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I didn't even know triplets was possible to conceive naturally I don't think I'll fully believe it until I see them in front of me. My boyfriend and I both have a fraternal twin brother. I'm 21 my boyfriend is 26 and we've been together 6 years and we're excited. I know I want to spend my life with him but I had said I didn't want to get married yet because I think 21 is too young but he would've wanted us to get married a year ago. I'm absolutely clueless in the mom department but that's a whole other issue. I know he will be a wonderful dad but I'm so worried about our relationship. Right now everything is amazing but people who have kids young have a bigger chance of divorce and I've read couples with multiple kids also have a higher chance of divorce I mentioned it to him and he brushed it off and said "well it's a good thing we aren't married then we can't get divorced" and then I think he realized I'm genuinely worried about this and he told me before we met he never wanted kids or get married and since meeting me he knows he wouldn't want any other life. Which just made me think he could so quickly decide he likes a life with me he could just as easily decide he doesn't. We've talked about marriage and he's said as soon as I'm ready he's ready. I know I'll never want anyone else but I don't think I've ever fully trusted anyone but he's the closest I've come to it and I'm still nervous so I was just wondering if anyone has advice Particularly someone with multiple kids? I think I was rushing and may have not been totally clear. He did say he never wanted marriage or kids, but when he met me and we became serious he changed his mind and decided he does want a family and now that he's actually been in a steady relationship he wouldn't want to go back to what he used to do I believe twins because like I said we both have a history of them in our family, but I don't see how they would think theirs a third heart beat when they sound the same.

I'm 23 years old been married for 2 years, and I seriously don't think I love my husband anymore( He's 23 as well) . We had a very rough 2 years and he is very selfish and did a lot of stupid things that drove me away. I finally told him I was feeling like we needed to end things and he finally took me seriously and decided to change. But it was like day and night change, I feel like it's all fake and once I go back to having feelings for him its all going to go back to normal(shitty) . I dread spending time with him, he spent a few days away and I was so happy. I think about being with other men, we stopped having sex because I don't feel connected and the few times we do he's the only one who is satisfied. We agreed to do counseling but honestly I feel like it won't help the way I feel, does counseling help you fall back in love with someone you fell out of love with?? I'm afraid of making a mistake by divorcing him but I'm also afraid of staying in a miserable relationship for any longer. What do I do ?

I am 5 months Pregnant by my Ex Fiance. He left me when I was 7 weeks along to follow up a Job, but before he left we got a Marriage License. He told my Family we were getting Married, and then we found I was Pregnant. We were both Happy. Then he pretended he found a Job 5 hours away, while he lived with his mom. I found out he had started another relationship after a few days and we fell out. He told me that he is SINGLE now, and will think about getting back with me. I stopped talking to him, and he is with another female now and left me alone Pregnant. He mislead me and my family and I has to see a Psychiatrist behind this traumatic situation. He has not reached out at all. His Mother told me that her son has a right to his child, despite us not working out. Please tell me what to do?

What do you do when your significant others child is hard to deal with and has no manners? She's 7yrs old. Smartest kid in her class. But Talks back to her mom, literally cries about everything, lies about everything. I been married for going on 5 years And my step daughter has been a handful She's extremely hard to deal with. Everyone we bring her around get annoyed by her or the make a comment about her being rude. My wife has a hard time teaching her because she just cries about anything we say to her or she tells people how mean her mom n i are. It's total bs. The Dad hasn't been around since birth. Does anyone have suggestions besides spanking, I'm just trying to do the right thing. Thanks

i just wonder because someday id like to have a cool son and other cool kids i like other cool names too

I just turned 18 in July & I'm sleeping with a family friend, my brothers best friend, my sisters ex ( 90's), my sister in law's brother, close to my dad, he's 43, married with 4 kids my age, one 4 and another one on the way. Ive known him all my life but was never close until I saw him at the mall in Oct. & he gave me money. We just started having relations going into New Years. We've been together everyday since then. We've had sex in his bed, we've gotten a room, we had sex in my car in front of his house late at night. We've gone to his friends house a couple of times and spent all day/night together. He said it was a secret, last night around 11 ish I was with him & he said he wanted to go see my dad because he hadn't seen him in years & he stayed til 3am & I took him home which is 15 mins from my house & came back home near 7am. He paid for me to get my toes done, he's taking me shopping he said his wife knows something if different but I make him happy & I make him feel "young". He doesn't act 43 he's really hip he has swag, he's cute, fun, he just wants to party & have fun. He calls me his "little b*tch" during sex though & wants me to call him daddy & say I belong to him. At 1st he told me he wanted it to be a secret but now he's kissing me in front of his friends, we're always together, he calls me randomly just to check on me, last night we went to a store that everyone goes to and he was holding my hand, kissing me in the parking lot. I just need honest opinions.

