My Mom and dad always fight, my mom wants to divorce, but they wont because they want me to be happy. I don t know know what to do anymore should I just commit suicide

My wife's and my anniversary are coming up on Saturday, and I've already made arrangements to ship the kids off to her parents. I'm going to give her a pearl necklace, because she loves them, but I'm also going to make her dinner, steak, lobster, and potatoes, all her favorites. I was also going to make shrimp cocktail, so would a tossed salad be too much with a meal that size? Please and thank you in advance. God bless.

I never did anything to her but for some reason she dislikes me and keeps moving my questions to ridiculous sections that have nothing to do with my question. She is behaving trollishly. Why doesn't this hag get a life? Why does she think she's in charge of Y!A? Does she have nothing better to do? No wonder her husband divorced her and her son is morbidly obese. Instead of being a good mother, she just tosses pizza and donuts at him while she wastes her time trolling and patrolling Y!A. Why don't you put more effort into your ghetto failing lodge??? Or how about you try to police your morbidly obese son's diet rather than try to police Y!A??? There are more important things you could be doing with your time.

I am 45 years old and work out 5 days a week. I also do yoga, meditation, and reiki. These practices keep me spiritually balanced, stress free and thus wrinkle free and glowing. I'm looking for a wife who is also youthful looking for her age and is spiritual like me. :)

We don't communicate in the same page and I am losing patience with him. Somehow, he manages to turn things around and I end end feeling upset. We haven't had sex in many months due to his ED, yet, he looks at porn sometimes because he "needs a release" and feels insecure about his ED with me. I have to cosign for everything, including a loan on the church because he doesn't make enough income. I am not getting my needs met in any capacity and have gained over 40 pounds. I know this is brief in detail, but, I am having a hard time expressing what I am feeling right now.

I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half and i have an 8 year old son. Ive met my boyfriend's parents several times but my boyfriend want his parents to meet my son. Now my boyfriend has tried to do this a few times but his parents cancel for one reason or another. And most recently his father said he hopes he meets a good woman at a wedding (a wedding i obviously went with him to) so now its xmas and his parents want my son to come and o have zero interest but my boyfriend is hurt by my 'no'....what are your thoughts? Ive been divorced for 6 years and this is my first serious relationship and the first time a man has been involved in my son's life,so im at a loss.... (my son's father and stepmom are very much involved in my son's life in case anyone is wondering)

My husbands brother in law (his sisters husband) constantly text him even 5 minutes telling him to come over and drink. He knows I don't approve of drinking and my husband just doesn't reply because a few months ago when he did reply he'd fall into his families peer pressure and done bad things I have forgave him for. Well even when we tell the brother in law werequires busy he responds to my husband he is dumb and he's a pussy and just calls him names over and over and harasses us both. He won't say say anything back or ask him to stop because he doesn't wanna do anything to upset his family but it botherseems me a lot for many reasons but he doesn't want me to say anything either but we can never just have a good time without this brother in law ruining it everyday. The story is much deeper than this but I need help.

The wife in question, and her husband of 11 years just announced their divorce. They have FOUR kids together. FOUR!! The first three kids are boys, and once she finally got her girl, she filed for divorce! She literally just used him as a sperm bank. He was such a good husband to her. He moved into her parents two family home because SHE wanted to be near her parents. He gave up his nice truck and took on more hours so that SHE could stay at home with the kids and they could just live off of his income (IT for a big insurance company). He literally gave her everything and she just kept popping out kids until she had a girl, which I guess he was okay with, but then seriously as soon as Mia was born she was like that's it, you need to go, my parents will help me with the kids I don't love you anymore. What do you think of her? She is my step-sister

I noticed that long hair is trendy on men now especially hair put into a man bun. I had long hair a few years ago and am thinking if I should grow it out long again? Will I have better success with women? My wicked ex wife hated my long hair and forced me to cut it but now I regret it. by the way, didn't I look like Jim Morrison with the long hair? He is my idol~!

A: Pay your ex spouse child support while you have the freedom of a single person to do whatever you want. B: Gain custody, receive child support and deal with the fact that you're a single parent taking responsibilities of kids while you have less time for your own things like single folks do. What life is easier after divorce, A or B?

Its the first time hes ever done it after 2 years of being rogether , its along story but to make it short he was angry because i went to dropp off a co worker at her house yesterday night after a secret santa we had and my car broke down , he was so angry when he got there that the first thing he did was slap me like two times and he was screming at me , i was so scared that i ran to knock on someones door for help .for the last like 2 months hes been accusing me of cheating on him, ( i have not) so he thought i went to go see a guy or something, ive realized hes insane , he apoligized and said he would vever do it again but i didnt believe that at all......and now my car is useless and i start a new job tomorrow and hes a acting as if nothing happened yesterday ....im still in shock and confused and scared i dont know what to do.......i feel like i have no one......

