Marriage & Divorce: Question: If he talks to me for hours and keeps making prolonged eye contact even when I look away why won't he make me his gf? |
- Question: If he talks to me for hours and keeps making prolonged eye contact even when I look away why won't he make me his gf?
- Question: My divorce is not final and Im purchasing a home and my ex will not sign a quit claim deed to exclude himself from any entitlement.?
- Question: I'm trying to file for a divorce on my own and I'm confused by the wording of a certain part of the paperwork.?
- Question: After affair 3 years ago I'm still insecure about my wife having another affair?
- Question: How can I best/better approach my husband about him being laid off?
- Question: My ex-wife wants our kids to call her new husband Dad?
- Question: I went through a miscarriage last month, my husband is not mourning, am I being irrational for being angry at that?
- Question: My ex is dating a married woman, do I contact the husband, or let the two of them caught and totally screwed?
- Question: Women don't genuinely love their husbands, right?
- Question: Marriage concillor help, please?
- Question: I hit my wife?
- Question: Would you be upset if your spouse got a Christmas gift for someone else?
- Question: I'm a happily married middle-aged man. A number of younger women flirt with me though. What is this about?
- Question: Who is smarter me or my friend. I stayed a virgin until marriage and never even kissed a man. I found a husband a few years before her.?
- Question: My husband strangled me, what should I do?
- Question: What is the point in marriage?
- Question: I found out my husband cheated on me while he was deployed. I am pregnant. Advice please?
- Question: If a woman is memorable, how does she look honestly? People Remember her easily even though she's not really interacting with them?
- Question: Is it ok to hug my co worker everyday?
- Question: Would you stay in a marriage if the love and was gone?
- Question: My Stepson's biological mother doesn't want him anymore. How can I help him see it's not his fault?
- Question: When is the husband a wife privilege not allowed?
- Question: Is the purpose of marriage to be dragged over to my mother in law's?
- Question: Husband keeps pressing me for a child - We lost our first born?
- Question: Ex won't leave me alone and he's married ?
- Question: Why doesn't my husband get it's annoying for him to tell me to exercise?
- Question: How bad did your fights get?
- Question: How do you continue when you are verbally beat down?
- Question: I have become distant and want to really show my wife that i love her?
- Question: I cheated on my wife last week?
- Question: Husband bought me a Christmas gift and I m thinking of returning it.?
- Question: Talking to my husband about having a baby TONIGHT! advise/ help would be great !?
- Question: My wife is gaining too much weight?
- Question: Women, how many of you would wear a mini skirt and high heels if your husband asked you to?
- Question: If a man and a woman get married should the man have to pay for everything in the relationship?
- Question: Why do people call being a SAHM a job?
- Question: One day I want a second wife, so what do I do?
- Question: Is it bad to wish for a Wife and Daughter for Christmas and a wonderful marriage that is build on trust?
- Question: Do you regret getting married early or too young? If so why?
- Question: Do you ever regret your husbands Vasectomy?
- Question: Am I sacrificing too much for my marriage?
- Question: Wife made mistake during party?
- Question: I"m a married women having a lesbian affair?
- Question: Am I being selfish?
- Question: What do i buy my wife for christmas?
- Question: Is it abuse if I put my hand in my husband's face and he hits my hand down?
- Question: Feel like marriage is falling apart. Advice?
- Question: Was I wrong for getting bad at my husband?
- Question: I'm interested in getting an Indian mail order bride?
- Question: How do I tell my wife her sister is pregnant with my baby?
- Question: Can you love someone and constantly cheat on them?
- Question: My husband will not acknowledge Mother's Day for me b/c my child is not biologically his.?
- Question: Husband wont acknowledge anniversaries or Holidays?
- Question: My husband hurt my feelings and he's angry at me?
- Question: My wife and I separated last week; today is our tenth anniversary - should I acknowledge this?
- Question: Married Couples: Do your in-laws acknowledge your birthday?
