I recently got married in November and everything was going perfect. We decided to go to Greece (where he is from) together for the holidays, but I couldn t really afford it so he went by himself. He will be gone the whole month of December and the beginning of January. I recently Skyped with him and I got emotional and angry because we re newly weds and we re suppose to be spending the holidays together. He brushed it off as me being "moody". I m not really sure how to feel about this.

I've only had one partner which is my husband. We got married very young at the age of 18 and we've been together for 10 years now. It was an arranged marriage. But a few weeks ago I was diagnosed with hpv. Does that mean my husband cheated on me? When we talked about it he said he's never cheated... but I'm still curious is to how I got hpv when we were each other's first partner. And we are both Muslim it's forbidden to have sexual intercourse before marriage or outside of marriage. If you have any information about hpv please reply to this. And explain to me if it means my husband has been unfaithful to me Or is there different ways to be infected with this disease.. thank you

My wife has no physical desire for me at all. Aside from a passing peck she never initiates physical contact. What can I do to rekindle her desire?

So my husband has been cheating on me with women over the Internet. I just found out and also found out I was pregnant. I'm currently unemployed as my job laid off and he can't work legally because of his immigration status. Is cyber messaging women on dating sites cheating? I'm only a few weeks but I can't have this baby because I don't love him anymore. Help me what would you do?

Long story short, he is a big bipolar and crazy. He beat up my sister, and he went to jail for that. My sister left him for about 3 month, then went back and live together. Some kind of incident happen again and she left him, then about 2 month I think, she went back to him. Crazy huh? Now, their marriage life is very corrupted. They were talking about divorce, then my sister decided not to do it, because we all know she can t leave him for some reason! If we tell her to leave him, she will get mad. I m scared for my sister that something bad might happen to her and my 2 nieces.

I m getting married she s 16 I m 17 there s no baby and I m turning 18 and she s turning 17 we ve been dating for the past 3 1/2 years and we can get married in pa ma tn nc my family is from pa we own a house and in nc they live but I can legally use it I did for my linc she s the same spot I know it s very young to get married but we are both very informed And we are both able to pay any fees how do I go about I d prefer to get married in pa but no legal team would help us

I met this lady at work who looked really beautiful and cute looking and just so attractive. I am guessing that she'd be on her late 30's and she has 3 kids. We worked together cleaning up Apple iPad chargers for re-boxing, and while we were working, we talked about our love and relationships. She then told me about her marriage falling apart after 5 years of being together with her husband and now she's a divorced single mum and her ex-husband remarried. I'm 18 and while we were just talking and working at the same time of course, I couldn't help but stare at her thighs, in between her thighs, her chest & her gorgeous face without getting caught by her. After hearing that she's split up with her husband, makes me think about her not being sexually pleased anymore, and now I want to give that to her. But because she has 3 kids, her "you know what" down there is quite used up already, and she's done it before, she knows what and how she wants it. We see each other every now and then at work. But I just want to give her that gift of constant pleasure that she has lost but how can I? I want to confront her about this but at the same time, I don't want it to ruin our friendship. I just want to have sex with her, giving her the gift of constant pleasure she's lost. I also do want to have a possibility of impregnating her once, twice or three times – giving her my seed for to fertilize to make her mine, and start a family together.

Just wondered, because me personally I don't see what's so bad about being single and thus saving money that you don't have to spend on dates or a wedding or double the food or whatnot, or have to worry about kids as well, adding more stress. And when I hear arguments about "but but but you'll be alone and miserable," being single doesn't mean you've gotta be a loner and a lump. You can still get a good social life going or at least keep good connections on text messaging or Facebook. Besides, even if I or guys like me actually wanted to get a girlfriend, most of us are not in good financial shape. Guys like us must save up my money and pay off student debt, so then we can either get a livable job or pursue further grad school so that way we won't be an embarrassment, and we don't want to be seen as idiots, losers, or life failures first and foremost. And obviously no respectable ladies will date men whose future is up in the air. Oops, I mean to say "if people stay single" I don't care what people think, I just wondered why that's a stereotype or false thinking, out of curiosity. Not trolling or trying to look for stooges of my views