So I needed to use my mum's laptop for my studies. She just got it so she's completely new to the whole 'notification' thing. Apparently she had disabled 'notifications' for Facebook Messenger and because of that I could see on her laptop, whenever someone messaged her through that. After a while of studying and listening to music I got these notifications from this guy named Leo. They were explicit messages, like; 'I can't wait to hold you again,' and 'my wife doesn't like sex as much as I do' and 'you're the best I ever had'. I just found out about this today and as far as I know, I'm the only one who knows about it. I don't know what to do now, I really love both of my parents and I wouldn't want to break them up. But my father is a sweet man and he deserves to know the truth. Should I tell my dad about it and risk breaking them up, or should I let it go and have my father spend, possibly the rest of his life with the illusion my mum only loves him? Please help me.

She isn't working, she isn't in school, and she procrastinates. What do i do? We don't have any children together but she is pregnant and she has a daughter who's in school from 8-3. My wife isn't doing anything for her own self development and hasn't for over half a year straight but a total of about 2 years. I thought it was just a rough patch but it's the same **** and she feels sorry for herself and makes excuses. I'm about done with love. Not love in general but it was the only thing keeping me with her. I sacrificed a lot. We've only be married over a year and met in 2014. I'm 24 years old btw. I've been responsible for a 30 year old woman for too long and I just feel like she should want to do for herself as much as I want to. she told me her goals but I think she's just one of those people that says what sounds good but dosent do it which is why she procrastinates so damn mucb and it makes me MAD! I work, do online school, and manage the bills and finances. Her on the other hand.******* facebook or hanging out from 8-3. I don't know what she's doing but the house isn't clean when I get home. If I wasn't working or in school and my wife was picking up the slack, the house would be clean, food made, clothes folded ready for her shower, and an occasional thank you and I'm sorry I'm no help. But I'd make her see that I'm doing EVERY THING in my power to get right and contribute. My wife on the other hand gives excuses, forgets, doesn't work, and no school.

My now husband and i were dating and i got pregnant and he decided to marry me. I found out the whole time that he had been talking to me he was talking to another girl (ex gf)seriously(long distance only). My husband, called her after he found out i was pregnant to cut things off with her and told her he was marrying me. Should i be insulted. Does that mean he chose me over her, or wanted and now chose me only because i was pregnant. Or was he a jerk to her and mistreated her as well?

My wife seems to have this thing to where we are always suppose to keep snacks and things in the house for the kids. If I buy anything for myself to snack on she'll complain that I never think about anyone else but myself. I'll buy a box of cereal and stick it in a certain cabinet for myself but the minute she sees it she complains. However, she likes a certain brand of cereal and will buy it and put it in the cabinet for herself too. If anyone eats any of it she hits the roof. I love pistachios and will buy myself a big bag of them. They aren't cheap so I really do have a hard time sharing. Again, when I take "my money" and by "me" anything I don't care about anyone else in the house. If I stop at a gas station to get a soda or just something to drink I have to always think about everyone at home. "I wonder if they want something? I'll just buy everyone something just in case they're thirsty too." Oh, did I mention that the kids are now both 20 years old. One is in her second year of college and only home during breaks and one just graduated college with his AAS degree. They aren't kids anymore and can fend for themselves. Why does my wife think that these are still kids walking in the house from school looking to a couple of cookies and a juice box on the counter? These two can now cook for themselves. Am I wrong to not buy everyone something when I just buy me something? And at what age do you stop?

I came to Brazil to get cancer treatment and my husband came along. We stayed here and when we decided to return, I suffered a serious car accident. I stayed for 8 months in a wheelchair. Now I am using crutches but I can not walk much because of pain. Five days after the accident, my husband returned to England, and I was hospitalized for a month. I did not talk, I wore oxygen masks and went through several surgeries I m recovering from. He came back to restart his business and work. But since returning to his country, he has never helped me financially, claiming that he had already helped me and had lost the car in the accident. I can understood the situation for a while, but when I did not even have diapers to use and was depending on other people s kindness to have a minimum of help, I felt abandoned. We are married and one day we promised, for the best and the worst, and I would never leave him in another country in a hospital bed. I need your opinion, because he claims to be right, and tells me that I must work to earn even knowing my physical condition since I am still in the process of rehabilitation. I can not afford a decent treatment, sometimes I lack the basics to eat, I am under the care of my family who are poor and can not give me much. Christmas is coming and I have nothing other than some cents on my walet , I did coment to him and his answer was stormy telling me to work. Is that right and normal from a husband? Am I wrong to ask his help and support?

