in a psych ward. i think if i was muslim or a white man or even a black man , this wouldn't happen. if i was a white, or black, or hispanic man. or even a muslim. the world hates jews, the persecution after the holocaust never ended.

My wife is 4 1/2 months pregnant she's really upset over a song she use to listen to when she was little. She can't remember the name of it but she kind of hated loved it. She said it's about this boy and girl who grew up together the boy didn't like her at first but through out they started getting along they were out on a date one night some guy pulled a gun at the girl the boy gave him all his stuff and begged him to let her go. A few years later they were married then they were having a baby the kid was ok but the mother was dying the father started praying for both of them. In a way she loves the song because it's by one of her favorite singers but she hates it because it makes her cry every time. It's a country song that came out in the early 90's. They had a ringtone of it on one of the apps on her phone she played it she started to cry. When she was little she was afraid of she fell in love and had a kid she always worried about something like that happening to her. When she was a kid she would have nightmares about it and having the song play in the background. To this day it still makes her cry. How can I help her feel better ?

I am 22, I live in Alabama and so many people here my age are getting engaged or pregnant. I plan to move to Tampa by my 25th birthday. I have never even been on a date.

Jim has been chasing me for a year and even hinted about offering me a ring but I did not accept him yet. I posted a pic on my Facebook with a status "visiting my man's home town", which is not Jim's home town. Jim asked me who was that man and I said it was a friend. Later Jim commented on the pix "It is coming soon" and put articles about diamond on his Facebook wall. He asked me out for dinner. I said "If there is no important issues to talk about, we dont have to meet" and he responded happily "It was fine". What would you think about Jim?

I asked my wife if ahe watched porn lately no im not bothered by porn i watch it from time to time i asked to aee if shed tell the truth. When i asked she looked at me an said i wasnt watching it. So im like u sure (because i had looked already an saw it on her history). She says no check my history i said ok . I saw it she then says i looked it up i saw 4 videos but i didnt watch them. Wtf . So im like if i click on a video and im looking at it that means i watched it . She still says no and im like it not that big of a deal its porn i watch porn u do too. She then says no but now shes pissed.

Me and my husband tried for over 6 years to have a baby ... So when we found out I was pregnant He was overjoyed that was until we went to go find out the gender we found out we were having a Girl and I burst into tears I was so happy but my husband just stood there in disbelief when we got home I asked him what his problem was he said that he was a little disappointed because he always dreamed of have a son to go Fishing, play ball with stuff like that so I explained to him that he can still do all those things with our daughter but he still wasn't happy I figured he would get over it . So now it's a year and 6 months since I've had my daughter ( Maya ) and he's still really distance from her and I don't know what to do I want them to have a great relationship and not have tension between them what should I do ?

I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and she has 3 kids and I have no kids so there's been some hurdles but we've gotten through all the tough times and we were really strong. But now she took a job as a waitress at a restaurant/pub. Before our time was limited because of her job and kids. Now it's like we have no time together at all. She works her day job and then goes immediately to her night job. Then there's the day she has her kids. I guess I'm just not happy I'm tired of sitting all alone yes I have a lot of friends but the reason why I got into this relationship is for companionship. And on top of that I can never plan anything anymore like beach trips for a little getaway or date night. Now our date night as her coming home exhausted going to sleep which I understand. I also work and it is very difficult to make this work I'm beginning to find out. I really love this woman and she was the best girlfriend I've ever had but I'm really confused about what to do in the situation. I don't want to have to feel like I have to fight for someone's time you know?

Recently my husband and I got into a massive fight he stayed with his mom a few days and then came home. He now has a lock on his tablet and his phone is never answered if I'm around and is kept in car when he is home. But he works nights. My question is could he be cheating? Yes it sounds like it but he leaves his phone in car for 12 hours at a time ...do most cheaters only talk a lol throughout day?

I've never been that successful with women. I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 22 and she was average looking. My next girlfriend at 27 and she was also average looking. My next girlfriend (my wife) at 36 and she's also average looking. Yes i love her personality and her company but I always longed to have a beautiful wife I was proud of. One I could show off. And one who really turned me on. Well now in my 40's I have a beautiful woman pursuing me for the first time in my life. She is only 26 and is a true stunner. She has the most beautiful big brown eyes and gorgeous shiny waist-length chocolate brown hair. She is tall, has large breasts, a tiny waist, big hips, a round butt, and long shapely legs. She is a true 10/10 if I ever saw one! She flirts with me all the time and told me that my wife is "extremely lucky" to have me. She also always makes eye contact with me and bats her long eyelashes in a flirty way. Part of me regrets that I settled for an average looking woman and I wish I were single so I could be with this woman. I'm wondering if any other men out there have had similar experiences. I won't leave my wife because I do love her and we share too many assets to split but I am left fantasizing about this new young woman and feeling depressed and regretful about my unfortunate situation. lala- I really don't think she is a gold digger. I'm not rich and have nothing to offer her. I do own a house that I share with my wife (but it legally belongs to me since I bought it before we got married). However, It is a modest home. Its not huge or fancy. I make a comfortable living but not enough to spoil a sugarbaby. What could a young gold digger possibly want from me? Why are people so quick to think that young women who want older men are gold diggers? That's ageist.

