will say that you are not capable of defending yourself so how can you defend your children too? On the other hand, if you do fight back then you are thrown in jail for doestic violence and CPS still gets the kids....What is going on here?? Do I smell a crooked system? My sister was abused for years, when she finally came forward, they made her out to be the criminal, took her children, and never gave them back....why???? CPS is a tax run child thief organization who just need heads to count. I think we should abolish CPS and get our lost children back......

okay old women are equally as guilty of staring creepily at young women the same way predatory men do. ITS SO ANNOYING AND I WANT TO SCREAM AT THEM. why the heck are u staring at me? do u need my attention? i will look back at them in hopes of them getting the social que to look away BUT THEY DONT. WHY DO OLD LADIES DO THIS?

 Im 32, she is 35, ive been with her for 3 months. The past month I ve been having an issue sometimes in bed keeping it hard, but always satisfy her before were done. She feels it s because I m not into her. At my Christmas party I invited her, she had 5 shots of tequila and was talking to people whatever having a good time. I come in from a smoke break, and a guy goes "you need to get her under control, she is asking said guy and another woman to have a 3some... not involving me. So eventually I m able to get her drunk a** to leave, she puked in my truck. Next day she didn t even realize what she did. Then said she was mad about my thing not staying hard and maybe she was just seeing if she was wanted? To see if people still thought she was pretty? And says she would never cheat on me. But doesn t the truth come out when your drunk? Does she really want to just be with 2 random people?

My boyfriend bought me a gorgeous diamond bracelet with matching earrings and necklace. One thing he forgot was that he put the receipt with the gift. For the bracelet, necklace and earrings costed him $3500. I feel that is too much. I gave him a golf course package for $650 plus new golf clubs and balls for $600, but $3500 is too much. Should I give the gift back? He said I should look for something small under the tree at Christmas. I thought what more could you spend on me at this point. I'm kind of getting concerned. He's spoiling me like crazy. Don't get me wrong the gift is beautiful but what more could he buy me.

I was on a business trip for several months. We see each other like twice a year and confide on one another I'm keeping my distance (physically) because she's married. Does it mean she missed me or she likes me?

If I wear my snow boots to have sex with my husband....He said it would be sexy if you was naked in only snow boots. I told him I do wear my snow boots.... my vest. He said, well you're husband is so lucky. Do you think he crossed th line, his gf works with us.

I am 29 years old and ever since I was about 18 years old I have told numerous lies and done things I have regretted most of my life now. I m genuinely a nice guy and care alot. I have a great girlfriend who I genuinely love and have been with foe a year and a half now but I have been living with some inner demons which I m having a hard time getting past and doing the right things. I m telling lies to my girlfriend that I am constantly having to cover up..I hate doing that and honestly I don t want to lie but I ve told them already and find that I have to tell others in order to cover them up and so basically I always have to think about what lie I have to cover up next. I don t have a job now and the reason was because I m a cook. I ve been cooking for about 10 years now and really did love it. But over the past years I have seen the food industry as a different view and slowly started to become disinterested in it and so I quit my job without having another job set up. But the problem is I don t want to cook food anymore. I want to do something else. I don t make enough money in the industry and barely any appreciation instead I get yelled at and such. Not a nice job environment. So I have of course been lying to my girlfriend about that. I barely have any money left. So I m completely stressed out about that. Long story short I have alot of problems and I really just want to be a good person. I don t want to lie anymore. I just want to fix my life.

My partner has things her ex gave her from years ago ?

Hola que tal, me gustaría escuchar un punto de vista diferente al de las personas cercanas a mí (porque todas coinciden en lo mismo jeje)... Tuve una relación de 8 meses y hace 1 mes terminó, en dos ocasiones el quiso dejar la relación porque se sentía presionado con su vida, después xq quería algo mas casual... etc. En cada una d estas ocasiones YO lo convencía para que siguieramos y él al final aceptaba; al final volvio a decir lo mismo y en esta ocasión dije q terminaramos... A la 2da y 3er semana me manda mensaje de hola como estas? como te va? y la semana pasada fue a una clase donde sabia que concidiriamos, no me saludo ni se acerco pero me dijeron que lo vieron muy desmejorado físicamente y eso me preocupo... Creen que solo esta jugando conmigo? Debo dejar de insistir? Buscarlo? Agradecería cualquier punto de vista que puedan darme... Saludos!