we just married , but we didn't share our life experiences yet

I haven't had much of a sex drive for like 2 to 3 years now.he will gripe at me and say I never iniate sex which I don't.I had tried for years until this time frame and pretty much had just given up because he just never got it and now I usually don't because I am just not interested in sex like I used to be.the only thing I pretty much do is I will cuddle more with him in bed when I am willing to have sex because I don't want him to think I don't love him.I will try to give in to sex at least once week so he knows that I still care about him.He still will gripe sometimes asking why we can't have it more often then once a week.I try to explain to him that we have had two kids and I just don't usually have the energy.The only time it isn't once a week is when I get my period. Thing is even when we were dating we didn't have sex every week, it was maybe once a month if that because we both worked different shifts.It is confusing to me because I don't know if it really bothers him that much.He will complain but I thought if men complained about it then it meant no affection and no attention.My husband is still affection and still does a lot of romantic stuff even though he claims he is aggravated with me over sex and he don't gripe at me everyday.It is maybe once every month or two he will ask me why I don't initiate sex but when we were dating and I did he would still ask me that.My question is do men really get that aggravated if their not getting sex as much?

Well I wrote a question about the same a few days back and received a lot of answers and felt my question wasn't that clear.So here is the answers for all the questions I received.Yes we both are young n I have a 6 month old.The sex was great before baby and after aswell but we just don't do it.Its awfully rare.He doesn't have a medical problem related to sex.I didn't gain as much weight during pregnancy.I fit in all my previous pregnancy clothes.I don't dress as well though as I don't have the time.But I try as much as I can.I do put in an effort to attract him,I try to flirt.But he doesn't want to do it.And no it's not all about sex like someone told.u feel awfully unwanted when the love of ur life,the man who wanted to touch u all the time doesn't even hold ur hand.No cuddling no love whatsoever.He says he loves me n all..And does tell am pretty but doesn't want to have sex.. Reasons reasons all the time.He can't be cheating on me,he's home on time n everything.Thats what confuses me.I don't know what's wrong.May be he just can't c me as his wife anymore and looks at me like a mother to his child.Any thoughts on that?

I hope some body mature and comfortable discussing couples relationships / sexuality could answer this question. My husband likes to "fantasize " / "role play" during sex that he let his best friend ****** me in my sleep once and that I'm pregnant with his baby. He thinks it's a hot fantasy. . I'm open minded to fantasies but this one just annoys the hell out of me and turns me off to the point that I don't want to have sex with him anymore because he will always bring it up even though I told him I don't like it cuz I think his best friend is gross and has an odd odor. Am I annoyed because I am actually 8 months pregnant, or because I wonder if my husband is bisexual for him ( well, could he be?).

I had asked my husband tonight if my vagina smells, and he replied with sometimes. This didn t bother me but what did bother me was that after I told him sometimes vaginas smell, it is natural. He says to me "no they don t I ve been around enough vaginas to know they don t smell" ... this is where it got me because I ve never asked about his sex life and I don t care about it. But it made me feel insecure and like I am lacking because because I can t live up to the good smell his past women have had. The worst part is he feels he said nothing wrong and I am being sensitive but I think otherwise, honestly I don t know if I m being too sensitive or what he said was actually wrong to say. I lost some confidence with his comment and I am scared for his to go down on me now because what if I stink?

I always make her feel she is the most attractive woman on Earth that she seems she gave up the thought she needs to loose weight forever. How can I let her know she needs to loose weight without hurting her feelings?

My husband of 6 years jst told me he flirts asked him to give me an example he said he once told an ex neighbour of his her legs looked nice when he bumped into her in a pub 5 years ago, I think this is unacceptable, he never says anything like that to me or intiates sex and also suffers from ED. Should I be worried as he didnt tell me this about the neighbour before, what else hasn't he told me?

He is harassing every single night he comes ringing door bell and harassing dogs to bark . I affraid of him and my kids too we live in rented home and i pay rent from my own money so not shared anything with him. Reason i threw him out because he wanted to stop working ( drop out of the job and be at home and he caused problems at work ). He doesnt look after his hygiene he is always dirty smelly, he is addicted to porn and also he abuses one of my dogs as my youngest pup he is affraid of him as he hit him and did other harm even infront of me so thats the reason i feel in danger. Is there any way i could get help ? My ex its homeless he even refused to learn english language during 2 years living with me . Me and my kids feel scared and he is manipulating through messages one my kids that he loves me etc.

we have 5 kids together and i love her but i love young women better so i went on vacation to japan and found this hotel ( that i was in for a week ) this hotel or place is amazing idk what its called but i bought a package and i could literally live with 5 prostistutes and i bang them the whole week yes i visited some sites but these whores cook and **** u what more do you need well my wife tracked me down somehow and caught me she is disgusted what can i do to make it up to her she said because she doesn't want our kids in a broken home she would stay with me but what can i do for her jade i love her though wouldn't it be hard for little ones plus now I'm getting help with my sex addiction

Do you think my husband will forgive me anytime soon?