As I have grown older and much more observant, I have noticed a lot of issues concerning the state of my parents marriage. It all started about 5 years ago when I was in 8th grade. My father started to distance himself from the family. I didn't think anything of it at the time but looking back on it I realized this was when a lot of tension that is now present began. As time went on and as I hit major milestones (getting my drivers license etc) my fathers behavior has gotten quite irrational. It is clear that the man is unhappy and shows a lot of signs of depression and anxiety. Whenever a discussion on a simple matter is going on, it can escalate into a huge argument between him and my mom in the blink of an eye. Some days it seems as though he views me as the bane of his existence while others he seems very pleased, it bothers me that he is very rude and disrespectful towards my mom and doesn't show her any support in anything she does. It is very obvious that their relationship lacks intimacy and has for quite awhile (pre risky longer than the last 5 years). The idea of relationship counseling has been tossed up but my father refuses to even consider the thought of help. The whole situation is very concerning and straining, and now that I'm in college and at least somewhat separate from this, it has occurred how strained their marriage is. Can these conditions and irrational behaviors potentially lead to my parents divorce? Could my father receiving help for his depression and anxiety symptoms help alleviate some of the tension? It really saddens and frightens me to think that there is a possibility of my family whom I care deeply about could potentially fall apart.

If a 16 year old goes to Vegas to get married do they have to have a parent signature or can anyone over the age of 18 sign for them?

If she doesn't deliver, do I get my money back?

My husband, because of his job...has moved my family 4 times since late 2013...& my son does not want to start another high school. I have found a private online school, but my husband thinks our son wont get any social interaction...my son says he is getting social anxiety from having to start new schools. I agreed with my son & paid the money & he is now enrolled. I think my husband doesnt care how my son feels...my son is very smart & a sophomore. He can finish high school early & have more credits this way. Do you think online private school is more damaging than moving a kid around to different schools? We are new here & I want my boy to get adjusted to the area first, he said he would like to start public school here next year. It is expensive to private school, so my husband is a little mad about that...but we have the money so I did it anyways. Is my husband wrong or what He isn't anti social, he is very social.

I'm 31 and not married, I am trying my best to find my love- going out, registered on dating sites.... and I just can't find a good man. All my relationships were no good-some were cheating, one turned out to be married, one had an alcohol problem... all I want is a man I can trust and who will care about me. But I just can't find one. I am desperate because I want to get married while I still can have children... and so far I never found the right person... They all seem good till you know them really well, after a year or so I always find out he's not to be trusted. Is it me who's too demanding? I even thought about giving a second chance to a boyfriend who lied about his marriage but... i just don't want to trust someone who alreadyproved to be a liar..

Long story short, Husband quit working to gamble when I was 7 months pregnant. To help him quit, we moved to his country so he can be near his family so they can help. We left behind every credit line opened plus the car loan. Most are under his name some are joint. My daughter and I are US citizens, he is conditional resident that he got through marriage. He now doesn't work, calls me names and tells me to get out and tells me I'm mentally retarded and I need help while he is the one either sitting at home all day with his phone or out getting wasted. Calls 14month old a pig cause she eats with food all over. 'Taps' her head with his feet and he thinks he's allowed to do this because he's the 'dad' His bank accounts all show casino money withdrawals. Now I am In a different country and I want to file for a divorce but afraid he won't let me take my daughter. What can I do. I do not speak the language here. He does not work.

I say true. Look at the divorce rates. These EXCLUDE those who're unhappily married but staying together for the kids. A spouse began as a stranger and can end up as one again.

