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- Question: Does this mean Im overperforming?
- Question: How do I become a "better swim coach"? And how do I handle my situation?
- Question: How to say no to my friend offering to pay for my ticket to go on a cruise with her?
- Question: What should I get for my friend's B-Day? ASAP!!! :O description of friend included.?
- Question: I think my friends are having sex?
- Question: Could my mom take my best friend to the hospital?
- Question: Any tips to feel better? Facebook is making me feel bad?
- Question: En mi casa hubo una epidemia de cucarachas y chiripas el año pasado y ahora cierro los ojos o estoy tranquila y veo cucaracha?
- Question: How should i tell my friend shes disrespectful?
- Question: Why are the peoples on here so ************* rude. I think it's very disgusting how some of y'all sit and type the most stupidest rudiest?
- Question: Is it ok for a kid to have adult friends?
- Question: My ex bestfriend/roommate doesn't respect my things and I ask her all the time to not, but she doesn't care. I tried everything help!?
- Question: I'm 17. I've Been Rape Ever Since I Was A Little Girl.. My Uncle Raped Me , Cousin, And Friends.?
- Question: Happiness VS friends?
- Question: Everything is wrong with me,How do I change myself?
- Question: How can I get over thinking about my ex-boyfriend with other girls? I'm having a really hard time...?
- Question: Why do my friends take advantage of me?
- Question: How do I surprise my best friend with a bass guitar for her birthday/Christmas?
- Question: How do you tell your guy friend that you like him without wrecking the friendship?
- Question: Jealous of my friend?
- Question: Friend problem? Did I do wrong? Friend problem? Did I do wrong? ?
- Question: Hey there. I've seen that Humans are really different when they are together. For example,?
- Question: Broke up with my best friend last year, but I can't stop thinking about her?
- Question: I friend request people from all over the world to learn more about the world through pen pals. The people accept, but is that odd?
- Question: Is my friend insecure?
- Question: What's a good way to go about telling your best friend that you like him?
- Question: How could I stop my groupmates laugh at me?
- Question: I got a D on my math test? What do I do?
- Question: How to help my friend!?!?!?
- Question: I Cheated with my new husbands best friend , 10 minits befor our Wedding.behind the Alter.?
- Question: Why did this girl even bother adding me again on Facebook?
- Question: My close friends didn't wish me a happy 18th birthday?
- Question: I feel done w/ Most people?
- Question: How do I tell my mom to calm the frick down?
- Question: My friend always lies to me, why?
- Question: My friend hasn't been acting the same lately and I'm a little worried :/ 10 points best answer ASAP?
- Question: Do you think my friend is being reasonable? Read description?
- Question: In your group of friends, do you have the one that no one else trusts, and is careful what they around them because they will blab?
- Question: Why did my cousin squeeze my thigh?
- Question: Why do women complain and talk on and on about things but won't just take common-sense steps to fix what they complain about?
- Question: After I get done nursing should I just put my boob away in front of my 12 year old son or leave it out for a while at home ?
- Question: How could I stop my groupmates laugh at me?
- Question: Was our boss being mean to us?
- Question: How often do you get rejection in making friends?
- Question: Friend drama..help please!?
- Question: I don't need friends to make me happy anymore!?
- Question: My friend keeps talking about my spots.?
- Question: My brother and his friends bully me?
- Question: How do I help myou depressed friend?
- Question: I hate my peers but I Am not shy!!?
- Question: I wish I had more friends?
- Question: I have no friends?
- Question: My boyfriend is really passive?
- Question: Maturity Problem or Overprotective?
- Question: I switched rooms without telling roommates. Was it wrong?
- Question: Am I doing something wrong here? Please give me your opinion.?
- Question: Did I do the right thing to dump my boyfriend over this?
- Question: How can I get my friend to unblock me and forgive me?
- Question: Should I Stop Being Friends With Them?
