he kinda introduced me to porn but it felt like I introduced him to porn I have no clue why I feel that why, I think around 8th grade I was slap with reality in that part in my life with him ? I guess , we where on a trip to Corpus Christi with his family and mine to visit or great grandmas we did touch each other but on the way back I was really thinking about how to end it but I was scared so when he wanted to touch me there , anywhere really I would flinch with out me knowing but just as a reflex I guess but he did stop and I moved closer to the door a few minutes later he asked if i was ok I said yes we didn't talk or he didn't touch me the rest of the way I was thinking about telling him but I told him I would want to stop he said it can wait until your in 8th grade I took it but I was scared all the time that his wasn't touching my sisters or brother I was scared to say no to him because I thought he would go touch them so I just let him touch me instead of them but later that year around Christmas when my family was at his house for a little get together I was in his room he closed the door he came closer to touch me then I told him how I felt about it all I told him I didn't want this to go on and how we never talked about the situation ever he just responded with okay then I left the room and it was so awkward then on and we still talk and we act like it never happened and I hate that I think I want closure of why he started it and why i let it happen

When I was I was 6 or 5 I was at my grandmas my cousin and I went to sleep over along with my 2 sisters, we were out in the front of the house playing with mud and we talked ,he said he loved me more than a cousin, I didn't under stand at the time what he meant I just said wow, later that night he said since I love you more that a cousin we can touch each other, I was no fully grasping his idea of how he understood what he was saying, I was still not to wordy when responding to him I said okay ,thats what I remember of how it started from then on he touched me when ever we went to our grandmas and when he came to my house, I remember being very confused a lot about the situation when I was around him and I was a little scared but I can say I was curious, and when he started to kiss me he would say I love you all the time I said I back without meaning , I never knew why I would continue to say it back to him but I like it,I hated that I like it I never said anything to anyone I was scared to but he never threatened me to not tell anyone, at 6 I think I was scared of him but I didn't want to suffer the consequences ,I was scared they would be so mad at me but I didn't know it wasn't my fault, some time later I first felt that I started to analyze that part of my life and kind of fear that part I was always scared if I didn't touch if and I didn't let him touch me he would hurt me, him and I talked about porn it was always so awkward between use I'm not surprise it was

I'm 15 and I was just assessed to see if I can still be homeschooled. The social worker said "no, it doesn't seem to suit me because I have no social life whatsoever". I have social anxiety and the worst self esteem issues. I only go out once a month (shopping centre with my mom) and don't have friends. Although, it seems easy to just tell me to join a club, personally it's hard to find something that suits me. I've tried so many things (swimming, basketball, hockey, football, soccer, horse riding, ballet, art club etc.) and I have completely lost the interest in doing anything. So how do I socialise so I can be allowed to continue being homeschooled?

Some the **** is childhood trauma others are like my insecurities but that's not even intimacy or is it ? I deal with depression everyone on this planet does

I was taking selfies of myself, but it was my face, not my body, and they told me to stop and change my fb name, they think I am a bad girl and my parents told me that there is a lot of crazy people out there. I am so, should I delete my fb account or block my mom on fb? I am safe on fb. What do I do?

What is trying to get at? Then she tells me that I would make a great husband.

Me and my girlfriend are on a break.. And in about a week from now we will meet and she will tell me if we will break up or stay together ..and we will probably break up.. i know we will..most chances that we will.. And I wanna be ready to what to do when we will break up..what do I say to her But my pargatic heart tells me we will get back toughther..because before we broke up things weren't good..they were amazing..we were so good toughther,,.people were shocked when I told them we are on a break.. So im not ready..I will be shocked too when she will want to break up..I cant convince myself we will break up lol! So anyway..I wanted to be ready And I wanted to tell her.. my mind tells me to say This.. Hey that ok..lets keep in touch You know not making a big deal out of a break up wich is probably right thing to do.. But they say go with your heart Be yourself.. I'm drowning..in so many thoughts,, My heart tells me to be myself to say to her how can you throw what we had?youll never have or see what we had again..and to tell much I love her and I can't see us breaking up like this and show her our photos toughther..and even show her my stupid yhaoo account..how much I say I love her on it and miss her..but that's wrong! That's needy af! that neediness is what made us go this way! i sireasly think that I need to go with the brain so the heart would be happy.. What I'm suppose to do is .to show her that My life dosnt depends on her.. I'm so confused so so much say something?