so iam in a land full of domestic horses filming them . some of them run away when the see me some the come close and smell my cameras and bag and leave .so i kept my distance and film them from very good angel no problem so far . after a while one of them come toward me i didnt move at first then he start smeling me for short while and made noises with its lips i walk away (2 meter ) and start filming again and then he run to me like he wants to attack me or something . so i run and make longer distance and then he stoped following me . what this could mean? does horses attack people .

The marriage would likely be ruined and the man kicked onto the streets because he s retired on disabiloty and the wife is the only one working at the moment so... And the excuse he gave is along the lines of "she s difficult to deal with "

The sandwich maker, a woman in her fifties, kinda weathered but still "do-able" was being super nice to me today. When I got back to my office I noticed she put in an extra order of cookies. She works in one of those Subways attached to a gas-station. Really slow. Think she is bored?

My ex and I were both granted joint custody of our daughter 7 years ago (it was made before she entered school) The ex was put in charge of education decisions and is the enrolling parent (their school district) Also in the text "each parent shall make the routine, day-to-day decisions when *child* is with that parent" Now, how does she get home from school? Ex wants bus stop pickups meaning I would have to drive to pick up from their neighborhood. The papers say nothing about school, they only talk about the weekly exchange which we changed a few years back for convenience. Also that exchange was a mutual meeting place in the middle not in ones neighborhood. To me this feels like more of a day to day decision than an education one. Am I wrong?

I hope someone reads this. My sister in law moved in with a man who could be her father after only knowing him a week. We have come to learn he is a child/woman abuser. She has 2 children 3 and under and completely cut herself off from everyone. Thinks she can't come back home, won't let anyone see the children. Said that her youngest,2, started pulling his hair out so she shaved it off and that "a snowboard fell on him and bruised his face" we are all concerned and I want to know if this sounds like abuse?? Please someone help

I have been engaged to my boyfriend for 5 months now. Now I got pregnant, which is a wonder itself, since I was told I am infertile.My fiancee wasn't so happy about it and believes I was lying about my infertility but has now accepted it.Now we have another issue:He wants to give the child his family name, I want to give it mine. The thing is, I am the last of my family line and I love my rare name. It would die out with me. Can he force me to give the baby his name?

Do you have any gift idea for a couple .. thxx

I and my gf broke up like 2 weeks ago and she's already dating someone else. I broke up with her because i suffer from deppression and as well I am bipolar,my girlfriend couldn't really understand it she kinda laughed it off and it hurted my feelings,I know because of my mood swings it's difficult to date someone like me because of me we argued a lot and i felt like our relationships became toxic so that's why I broke up with her because i did not want to hurt her anymore. Yet we were speaking this friday and i asked her does she has feelings for me and she said yes she still loves me,but i don't get why she's already dating someone. However I'm trying not to contact her I deleted her from my fb and other contacts but still I'm checking her profiles like idk im addicted to her because for 1 year of our realtionships she was my world,I don;t have friends so it's hard for me to get over her tbh i have no idea what to do,at work I'm hiding in toilet so i can cry for a while because pain is soo big that realising she;s not part of my life anymore at nights i can't sleep i'm waiting from her any msg but at the same time i knwo i won't get any. All i do is feeling sad and dead inside all the time i'm trying to focus on my work because that's all what i have

I loved her with every bit of me, so it makes my blood boil to think she could be so selfish to ruin us like this. I am not ready nor have the desire to be a father and she knows that. I just want to disappear and never hear or see from her again, what do I do?

Yes, I am in agreement that this was wrong. I feel really bad and like I owe my exbf an apology. I took his virginity and then used his dick size (saying it was too small) to break up with him... 5+ years ago. Now I feel bad and am stuck dwelling on what a horrible thing I did. My husband cannot even believe I was that cruel (yes I talked to him about what happened.) Is there ever away to apologize? It literally was a lie I told him as he kept begging to not break up. But now I see how damaging that must have been. :/

Because we were in our father's testicles when he was born.