I met a woman and feel on love. Thing is she has different life with 3 kids. But we get along and work out great. She's beautiful and healthy, but isn't dedicated to health and fitness like me. She's a cheeseburger and pizza every night kind of woman. I try to motivate her but she won't hear it. On top of it she is now addicted to coffee which makes her moods unstable. She gets sick, and i know its because of her lifestyle, but she won't change. But she knows now, and because she just lives unhealthy, she isn't able to be there for me when she gets sick or tired because of it. When she is sick she eats hamburgers and pizza, I dint understand why she doesn't go get some medicine and try to do things that will make her feel better. I almost feel like her unhealthy way of living is holding me back, because she is becoming someone who I dint want to be with and this scares me

having a hot Cosby with my friend at work! HELP!!!!!

He asked me for sex and I said no because he's been telling me off all evening, then he came and kept pulling the covers off of me and poked me. He then slammed the door really hard and walked away. Should I be concerned?

I have been paying a child support more than 10 years to my ex. I have 2 more children that I am also paying child support now after my recent divorce. I applied for my first child support payment to get a revision hoping that it will decrease but the ex wrote very high $1600 child care before and after school expense and also $500 health insurance expense for an 11 years old child who goes to public school and spends most of the day in school. Child support center says they have to apply what ever she sends to the formula and find the new payment. So this is not true what she writes is there a limit for child care when calculating child support according to age of the child? Do I have any rights to ask for a proof? Thanks,

My ex did me very wrong. Split up after four years of her belittling me and she confesses she cheated on me, then we get together to clear the air and try to have somewhat of a friendship. Which actually goes good. I even gave her advice on some new guy she was dating and she did the same for a girl i was seeing. After four months of not talking to me she hits me up asking for advice on her now boyfriend. She then apologizes and says we will talk again soon. Only a few months later she blocks me from all social media. I know its my ex and i know it sounds pathetic for me to linger on this. But i basically let this girl spit on me and continue to do it while i just basically smiled. we have mutual friends and i find out she lost a bunch of weight, great job, has a house new car and getting married. Here i am in debt, unhealthty, no house old car and no signs of a bright future. If karma exists i would sure like to see it here. Any advice on how i can just drop this and not let it continue to bother me.

Say you got this dog/cat you love to bits and then your spouse/partner/whatever gives them away would you forgive and forget or would you leave them?.

I'm doing a project on Curly's wife so basically she feels trapped and alone in her marriage so she seeks attention from other guys. Is there any songs that resembles her situation/feeling. anything will do :)

and they are sulfur based demon $hitlords so they constantly smell like rotten eggs and wet dogs

We ve been together for 6 years we are just about to get married in March. I always know that he has student loans. And I was supportive since it was for him to pursue higher education. I know nothing about his credit card debt and I just find out because we re about to buy a house together because we re getting married. At first when we just got engaged, he was telling me that he was using his parents name to apply for credit cards and transfer the balance to his parents credit card so that there are no interest for a certain period. And it give him more time to pay it off. Back then he was telling me it was only 10K or 20K that was the amount he told me and he promised me that he will pay off before we get married. Besides we ve been together for 6 years and I want to give him a chance to pay everything off and then start clean again.. It has been 10 months since then, and we ve been looking at houses and finally we are about to do a pre-approval. And that s when I found out that he actually has 40K credit card debt as of right now. This time he told me he s gonna take out he s 401k benefits to pay them all. My parents divorced and before that they were fighting all the time. So I m ready insecure about love. All I want is someone that is responsible trustworthy dependable, and cares about me. I never ask for a fairytale love story, all I want is an ordinary family. I don t know what else he s been hiding. He can t even explain where all the debt came from.

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I've been married for one year and my husband is very controlling I would like to know if it's ever going to change?

So my husband came home after gone for a few days and is extremely high. He keeps breathing hard, and squirming around on the sofa. He wants to go to sleep and can t. What can I do to get him to fall asleep?

