She has been married 11 years. She told me she felt alone and single the last 9 years of it. We didn't start talking until after her husband said he wanted a divorce. But after we started talking..He wanted to work on the marriage. This man has a secret home that she knows about..but doesnt know the location..and he has cheated on her many times..She just stayed with him for their kids. But the mind games got to her eventually..So what I wonder is this...Should I remain friends with her while they are going through the divorce process? She has admitted to me before she feels very strong for me..but then when they started trying to work on her marriage, she totally backed off and told me she doesnt feel like that now, and she needs to make her marriage work..but now the divorce is happening..and she back telling me she misses me. and wants to see me..but cant untill shes divorced. What do I do? I love her..and she told me once that she loved me. but all her recent troubles has kind of changed things..but I know she still feels strong for me..we talk every single day..(Text) Should I be there for her? should I keep my hopes up that she will want to try Dating after the divorce? Or should I let it go?

Why does my married male neighbor keep looking at me but NEVER says hi. His wife Never says hi to me either... Why are some ppl like that ? Are they being snooty or just want to keep to themselves ?

Lame like his family and sisters who control him and force him to tell me to stop social media profiles. I have closed all social media but i feel like a loser. Thing is i live in usa and he lives in dubai. I am just waiting for him to move to usa. I really fckng hate that i have to close profiles otherwise he wont keep this relationship. He is black mailing me.

People are going to hate me, but oh well. I love my wife and we have worked hard on our marriage. We live broke, with 2 children, and her health is starting to decline. We are in our late 20s, probably won't ever get any better.she has a lengthly legal past and won't ever get a good job, probably. I work to support the family and we never have a lot of money and im so tired if this.i used to be attracted to her, her wit, her looks, her spirit. But shes gotten dull in all respects. Our love has been stressed and pressured to raise our family and I feel like we are slowly dying together. We used to be passionate about each other and life. We don't have sex. She doesn't care if I find her attractive anymore. She wears baggy clothes and no makeup. We've been together for 5 years now. I want to call it quits. We both care about one another, but im so

Ok so I'm 15 but I've been thinking in 3yrs I'll be on my own and I don't like being alone at all. And my friends are all like you better get married soon and I kinda want to be married fast so I'm not alone but what if never find someone right away! And also I wanna go to college but if I marry right away and have a family it's kinda a waste since I probably wouldn't work but is there a way I can get out of feeling scared of being lonely because I'm a very social

I got my fortune told while I was in japan , the fortune teller told me that I would die very soon Normally i wouldnt believe in stuff like that but alot of strange things have been happening to me Like i found a dead bird on my porch (which means death in many cultures) And some of my family photos going missing Im only 21 what should I do?

What exactly is sexual coercion? What are some examples? Is pouting until he gets his way coercion? Is being mean and nasty until say yes coercion? What about calling me a prude when I say no?

Today my wife changed her facebook password and added a code on her phone and she changed the password to the laptop we share. She is changing the password to everything we share. Today she came home mad at me and when I asked her how much was a uber she took she got mad. Something is not right here. When I asked her why she is changing all her password she got mad at me. She has not me see her phone all day. When I asked to use her phone she got mad.

I hung out with this single guy, for 5 hours and was able to talk to him and connect with him, I do not want to divorce my husband but I'm worried about that guy not taking me serious. Am I wrong for wanting someone to hang out with because I'm not satisfied at home sexually? Do these type of relationship s exist? I don't want my husband to ever find out.

We are married for 10 years now and have 2 kids age 6 and 4. Since very beginning we were into sexless marriage, it was 3-4 times an year maybe. I loved my husband too much so i never took at as a big deal. Now that I am attracted to other men so much, lack of sex is irritating me day and night and whole time i react in frustration to my kids and husband. after having a conversation with him about lack of things around us, we tried to give it a try and it's horrible. i get repelled by the way he touches me or kisses me. it just feels like a task for us to perform rather than a feel for each other. pls advice me. Its getting so severe that now I have started disliking his presence around me.