- Question: Harassment from neighbors what should I do?
| Question: Does this mean Im overperforming? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 05:06 PM PST I work part-time at a daycare and try to help out with everything. For example, setting up activities, playing with children, serving food, cleaning, etc. Recently after I finished the cleaning tasks, I took out the chart to fill it out and noticed that another part-time staff already filled out the tasks for next week (which she hasnt done yet). Was she afraid I do everything? |
| Question: How do I become a "better swim coach"? And how do I handle my situation? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 05:00 PM PST I'm 20 years old and started off coaching a swim club last year. Apparently I'm "too nice to the kids which in return they walk all over me." And that I take too long to explain something to the team (I really can't recall anything I've taken too long to explain so I can't help myself there), and finally I don't do the same thing the other coaches do, whatever that means. I feel bummed to hear this from my sister which heard it from the sister of my coworker. They said that no one should have to tell me what to fix; either you're a good swim coach or not. To me this is kind of unprofessional. No one starts out perfect but I have experience with children and the kids really like me. They listen to me; one time there was a case the male coach had to talk to the boys, but that was one time. I feel like I'm being exaggerated, but I care because it feels unfair to me. I need some advice or input about this. Do I confront the head coach? I think this was said by my one coworker.. I honestly don't know how I should handle this because a part of me wants to be immature in spite because the girl told my sis swear not to tell. Shouldn't I be taught, led, criticized, and mentored for this job? It's my first time. It hurts my confidence. Quick advice please |
| Question: How to say no to my friend offering to pay for my ticket to go on a cruise with her? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:56 PM PST My friend's birthday is in February and she wants to take me with her on a cruise, but she needs to buy the tickets tomorrow; so I have to let her know tomorrow if I'm going to go or not. I don't want to go because she annoys me so much and I wouldn't be able to deal with her and her mother for two nights and three days. I feel bad and I don't know how to decline. |
| Question: What should I get for my friend's B-Day? ASAP!!! :O description of friend included.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:55 PM PST I have a great friend but her B-day is in less than a week and I need to think of a gift. I don't care how long it takes to get here. just answer me. She is into animals (especially dogs) and crafts, she is into the outdoors, she is in my GS troop, I've known her for about four-five years now, she's not girly, she's turning 13, she's very active, she likes music, she's a good writer, she has a lot of integrity, imagine the perfect "hanging out not being girly" friend who is very loyal... that's her. words that come to mind when I think of her? Eccentric, compassionate, loyal, fun, quick, active, compromiser. any ideas would be highly appreciated. THIS IS AN ASAP THING!!! PLS ANSWER QUICK!!! :O |
| Question: I think my friends are having sex? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:55 PM PST I was playing the computer and I heard ohh and I got up cuz I also had to go to the bathroom and I heard ohh f*cking sh*t that feels good thanks and my other friend said your welcome |
| Question: Could my mom take my best friend to the hospital? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:50 PM PST my best friend lives in Louisiana and I live in Indiana. We were talking about her moving back and living with me but what if she got hurt or really sick and had to go to the hospital ? like would my mom be able to take her bc most of the time it had to be their parents. |
| Question: Any tips to feel better? Facebook is making me feel bad? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:36 PM PST Okay I have been hanging out with this guy since May 2015. We would practically text a lot and hang out a lot. We hanged out for about 6x/month. Sometimes 4 days straight. But came new years and I didn't have anything to do. I thought I didn't need to make the first move and text him. But, it was wierd seeing him party with so many of his other friends when I saw his facebook pictures. I feel so awkward and left out. I think I made a mistake by not texting him that night. I deleted facebook off my phone because I was getting too jealous of the pictures and the other girls in there. Any tips to stop being jealous of these facebook pictures while I was being left out? |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:36 PM PST En mi casa hubo una epidemia de cucarachas y chiripas el año pasado y ahora cierro los ojos o estoy tranquila y veo cucaracha Hola el pasado año hubo una estampida de cucarachas y chiripas rastreras y voladoras que duro aproximadamente como 6 meses todavia se ven algunas a veces, normalmente les tengo asco y ni me gusta matarlas yo, pero durante esos 6 meses habian por toda mi habitacion lo cual me hacia matar cucarachas todos los santos dias durante esos 6 meses, en las noches me despertaba por el ruido y las mataba, a veces se me montaban en la cama ya estaba hostinada de tantas cucarachas. Por fin luego de 6 meses ya comenzaron a desaparecer y desde ese momento cierro los ojos o estoy tranquila haciendo algo y veo cucarachas, voladoras, rastreras, enjambres enteros de cucarachas, cucarachas que se esconden, cucarachas que salen de todo mi cuerpo, cucarachas de me cosen al cuerpo, un niño cercano a la familia que me mete una cucaracha en una cortada, cucarachas que se mueven y se esconden entre mi cuerpo. Algo que jamas en toda mi vida me habia pasado, ya habia matado antes otras cucarachas. Hasta escucho una voz que dice cucaracha. |