I posted this question already but I think some people didn't understand what my situation was so I am going to ask again so I can clarify. I am looking for honest opinions not a sugar coated answer that I want to hear. My ex and I have been separated for over 2 years... we were never married and I never shared the same last name as my kids. When I was pregnant with my daughter we discussed hyphenating her last name but instead he proposed and we decided I would take his last name so hyphenating became a non-issue. Fast forward to now. I am the primary care giver for my children. My ex takes this kids once a week for 20 hours, not even a full day. I take them to all appointments, school functions etc, anywhere where you would have to state what their full names are. I hate having to explain that my children have a different last name as me and my daughter, who has been learning about her last name for school, has questioned why my last name is different. My son is two and though he may not be old enough to completely grasp last names, has also made comments about my last name should be the same as his. I live in Ontario Canada, I don't need my ex's permission to apply to have their last name amended. I don't want to remove his last name, I only want to add mine. It will be hyphenated like this; Mine-His. What the process is is that the request will be sent to the registrar and we both give our reasons why we think it should be changed and they make the call. My ex feels as if I am trying to erase him from the kids lives. On the contrary, I feel that I try to push him to see them more. I am not doing this out of spite at all. I want them to have his last name and would never try to take that from them. His reasons for not wanting the name change is that they're his kids, well, they're mine too! He also said we made a deal for them to have his last name... i got to choose middle names, but I agreed to that when he promised to marry me and that obviously didn't happen. I want some continuity between my kids names and mine, that's all.

I have found the girl of my dreams but an issue has really been plaguing me and I would love some advice. Myself, my dad, my grandpa, and my great grandpa all have the same name - I'm the 4th. It's very important for me to pass my last name down to my children. My girlfriend is a very independent 'modern' woman. She wants to keep her name. I This silly little issue is causing hesitation in me asking her to marry me (I know that sounds dumb). Call me old fashion (I'm 25..ha), but I feel it's disrespectful for her to not 'commit' fully to me and take on my last name. She's a very rational individual and will totally listen to my concerns. Any advice on points I can bring up: history of name changing, affects on children, divorce rates among hyphenated names, etc. I would appreciate any advice.

We just found out we are pregnant. At present we are not married (though that will probably change before our child is born). Just curious is there any law about the baby's last name? Who decides? If you are not married does the mother decide? Even if you are married does the baby have to have the fathers last name? We have a lot of other issues but I was just curious abuot this.

My friend is 20 years old and getting married to a girl that he's only been dating for 6 months, he also has very little dating experience. Grant it if that's what he wants to do he can, but it's stupid when 66% of all marriages under the age of 25 end up failing and being that young a divorce is near fatal financially. What do you think? Am I just a @$$hole or do I have a point? My friend is 20 years old and getting married to a girl that he's only been dating for 6 months, he also has very little dating experience. Grant it if that's what he wants to do he can, but it's stupid when 66% of all marriages under the age of 25 end up failing and being that young a divorce is near fatal financially. It's like seeing your friend get into a car after drinking a lot of alcohol. What do you think? Am I just a @$$hole or do I have a point?

I see women all the time that wear rings on their ring finger and they are as single as can be. As was just wondering why. I like this young female and I really don't want to be embarrassed by asking her out and she tell me that she is married.

This will be my second marriage. My first marriage was when I was 19. We knew each other / dated for 4 months, engaged for 6. The marriage lasted a year and a half, then was annulled. Bad idea. It has been 2 years sense the annulment and I have been dating a really nice guy for a year and a half and we are going to get engaged soon. The first marriage my fiancee said he didn't have any money for a ring so I had to buy my own. Which was about $3,000. Now with the engagement I am wondering two things.. 1) Would it be taboo use the ring again? I bought it with my own money. I tried to sell it so I could use the money for a whole new one but I would be loosing over $1,000. And I have been looking and looking but cant find a ring I like better because I picked my favorite the first time. My fiancee now is understanding and says if I cant find one I like better, he doesn't want to get me one that I think is "second best," that would make him sad, so he will pay $2,000 towards upgrading the center diamond. And 2) If I was going around wearing the old ring for 2 years total (and it's been 2 years sense then) .. how much attention do people pay to other peoples rings? Do they remember them? Will people notice its the same one?

My mom is married to my stepdad tomorrow for 2 years, what kind of flowers, how many and what color? I m thinking of a bouquet.