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| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 08:23 PM PST It says: The following child(ren) was/were born of adopted of this marriage. Does this mean any children you adopted or any children you have from the marriage? I feel like I'm making it more confusing than what it is and I don't want to mess up my paperwork and have to redo it. |
| Question: After affair 3 years ago I'm still insecure about my wife having another affair? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:59 PM PST But she really does not want a divorce and I've become a extremely jealous person over the last 3 years as well how do I get rid of these problems |
| Question: How can I best/better approach my husband about him being laid off? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:30 PM PST My husband works in a union and he's been laid off for 5 months now. He has been told business is slow. He's been with the company for 3 years. His unemployment only has a few months left of it. He gets laid off often from this job, along with everyone else, but it's usually just a week at most, then back to work. This is the longest it's been. He has poor work ethic. He's lived at home since 30. He has barely worked and what jobs he has had were very easy and paid little/few hours and years of not working. He is "being patient" while I don't believe he has time for patience. He's not living at home with mom anymore to ease up on the rent while things are slow. He's a married man now and he's got a car bill, student and government loans (it is "our debt" but I am debt free). We spend money on nothing extra. There's no expense to cut. I am scared because of lots of reasons you can imagine- insurance, the car bill, I can't pay for his "half," I simply don't make enough. He won't listen to me and I try to calmly approach. I think he should look for another job because that can take time. And if he's back at work he can still be laid off and not enough unemployment left until the next term. |
| Question: My ex-wife wants our kids to call her new husband Dad? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:20 PM PST My ex-wife and I have been divorced for about 3 years. She started dating a friend of mines and now she is getting married to him. So my ex wife and I work in the same company and she pulls me aside and says that she expects of our daughters to call her new husband daddy. My children has has one father and that's me. I told her that I didn't appreciate that and I would never allow our daughters to call my wife mom. She thinks I'm taking this way to far. I have every right to be upset. I raised those kids not him. Has anyone else had a situation like this? I'm I taking it too far? Why would my ex allow something like that? Our daughters are 20,5 and 7. Our oldest is an adult so I not worried about. Just my youngest who could easily be influenced. |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:16 PM PST He wasn't thrilled at becoming a father. We have been married for a little over a year now and wanted to enjoy the married without children for a little longer, since we are only 25. We are both financially secured btw. Anyways, we found out I was expecting and he became really distant. At 10 weeks, I lost our child and he wasn't upset. He said it wasn't a baby yet and a bunch of cells to him. I am really upset and I feel so alone on this. He makes me feel like crying over it was wrong. Please I need comforting and advice. |
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| Question: Women don't genuinely love their husbands, right? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 05:59 PM PST Women love more about what a man can bring them as far as status, right? And when a woman is shopping around her wares trying to get a long-term security interest (a man), does the woman at least think "maybe I can learn to love him someday"? Does that ever enter the mind of a woman who is shopping it around? Because let's be honest, 99% of women do not love their husband. Surely not in the same way as a man desires to feel loved. But men are supposed to love their wife in the way a woman desires to feel loved, right? That kind of sounds like marriages are doomed to the flip of a coin, right? |
| Question: Marriage concillor help, please? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 05:41 PM PST DocterSLexi, please and thank you. |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 04:48 PM PST Yesterday my wife and I were arguing and she called me a robber because I was asking my brother about his financial situation and I punched her in the arm, called her ugly and threw her shoes out in the rain. She thinks she's too beautiful. She's now giving me the silent treatment. What should I do? |
| Question: Would you be upset if your spouse got a Christmas gift for someone else? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 03:59 PM PST I bought a card and a gift for somebody else, but haven't said anything to my husband. But I didn't tell him. Should I? |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 03:47 PM PST Is it just for fun? Do they find me attractive? Would they be interested if I wasn't married? Is it possible that they want to have an affair? I wouldn't go there but I do wonder. by younger, i'm referring to women in their twenties and thirties. i'm like twenty-five years older than some of these women. |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 03:31 PM PST She slept around and finally found a husband? |