I will start with this: he is the one. I know that he is. Of everyone on planet Earth, he is the one. We've been together since we were in our early teen years, but his parents hate me. (Mine don't like him, but only because of his weight, they do like his personality.) They banned him from seeing or speaking to me ever again because they found out that he had sexual interest in me (although we don't want to do anything before marriage.) They've believed that he has followed that for years. I'm in the middle of a transition (FTM) and I just want them to like me. I can't have two families to escape from, even though he makes it all worth it. Should I just get to know them and let them know me after transition and tell them later on when it comes up? Help!

This guy I liked used to work with me. Others at work could tell he did by the way he acted around me and treated me. One day I was talking to him and I brought up the subject of his wife. When I did he changed the subject very quickly and was very hesitant in talking about her. He even rolled his eyes. So I didn't talk about her again. A few months after that they hired a new girl that treated me like crap because she knew I liked him and he liked me and she liked him. We went to the back room and discussed how I felt she treated me by giving me all the dirty work to do while she had the easy way out. and also how she lied etc. During that talk he brought up the facthow his wife liked to remind him of all the mistakes hes made in the 18 years hes been married. During that he seemed again hesitant and had uneasy chuckles when mentioning her. He would also not take his eyes off me. He left recently and got another better job. When he toldme he was leaving he told me he would see me again because his kids like to come to the mall and so does she. Again was hesitant about mentioning it. He did come in a few days ago without her &wouldn't mention her again and avoided me unless I was around someone. Somebody said that he seemed to be searching for someone in particular when he came in. So what do you think it means?

Hola amigos, lo que pasa es que me siento muy vacio por dentro, tengo mi novia la cual llevo con ella ya casi 4 años. Estuve bien con ella, pero luego se volvio muy posesiva, me celaba de todo, hasta perdí algunas amigas por su celos. Cada vez que ella quería imponerme algo, empezabamos a discutir, reprochaba mis origenes humildes, se burlaba de mis amistades no aguantaba más y la golpeaba, Esas cosas siempre terminaban así, nos peleabamos, la golpeaba pero nos reconciliabamos. Me empecé a aburrir de ella y busqué chicas por internet o viejas amistades, me desaparecía un fin de semana y me acostaba con quien podía, o si no me emborrachaba y drogaba con cualquier falso amigo de juerga, cuando revisaba mi celular tenía como 500 llamadas perdidas de ella, esa era mi rutina de siempre, cada vez tenía menos amigos, porque sabían lo posesiva y celosa que era ella, por ende no me tomaban en cuenta. Pasó el tiempo y gracias a ella conseguí un buen trabajo, a pesar que nunca fui muy aplicado, trabajo con un familiar de ella que es gerente de una empresa, tengo un buen sueldo comparado a mis amigos de la universidad. Siento que dependo de ella, aunque aun sigue con sus celos enfermizos, me he acostumbrado, ya casi no tengo amigos por su culpa, me autodestruyo con alcohol, drogas, medio sueldo me lo gasto en eso y prostitutas, pero que más voy hacer pienso, no la amo, pero he conseguido mucho con ella, tengo mi futuro garantizado, estoy más amarrado a ella.

I was about 2 months from turning 18 when I moved away from my mom's house to live with my dad in New York. It was a lot of fighting going on & I decided to leave after the cops were called on me. She expected me to get back into school once I reached New York, but I was so uncomfortable & just couldn't adjust to the move. I tried to come to an agreement with her about going through a diploma program, but it just did not work out. I did not want to stay with my dad so I decided to pack up all my things and book a flight back home & rent a room with me & my girlfriend. I contacted the local police department & they said I'm free to do whatever at 17. My mom just texted me not to long ago, and said that I can come back home whenever I want. She is a strong believer in education. It looks like she is coming to an agreement with school. I already made this move with my girlfriend & I haven't even lived here for a month yet... What should I do? I will be saving some money if I move back in with my mother but I rather stay away from her so there is less arguing & fighting. I am two weeks from turning 18. Any advice would really be appreciated!

having a hot Cosby with my friend at work! HELP!!!!!