Is that true ? And they only give husband an allowance ? Even if the husband makes all the money she still controls it ?

when i will be around 25 years old i will have kids but theres a HUGE problem. every future wife i can think of is good hearted. that means there child of god. but i want a wife that is evil. and for that i need to change this life...

She asked if wanted to go to moms while she went to help hers. In two days she moved everything out. Canceled the lease and left me homeless. She is looking for a divorce because of my drinking. Married three months. ****** up.

Mh husband is busy with work this whole month and the next 4 months too and i really miss him and i cant stop thinking about him.. Cant focus on anything !

I want to reconcile but if i even mention it my wife threats me with custody issues. Then I feel guilty looking for other women

I know girls are mostly attracted to bad guys and I am the exact opposite. I am basically the human version of the good guy stereotype. I am not a player, I get secretly mad at those who are disrespectful douchebags and I'd never treat a girl like crap because I honestly feel that it's completely wrong. On top of it I am boring, I am a bookworm, I don't party, I play the piano, I appreciate visual arts, I like classical music and to complete the stereotype, I am Jewish. I don't think there is anything wrong with me, I wouldn't change anything even if I could and I am glad my parents raised me this way but sometimes I wonder why women find it unattractive when someone is like that. I've had low self esteem for a really long time for being this way but I ended up being thankful. I just don't get what's so bad about it. I had an ex girlfriend who has completely different from me and yet she had no problem with who I was but how many people like her are out there? I've been told many times that I am attractive but I always worry that my personality is a big turn off. I don't want to pretend I am something else only to find someone. I've seen women marrying "bad guys" and divorcing a year later, I don't understand what's attractive about being treated badly. I do have a talent and ambitions, why would I have so many interests if I am not good at any of them? I am studying law so one my ambitions is to be a successful lawyer. "Quit blaming the world". I am not blaming anyone. I've been in two relationships in the past, one ended three months ago. I never liked the girls in my high school but it was a matter of personal taste, they weren't the type I was looking for. As soon as I met different people after graduation I found a very interesting person. It didn't work out but it's okay. I am not blaming the world and I am not saying that I am perfect and everyone should like me.

I have all the makings of an alpha. I am a sophisticated man. I am well travelled and have a lot of things to talk about. I am caucasian but of the tall dark & handsome variety. I drive a BMW. I have a graduate degree and a good job. I am 6'1" and 175 lbs of lean muscle. I have a square jaw, pillowy lips, and hooded "bedroom" eyes. But because I am a nice guy, women don't want me. They only like uncultured, brutish fcuk-boys. How do I behave more like a jerk to attract women? It is a big injustice that women do not want me and all of my magnificence. This is such a beautiful, marvelous world but I can not continue on being a single, 31 year old virgin. I need a woman by my side to enjoy life with.

So we both work full time. We have 3 children. A house (in his name). 2 dogs. I have my account and he has his. I want a joint checking account. I pay for my car payment, both of our car insurance, my own phone bill, our healthcare is through my job so it comes out of my pay check, groceries and household items, and the cable bill. He pays the mortgage and the electric bill. I make little more than half of what he brings home in a year and I feel like I am paying out way more each month than he does. I pay for doctor co-pays and vet bills and unless its back to school shopping (which we split 50/50), I buy all of our kid's clothes and shoes and toys and diapers. There are countless little things that I buy with my own money that don't get accounted for and I feel resentful that he storms off everytime I mention us getting a joint account...like how married couples usually do. I have always taken care of myself, I don't need him for money but I feel like he's taking advantage that I do work and have own money to get out of spending his and to grow his savings account. He doesn't even let me know how much money he has. We are going to buy my son a new bunk bed this week. almost 1k including the 2 mattresses. He wants to split it 50/50 while I make waaaay less than he does.