| Question: My husband strangled me, what should I do? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 03:28 PM PST my husband(22) strangled me(21) the other night. we have been married for 1.5 years now, i am also a man so we are gay, obviously. we have been in a romantic relationship for over three years now. We got into a pretty big argument the other night, over something his mother said to him. we were drinking but we didn't have THAT much to drink. He kept instigating me and i got really frustrated and kicked him, but not hard. a little pansy kick on the hand. he then slowly got on top of me while say "oh..." and then immediately put his hands around my neck and applied all his pressure. for at least ten seconds. I thought he was going to kill me. i got him off of me, and started screaming and crying. he then threw me back onto the bed and started doing it again. he later told me that he did it the second time so that nobody would hear me scream. I don't know what to do. I keep reading online that he's now much more likely to murder me, and I'm scared. He's also in the military, and I didn't want to call the police because that would ruin his career. I still love him but I'm scared of him now. I get scared every time that we argue now. He's never done anything like this before and I'm so sad that I'm in this situation now. I just don't know what to do. I'm completely lost. Any advice would be great. |
| Question: What is the point in marriage? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 03:16 PM PST It's just a ring, and a piece of paper. Most people cheat on their wives/husbands, so it can't be that serious to them. Honestly I don't see the point. What about everyone else? |
| Question: I found out my husband cheated on me while he was deployed. I am pregnant. Advice please? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 03:03 PM PST My husband came home from deployment four months ago. I found out three weeks ago that I'm pregnant with our first child. Today he confessed to me that he had sex with a woman he works with while he was deployed. Apparently it was just a one-time thing and it'll never happen again. I am very against cheating and always told him I would get a divorce if he ever did cheat. Now that I'm pregnant though I am so scared of the thought of going through pregnancy and parenting by myself and I just don't know what to do. My husband is begging me not to divorce him but I feel very betrayed and can't even look at him without crying and getting upset. The trust is gone. I personally would never get an abortion, so please don't recommend that. I am a dental hygienist and make good money on my own, so I'm not scared about not being able to afford a baby, just scared of the idea of being a single mom. Does anyone have any sort of advice as to what I should do? Should I get a divorce and move back home, or try to make it work with him? I haven't told any family or friends yet and I don't know where else to look for advice, so I'm hoping that for now someone on here will have some good advice. I don't want to jeopardize his career in the army over our marital issues. Do you agree with that, or disagree? Thank you. I'm 25... I am not sure why that is relevant? |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 02:32 PM PST Just from her look |
| Question: Is it ok to hug my co worker everyday? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 02:26 PM PST We get along really well. But I'm married and he is single. We leave together most everyday and we give each other a hug when we say bye. But I think some of our co workers think we are sleeping together. |
| Question: Would you stay in a marriage if the love and was gone? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 01:58 PM PST We have been married over 25 years, two grown kids, a house, cars, money in the bank and a good retirement plan. We get along with each other most of the time and faithful as far as I know but the true love is gone. We care about each other. When you get a divorce you both walk away with less and have to start over at middle age. I am the female and I have been a stay at home wife and mother by both of our choice and I don't think I could find a job that would support me. He did threat to hit me the other day for the first time ever. I really have no where to go and I know from other people who have got divorce the person who walks out of the house first usually doesn't get the best deal in a divorce. I don't think he would talk about it. He gets angry fast. |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 01:58 PM PST I've been married to my Husband for 5 years. These past 5 years, my stepson's mom has been a really sh*tty mom. We have full custody, but would let her have every other weekend with him, and whenever she wanted. Unfortunately, when she would take him, she'd bring him to adult parties and lock him in the garage while she got drunk and partied. She's in her thirties by the way! She would also meet up with other guys for sex and she would screw them with him in the next room. She also locked him in the car when she went into this guy's job to flirt. We had to come pry her window down because it was in the middle of july. She doesn't have a job, has never helped us support her son, and has gone out of her way to hurt me and my husband (btw I was not the reason for their divorce, he caught her with over 13 guys! Completely serious!! She even tried to make him believe the child she concieved out of the affairs was his! He believed it til a DNA proved her lie. Shes bat sh*t crazy). Anyways, step sons mom recently decided she didn't want to take him every other weekend anymore because wants to go out to the bars and generally live like she never had kids. My stepson defends her and says "Maybe she just needs a break.". BUT SHE HARDLY HAS HIM AT ALL TO BEGIN WITH! She only gets him every other weekend but she needs a BREAK?! From what? Pretending to care? Please help me figure out how to make him feel better about this without my own anger of the situation seeping through... |