| Question: How should i tell my friend shes disrespectful? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:23 PM PST To make a long story short. i have a family member that i consider an associate. She has a really obxnious character and she can be abbrassive at times! But at the same time she is a senstive person and people tend to say and do things to hurt her everyday lol plot twist shes ******* rude and hurt people! I have been battling social anxiety for years now and throughout the years she has been less than supportive. matter of fact she has called me nasty things because she didn't understand my disorder. She has even went as far to repeat nasty rumors she heard from other people that were talking about my disorder which happens to be crippling. * she recently made friends with this girl that she works with and she came back and told me that her new friend has anxiety as well and her friend could give me some advice on how to handle my anxiety. She said to me " i never really thought anxiety was real until i talked to her" i felt beyond betrayed. After years she seen me cry, talk to therapist, and go as far to meds to control my anxiety and that is what she said to me. How do i handle this situation? |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:19 PM PST Things when most people's just looking for basic *** advice then most of y'all comments be ******* Anonymous if you going to have the balls to spit bullshit atleast have big enough ball to show who you is |
| Question: Is it ok for a kid to have adult friends? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:10 PM PST Im 11 and I was playing on my xbox one and I came across this guy on a titanfall match.After the match, he friended me and invited me to a party.We talked for a while.Is This Ok For Me? |
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| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:47 PM PST My Uncle In Jamacian Raped Me. Hell Touch Me And Do Bad Things. Next Thing I Know It I Moved Back To American Brooklyn To Be Exact. I Stayed With My Dad For A Little Bit . and My Couisn Rapped Me .. Moved To The Bronx. And I Got Raped By 4Guys.. I've Been Raped Ever Since I Was A Little Girl. And my Boyfriend.. I Fell In love With. Is Diagnosed With Lung Cancer. And I Don't Want That Feel Of Alone And Emptyness Again. I Really Don't Know How I'm Gonna Cope.. I Need HelpGoing Though This... Any Suggestions On How I Should Deal With This Situation... |
| Question: Happiness VS friends? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:34 PM PST Hey guys .. i am going to university next year and now i am thinking where should i go .. the problem is i don't feel happy in this town that i am in and i want to change it to meet new people and experience new things but the other problem is i don't want to leave my friends here and go far away .. so it's my happiness vs my friends .. what should i do ? |
| Question: Everything is wrong with me,How do I change myself? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:30 PM PST I dont know where should I begin from. I feel so pathetic writing this. OK,I am not a normal teenager guy at all.I can´t make friends at all.I am so awkward,clumsy,boring,etc. I have a freaking language problem,its been many years and I still cant learn it properly(not english btw) Forget the GF,I cant make a single freaking friend. I am so bad at studies,u might think "then just study harder" but the language barrier and the studies make it seem like impossible.WELL FOGET IT. Tommorow I have to go to the school until now I was in winter holidays,I dont know how should I face my classmates or teachers,its been more the 2 months that I havent talked with anyone in the school ,They all tried to talk with me but I just fuked up everything and I am a loner as always. Try to make a GF?Impossible,cuz u dont know about me in reality,I am ugly as fukkkk,I am a freaking midget/fugliest face/lazy eye. BUT DONT REALLY CARE ABOUT THAT,I JUST WANT TO MAKE FRIENDs. |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:18 PM PST We dated for 3 years in college and he recently left me and stopped talking to me because I got accepted into medical school and he said he couldn't do long distance. The hardest part for me has been thinking about all the girls he's going to be with and probably already has. He was my first boyfriend/kiss/etc, but he had dated lots of girls before me. He was also in a fraternity in college and he was a social butterfly. He goes to bars all the time, has lots of friends, and can find women in an instant to date. I, on the other hand, am very introverted and shy. I never go to bars, hardly ever meet people, don't have any friends, and mostly stay in my apartment by myself all day studying. He cheated on me before we broke up during the long distance part, so now that we broke up I know he has probably already been with many other girls. I, on the other hand, probably won't ever have another boyfriend or at least not for many, many years if history repeats itself. I have no idea how to date or flirt, and I'm pretty picky. His flings are one thing, but when he finds a serious girlfriend that he will eventually marry...that will hurt SO much and I'm terrified. What if she's prettier and a better girlfriend and less of a jealous person than I am? I'll always still be in love with him, and he won't even be thinking about me. How can I cope? |