Well lately my husband been coming him around 1am or 2am when he gets out of work at 11pm so I want to know where he goes after work ...

I am 22 and I swear that everyone in the south is posting pregnancy announcements and they are all between ages 19-24. They get mad when someone says that having a baby at 19 is young but yet most of them sont have stable incomes but they will say "babies are cute anyways. " so a cute baby is more important than providing for the baby? I can't believe that these people would rather have a baby than to get a degree. I think schools need to teach kids the facts about birth control and etc.

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A couple weeks ago I did something truly, truly stupid. It was my birthday and I was drinking when I sat down at our home computer. My wife had her work email up and feeling privileged because of the drink and the birthday, I thought I would browse through and see how her work life was going. I pretty quickly found a series of emails between her and a male work friend of hers that revealed a considerably deeper relationship than I had realized between them. I ended up spending over an hour reading about three years worth of emails. Over 80 percent of the emails were about work topics. They don't work together but in the same field. In many, one would just tell the other about something work-related that happened to them and a lot of the emails just sought advice on work topics. But the other 10-20 percent of the emails involved more personal topics. And a fair number could be considered flirtatious or risque. Probably jokingly but it's impossible to tell for sure without knowing more about their relationship. There are lunch invitations back and forth and apparently a standing joke that he had stood her up for something (lunch I am guessing) so she often brought her kindle to read if he didn't make it. In one exchange, he said something in German (he had been to Germany recently), and she replied "I love it when you speak German to me." In another exchange, he listed problems he was having because he'd been on an extended business trip; the list included lack of sex (he is married as well). She responded she didn't believe the other stuff but did believe the sex part. In another, he suggested she stick out her "bulging chest" to impress a client, while she responded she was more the lean over and adjust her shoe strap kind of gal. There is also an exchange in which he mentions having enjoyed talking at lunch and she says she could use someone to talk to because the person she usually talks to (her sister she said, I am not mentioned) doesn't understand everything she goes through. I am very rarely mentioned in the emails. Maybe three times, and once for her to vent about something stupid I did. Many emails also just ask if it is a good time to call (apparently not wanting to interfere with something else at work). At some point in my stupor I began to cry, my wife woke up, and I confessed about reading the emails and she acknowledged she'd let it go further thanh she should have but promised me it was just two colleagues and friends talking, being silly, mostly about work, sometimes about personal stuff, and sometimes it got a little firty or risque, but there was never anything more than that. We have also been over and over some of these things since then. There was a level of easy familiarity and intimacy in their exchanges that haunts me. I believe her that there was never anything physical and I think I believe her that they were just good friends who were sometimes harmlessly playful. There is no evidence of any elicit rendezvous or true love or lust in the emails. And my wife has Herpes so I doubt she'd have sex with anyone besides me. We have been married twelve years and have three kids and I have taken her for granted a bit and maybe haven't done all the things I should be doing for her (I often don't take her calls or agree to have lunch with her because of my work; she wants to move and I am dragging my feet, etc.). Our sex life was pretty poor up to this incident (about once a month, sometimes very passionate, sometimes not). Since the incident, we have renewed our sexual passion, having good sex about half the nights since. My problem is that I cannot shake the notion that there might have been more to their relationship than I have discovered. I have become obsessed; now routinely, compulsively checking her work emails and her phone call logs to see if they have had contact in the past week (I have found no evidence of such and she says they have not). Ultimately, this is not fair to her and not helping me or us. HOW DO I GET PAST IT!!!

I am married and so is the guy I dreamt about. I dreamt we were together and it was great! I've never felt such passion. I admit I have a crush on him but he is married with kids. He told me he would have left his wife if she wasn't expecting their 3rd child. They have 2 kids and to my knowledge she is not expecting. A few of my friends from work are pregnant. I really want a bsby but know I can't have one with my husband due to our dysfunctional relationship. I'm not in a happy marriage but he is. What do you think this dream means??