| Question: When is the husband a wife privilege not allowed? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 01:44 PM PST |
| Question: Is the purpose of marriage to be dragged over to my mother in law's? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 01:29 PM PST every freakin' weekend??! |
| Question: Husband keeps pressing me for a child - We lost our first born? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:12 AM PST so I'm not ready for trying for another child, I don't think I'll ever be. husband then told my Mom that he would find a girl who wants kids. I'm so confused and ready to give up on everything. Am I wrong here? |
| Question: Ex won't leave me alone and he's married ? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:31 AM PST I have tried to talk to his wife for 5 years. She does not communicate with me. Instead she tells our child things like: I am "weird" because I am single and have not had a good relationship in years. That if I am poor, they can buy things for the house (I am working full time and very well off). That I am also "not right" for sleeping in a robe, fully clothed and anyone who sleeps in a robe is "weird". Sometimes, I am tired from work and I really don't think it's anyone's business how I sleep over here. Could this be parental alienation or the start of it? They really have nothing to complain about and are trying anything to bash me. |
| Question: Why doesn't my husband get it's annoying for him to tell me to exercise? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:28 AM PST I'm busy with a 3 month old and he barely helps with her or household stuff. It drives me crazy when he tells me to workout! I barely have time to shower with a new baby. |
| Question: How bad did your fights get? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:19 AM PST Married people. I have just 5 months married. And i fight with my husband a lot. I just want to know some stories about how bad fights got with your partner? Was the first few months hard? Does this pass? What can I do? |
| Question: How do you continue when you are verbally beat down? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:17 AM PST I am in a verbally abusive (physical, emotional, and spiritual as well) but mostly verbal marriage. I have been verbally beat to where I am feeling completely worthless. Hes called me a *****, ugly, bald. Told me i dont do nothing even though i worked 45 hours per week up until i had my son then went right back to work 2 months later after getting criticized for taking naps and doing nothing. He had cursed me out many times. Told me no man would want you if it wasnt for me youd still be single. Called me a child. The list goes on. I want to overcome. But how?? |
| Question: I have become distant and want to really show my wife that i love her? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 08:16 AM PST |
| Question: I cheated on my wife last week? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 07:45 AM PST I know its bad, but what a rush. Do I tell my wife or take it to my grave? |
| Question: Husband bought me a Christmas gift and I m thinking of returning it.? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 07:33 AM PST My husband saved up all year to buy me an IPhone because I have wanted one for years. Money was fine at the time however now due to medical issues all of our savings are drained and this month we are having issues with the car, the fridge stopped working, among others. So I m thinking of returning the iPhone... just so I can manage to pay the mechanic. How so I explain this to him? I brought it up and he gets very upset and offended that I d consider it. It s not that I m ungrateful or don t want it. But I m okay with out the phone and even with out a gift on Christmas. My family s needs are far more important than it. |
| Question: Talking to my husband about having a baby TONIGHT! advise/ help would be great !? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 07:23 AM PST My husband and I have talked about having a child he has 2 from a previous relationship, he was the one who brought the subject up a year ago and said we would try in a year could save and me find a more kid friendly job. here it is a year later and I have been dropping hints trying to talk but I get nervous he says things like I don't want another one etc but he is always joking and said the same thing about marriage and we are now going on 3 years of marriage 6 years together, is he playing? since I clam up get nervous I wrote a detailed note why I know I want a child with him ,why I love him, thanking him ,reasons why I want to be a mom, my fears, its about 10 pages long voicing my wants and I even started with im writing this so everything comes out clear its not pushy at all not angry (im not the type) ive held this letter for almost two months. any suggestions? this is the only thing I feel like I cant just casually discuss with my husband... |