Hey there strangers, My girlfriend of four years (four mostly happy and close-knit years) decided we needed a break, meaning to her that we are each effectively single but will reevaluate after she gets some space. I tried to convince her today that we could work out whatever issues she has as a couple and this break would only hurt us, but she was adamant and I have to admit I just made myself look like an ***. Its driving me nuts though, between the loss of my partner and best friend and not knowing whether she'll invite me home in the next 48 hours or leave me for good. I can't sleep, because I'm not in our bed and wit her. I can't eat or drink or work... And I think a large part of it is being torn on what I'm planning for. I feel like an assurance one way or another, even from a stranger, would help me greatly. So some backstory- We met in highschool. She had every disorder on the books and I was raised to put others before yourself. She appreciated my help and we fell in love over a common interest in music and nerd culture. We grew up together and helped each other change our minds on important issues, and eventually moved in together and talked about plans of marriage and growing old together. Before we moved in together, though, she did this sort of thing for the first time. She said she needed a break, and space and to be alone for a while, and we went silent. After a day of that, though, she broke down and asked me to come back. We worked out the issues between us, and things have been peachy since. We have recurring, short fights every couple weeks or months about her falling through on plans we make. I want to spend time with her, so I'll suggest we do something at the house, and she'll agree, and then she'll make plans and do something else. When I tell her that this upsets me, she tells me I'm being controlling, especially when she's with her best friend who she's become extremely close to as of late. We had one of these fights and it got escalated when she repeatedly said she'd be home to talk about it day after day and never came home. When I expressed my frustration, she called me and said she needed space. I miss her so much, and we honestly were so happy together 99% of the time. She seemed to be genuinely in love with me, but now she won't even acknowledge that she has feelings for me- she's not sure. She thinks she only wanted me when she was needy and now doesn't know what she wants.. But she's not a good liar. When she looked at me and told me she wanted to spend her life with me, I know she meant it...will she come back? Apologies for the extra long question.

She has issues with not telling the whole truth..She said her Dr. is checking her for cancer and told her NEXT MONTH she should go for blood work. REALLY NEXT MONTH! Sounds off to me. Blood work would be done right away, right?

we aren't in a relationship bc I am going through a divorce but we have been sleeping together for 2 years on and off. Sometimes he will look me in the eyes when we have s e x and sometimes its like he purposely avoids eye contact completely. he acts concerned at times but others he just makes sure its nothing deep. he will comment about other men looking at me or explain to me things in his personal life to put me at ease but he refuses to admit he feels for me. When we have s e x he is VERY much into it but I cant read him

This guy would make fun of his wife's weight, that she always spent to much money and loved flirting with me. Also anytime he did mention her or felt obligated to mention her he seemed like he was disgusted to do so by rolling his eyes or changing the subject really fast. when he left his job he told me not to worry tht I would see him again. the way he treated me around the store people noticed he liked me too. so Why would he? when he left his job he told me not to worry tht I would see him agaim

Relationships

Me and my boyfriend broke up 4 months back. He broke up without any reason and kept telling his friends that hes lost interest when asked for the reason. It was only for 6 months we were together. Since the breakup i never tried to contact him nor did he. Recently on a sunday there was an engagement party in which even he was present. I expected him to ignore me instead he kept looking without rolling his eyes. He was so excited to see me but never came forward to speak. I dint make a move neither because he hurt me so badly in those break up days and I didn t feel like seeing his face. When his friend called him to speak to me without hesitation he came to me but I didn t speak to him. When i was leaving he saw me with that sad face. When his friend asked him again about the breakup that evening he again told them that he has lost interest but the way he behaved that day wasn t like he lost interest. Does he regret his decision? Will he come back?

I took my dog out during this while he was back inside packing more things and took his PS3 out of his car and hid it in my car. After he left, I brought it inside. I guess this was very petty revenge, I don't even play video games. Problem is a week later we got back together and he told me about the ps3 getting stolen. It's currently in a dresser drawer. What should i do, confess and give it back, keep it hidden, or sell it.