If I'd rather have a good brother or sister than a good husband? To me, siblings mean so much. They play a large role in my growth and development. Moreover, if you've good siblings, they'll always help you out and have your back, regardless how old you are, and where you live. Moreover, I can get another husband in most cases but not another sibling. AM I selfish?

My husband is a social person very outgoing. When he's with others he asks questions about them and tries to get to know them. But when he's home he doesn't act that way. He says he doesn't have much to say. Its like he doesn't want to know me. Even when I try to share things he seems in interested. . What do I do?

We spoke, after years she has agreed to somewhat of an open marriage, but now I don't know if she thinks she can sleep with other men too? If she slept with another man I don't think I could stay with her

I am marrying a woman so wondered if I should be scared. Amen to StanleyTomak's reply. I had already picked best answer when he replied or I'd have given him the best answer. StanleyTomak is right on

There is a ton of information about abusive relationships. Tons. There is nothing about the husband's consequences for his behavior. I feel like it should be a give in, if you are not nice to your lady she will find some other activity to make her feel better, but there's nothing. Is cheating not a logical way to deal with a marriage you can't get out of? Seriously! What else is there to do.. knit? Take up excessive drinking? Please.. enlighten me. Okay.. COULD get out of but it would be a big hassle. I guess my bigger question would be...Wouldn't the man feel like he sort of deserved it? Maybe use the cheating as a wake up call, and stop being an @ss?

My wife is under some illusion she will be financially set for life if we ever divorced. I make good money but don't have any 401K sadly and virtually no savings. We have been married for 8 years so far and live in Arizona were supposedly there is no such thing as alimony here. She left her old job a few years ago that made livable money to afford and apartment and things but now she would need assistance from the state if we divorced. How do you think something like this would work out if we divorced? She acts likes if we divorced she going to win the lottery and never have to work again. We don't have any kids together. She does have a teen age daughter that she is receiving child support for though. if that matters at all. Thank guys for all your help.

I come early lat night and find my wife talking to her best friend. Before I say hello I hear her saying to her friend "Ya I just put up with him". They were talking about divorce or something. Then she goes on saying how she'll be set for the rest of her life because I make decent money. Mind you i do make good money but dont have any 401k or savings. half of almost nothing in divorce court. Is this messed up or what? I thought we had a decent marriage until now. We go out on dates sex twice a week or moreI tell her shes beautiful we have pet names we use non stop with each other otherwise a very nice marriage I thought. we hradly ever argue or fight. WTF? How would you react? Does my wife really love me? Thank guys for your help!!!! I do go the gym and have done a few things like that. She has mentioned if I was doing it for someone else. She trusts me and knows I wouldnt do that to her though.

So my husband is really stressed and is always checking his phone...Anyway I went to his office and I saw him kissing another woman I am heart broken and don't know what to do... He has been using opiates pot and alcohol heavily lately and I fear that he is pushing me away so that I won't 'nag' him into rehab. He is very smart but I fear that he is going to destroy himself...Worst of all I am pregnant and I do not know if I should plan an intervention, talk to him, divorce him, or leave him. He was a sweet guy when we met but he has become a shell of himself...He never eats, I have to sit there and watch him eat. I fear that he will hurt himself either intentionally or unintentionally from all his habits.

Do they deserve an extra credit for that and another chance?

I am a 25 year old happily married female. I have always had a pretty high sex drive but now it s like.. Multiplied. I literally think about sex all of the time, constantly. I even had a fantasy about my dentist during a root canal last week. THAT IS NOT NORMAL. I hate this. I feel trapped. My husband and I do engage in intercourse once a week or so but it really isn t enough. How can I lower my sex drive so I don t end up cheating on my husband?