| Question: My wife is gaining too much weight? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:57 AM PST I love my wife, but she is packing on some serious weight. What is the best way to get her lazy butt of the couch. I don't want to have to divorce her, but this is getting extreme. Almost up to 150. |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:27 AM PST I noticed my wife will put on any clothes that I tell her - I have her dress hot for me when we are alone at home. Is this common? Or do most women give their husband the cold should since its 2016 and most women don't need a man these days? I am just curious regarding the dynamics of modern marriage. |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 05:31 AM PST Should he pay for all the dates, pay all the house bills, buy her any gift she wants and when they have kids he should be able to pay for Christmas and such? |
| Question: Why do people call being a SAHM a job? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 05:26 AM PST Honestly, I'm a SAHM and I hate that label. It's NOT a job. I would know. Before I had children, I worked. There are a good many differences. There's no job description. No handbook. No set schedule. Damn sure ain't any overtime. NO PAY. No leave. No vacation. No sick days. NO BENEFITS. No retirement/pension. No 401K. No stock options. No breaks. So, um... where's the job? Duty, I get. Obligation, I understand. Even "LIFETIME SENTENCE," as my father-in-law calls it, indeed! But, JOB? Sorry, but it just doesn't add up. All WORK isn't a job. Any of you ever mentor or volunteer? Exactly. A J-O-B is actually MUCH EASIER than being a SAHM. So, when my ****** hubby comes home, plants his rear on the sofa, and refuses to help me do ANYTHING because, apparently, everything home related is my "job," I let him know that "NO! I DO NOT HAVE A JOB. I DON'T GET PAID. NO SICK DAYS. NO VACATION TIME. NO BENEFITS. NO RETIREMENT. NO 401K. I gets none of that, so kindly get off your rump and help me with this WORK!" |
| Question: One day I want a second wife, so what do I do? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 05:23 AM PST I've been married to my wife for five years and we have two kids together. I have another kid with autism from a previous marriage. His mom died and he lives with relative because my wife said she's not taking care of him because I haven't been a good husband to her. She's right about that. I lied to her a lot at the beginning and I'm not affectionate or intimate and I keep a lot of secrets. I don't know why I'm like this, I just am. But i love her and also understand not wanting to raise a kid that's not yours because I played stepdad in my previous marriage and it sucks. So I really want to be a polygamist one day and my wife was cool with it at first but over time she acts like she might not want it. She has never said that but she's not proactive about us becoming polygamists and she always has an excuse for us not doing it YET, like we don't have a good enough relationship and we have bad communication and we never do anything or go anywhere. She said she doesn't want to invite someone into a family like ours. Well she has also said that if I find someone who would raise a special needs kid then that might work. I think it's messed up that she has all these excuses but now it might be OK if I find another woman to do what she doesn't want to do. I also feel she might try something tricky later like divorce me and tell the judge I'm a cheater or polygamist so she can keep our kids. |
| Posted: 13 Dec 2016 02:44 AM PST I have made this one wish for 38 years and sometimes i feel like because the world is so bad that i wont be able to ever find something like this |
| Question: Do you regret getting married early or too young? If so why? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 01:17 AM PST |
| Question: Do you ever regret your husbands Vasectomy? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 12:49 AM PST 8 years ago we both decided for my husband to get a Vasectomy while we were pregnant with our last baby. We have 3 wonderful boys 14, 11, and 8. It has been very nice not having to worry about having surprise pregnancies and children are expensive but sometimes I just really want one more. I always wanted a girl and thought what if we would have had a girl if we had another baby. My boys are getting so big its been really sad for me and sometimes I just wish I could go back and change it just to have one more. Does anyone else feel this way? |
| Question: Am I sacrificing too much for my marriage? Posted: 13 Dec 2016 12:14 AM PST |
| Question: Wife made mistake during party? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 10:49 PM PST We had a birthday party for our 4th child our baby girl Alicia who is!3. During the party I noticed my wife ask to be excused so I watched the kids while she used the bathroom or whatever. I needed to get diapers so I went to the bathroom and knocked and she quickly told me, "just a minute". Then as I walked away to check on the kids again I thought I heard a wet clapping sound coming from the bathroom. Idk why she would be clapping like that in the sink. Then I heard her start to sigh like she was about to cry so I knocked again and asked if everything is ok. That is when I realized what is really happening. The clapping got faster and faster and she kept moaning. She was banging a guy in the bathroom. I was shocked that my wife would do this at such a random time but I can understand why she would want to spice things up a bit. So I asked her friend Karen to watch the kids while I go check on my wife. Karen decided since she's her best friend that she needed to check on her too so we had steph watch the kids. I was nervous that steph would hear it and expose the secret so on the way to the bathroom I grabbed Karen's *** very hard to where she turned around. I then jammed my tongue down her throat as we started to make out and get closer. |