| Question: Why do my friends take advantage of me? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:09 PM PST I live in a gated area in Beverly Hills and my friends have been to my house loads of times,whenever i'm out of town i dont know how they do it but they manage to get in somehow and they throw pool parties without my or my parents permission its easy to get to the pool cause its right in front of my house what should i do to stop them from doing this I've already told them to stop but they don't listen |
| Question: How do I surprise my best friend with a bass guitar for her birthday/Christmas? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:05 PM PST I bought my best friend a bass guitar for her birthday/Christmas and she does not play yet but always wanted to. We are presenting it to her tonight, and I want to present it to her in a cool way so she will be extra surprised and have a great reaction! Also I do not want to spend extra money on surprising it to her. Thanks! |
| Question: How do you tell your guy friend that you like him without wrecking the friendship? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:02 PM PST We've been friends for years and I love being around him and we both are incredibly grateful for each other and we tell each other everything and I really don't want that to go to waste accidentally. |
| Question: Jealous of my friend? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:54 PM PST My best friend is EXTREMELY popular and is friends with everybody, no joke. Even when she's not around people talk about how awesome she is, never anything disparaging. Even if somebody just pushes her playfully people will tell them that she's cool and to stop picking on her. She's really sweet and nice to everybody and is really funny. She's very pretty and a lot of guys have crushes on her and have asked her out. She gets really good grades without trying that hard and she just got into an Ivy League college. And her family is really nice. Her mom makes really good cookies and gives me some every time I hang out at her house. And I've hung out with her older sister when she comes home from college and she is really laid back and cool. I'm kind of jealous of her and sometimes I want her life really bad. What can I do? |
| Question: Friend problem? Did I do wrong? Friend problem? Did I do wrong? ? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:46 PM PST Friend problem? Did I do wrong? Friend problem? Did I do wrong? Friend problem? Did I do wrong? I have been friends with a girl for 10 years and this last couple of years she has changed. There is a group of us and we always went to bars together and went on holiday and trips so we were close. A few years ago she started to not want to go out with us and we only saw her maybe three times a year, we don't know what is wrong or happened and we have asked her numerous times what's wrong and she says nothing everything is fine. We all get the vibe she makes things up to not go out with us and things but we don't know why. There have been other issues over Christmas aswell but to shorten a long story we went out with her to a few bars the other night and at the end of the night I said to her again about her behaviour and what is up were had a bit of an argument (both had drink taken) and I am worried should I text her or just leave it cause of everything she has done? Am I worrying about nothing? What would u do? |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:46 PM PST If there was 2 boys in a room they would talk about something they have in common and they would be serious while talking, but if there was 2 boys and 2 girls they would talk about different stuff, they would joke, speaking in a loud voice and maybe one of them would be to shy to speak. If there was 1 boy and 1 girl in a room they could talk about everything, but what if 2 more guys jumps in to that room? They would probably talk about something else. I've have seen this many times, have you? I want to know what this type of "Social actness" is called. |
| Question: Broke up with my best friend last year, but I can't stop thinking about her? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:25 PM PST Last spring me and my best friend of about 10 years broke up over some stupid wedding drama. I didn't even care that much about the situation, but she was really upset and she wouldn't talk to me at all so that we could resolve the issue. It was like she would rather lose me as a friend than have a conversation. She said she wanted to take a break from being my friend (wth?), and I said "no thanks, friendship over because you won't even talk to me like an adult". She didn't try to talk me out of it at all, she had no response. Anyway - I am still feeling really sad and upset about this whole thing. I know things can probably never go back to how they were, but I feel a huge hole in my heart where she used to be. I don't understand what happened, because she wouldn't freaking talk to me! How did she get so mad that she didn't care if we never spoke again?! What can I do in this situation? |