He was looking at baby stuffs and woman's cosmetic and outfits but never discuss these to me even mention these to me. Are these for his other woman? We don't have baby yet. Is he planning to impregnate his other woman? He never talks about having a children with me but he still wants me to live with him. He complaints about me to his family. He's rude, disrespectful and he can't speak with"f*ck" word. When I ask him why he's coming home late and if there's problem with our marriage, he tells me I'm mentally ill. He has an illicit affair. He's cold towards me nowadays. He never ask how's my day. He told me he's planning to spend vacation with me but when I ask him if he wants us to go to his favorite place, he told me he's just want to be with me. He works longer hours than a normal person. He's always stress, many times he ignores me, when he arrives home, he goes straight to his computer, checking hid email according to him. He asks about my schedule at work; my work is homebased, he's asking irritably what time of the day I prefer to work, he's asking me what I prefer, to work daytime or night time. Picks fight. He's reading some article about "how to survive an affair". He keeps lying about his affair. When I disappeared 3 days because of our fight. He told me he had nose bleed and don't do it again. He spends most of his time with his new interest or activities. Are these telltale signs our marriage is coming to its end./he is going to dump me soon? PS, he ignores my text message. I've been trying to save our marriage, I showing him how much I care for him, I told him "I love you", asking how's his day is. Despite of these, he still seems more indifferent, irritable and always stress and bored.

Please elaborate why and why not... Even if a person stops on his own and admits without being caught

My husband and I are getting divorced because he impregnated his mistress. I told him to tell his mistress to get an abortion, so him and I can work on our marriage. He got mad and told me he wants me out of his life. He says I'm horrible for suggesting murdering his child and that he wants to be with her now. Few weeks later, he drunk dialed me to come have sex with him while his mistress was out of town. I did, and few weeks later, I found out I was pregnant. I was ecstatic. I assumed he would be to, and he would dump his pregnant mistress for his pregnant wife, and he would throw away the divorce papers. Well, he surprised me. He was upset that I was pregnant. He said he wanted to continue with the divorce and didn't want me to have his baby. He even demanded that I get an abortion!!! This makes no sense. How come abortion is murder when it comes to his pregnant mistress, but not his pregnant wife.

Well my husband has always watched porn and it has never bothered me, heck ive watched with him on occassion, but about a week or two ago, i was on my period and me and my man are just not big on having sex while this is happening, so i knew he probably watched it and masturbated some, no big deal to me. Then once i was off my period and we would try to have sex he just couldnt get into the mood and then come to find out hes been watchin porn and masturbating earlier on in the day, and that really upset me cause i was like i was just in the other room, if you were turned on why didnt you come and have sex with me? And it was always he didnt want to bother me because i was busy doing something or sometimes even i was asleep, and i explained to him how that upset me and that if your turned on why wouldnt you come to your wife and have sex with me. So we did get past this and came to an agreement that he needed to cut down his porn use. Well last night he was so in the mood when i came home from work and i was a little bit but then i askd him why and he just kept avoidin the question by kissing me so i finally said you watched porn earlier didnt you, and he said yea so i could get aroused for you, like that was a favor to me. I told him that that was horrible he HAD to watch porn to get turned on for me, and he did admit he was wrong and said that it would stop. I just dont know what to do or how to fix this, i just want to feel attractive by my husband like any wife would.

My husband and I are happily married. I'm 25 and he's 26. I teach at our towns elementary school and he teaches senior literature at the high school. He also coaches the girls basketball team. I have never once suspected my husband of cheating. We have known each other since high school. The same school he teaches at. It's a small town so this type of behavior is generally considered normal, but I came home from shopping this past Tuesday and he was outside playing basketball with three of his students. All of them girls. He introduced me to them and everything was fine, but it makes me uncomfortable. I know he would never cheat. But it still makes me sick thinking that he has younger girls over at the house while I'm not there. I even brought it up to him after they left and he said I was just overreacting and that he's had students over before while I wasn't there to help with school or college applications. I almost feel mad at myself for thinking that he would do something behind my back but I can't stop thinking about it. He's had them over while I was home but that's different. I just don't know what to do to calmost my neve's down about it.

This has always been in the back of my mind, but now that we are officially engaged, it is now a real problem for me. My fiance's last name rhymes with my first name. It's a fine surname on its own, but it's literally the exact same thing as my first name (even spelled exactly the same), just with a different first letter, and it sounds RIDICULOUS when you say it out loud. Hyphenating my maiden name and married name is an option, I suppose, but I'm not at all close with my father and thus, have never been attached to my surname in any way. I had always looked forward to shedding it at some point and adopting my husband's last name when the time came and that's how I always pictured it. So what should I do, or what would you do in this situation? I'm not keen on hyphenating, but the alternative sounds completely silly.