Two months ago I fell of a staircase (and not even the whole staircase), it was nothing serious and I wasn't hurt at all but he has been acting very overprotective since then. I've been begging him to have sex with me and he keeps saying no because he is scared even though he admitted that he finds me very attractive now that I am pregnant and I feel more attracted to him too. Our baby is completely healthy. It's starting to get annoying that he worries about everything, he has been like that for two months already and prior to that we would have sex almost every day. How can I convince him that it's not dangerous?

My grandmother keeps putting pressure on me to marry.But I don't think I will.One reason is I like being alone and if someone bothers me at the wrong moment I will get furious at them even though it is not there fault.Then I also have hard time showing my emotions.Example I would not be able to say I love you.I never even had a crush on anyone in my life nor do I want to like anyone.Ine reason for these so to speak complexes is because when is because when I was little my father used to verbally abuse me and I got used to closing myself off from him so he wouldn't abuse me.Now I have trouble with communication.Even if I did get engaged I would not enjoy telling anyone that I was getting married (especially family for some reason).On the other hand I like a good chat at the right moment and I like giving gifts.What is the chances I will get married in your opinion?Also how do you thing the marriage would be or would it end with a divorce?

Why am I so afraid of marriage even though I want it so bad?? I've never been married and never been in a real relationship. @Benjamin 37 is not too old to date. What are you? 12? @Benjamin so you are 19, you think you know it all. News flash you don't! 37 is not old and there are mature guys out there that seek real relationships not just sex toys. @Benjamin the baby thing is irrelevant -- I do NOT want children. And there are plenty of men who do not want them either. @what you talkin' about this is in the marriage and divorce section. Is everyone in this section teenagers?

I see all these people saying not to bother with relationships if marriage isn't the goal. What if I want to live with someone for the rest of my life and have kids as if we are married but without following what society tells us what to do? It seems a little odd that people would need government permission to do all that. I'm not gay or lesbian but the fact that the LGBT community had to fight for their right to marry says otherwise. That completely says that marriage is government permission.

She just got out of college 2 months ago with a double major and has expected someone to just offer her a job. Once she realized she had to work for a good job she got depressed and discouraged and begun to take her anger and frustration out on me. I have talked numerous times about how to get started and we had set goals that were once again sit on. So I sat down and said im becoming unhappy and don't know if I can continue the constant fighting. Every day I get home the constant taking of anger out on me, because she did nothing all day. I love her and want it to work but I am a driven person and it hurts seeing how depressed shes been and the constant fighting over her not having ambition for anything anymore.

I have all the makings of an alpha. I am 6'1" and 175 lbs of lean muscle. I have a square jaw, pillowy lips, and hooded "bedroom" eyes. I am caucasian but of the tall dark & handsome variety. I drive a BMW. I have a graduate degree and a good job. But women are just too stuck up and don't want me. They think they deserve better when I'm already as good as it gets for most women. I'm a 9.5 and usually approach 5s 6s and 7s and still get turned down. I guess I just don't have enough game. Most women think I'm creepy. My eventual goal is to become an alpha but for now I just want to become a BETA male since I'm desperate and just want to lose my virginity and experience a relationship for the first time. I'll gladly take alpha rejects and leftovers until I can move on to better women. So what can I do?

I found out recently my husband cheated on me 7 years ago. We have been married for 6 years. We are 25. I found out by looking in his messages he had sex with another girl twice a week after we got married. He hasn't cheated since. should I ask him about it or let it drop? He cheated 6 years ago not 7