I have been married for 2 years to a lovely man and we have been very happy. About two months ago my husband mentioned he had a new colleague at work in his team and that she was pretty and friendly. I asked him more about her and he said all the men fancy her and she is in her late 20's but she has a lovely personality too and is single. There was something about the way he described her almost as if he was smiling at the though of her but I tried to put it to the back of my head. I met his new colleague last week at a meal out and she is absolutely stunning and I have to say lovely with it. My husband obviously is very attracted to her and he was almost mesmerised by her low cut top and figure. She sat opposite him and was enjoying all the attention flicking her hair around but was also very polite to me and friendly. I think she is just a very flirtateous person in general. When we got home we made love late in the dark and as he climaxed he whispered her name. I hit the roof and he completely denied it so after a huge row when he apologised and said he couldnt remember saying it. I couldnt sleep all night. I really dont know what to do now. I havent stopped crying today. How can I deal with this knowing he is working closely with her day in, day out and she is always wearing short skirts and clingy tops with a figure to die for. I feel so jealous I dont know how to handle this at all. Any advice would be appreciated.

One of my colleagues (not someone I direvtly work with- instead someone in a different dept) regularly asks me for lunch from time to time and he is married. I am in a relationship also, but just wondering is it appropriate to have lunch with a male colleague? At this stage I am taking it as he just wants to make more friends, but is there anything I should be aware of?

I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years from the very first moment I laid eyes on him, I thought, "WOW!" I might add, I am hardly ever attracted to any man. But I was strongly attracted to him from the moment I first saw him. He is adorable, cute and handsome all at the same time. Without a doubt he's the most sexy and gorgeous man I have ever met in my life. We flirted together innocently for years. We hugged and touched sometimes, but nothing else happened. He married someone 3 years ago (I have been married over 20 years), and people at work surmised that he never really seemed that happy in his marriage. He made little comments about this. I respected that he was a newlywed and never let him know about my attraction. Eight months ago, he had bypass surgery. It was a shock to everyone because he was not overweight and he worked out religiously. I missed him intensely and thought about him a lot. Work was totally empty because he wasn't there to look at and fantasize over. When he returned to work, I walked out to his truck. Our eyes met and we just enveloped each other in our arms. I love his hair and I ran my fingers through his hair. After I did that, he smirked suggestively and I knew he liked that I had touched him like that. I wanted to do so much more, but there were other teachers around. I wanted to just screw his brains out! After this moment, it got back to him through colleagues that I thought he was handsome. I had mentioned it casually one day another teacher. Then he started amping up his flirting and telling me he thought I was beautiful. Whenever we would see each other alone, we always hug, and the hugs became progressively more suggestive. They became full on sensual, suggestive hugs. We even did this in front of students all the time and they didn't seem to notice or care. Several weeks ago, he started inviting me out. He would say, "Let's leave school and go to the beach, let's have fun together!" I started to get nervous because I don't want to leave my marriage or cheat, even though I am totally and insanely hot for this guy. To me he is drop dead gorgeous, with the most perfect skin, lovely eyes and perfect hair. He wanted to go to Disneyland or lunch. Of course all of this is just an excuse to get off campus. And he flirts with everyone, not just me. But no one else responded to his overtures. Finally I asked him what was going to happen between us. He asked if I was interested in leaving my husband and I assured him I was not. We agreed to start an affair. He leaned back and said the sex we would have would be "spectacular" (and it would be, believe me!) However, a few days later he said he couldn't cheat on his wife because she stood by him during his heart ordeal. I was disappointed, of course, but respect that he was honest enough to tell me this before we starting making love. There was a small part of me that was relieved as well because I love my husband. But the attraction has waned after many years of marriage. Now I don't know what to do. I am still insanely attracted to my colleague. I have never felt such sexual desire for anyone else in my entire life. Whenever I sit next to him I just throb. I know he's attracted to me as well, but is obviously fighting hard to stay faithful. It's almost impossible for me not to just rip his clothes off and devour him in every conceivable position. God! The thrill is crazy, but I'm also feeling nervous. I have never liked my job, but now I find myself actually looking forward to work just to see what he is going to say or do. Inevitably I think we will end up in bed because the mutual attraction is so great. Sometimes he ignores me or blows me off and this makes me sad. Other times he's exactly the opposite. Please no moralistic lectures on the evils of adultery. I know all that and don't need anyone lecturing me. What should I do?