Me and my husband have been married for 21 years. He used to work his *** off in construction for the first 13. Then the economy got bad in 2008 and construction jobs were scarce. Since then he only works when his dad finds contruction jobs. He will work his butt off for a few weeks then sit at home til his dad calls again which may be a few days or a few weeks. He does contribute but I work full time and have used my savings to keep up with the bills. It has been this way for about 8 years. Every job I suggest to him from the classifieds he has a reason or excuse why he dont want to apply. What should I do? I love him but I am sick of getting nowhere in life, just getting by. I am 41 and am scared of a future retirement with this man. I m actually sure there won t be one!!!

So my dad is get clobbered in court by my mom who has a very nice job and (now) a very nice fully paid for house and car and expenses. She also gets A LOT of money in alimony and child support to the point where she is getting a large majority of their assets and the children. I m in college and he pays for my college, but has to pay child support for me, and for some odd reason on top of my child support (and my brothers) he has to pay for my expenses which is retarded. Isn t that what child support it? Everything they ve ever had was because of him and she is set for life now but she still wants more (or the lawyers do) and this will probably all go through in court. It s like getting married isn t even worth it anymore

The guy has a current illicit affair with other woman. The guy shows guilt about his affair, still coming back to his wife.

Note: The husband still coming home to his wife. I have to admit, I became ****** to my husband, I focus on myself because of workaholism. I didn't give him enough attention because of workaholism, my sexual drive is poor due to anxiety and stress, I'm moody, lack of communication, we are living apart because of his job. I'm fully aware of my shortcoming. God knows, I remain faithful to him, when he spends vacation with me, I did my best as a wife, I look after him and I do my best to bring back the sweetness of our marriage.

I am a 34 years old and have been married for 15 years. My husband works out of town for last 6 months. Every month he visit us. This year we made a holiday vacation plan, during our vacation I saw text messages on his phone with his female friend from recently graduated MBA collage. His MBA program was mostly online but he has to go their for 3 weeks beginning of the year and 3 weeks end of the year. So they know each-other for 2.5 years now. I saw text about making plane for connect over coffee, pub for a pint, movie (according to him they did no go). They went couple of time to pub,he picked her up and drop her of. Late night texts like... so, how was your day today?, hey, what's up?, Okay, Awesome, Great, I have good red wine and all. Also, one of the text she said, that You're a chameleon!!! :) I didn't know why she use this word for him and what it means??? When I ask my husband about all this he is saying only one thing to me, all I needed a friend who can I drink with and he wanted to catch up with her on some collage memories. well when they meet first time i think that's enough for collage memories, and he has lots of male friends in that town who can he drink with. Also he did not mention to me any thing about her and going out with her, if she is just a good friend then he should not be hiding from me. He has been going out with his male friend for so many years, in fact I never stopped him. I don't know what to do and what to think. Please, help.

It's ok for the guy to have multiple illicit affairs and have sex with variety of women but his wife is not allowed to cheat, flirt and let other man eat and f*ck her. I have a friend with cheating husband, her husband told her not to cheat, but she still cheated on him as personal vendetta of his infidelity.

I'm confuse if my cheating husband is narcissistic. Based on my research: -Cheaters don't feel empathy (but my husband pities the poor people.) -Narcissist doesn't feel guilt.(My cheating husband shows guilt, he's distant to me, he's depressed around me but if he's about to leave the house, he's excited and happy.) -Narcissist doesn't care if you leave him.( When I threaten him that I'm going to leave him then when I tried to speak to him, he said, he's depressed and has nose bleed due to high blood pressure. -Narcissist are self-absorbed and only care for themselves. (My husband still gives me financial support, he does his promises and he told he's planning to spend vacation with me for 2 months.) -Narcissist loves admiration and compliments. (I told my husband he's good looking, he said "No, I know I'm not") He's exhibiting some narcissistic traits: -control -cheating -haughtiness/arrogance -liar -overestimate his achievements and talents sometimes. (But he admits he's not perfect. He said to me, a person can't be the best because there are best than the best.) -jealous -Putting me down, during affair.(But he compliments me sometimes) -Critical/judgemental (But if you something amazing, he will compliment you.) I really need to know the answer so I know how can I able to deal with my husband. Or he is a sociopath? I'm worried here. I'm asking this also because I wanted to save our marriage.