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| Question: Is my friend insecure? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:10 PM PST - she always judges people for their looks in school - she brags about stuff all the time. her family is poor but her uncle is wealthy, so i was talking to her and she randomly said "my uncle just gave me $340 for no reason!" and i said "oh" because we were talking about school and it didnt make sense thay she said that? - she competes with my other friends to be better than them. she makes them look bad - she gets mad at me if i dont talk to her 24/7. i talk to another friend and she'll slap me on th arm and say she is 'trying to talk and im being rude'??? like??? im just talking to my friends?? - she one ups me and ALWAYS has to be the winner. she cant be happy for me or anyone else if they beat her - she is a jerk to people. a nerdy (he calls himself that) kid from our school texted her "happy thanksgiving" with a picture of him smilimg and she didnt answer because it was 'so weird'. i think it was nice of him to think of her, not weird. why does she do all these things? there's more but my fingers are tired of typing |
| Question: What's a good way to go about telling your best friend that you like him? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:07 PM PST I really feel the need to tell my best friend that I like him so that I can get an answer and so that i'm not left wondering "what if?" for the rest of my life. But at the same time i'm scared to lose our 2-3 years of friendship because I really do value our friendship and I don't want to lose him since he means so much to me. |
| Question: How could I stop my groupmates laugh at me? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:37 PM PST Two months ago I was at the house party with my fellows. I eat something wrong and got sick. There was long line to a bathroom. I couldn't hold it and went into my panties. I rushed out, but they sow stain on my skirt((( and laughed at me. So they still laugh and joke at me and I dont know how to stop them((( |
| Question: I got a D on my math test? What do I do? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:32 PM PST So winter break is over and our grades are finally updated and I just saw that I got a D on my math test. My mom had said I should get a B on it if I wanted to go to the mall to watch movies and stuff and she bought me a lot of nice things like new Nike shoes and a Kate Spade bag with lots of new clothes. I'm really sad and I don't know how to tell my mom about this. Help? :( |
| Question: How to help my friend!?!?!? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:28 PM PST My best friends grandfather was just hit on the Boulevard, presumably by a car, and is being life flighted to the hospital. She called me told me, and asked me to get her homework tomorrow. Should I call later to check on her and him? I am bad with grieve, and those sorts of things. So how can I help? |
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| Question: Why did this girl even bother adding me again on Facebook? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:18 PM PST She's very close to a friend of mine (don't know either personally). My friend has been talking to me for almost a year now, it seems she even likes me and all and usually starts conversations. Some four months ago I decided to add her friend since they seem to be very close, after all if they can get along why can't I. She accepted my invite really quickly, but I didn't message her until a while later. I was completely ignored. So about two weeks ago she deleted her account and made a new one, adding everyone back, including myself. I messaged her again, and I was ignored again. So why did she even bother adding me again if she's not willing to even talk to me? Another note is that my friend who is close to her seems to talk about me a lot to others, as I some of her friends have added me before and told me she tells them about me, always saying good things about me. |
| Question: My close friends didn't wish me a happy 18th birthday? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:17 PM PST This is actually the second year in a row.only 1 out of my 3 closest friends that i see every day at school told me happy birthday, but so many of my old friends did. i feel like my friends now are just very inconsiderate. It is today, and i have reminded them before christmas break and on new years mentioned it. It makes me feel so insignificant and unappreciated for all of the work i put into our friendship, because i feel like they never do the same for me. My feelings are definitely hurt and i know they dont have a lot going on today. how can i make myself fe feel better, like it just makes me feel so crummy. It will especially be embarrassing when they inevitably find out tomorrow and my entire class of kids finds out that my closest friends didn't care enough about me to wish me happy bday.... uggghhhh :( |
| Question: I feel done w/ Most people? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:16 PM PST I know it sounds cliche, but I legitimately feel "misunderstood" by most people, and no matter how hard I tried to be upbeat about it—I just realize: Well, most people WILL misunderstand me, and based on the advice that "you should only care about those who DO understand you", that means: I will not care for most people, right? I'm a minority, but I was born and raised here. No matter how we try to believe that racism is a thing in the past, (most) people are "blinded" by my race. When I express my (INNATE) love of pop culture, many people look surprised, like I'm supposed to be an "alien" with no knowledge of this. It's things like that: no being accepted for who I am (AN AMERICAN!). If people can't accept the little things like that about me, they aren't right for me right? |
| Question: How do I tell my mom to calm the frick down? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:15 PM PST For my "sweet sixteen" my mom wants to go totally insane and hire a freaking DJ and rent some kind of dance floor for my party. I only want 10 of my closest friends there. She wants all those 10 friends to bring 3 or more people...including boys (I don't know many guys here people!). I'm a sophomore in high school of very low social status, I am well liked but not very many people talk to or know of me. I know I should be grateful for my mom's willingness to throw a party but this is just insane. PLEASE HELP. |