I have been with my husband for almost twenty years. Only recently has our marriage began to fall apart. First of all, he's going through a mid-life crises. He wants to end his architecture career after nearly ten years of being in it. He was promoted to a management position at his architecture firm, but he always complains about the job being too hectic for him and always stressing him out. Second of all, whenever he arrives home he expects me to have dinner ready. I am a teacher, and I have to relentlessly explain to him that my job doesn't end when class is dismissed. I am typically tasked with doing paperwork, grading papers, making phone calls, and planning lessons for the forthcoming day. That means I work almost ten hours per day. Most of the time I take my work home with me. What makes it even harder is that I have two kids (one is 12, and another is 15). Essentially, our marriage was nearly perfect for the first fifteen years, but for the last five years the dynamics of our marriage have slowly changed. As I am grappling with marital problems, I also have a stressful job and kids to raise. I am not happy with my marriage, so I suggested marriage counseling with my husband, but he is reluctant to do that. I just want our marriage to be the way it was before. To be more informative, I am 46 years old, and my husband is 38. Basically, he's very unhappy, tells me that I'm a bad wife for not understanding his situation, and even takes his anger out on our kids by yelling at them over every little thing. Another big problem is my mother in-law. She's always hated me and, for the reason, is absent in her grandchildren's lives. She tells the family lies about me and turned the family against me, and my husband lets her do that.

I got married in the bronx ny at the court house and now I would like a divorce I live in rockland county ny now I been separated from him for about 4 m the marriage was a mistake and I want it done with I wanted him to pay for it but now I don't care I just want to know do I have to go all the way to the bronx ny to file or can I file from any court house as long as its a ny court please help I feel trapped

The woman had two daughter I think, and she didn't let daughters have any friends come over. The woman had longs nails. The opposite family was really out there, and had parties like every other day, the parents didn't really care about what their children did. But the daughter was like 12 or 13, and when it was time for the rules to change she wasn't having it and got in the strict woman's face. IT IS NOT CELEBRITY WIFE SWAP BY THE WAY. THANK YOU.

Ok so I just moved to a new apartment and I think I've developped a big crush on the guy who lives next door: Tall, like 6'5, dark, handsome, always well dressed.. (he's just a bit chubby but WOW! The thing is I'm almost certain I'm not his type; such a guy will only date blondes or women who are 5'9+ I wish he noticed me

On my custody agreement it says both parents will ordinarily exchange custody of their daughter on Sunday at a mutual place and time. Now to my understanding that means we will both have her for a week at a time. And that is how my lawyer explained it to me. My ex seems to think that is not what it means and he is entitied to keep her whenever he wants because he pays child support.

These calls were each 1 sec long 1 minute apart.He swears to God Almighty (which he does not even believe in) he did not do it. He is trying to tell me that someone else who had access at ANY point to his Google can get in and make random incriminating calls. SERIOUSLY? I am asking, seriously? I have called the cell provider- no answer other than the obvious-I am about to bail on this relationship and this is my last go at an attempt to believe him. So seriously, I know tons of trolls out there will have a field day with this, but seriously we have kids and I would really appreciate some sound advice/and or possible mitigating reasons. I am not stupid- I am very aware this is a futile effort- but I have to say I did my best. His call history is ALWAYS deleted as is his internet cache- so I have no idea if more calls were made or not but it seems odd to me that they are to an escort service- there is a basis for my concern- Yeah ok 1st off- we have sex plenty- so that is not it- trust. Its about lying. I am not giving up after one incident-this is and has been ongoing for years and I have done everything possible to put **** in the past and move forward...but this phone thing coupled with other stuff (Stuff that would have most people out the door in an instant), is just the icing on the cake- He said his phone was hacked. I say Yeah right. Now I am a prude? You guys couldn't be farther off.