My husband's daughter has been home for the past month for her Christmas break from college. She's been dividing her time between our house and her mom's. Hubby and his baby momma have a great relationship. Yesterday, his car was down and she ran him around helping him get it back on the road. Well, she's taking their daughter back to college this coming Friday and he daughter was with mom yesterday. Last night she came home about 9:30 or so to pack her things up to take back to her mom's and with her was her 10 and 15 or 16 year old younger sisters to help her gather her things. I have a thing about extra people in my house. My husband didn't seem to have a problem with it. Again, he gets along great with her other kids. Even at one point my husband's daughter was in our room because he had to change the bandage on her leg. She had a biopsy done a few days ago and my husband had her come to our room while he changed the bandage and her 10 year old sister was standing in our bedroom watching the whole time. IN OUR BEDROOM! I'm in the bed under the covers and my husband knows I don't like extra people in my room. Then when they were leaving he stood at the front door till they all got in the car and pulled out of the driveway. After a few minutes when he didn't come back to the bedroom I walked in the living room and there he was standing in the front door and all I could say was "really"! Why doesn't he understand I don't like all the extra people in my house, especially that late at night?

My husband and I have had this argument I want to say more then 300 times in the last few years. We've gone through some relationship troubles where he's pretty much mentally checked out of our marriage. I feel like at this point I'm the only one still in love or trying to make an effort. He used to text me a lot at work (he's a Sargent in security he is permitted to use his phone) but he no longer does as much as he used to. He spends most of his time having a good time with his coworkers. I wouldn't mind if it was equally balanced but it's not. They get more of him then I do. When he gets home he eats dinner and soon gets tired and just goes to sleep. He spends most his time in his phone or doing something he wants to do. It seems like my husband and I are completely different pages all the time in our marriage. I've avoided fights by telling him nothing is wrong and recently during one of our communication sessions he asked me to stop doing that so I have exercised that. I've been honest and all he's done is call me a hypocrite or telling me I'm just not satisfied or like to nitpick. So again what's the point in being honest about my feelings if he just doesn't care to fix it or bother meeting me in the middle. Our biggest difference is sex. He and I fight about quality and quantity of sex. And before you go off on your "Just give him sex" train it's not me it's him. He's the one that doesn't want sex! Once a week if I'm lucky. He comes up will ALL kinds of reasons to not Have sex when he says he's tired I leave him be but there are moments he chooses to just keep sitting there and watch tv or play his phone. It's just really upsetting and when we do have sex he gets straight to it. Climbs over me and says "oh one of the kids might wake up" while yes I'm breastfeeding our infant right now and they do wake up but I feel like he can make an effort sometimes. He gets off REALLY fast. A minute maybe two it's just a sexual tease for me for him to start sex and it be done with. Sometimes he makes an effort to get me off after but you know that gets old. I want sex to matter to be something but he just has the reasons why it can't be that way. We get into fights because he says he can't tell me no without me eventually giving him grief and I tell him he has every right to say no. I would never force him but me feeling upset that he turned me down yet again it's a normal feeling to feel meh about your partner turning you down. (at least I think it's normal? Any disagreements feel free to comment!) it's not like I'm sitting there like "Why no now or I demand you do it!" He can say no it just sucks that it's no more then yes. Someone hits on me he doesn't care so it's just everything he doesn't talk to me much anymore we barely have sex and he doesn't care if someone hits on me. He says "oh I know you're not going anywhere so I'm not worried." Well so? Just because I'm loyal what's that got to do with it. I feel like he has to put some kind of effort into this marriage and not just me. Is this wrong? Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! You don't know anything about abuse "David" you can't being someone to legal court for getting advice about your personal problems involving another person. You are not mentally capable of giving advice that is sound. You humor me.. next Maybe I should be more clear. I've done anything and EVERYTHING possible. I went out to buy new sexy lingerie to his taste (stockings seethrough panties with ribbon) we chose them together and I got them. I give into all of his fantasies. I've woken him up in the morning shortly before work making sure he's awake and I'll start giving him oral sex and he's too "distracted" and doesn't want it. I don't nag him as I stated above I have said nothing is wrong. I have just dealt with him doing this But when he asked me to stop and be honest and I started doing that he doesn't like what I have to say I'm not high maintenance I don't ask him for his money I aim to please him he just has no interest in me. I like sex he doesn't.