I have dated a couple of women and nothing worked out. I understand that they have high ambitions and goals like I do. I do not hate anyone I have dated and wish them well. Most of them did not work because we had to leave over time (i.e when they got a job in another city/country, when they wanted time for themselves to pursue their goals etc). I am 26 years old and I intend to marry someone I like and have a baby. But no one I had dated seemed to be interested. They just wanted to hang out with me and have sex.

I asked my dad what was it like being married? And he said don't get married. :/ What does this mean?

For example when your stepchild is being rude, acting out or being disrespectful your spouse does not discipline them and gets mad at you for not just ignoring it and letting their behavior go.

My boyfriend is from India and I am from the US. He's a doctoral student here and I work for a company. We have been dating for sometime and gosh I really love him. I spoke about marriage and he readily agreed. I told him that I wish to stay with him in the US after marriage. But he asked me if I will come to India in case his visa gets rejected here. I didn't know what to say and when I didn't answer this question, he got a bit upset. Do you think he may have thought that I don't love him truly. I really do love him

I'm 19 years old and my wife is 17 and she's pregnant and we have no place to stay at..should we apply for housing or shelter to have a place to live in asap

I find this very suspicious. I don't have a problem with her talking to men but i find it odd that she does this. What gives?

I pay all the bills to maintain yhe house. For the last 4years and have lived in the house since. My child born 15 years

I'm saving sex for marriage. Do any women out there save themselves for marriage anymore?

My son whom is 7 sleeps in the same bed and room with his father and his wife. He tells me he awakens to the bed shaking and unusual sounds! How can I stop this! I m thinking of taking him to court to allow him to move the bed into another room. I ve asked him if he will move the bed but he refused. Looking for help or advice. Thanks.

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Hello, i secretly married a guy and now hes saying hes gonna contact my parents and have someone contact my sister. I dont live with him. Why does he want to contact them? Thanks.

I have been happily married for 2 years, together for 5. My husband doesn t want to have sex with me enough, this has been going on for over a year. He is fine with once a month. Whenever I try to get him in the mood or ask him he says no. We haven t had sex in 3 months. Whenever we do, and something goes wrong, I get emotional. He uses that as an excuse to never want to have sex with me. But I only get emotional because I know that I will be turned down the next 10-15 times I ask to have sex. Can we fix this or should I get a divorce?

I caught my wife having sex with another woman. we already have 2 twin girls together who are 5 years old. Should I divorce her for cheating on me? I mean if we do get a divorce I will probably end up with custody of the kids and she will end up being homeless since she doesn't have a job or educational skills or family to go to, also we got a pre-nup before we got married. also how much can I get the court to pay me child support considering the fact she will end up working in a minimum wage job and be living in subsidized housing?

When I get upset or sad I hit myself, some days I think about cutting.. just haven t done it yet.. it s usually when my husband and I get upset at each other ( usually over something stupid) but he s sensitive just like me and I don t handle people being upset with me very well and it usually ends up with me crying for awhile and hitting myself.. I don t know what to do anymore, and I don t know how I m supposed to tell him. I feel so depressed, and so alone. I feel like he s just going to brush it off and say it s my hormones (I m 15 weeks pregnant) but this has been happening for awhile now.. please help me

I ve tried everything, I ve read about everyone s situation. However nothing seems to help. She just started holding my hand two weeks ago. I gave a beautiful back rub, but when I tried to take it further and I was just shut down. I m all out of ideas. If anyone has any ideas please let me know.

Hello, i secretly married a guy and now hes saying hes gonna contact my parents and have someone contact my sister. I dont live with him. Why does he want to contact them? Thanks.

You've been in a relationship with someone who has children form their previous marriage and you have been actively involved in their kids lives and helped parent and are very much present but all they post on Facebook are photos of their kids and themselves and they leave you out the majority of the time.

I don't see anything wrong with it, personally. I mean, why not? No, I mean live in separate houses. I don't want to live with someone, but I want to get married someday.