Ok, my husband and I got into an argument over the kids not being fed this morning usually I work an overnight shift on the weekends and I expect when I get off in the morning for him to have the kids fed for breakfast the kids are usually up by the time I get home and depending on the night before sometimes I'm in the mood to make breakfast for them and sometimes I'm just ready to go to sleep so I asked my husband if he can have them fed when they get up in the mornings, problem is he takes his time to feed them and it can go well into the afternoon before they have eaten anything this upsets me because if I don't make them breakfast he'll have them waiting. my daughter is too young to ask for breakfast herself because she's only one years old my son asked for breakfast but my husband rushes him off, my concern is not so much that I may have to step in and make them breakfast before I take my shower and get in the bed my concern is that if I'm not home what is happening, is he feeding them on time or is he making them wait which I believe he is making them wait, I have spoken to him about this and he agreed to make sure that they eat by a certain time but he's still not following through on his promise.

My parents are arguing a lot. They argue over small things and big things. It's mostly my dad's fault. He always hurt my mom and yells at her a lot. He isn't a good person , nobody really likes him, he is always so rude, cold and mean toward others. Some of my friends are scared of him when they have just met him because he has this strict and unfriendly feeling around him.He doesn't really have friends. A lot of people doesn't like him. On the other side, my mom is really nice and lovely. A lot of people like her and be around with her. She is very sweet. However, my dad yells at her a lot and they have a lot of disagreement and argues so much. Also, my dad's bad personality and temper is affecting us (people around him). My mom used to be super nice but now she has a temper now (still very nice but sometimes now and then it shows). My brother and I have our own temper (we would fight back with our dad). He is also very strict and competitive and I quit a lot of things because I couldn't deal with the pressure. My personality has changed because now I'm more quiet and less lively. My parents fight so much and some fight are so severe where my mom cries and it pains me. Their relationship aren't working and they can't get along often. So should I support their divorce or not? I know divorce isn't a good thing but what if it's the best way for them? God made them together for a reason. They love each other but they're always fighting and hurting each other feelings.

We've talked about this before. Now is not the time. I'm handling many things and I have no time for a baby. She said that she will wait, but I have to promise her we're gonna do this. Like in a year or something. Does this seem fair to you? Because knowing myself, my problems won't magically disappear within a year.

I am not superficial but as a normal human, i like to see my partner looking good especially when i do my best to look presentable ...i have been married to this wonderful guy for 5 years, now he completely let down the way he looks, his hair is like a bundle of parsley hanging down his back, he doesn't shave for so long that when he does his face gets super inflamed, he showers only couples times a week and the list goes on... not only that, he gained belly fat and overall weight and now he has hypertension and the doctors told him that if he loses the weight then he would get out of meds ... he is only 26 and now i m worried how he would be in few years when it is normal to look worse because of age and wrinkles ...i m not sure what to do anymore, i begged, talked, fought, cried ... you name it, from being nice to putting him down .. any advice please? I do not want to admit but it is hard for me to find him attractive anymore ...

My boyfriend has a young daughter from his previous marriage who lives with him most of the time. My boyfriend wants me to move in with him(we have been together for over a year) because he is having money problems and money is tight and it would help out a lot however I don't want to live together without being married because I think it looks bad since he has a child. I also want to wait anther year too. Am I wrong for wanting this?

Thanks.

A few months ago my 19-year-old daughter s older friend sends me a screenshot of my husband inviting her on Facebook: "Good morning sexy. Have a wonderful day." Her response was: "Thanks hon you too". My husband and I hadn t been intimate in some time, I ve tried to be understanding, but when I saw that message to her my self-esteem lowered and I was so disappointed in him. I called him and was frurious: "How do you leave home, for work out of town, after being home several days and not giving me attention nor sex and say these words to another woman?" He said that he meant she was sexy in the sense that she takes care of her kids and business. He knows this woman is a hoe. Why open that kind of door. He tells me that he loves me, has never cheated on me and was sorry for using a poor choice of words. I feel like I can t trust him. I feel betrayed. Then I found two dating websites he created: Ooser man seeking young woman to have a good time with and spoil. I confronted him and he said he originally made the sites for our 19 year old to find a guy, she met someone and he just took over but never met anyone and had no intention to; the sites can t be deleted. Tells me to focus on family and business not bullshit because he s never cheated. My heart aches and I don t trust him anymore. I m so torn, we ve been together 23 years. We have five kids. We have a business. I m torn and don t trust him.