| Question: I"m a married women having a lesbian affair? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 08:08 PM PST I am 24 years old and I have been married to a man for 4 years. we have three kids. He's a good man and an excellent father, but I'm not in love with him anymore. I started having an affair about three months ago with a woman who is 38, and I don't know... it feels right, I think I'm in love with her. I tell my husband that I have to go out of town for business and I end up going to her house and spend the night, while he stays home and takes care of the kids. The sex is amazing, Like nothing I've ever felt before, and now I'm considering leaving my husband, but I don't want to hurt him. Its nothing he did, he's a fantastic lover, I just don't think I want it anymore. Also I'm worried that if I leave him, he'll try to keep my kids, but I know I'll want full custody. What should I do? |
| Posted: 12 Dec 2016 07:48 PM PST My husband & I have been married for 1 year, known each other for 3 years. Hes 26 Im 21, he is in the military and he is getting deployed to Japan JAN 9 for 1 whole year. I thought we would both go to his house for xmas. I want him close 2 family. *he has never taken me home.* His family has come out to visit us and I have met his family. he isclose to a big group of friends from back home I haven't met. I thought this year was the year we would have a wonderful xmas together with his family & I would meet his close friends. he let me know he had booked his ticket home & my heart dropped I pretended to be happy for him he said hed be be gone for 10 days later I ask him the days hed be gone & he said the 14-31st. that was more than 10 days. I got upset and told him how I felt and he said "ARE U SERIOUS GO F YOURSELF, YOURE SELFISH" he told me if he brought me home he wouldn't get the 1on1 time with his friends & family before he left to Japan, I don't have family here either so I will now be alone 4 xmas while he enjoys it with his family. When hes back I will only have 8 days before he goes. Imsad he didn't invite me to go home with him he said it is not the right time.. |
| Question: What do i buy my wife for christmas? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 07:45 PM PST |
| Question: Is it abuse if I put my hand in my husband's face and he hits my hand down? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 07:37 PM PST Earlier we were arguing and he was saying something that I didn't want to hear so I gave him the "talk to the hand" , putting my hand in his face and he hit my hand down. Is that abuse? |
| Question: Feel like marriage is falling apart. Advice? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 07:34 PM PST My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have a beautiful 14 month old and she's my whole world. My husband is an amazing father to some extent. He waits until I tell him to do something for her. For example, if he's holding her and I can see her diaper is full. He'll just ignore it instead of changing it. Until I tell him, that is. I feel that after we had our little girl, our marriage has gone so far down. I feel angry with him a lot of the time. We both work and we split the chores except when it comes to our daughter. I really feel like a single parent a lot of the time. I love him so much and seeing the lack of emotions between us kills me. He hasn't given me a compliment sence we had our daughter. My body doesn't look any different from before I was pregnant except for my stretch marks. I'm a small girl, I'm 5.1 and a size 0 in pants. I work out still and keep up with myself. And yet, he still doesn't seem interested. What can I do? I've tried talking to him and it doesn't seem to have gotten anywhere. I don't want out daughter to go back and forth... Advice/personal stories please. Thank you in advance <3 and I apologize for the long read. |
| Question: Was I wrong for getting bad at my husband? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 07:17 PM PST Our daughter bit my husband for the first time. She has four back teeth coming in so she's been chewing on everything. Well, she bit him and when she did he pushed her head back pretty fast and hard. I instantly grabbed her and comforted her. And got angry with him. I feel even though it hurt him, he should be able to control himself and know not to do that to her. I just want another opinion on this. |
| Question: I'm interested in getting an Indian mail order bride? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 06:47 PM PST I'm considering getting a South Asian mail order wife. I'm 20 now, joining te military soon. Should I wait until I get my life together? I have an interest in Bangladesh/Indian women. I heard that they don't exist anymore. Is this true? Is it basically now known as International dating? How do I go about the process? How does it work? Oh and I'm joining the Air Force, so I won't get as much as an opportunity to meet overseas women as much as being in the navy. |