| Question: My friend always lies to me, why? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:14 PM PST my good friend started lying to me at the beginning of the school year. he told me that he won first place in a " surf " competition, he has his own band (which I actually believed until he lied to me), we went on the same cruise together (I went on a Disney cruise and he told me he saw me on the ship and I didn't believe him, I ACTUALLY went on a cruise), lying about his birthday, he got Michael J Fox's autograph, he's getting a Bugatti Veron for his first car, he won first place in some other competition, etc. I think he does that to make him sound " cool " I know I'm cool because my family has 4 boats (2 are classic boats and 2 are normal boats), we have a 1969 Chevrolet Camaro SS, 2004 Mercedes Benz E55 AMG, go to Lake Tahoe every Summer, go to Palm Springs every Spring Break, my parents have vacation homes there so thats why we go. I am not trying to brag I just want you to know how he thinks I am cool. why does he lie to me? I actually have proof for the things that make me look cool and I show him them because he wants proof. but why does he HAVE TO LIE TO ME? |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:07 PM PST (Both boys & 15) Ok so me and him talk like all the time. Me and him are really good friends but recently he hasn't acted the same. First off he deleted his Twitter for whatever reason. He wrote on his Skype mood "confuzzled". And when he was at his friends house we were on Xbox together late (kinda) and he got off and texted me "have to get off" which was very unusual because it was like 2 am and we always stay up later than that but I knew he didn't actually HAVE to get off that night, and when we were talking he seemed kinda out of it (not him being tired, just a little down) and he wasn't really responsive when I was talking to him. No one has died or anything like that so I know that's not it or else he would tell me. |
| Question: Do you think my friend is being reasonable? Read description? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:46 PM PST So basically I just brought a really expensive new set of makeup then she wanted it but I disagreed because when I lend her my other stuffs I never gave them back. She was tetxing me so much about it and saying she deserves it. i do not like her much because she called me a b**** before and asked me if I had a million dollars what would I do I said I would buy lots of cats because I love cats. She said I am greedy and stupid because I could donate them all to the charity. She said I should go to hell because of that. I was like, um, it's not lik there would be this many cats for me to buy and then she said she would punch me in the face. what is wrong with her? AM I being mean or is it her? I know this might be a stupid question but my other friend always stays on her side and help her out when she is being mean to me. |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:38 PM PST *say around them |
| Question: Why did my cousin squeeze my thigh? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:35 PM PST So me and my cousin were sitting next to each other at a restaurant, we were really close because there wasn't room for everyone to fit so we had to be all bunched up together. Then all of a sudden he puts his hand under the table and just sqeezes my thigh?? Why did he do that (btw were really close I'm 14 he's 16) |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:13 PM PST I have a friend who loves to complain and talk on and on about her problems. Most recently, she complained that her dog runs off when she lets her dog out for a quick break at night. Well, duh, (1) watch your dog, (2) use the dog tracker that I GAVE YOU and that you do not use and (3) get a reflective coat for your dog. That's common sense. She said that she'll "think about using the dog tracker" and doing these other things. So now she hasn't taken the steps described above, but she keeps complaining about her dog running off. What's the point in complaining if you won't take constructive steps to stop the issue, and why do women do this? |
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| Question: How could I stop my groupmates laugh at me? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:12 PM PST Two months ago I was at the house party with my fellows. I eat something wrong and got sick. There was long line to a bathroom. I couldn't hold it and went into my panties. I rushed out, but they sow stain on my skirt((( and laughed at me. So they still laugh and joke at me and I dont know how to stop them((( |
| Question: Was our boss being mean to us? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:59 AM PST I work in an office with 11 other women. Most of us are single and in our 30s. We have a 27 year old great looking and I mean great looking boss. He is also a great boss and a great friend. He is always giving us training so we can get promotions and better pay. He is fun to work for. We like to joke with him and he loves for us to do it. It just makes the day go buy much faster. One day at a staff meeting, jokingly one of us said "Boss, I can not get much work done today". "I am missing a period". Instantly our boss said "No problem, I will get you a new keyboard". We ALL had a great laugh at his answer. It just made our day. In the employee beak room we were still laughing about it and employees from other departments heard us. They told us our boss was being mean to us. We told them we were just having fun. What do you think? Was our boss being mean to us? |