Ive been married to my husband for almost 9 years and every time we have an argument he gives me the silent treatment usually from 2 days through 2 weeks. Currently this time its been the longest its ever been we are on week 4 and mostly because im fed up with always having to say im sorry even when its not me who has started the fight, but ive always tried to be the bigger person and I always like to discuss the issues so we can try to move forward but its happened way to many times now that ive gotten to the point were im so fed up with this form of punishment that he gives me. The last time this happened we talked about how its so destructive for our relationship and how its a form of abuse, and he swore to me it would never happen again and how he was so sorry, but its a never ending cycle it just constantly continues. I really want my marraige to work but i dont know how to cope anymore. I feel that if i break this silence like i have the past 15 times that this has happened it will just continue. Idk my mentality was if i prove to him that ive had enough and i will no longer take it that maybe he will understand that this form of treatment is just pointless and maybe he will stop doing this once and for all. These past few weeks Ive been positive and focusing on myself and my kids and working out and im always in a happy mood, to show him that its not affecting me (even though inside im falling apart) but it doesnt seem to phase him.Has anyone else gone through this?

My husband and I have been together for 5 years; no children. Honestly, I have really enjoyed our marriage for the most part. However, lately, his insecurity has been a huge turn off to the point I honestly don't like being around him as much. I don't know how to help him either. This seems like something that is an intrinsic problem, not one necessarily caused by outside circumstances. What I mean by that is he always thinks our male friends are hitting on me and he gets very upset by this.

2-3 days ago I found out that my husband and my brother went to a strip club together and I was disgusted and freaking mad. I mean, he's a married man, why is he going to clubs to watch women strip in front of him? So we got into a massive argument and during the argument he tells me that it's not the first time he's went and I asked him if he's went any other time except from the time I know about during our marriage and he says yes, anyway We're still not talking because he believes that I'm just overreacting and that it's perfectly fine for married men to go to strip clubs. So am I just overreacting or is it really not okay that he's going to strip clubs?

I live in a very wealthy area part of Massachusetts, and have noticed how every rich housewife looks the same. They all dress like they're 13 years younger than they are, they lie about their age, the love the botox, lip injections, huge diamond rings with their husbands around their arms. In their spare time they'll go shopping, play tennis, golf, luncheons and claim "they're so busy". Anyone else noticed? What are they like in your area? Can't forget all the juicing and exercise!

I'm super annoyed at this point. My husband has me on a joint checking account. We also have individual credit cards that aren't shared, and he has another bank account (which his relative deposits money into because he gets money for shared income property). He also has a paypal account, and an unemployment bank account. ANYWAY...he and I had a big argument the other night, because he spent a bunch of money on booze when, that same day, he told me money was tight and not to spend too much at the store. I seriously cheaped out on our kids vitamins and other things, to try to save. He got very defensive and angry, I told him I want to do a Mint account (site that categorizes where your money, from all your accounts, is spent automatically). Money has *still* been tight somehow, even though he is making more money than he was earlier this year. I mentioned that, and told him I want us to figure out where we can save and also, I am concerned he may be sneaky with spending money given what happened the other day. What the heck is going on? I'm so upset. And as I mentioned before, I have the biggest balance on my credit card and he only lets me pay a little, but pays 400+ on his credit card. What should I do? I don't have a job and stay at home with our little ones during the day. Also, we share a car which he payed for. I want to leave but I feel stuck since I have no one I can stay with.

My husband is overseas until October this year. He's asked me to save my money even though he sends me some every month. He's told me he's been paying off bills. We got married last year but we don't have rings (Couldn't afford them at the time). I live in California, He's stationed in Texas but is overseas for now. Is there a reason why he is saving money ? Thanks.

I understand not all marriages function the same way and every single couple are different. But if you are married does your spouse mind that you know how to cook or not? Like I said I know all couples are different but I am willing to hear others' experience lol.

I have a friend who needs to file divorce. The papers were already served to the spouse in question and a hearing regarding residency was held and dismissed; the case is currently closed but she wants to schedule another hearing with the proper residency documents in hand. The question is, is she able to pay another court fee and go to a second hearing without having to re-submit newly signed divorce papers identical to the original, or can the court use the original documents (without her having to serve the papers to the spouse a second time)? This is only an issue because neither person wants to see the other and she's filing in a state the spouse does not live in (but in which she does). Please let me know if you have any solid information to offer or know the sources (other than the court itself) to look for the right answer. All answers are greatly appreciated. btw, she is not planning on hiring an attorney this time around, as they don't have children and both agree to the divorce.