Me and my wife have been married for almost a month. Whenever we try to have sex she gets scared. About a month before we were married she and her brother were watching a movie about 3 young girls from our state who were kidnapped and raped for 10 years. The youngest girl who was only a teenager was raped more than the other ones. It was a true story the guy in the movie did horrible things to each of the girls. The teenager had a baby with him. The guy wasn't even a stranger to them he was one of the girls friends dad. They knew him really well. Now evey time the movie is on my wife wants to watch it but she gets even more scared. She's afraid I'll hurt her. Since we've been married we only had sex one time she cried the whole time we were doing it. How can I help her get over this fear ?

Today he lied to me about if his brother texted him so I wanted to check sprint to see if he lied about texting back .. Obvi im insecure but I dont think its right to call me a ***** so many times.. he also pushed me on the couch ..

Last night I went to a Mexican restaurant and bar and me and my wife had way too many margaritas and beer. I drove home and we made it ok and I went out back to have a couple more beers and a scotch for a nightcap but it woke me up instead of making me tired. I was wondering what happened to my wife and she was passed out on the bed her stomach naked. I couldn't resist so I banged her and she never woke up. One thing I do remember last night I forgot to pull out and was first time I ever finished in her but I hardly remember. Should I be worried? I called her this morning and she doesn't remember a thing. She keeps talking about getting on the pill and I wish she would.

Because of my guardianship, I can't get married unless I get approval from my parents. My boyfriend and I love each other, and have started discussing marriage. But my dad won't want us to get married yet cuz my dad is picky about how much money he needs to make and what kind of job he needs to have. I think it is so stupid. If you truly love someone it shouldn't matter how much he makes. "For rich or for poor. " If my boyfriend and I were to leave to go to another country, could we get married there where hopefully laws are different there? Haven't discussed which country yet.

During the holidays I said something offhand about dating with the hopes to get married and have a baby soon-ish (probably in response to all the holiday engagements on Facebook). I have a nice, big house, two cars, a good career, etc. and it just feels like that part of my life is missing. I know that I m fairly young yet at 22, but being young and beautiful only helps at catching a better fish. Anyhow, it s not like I m set on marrying the first man willing. Currently, I ve even been casually dating a guy for the past year who isn t sure he wants any of that (slowly changing tune, more recently) but otherwise we are well matched and he should be a parent s dream being a year away from a doctorate, a graduate of an elite school, and the owner of a very successful business. But, I say I want to get married and have a baby just as soon as a man is a good match and is willing and my parents blow up, saying I m far too young for any of that, that I won t be happy if I waste my youth and that I m not mature enough to handle a marriage and kids anyhow. I m not sure where this is coming from. I ve never been a partier, I ve been responsible for my own household for four years without any trouble, and I m simply happier in a stable relationship. I hate being single and dating. It sucks. Yet, it bothers me that my parents either don t see that I m an adult or that perhaps they see something I don t and I m wondering which is the case and if it s the former, what to do about it.

I asked my husband does he think I'm selfish and he said "Emotionally selfish." When I asked how ? He said nevermind. What does that mean ?

My ex-husband and I were married for 24 years, and our kids are adults. I divorced my ex-husband last year, after I found out that he had been having an affair. Our divorce was not amicable or easy. My ex-husband wanted to keep everything for himself and not give me anything. The judge in our case didn't see it that way, and everything was split 50/50. Ever since the judge's ruling my ex-husband has been bitter towards me. I'm not the one who who chose to make very poor choices. Our divorce is done and over with. He needs to move on, and stop blaming me for what happened.

I'm a 45 year old woman, and I've been married for 20 years. Though over the past 2 years I've known this young guy, who's now 23. He's a very handsome young guy, driven, and has a heart of gold. He is seriously one of the sweetest guys I've ever known. And we're pretty good friends. The thing is is that recently when he looks at me with those puppy dog eyes of his, I find my heart fluttering. Sometimes I have caught him checking me out, and to be honest I find myself doing the same thing to him. Recently he told me he has feelings for me! When he said that, I couldn't help but get this warm feeling in my chest. On Christmas Eve, he invited me to go with him to this Christmas party being held at a bar, where a live band was playing. So anyway we had a few drinks, and when the song "have yourself a merry little Christmas" started playing, we headed out onto the dance floor. While on the dance floor, he looked into my eyes and told me how beautiful I looked, and the next thing I knew, we kissed. And honestly it was one of the warmest, most tender kisses I have ever had with anyone. My husband was out of town at the time on business. I remember when my husband and I kissed for the first time, it was great, but I didn't feel the same way afterward as I did with this guy. I don't know how to feel. I'm exceptionally good at reading people, and I can tell that when he told me he has feelings for me, that he means it. And I can't help but feel drawn to him. What do I do?

So my wife ''found Jesus'' and is nagging me day and night to go to church.

asking because my ex-husband wants to get back together