Hace algun tiempo mi marido me fue infiel, me fui terminamos, aunq volvimos siempre tengo la duda ya nunca volvio a ser igual. Yo lo amo y no lo quiero perder pero el ahora dice q con tantas peleas matesu amor y solo le queda bien poco, para mi q murio por completo, pues le digo q lo amo y dice q ya no quiere ilusionarse conmigo, q le de tiempo, no entiendo esa reaccion , para mi q no se atreve decirme q ya no me ama realmente. Q hago? deberia irme y dejar ya esto, es casa de su mama.

Im 19 and shes 18. We both work at this office and her desk is directly across from mine (our monitors pretty much against each other back to back) Anyway, shes kinda quiet and shy. Ive been here for a month so far and we've never really talked much, we both talk a lot with everyone else except each other. Its kinda like she avoids talking to me. Sometimes I'll see her look over at me or laugh at some jokes that I make. Today she had to train a new guy that sits right next to me and she thought they meant me and she just pulled her chair up and dropped her stuff right on my desk and said in a sassy way "Im sitting here now" and I was like oh ok lol and then when she found out it was the other guy, she was like "oh" When we had our beginning of shift team meeting, we had to introduce ourselves to the new hires, and when I introduced myself she didnt even turn around to look at me even though everyone else did and she did for everyone else. Also during the beginning of shift meeting we do new trivia every week just for fun and rewards, and this weeks questions is about people in the office, one question was "Whos the youngest agent?" and we were all trying to figure it out and instead of asking me directly, she asked the girl that sits right on the right of me "How old is Devin?" right Im sitting RIGHT there, and then I answer for her and she just looks over her computer and smiles. I'm pretty open and social when it comes to other people but Im overall a pretty quiet guy and very shy when it comes to girls. I personally avoid asking her questions or talking to her because I really like her, which is silly I know. Do you think that could be the case for her? Whats up with her? Also: my office is VERY social, people are always getting up and joking around and playing music, its not like one of those offices where everyone is quiet and dug into work.

So to start off. I was with this girl for 9 months and I broke up with her because I felt like I was in a box and she would get all insecure when I would photoshoot women and I love photography. So i broke up with her. I didn't want her to hold me back. So she goes back home to another state. (From Cali) and three months later we reconnect and she says she's coming back to visit and she wants to hang out so I say okay. And we kiss and things happened. But I would've preferred if they didn't. Too late tho right. So I move with her out of California and leave all my family and friends and even community college for her. After a week from seeing her. And I told my parents. And one day I just leave without saying goodbye. On the way there it was hard. My mom texting me why I didn't wait and that I had left a scar in her heart that was deep. I was very emotional because me and my mom where never super close. So I'm in the new state with her and doing jobs to jobs seeing what I like. I took out a 3,000 dollar loan for her. So she can get her stuff for the apt and stuff. I am so stressed out and I'm behind on my bills. And I really wanna just go back home I don't feel like I belong here. And I miss everyone back home. I'm about 5,000 dollars in debt. Is it wrong to break up with her and go back home. I do love her. But I felt like I should've waited to come here or thought it through more before I came. Thanks for hearing me out. Any ideas or advice on what I should do. ??

All they like to do is smoke weed. All day everyday. They re like almost never sober. And every time we get together we HAVE to have beer so they re always drinking too. Which is fine I like a beer now and again but I m over the constant drinking and pointless conversation. They both have kids which is fine too, I love them to death but I m the odd one out... I don t have a kid, I m not married and I don t smoke weed. I work 2 jobs, pay my way through school and they re just high all the time. My one friend goes to school but she isn t doing good and the other lives off the state. They re the same from HS only now they have kids. They re my best friends (I use loosely) and I feel like if I don t drink or smoke weed or have a kid I can t relate and I don t. I can t tolerate it anymore... now they re doing lines of xanax and I m over it! My dad was into drugs and alcohol and went to rehab when I was a kid so I feel sad for them. (He s okay now and remarried) but I won t stick around to see their kids live the same way.