Long story short, I worked hard for 11 years at my self employed business. We have 2 children that are homeschooled. One has health issues, the other a learning disability, so traditional schools will not work. After many long conversations my husband and I thought it would be best for me to quit running my business and focus on our children's needs. Before I quit, I worked so hard to help him pay off almost all our debts. I've been debt free for over 4 years, so I paid off one of his private student loans, his car, credit cards, etc. The only debt we had when I quit was his student loan and our mortgage. We were doing well. We agreed we wouldn't make any big purchases until his last student loan was paid off. Things were great until he decided he wanted a inground pool. I practically begged him not to do it because I wasn't working and we were still paying off his student loan. He didn't listen, signed for the loan and got the pool installed without me. I was irritated but then a few months later, he went to spend the day with a friend and came home with a brand new 2016 car. He had went behind my back and bought it without talking to me. I was furious, but he assured me we were fine financially. two weeks ago he lost his job. Now we are up a s**t creek. I'm mad, sad and scared for our future. He's a good man, but makes horrible financial decisions. He refuses to see a counselor and I'm not sure what to do. Thanks for the support. The loans are only in his name. That's about the only saving grace for me. I'm trying to stay positive and be as supportive as I possibly can. I'm looking for a family to nanny for that would allow me to bring their child to my daughters doctors and therapy appts. It's not a simple or quick fix, but it's what I can do to try and help in this situation. It's been so hard not to lash out at him, but that won't help the situation, only make things worse.

some say it's good so you become sex-perianced like you become experience when dating other men or women, but on the contrary people break up cuz the sex is bad, so like sleeping with an unlimited amount of people is fine until you the best one who is great but also is good in bed. Some people even divorce because other sex is better. My question on this is what should you focus on? But basically this disregards the whole view point of 'wait until your married or just wait for the perfect person'. In some marriages(cultures) they only know sex with that one person? Is that good? What is your guys's thought?

If a guy isn't married by the time he's 35, by that point does it become highly improbable that he'll ever get married?

My husband is amazing and I know hed never cheat on me. He cherishes his family. The problem is this tartbitch. Before we were married his coworker flirted with him but he never made a move. Then I came along and he fell in love with me. (Im so lucky.) He didnt ask her out... not because he was too shy but because HE DIDNT WANT HER. Hes not the 'shy' type. When hes attracted to someone or feels a certain way he speaks up. So the only reason he didnt ask her out was because he simply didnt want to. Before we were married she would always ignore me and only talk to my bf in front of me. Like I wasnt even there! He proposed to me, we got married and had a daughter and she snubbs me even more. Now my husband wont talk to her because HE feels disrespected. IM his WIFE after all And I've never given her a reason to dislike me. Shes just weirdly threatened by me. I believe she does this because shes insecure. She flirts with a lot of men and they fall for it, that makes her feel pretty. But my husband didnt which probably made her feel unworthy. And then him marrying me twisted the knife because I seemed like the 'worthy' one. Like I'm 'better than her' and she hates me for it. Because my husband picked ME. Thats crazy! He wanted love and a family, if he wanted to just get laid he couldve gone anywhere. Had she offered more than tight jeans, caked on make up and sex she mightve had a chance who knows. Im NOT A BAD PERSON FOR BEING IN LOVE. Should I tell her how crazy she seems?

If a husband does not please his wife, according to Islam, what can a wife do? Let's say, he will get his quickly and shoo me away without me being satisfied. He doesn't kiss me much or hold hands. He is not romantic at all and when I try to be he tells me I am annoying. I have told him about it numerous times but he doesn't care. Now I'm starting to not like my husband anymore. my question is what can I do to fix it if possible?

I have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years. My family has been asking me a lot if I plan to marry her. I told them I would when I was ready. Why does it matter to them