We've met online became close friends fairly quickly. Stayed in touch via chat, text and only video chat a few times this whole year. We both truly care for each other and check up on one another. We are always there for each other for emotional support and encourgment. She and I talked about a possiable relationship but we want to spend time together in person to see if we have potential.

Ok, so this guy was my brothers and I childfriend. About 5 years ago when he and my brother were 13 or 14. This guys was staying at our house. My brother was sleeping on the couch and woke up to the guy zipping down my brothers pants. Obviously my brother freaked out and made him leave, rightfully so. A couple years later he broke into a kids house and attempted to molest him. When the kid resisted the guy got mad, broke some of his stuff and left. A few months after that he made a fake fb account pretending to be an attractive women. He asked me and a few other friends for body pics. He did this about 2 other times. Each time everyone knew it was him. Fast forward to now. He messages me on fb with a friendly message. I response just to see what he has to say. He's being extremely nice and I've had a couple people tell me he's changed a lot, but honestly I don't care. He tried to molest my brother and he's never apologized for that. He could at least apologize to me for being a pervert on fb. I was just gonna start ignoring him. Should I?

Okay so I am 13 and I was in instagram and I was looking at my followers then i was looking at their followers and then i saw someone posted a Fat man naked touching a little girl naked. I reported it but I can't unsee it. It is affecting my performance in school kind of and My friends don't want to talk to me anymore

I am 22 and I swear that everyone in the south is posting pregnancy announcements and they are all between ages 19-24. They get mad when someone says that having a baby at 19 is young but yet most of them sont have stable incomes but they will say "babies are cute anyways. " so a cute baby is more important than providing for the baby? I can't believe that these people would rather have a baby than to get a degree. I think schools need to teach kids the facts about birth control and etc.

I'm 26 I have a ex teacher I had back in middle school hes ways complimenting me and stares at me ..used to stare at me in class one day he sent me a message told me how lucky of a guy my husband is and how beautiful I was ...is this a compliment ? Then he told me how his dad got with a woman who was 20 yeaes younger than he was ans how he bet it was a good gift better than the cake and gifts combined and for some reason I felt he ment that towards me bc he is 20 yrs older than me lol id say but anyways am I reading too much into it?

Hi I m a junior in high school and so is my girlfriend. We are 16 and have been dating for 6 months. Bassically to sum up the situation a teacher added my girlfriend on Snapchat. He s 28, young, has a wife and a kid on the way, and everyone likes him cause he s really nice. Last week though he messaged my girlfriend on snap and was making really strong sexual hints and advancements that he wants My girlfriend to give him a handjob. He was sending emojis like this 🍆✊🏼 And was asking her to "wax his dolphin". He kept asking if she understood what he wanted and it was very clear he was being sexual and disgusting. My girlfriend does not wanna tell anyone and I do. She keeps saying it s her deal and she wants to forget about it. I want to report this piece of **** but she won t let me. She told me that if I have any respect for her as a person, I won t tell anyone and if I do she will lose trust and respect for me. (Bassically she won t like me anymore) I can t decide whether respecting what she wants or telling someone shows that I love and care about her. Every bone in my body wants to tell someone but the only thing stopping me is that she lol hate me. It s clearly affecting our relationship and we have fought everyday for the past week and it s all rooted to this. I feel really upset she doesn t wanna do anything. Should I respect what she wants to do or tell someone? I bassically have to choose between my girlfriend and doing the right thing for her. Advice?

I like a girl that ran away from me, made short jokes (I'm 5'9" and taller than her) and joked with another guy about me liking her. Then she hooked up with this guy who was married who later came to me and said, "I ****** her and there's nothing you can do about it." Then it went south and she came to me complaining of this guy and upset I no longer cared. I did, but told her to get lost based on events. Within 5 months she found and married what seems like a nice guy and has already started a family. We once were friends, but this hurt so bad, (maybe selfish on my part) that I totally ghosted her, not even a hello or good morning. Since then, I have caught her crying to one of her girl friends about the ghosting. I didn't want anyone to be hurt,how can I make things ok?