I know it might sound like a 10 year old question. Yes I should probably pay for it and just forgive him which is a good thing to do. However, the gift from my mom was a $150 piece of camera equipment for my short film project. He played around with it while I was gone and had dropped it, snapping it in two. He laughed it off and to my memory, must've forgotten to apologize. I was very upset because I didn't even get to use it yet, and my project was coming up soon. I initially got mad at him and told him to pay for it but after he was so reluctant and realizing that it may have been a dick/selfish move, I asked him to just pay $60 and that I will pay the rest. I personally think I was too generous seeing that now I am paying for my own birthday present. And I'm not sure if this is too relevant for your answers, but his family is very wealthy and his father is a multi millionaire (that is not an assumption). Again, yes wealth won't really have much to do with it because it's more of a moral decision, but just wanted to put that out there just incase. Point is, it's not that he can't afford it. It's been a week since I kept asking him and he still hasn't given it back and I'm getting really impatient and wondering if I should give up and just pay for it myself. Thank you guys just wanted to make sure I wasn't being a dick.

My mom's half sisters would have been born in the 1970's. Their father would be Phillip or Philleman Fisher. I believe their names to be Jana and Jamie, twins. (Although I am not sure of the spelling of their name.) I believe my grandfather was married to a woman named Sandra at that time and this could be their mother. If you know anything about them please let me know. Also if you know how to find lost family members let me know! Thank you so much for your time!

I am desperately trying to be resourceful. Growing up with unspportive controlling parents, I am currently living with my grandparents in an alienated town and there is no bus line, I have no license and they always find excuses for me not to do consistent behind the wheel at least twice a week so I can take my drivers test. I am 23 years old and up until this age have had been called a child and not been allowed to attend college or leave because of location ans my mothers excuse being "I do not send children to college, they do this themselves." Currently looking into sugar daddys because my family lets me flounder and isolates me. Not that I care because I feel life as it is isnt worth the effort because my youth is being wasted. Im probably certain being a virgin will help with this. Otherwise I do not know what to do. I hate men and my life and I just wanted to be on my own or going to college or being able to live my adult life.

Initially we were talking a lot and getting along fine and we hung out several times, but then mid semester she would act like she did not want to be bothered with me. she would not speak to me for a week or a couple of weeks, but then out of the blue will start talking to me again. Even during the times when she does not speak I see her talk to her other friends. We get along fine and don't have any issues between us (she is a very nice person) and in the past I asked her if she was upset with me and she said no, it was a class that was making her stressed out. But every she is still kind of up and down with me, but talks to her other friends. How would you feel and how would you react to this?

I'm a mother of 3 boys.I've always wanted a daughter of my own,but because of some difficulties,I can't adopt one or give birth to one.My neighbor has a daughter and she visited me sometimes,because her mom is my friend.Everytime she visits me,I've grown attached to her and really do wish she's my daughter.At the same time i feel horrible for myself cause i can't produce an offspring.she's the cutest blondie i've ever met and i love her as my own.should i just try not to make it so obvious i'm a pathetic woman?

weve been dating for a few weeks now. yes. weeks. shes gotten very attached very quickly. part of that is my fault. shes never had a good relationship so i made it a point to be the perfect boyfriend for her. everything has been going great up until a party that her roommates threw the other night. she was drunk. i was twice as drunk and ontop of that i was higher than a kite. i cant remember most of the night. nor could i properly function. but i do remember some things. one of them was her constantly trying to get me to say that i love her. and asking me if i do. and another was what i later found out, after we had sex. which i was very upset when her roommate told me because i dont remember doing it and she knows that i am not ok with having drunk sex. much less when im completely incapacitated. her telling me that she loves me. i dont remember my reply and im scared that i said i love her back. because i dont. ever since that night ive been giving it so much thought and now its gotten to the point that not only am i not in love with her. but im not really happy around her either. i dont want to end the relationship because SHE seems so happy. i honestly have no idea what to do here. i know this is very confusing but i would appreciate some help. i know that she wants to ask me if i love her while im sober. i can read her like a book. and i have no idea what i would say. i definitely dont want to lie to her.