My friend recently got married to a guy she's known for less than a year. They are both 23 and very young in my opinion. Personally I don't agree with what she did but it's her life. When I asked her: "But what if you don't click after 3 years? I mean you got engaged after only 6 months". She said: "If it doesn't work than I'll just get a divorce". I'm not a very religious person but I still like the idea of getting married and sharing life with someone. I don't want to get divorced. I'm sure that me and my future husband will go through rough patches. All couples do. But when that time comes I don't want him to suggest divorce. I want us to work on it. I just don't understand why people bother in that situation? Why spend all that money on a wedding, making it all legal and everything if you're just going to get a divorce? Getting a divorce is not easy but wouldn't be surprised if she divorces that guy before 2016 is over. I just don't understand why people do it if that's their mindset?

It worries me because he made me stop contact with mine, but it s ok for him to look up that many women? I mean if it was one I wouldn t worry but that s excessive. And one of them is a girl he begged me to have a threesome with her and him like the week after we got married. It actually makes me mad because I was to delete all of my ex s and he checks my phone all the time to make sure I m not talking to them but it s ok for him to look up that many women? I also saw a message from a girl he used to like that he had archived so it would be harder to find. This all makes me seem like a snoop but I m not, I trust with my whole heart but I don t want to be a fool either. I just would like some of your opinions please?

Is there anything cultural about staying married to a woman you don't live with and starting a new relationship with a woman whom that man has had a child with. I feel sorry for her as he said sh wanted him to start again with someone else who can have children. His good with the child but totally refuses to divorce his wife so he can marry yhe woman he is with. He seems intent on totally keeping the two from meeting unless on his terms. Although his family have met his girlfriend. Im sure hos hiding something.

My husband works as a field supervisor at a chemical plant and he works Mon-Thur 40 hrs. He comes home and he is already with a groggy voice and droopy eyes and irritated and loud and talks alot. He is extremely tired you can see it but he denies it. He starts cleaning up he starts looking for things to do to occupy him instead of going to take a shower and get ready to relax and eat dinner. When he is ready to eat dinner like 7:30 he eats real slow cuts every single piece of food he has in small pieces and it takes him like a hour to finish his plate. Afterwards, he says he ate to much and his back and side hurts and most of the times big thick puffy hives start coming out as well. And, finally he lays down around 9 or 10 and snoring loudly but if my kids and I are talking or seeing a movie he wakes up every few minutes and joins in the conversation like he was awake the whole time. But,he was asleep!! He wakes up all night!! Tosses and turns and scratching and his hands are wandering and legs are moving. And, then next day goes to work and fatigue is like a ton of bricks. This happens Mon-Thur only. Come Friday and Saturday and Sunday all he wants to do is sleep day and night. No time for the family he tells us to go do what we have to do cause he is really tired and he wants to rest. But, shy can he sleep day and night Fri-Sun and he can't sleep AT ALL Mon-Thur??? Very frustrated and neglected!!!

I had to take my wife for an endoscopy, for which she was sedated. I took our 3 year old daughter. When the test was over, the doctor called us back. A nurse came to my daughter and asked her "do you want to play legos with me in the next room?" My daughter went with the nurse while the doctor updated me on what's going on with my wife. After I was done with the doctor, the doctor directed me to the next room where my daughter was, and that my wife would be out in the next 5 minutes. I went to the door where my daughter was. My wife wasn't out yet, so I let my daughter play a little longer. My wife came out a minute later, and we left. After her sedation wore off, my wife asked me why I was smiling when she came out. I said "I was watching out baby play." My wife replied with "You sure you weren't watching the nurse?" I said "She was playing with the nurse, so by association, I was watching her too, but I was smiling as I watched our daughter play." My wife then went the route of "You thought she was pretty, didn't you? Pretty, and young." Of course I said "Seriously? That's a little ridiculous. Yes she was pretty, but I don't think she's that much younger than you, and I wasn't smiling at her, I was smiling at my daughter." My wife then said "Oh she isn't that much younger than me? That means you'd take her over me, doesn't it?" How ridiculous! I didn't want to continue the argument any longer, because my wife needed to rest. WTF gives though?