| Question: How do I tell my wife her sister is pregnant with my baby? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 06:27 PM PST |
| Question: Can you love someone and constantly cheat on them? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 06:26 PM PST I know someone who's married and has cheated on his wife a few times in the past and has been having an affair with someone for a few months...but yet he says he loves his wife. Is even possible? |
| Question: My husband will not acknowledge Mother's Day for me b/c my child is not biologically his.? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 03:48 PM PST My husband feels he shouldn't have to acknowledge Mother's Day for me because my son is from my previous marriage. He feels because my son is not biologically his he shouldn't be expected to acknowledge it. Neither my son or I have a relationship with my ex-husband. |
| Question: Husband wont acknowledge anniversaries or Holidays? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 03:43 PM PST I am so frustrated with my husband.Yesterday was our 7 yr anniversary and i made him a good dinner his fav which i hardly make because its so time consuming and got him a card i had hand written.We had dinner,and he read the card even got a tear in his eye,said thank you and that was it.I got no card no words from his mouth nothing.This has been happening since the day we got together our first valentines together he didnt even tell me happy valentines day and his excuse was because his ex broke up with him on that day so he doesnt like it.BS! y first mothers day our newborn twins were still in nicu and i spent it alone at the nicu with them no phone call from him.last mothers day he took my kids to his mothers house left me alone all day long with the dog until 8pm at night.I got a card my girls had made on their own but i didnt get to see them till 8pm at night! He let me sleep in that day and when i woke up they were gone!and then there was yesterday just like evey other anniversary and holiday no acknowledgment.I have never missed a holiday or birthday or fathers day for him not once.even when short on money i always figure something out to make sure he knows how much we love and appreciate him.I am tired of putting so much effort in the day to day to please him,be a good wife and mother only to be forgotten every chance he gets.Worst part is when i get upset he acts like hes he one that deserves an apology!Am i overreacting?doing something wrong? |
| Question: My husband hurt my feelings and he's angry at me? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 03:41 PM PST My husband does this all the time and I am at a loss as to what to do. If he hurts my feelings for any reason-which happens quite a lot these days, or even if something else is upsetting me and I just want to talk with him he sits there completely silent, Doesn't get angry or acknowledge anything I've said, totally blows me off. He did something hurtful and I told him I felt bad about it. He got ANGRY and said he was going out. Never acknowledged anything. Here's the weird part. Whenever this happens, he will ignore me and give me the silent treatment for a few days. Then he will get up one morning and talk to me as usual, pretending like it never happened! Then when I don't act "normal" and just start talking to him, he wonders why I am acting like that! He never acknowledges my feelings and tries to act like everything is okay wondering why I'm acting like the bad guy! Nothing gets resolved, he never says he's sorry. Just acts like it is my fault for not letting it go. I am hurt about this behavior. How and why do I come off as the bad guy to him? How should I respond when he just starts talking like nothing ever happened? What shoud I say? We are not kids. He is 56. Second marriage. I am tired of this game. Oh by the way, he is the "nicest guy" to everyone else and no one would believe me if Iever said anything. My parents think he is wonderful! |
| Posted: 12 Dec 2016 03:40 PM PST Our marriage has been difficult for the last several years. The separation was mutual (I think) and led to my moving out. No one cheated (best of my knowledge) - a lot of disagreements. So, with today being our tenth anniversary, I am unsure how to handle the event. Given the circumstances, I think I am really limited to choosing between saying something or not saying something. What do you think? |
| Question: Married Couples: Do your in-laws acknowledge your birthday? Posted: 12 Dec 2016 03:37 PM PST My parents (who live on a fixed income) have always given a gift or sent money in a card to my husband for his birthday, but my husband's parents have never acknowledged mine. The drama capital of the world is wherever my in-laws are, so the lack of this acknowledgment truly doesn't bother me. Even my husband would prefer to be around my family than his own. I'm wondering why there is such a disparity. We have lived with, nearby and far away (1,600 miles) from both sets of our parents since we married, so physical distance is not a factor. My in-laws were thrilled when I married their son because his first wife was such a "manipulative flake." I'm told that I am much more stable, level-headed and reliable, and they could see that my husband and I made each other happy. His family celebrates the birthdays of my husband, his sisters (but not his sisters' spouses) and all the grandchildren. Why do you think this is? Is it the same way with your in-laws? |
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