I go to this store and this guy is a store clerk and he stares and we always talk we get along really well. Anyways, we've talked about ten times. We've made very strong eye contact. For a while I didn't come into the store and he was so glad I came back in. He then gave me his number. He seems very nervous around me too. He seems very friendly and interesting. He is basically I guess you can say a stranger but we have talked a lot everytime I've been in. When should I text him? It's 7:30 pm now its going to be 8 soon, when do you think I should text him? Tomorrow or tonight? I don't want to look like I want to hook up or I'm desperate?

This guy would make fun of his wife's weight, that she always spent to much money and loved flirting with me. Also anytime he did mention her or felt obligated to mention her he seemed like he was disgusted to do so by rolling his eyes or changing the subject really fast. when he left his job he told me not to worry tht I would see him agaim Why would he? when he left his job he told me not to worry tht I would see him agaim

About a hour ago I rode with my dad to go pick up my mom at work. Since I just went for the ride and did not go in anyplace to be more comfortable I went barefoot and did not bring my shoes. I had shoes on all day at school and since I did not go in anyplace I did not want to put shoes on for a 20 minute car ride.

Domestic violence?

Ok so my bother and his girlfriend are here for holidays they been dateing for 6 years so... we set up a bed in the living room like a air mattress and his gf just lays here infront of me watching tv I can't help but look but I feel bad cause my brothers gf but I like it! What do I do?

I don't understand this logic

I just got home from picking up my sister at basketball practice. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove barefoot and left my shoes at home.

my bf gave me his credit card yesterday to buy a Christmas tree on my way home from work, i tried to swipe his card and it kept saying insufficient funds which was weird because he should have had more than enough. i told him about it when i got home and he took a look into it and found out that 300 dollars was taken out of his account at an ATM at a 7/11 around 10 am the crazy part is he thinks it was me, he thinks i'm lying to him when i say I've been at work all day, i work from 4 am to 1 pm as much as i tell him it wasn't me he keeps insisting it was and that i'm just scared to tell him the truth because of the facts that i had his card that day and i knew his pin. (BUT IT WASN'T ME!) we called the the bank got the police involved so they could view the surveillance tape of the 7/11 and everything but until something comes up he still insists i did it, and he wont talk to me. THIS IS CRAZY!!! we've been together 5 years and nothing like this has ever happened, what should i do?

Hey all do you think it's ok for a 13yr old girl to be dating a 16yr old boy? Is it also ok for the girl to be wearing a dress exactly like this one, also is it ok for her to be wearing high heels with a 2.5" platform, and a 7" heel height, and a crotchless thong?

I'm 32 she's 35. Been together about 3 months, I invited her to my work Christmas party. We were drinking having a good time. She was talking to people she didn't know, I thought that was good cause these are my friends. Anywho, so she was drinking with some guys wife at the bar chatting, she was getting drink I could tell. I went out for a smoke break and when I come back in, one guy said I should get my girl under control. She was basically falling over drunk, and asked this guy and some other guys wife if tgey wanted to have a 3some with her. I told her it was time to go, she didn't want to. Ended up dragging her out, took her home where she puked all over. I left. Next day she didn't realize what even happened so I told her, and she looked puzzled and said she felt real stupid and that she remembered drinking tequila which makes her act crazy... does this sound like a drunken mistake, or are the intentions tgere cause tge truth comes out when you drink?

My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. We love each other and have even talked moving in together. Let me start by saying I love writing. After years of school and working at dead end jobs I have come to realize that writing is what I am meant to do. Unfortunately, there are virtually no writing opportunities where we live. I have applied to (non-writing) positions related to my area of study left and right in our area without any luck. While I know I could find a job that pays decently doing something else, I just would not be passionate about it at all. I decided to go out on a limb and apply for writing jobs in New York. Last week I was contacted for an interview and shortly thereafter I was offered an internship. I have talked with my boyfriend about the opportunity because I really want to go and for him to come with me. He said he would go, but these past couple of days has acted like he no longer wants to. I would never force him to do something he doesn't want to do, but of course I would love for him to be there. He's my best friend. I know our friends and family are here (which no doubt would be hard to leave behind), but we're young with no kids to worry about and I know he could find work related to his field in New York. So I guess my question is if you were in my position would you choose the job or the relationship?