| Question: How often do you get rejection in making friends? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:45 AM PST How often do people get rejection in making friends (whether it be casual friends, work friends, or real friends). When you go talk to someone like at work or at school, how often does that person reciprocate and come talk to you? |
| Question: Friend drama..help please!? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:38 AM PST I've been friends with my best friend for four years. On Halloween he and my friend of four months started dating. Honestly, three out of the four years, I've had a crush on my best friend. I didn't think my best friend would like me. My best friend has always come to me for help. My friend didn't like that. Let's call them M and K. M is my best friend. M told me about his suicidal thoughts while K was dating M. M and K met at my Halloween party, and started dating the same day. Well they dated for like two weeks, and broke up because K made a big deal that M vented to me. So like a month or so later, M confessed feelings for me, and I told him I've liked him for a long time, and he asked me out. I was sosososo happy! But I didn't know how to tell K. I told K because I couldn't lie to my friend. K reacted horrible, saying she hates me, and I'm a fake friend. She blamed me for her cutting herself, and yelled at all my other friends. She tried to cuss out M, who is still my boyfriend, and she's really rude. She's also an ungrateful bully. Before she even dated M, she'd bully my friends and me, and call us annoying, and stupid. She only hung out with us if no one else was around. Every time she posted sad updates, I'd message her and try to help, and ask what was wrong, I tried to help. When I told her about M and me she said "I never cared! What you did never helped!" but I tried...I feel like the bad guy, but I also feel like she is...Can I get opinions? |
| Question: I don't need friends to make me happy anymore!? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:36 AM PST I have/had this "friend" that I really loved (no homo). I've known her for 3 years and I remember how and when we met. Anyway, last year, on December 29 I think, her bed got caught in fire mysteriously... (paranormal ****?) So, I tried to text her a few times, and she didn't text back. I got annoyed that I get ignored and misunderstood a lot and said: if you don't text me back by monday, we aren't friends (just to see what shells do). She texted back and said that her mom won't let her talk to anyone until she knows how the fire started. I just said oh... A few days later (January second), I saw her at Wal-Mart with her friend Jordan! She obviously lied to me!! They blamed the fire thing on me!!! (That's another story I might get to.) This time though, she barely waved to me and didn't smile. She usually waves and smiles all happy and asks us questions and stuff. She didn't, which, as I said before, was unusual from her. (Even my mom and sister thought so.) She's not a real friend, so I'm planning to tell her how I feel/felt about her. I'm going to make her feel bad about herself... is this wrong? I know that I don't have a question, but I just want to see what I should do (if I should stay her friend or not; im thinking I shouldn't; and no, I haven't told my family about me and not wanting friends, but I will eventually). |
| Question: My friend keeps talking about my spots.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:33 AM PST She embarrasses me but I don t want to stop being her friend because she might tell other people about them I have no concealer or and school is tomorrow what do I do. I've tried speaking to her but she does it again and again. |
| Question: My brother and his friends bully me? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:32 AM PST My brother and I are twins, he s liked by others a lot more than me. Him and his friends constantly bully me, the other day he invited his friends over. I was playing video games and him and his friends started to call me things such as ******,gay, and to kill myself. They turned off the ps4 while I was playing it and kicked me out of the room so they could play. At school him and his friends call me names and I really don t like it. What can I do to make it stop? |
| Question: How do I help myou depressed friend? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:31 AM PST My best friend has been really depressed for about nine months now. She is always sad or angry and doesn t want to be around me as much anymore. She has told her family what is going on and right now they are exploring their options so there is no need to tell anyone what s going on. Everyone knows. We ve been friends for about two years and when we met, she was happy, bubbly, sweet, and wanted to do everything with me. Now, when she isn t withdrawn from everyone around her, she is sad, lashes out, gets in fights with me, and according to her, she can t feel her emotions some days. I really want to help her but I don t know how. Whatever I do makes her angry and sometimes she won t talk to me. Does anyone have suggestions on how to deal with a depressed teenage friend? |
| Question: I hate my peers but I Am not shy!!? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:25 AM PST For some reason people call me the 'shy' girl. Well only the people I have not really talked to. But I don't really feel shy. I will talk whenever I have something to say. But these people are just the more snooty people or the people that I have nothing to talk about with. So whenever I am forced to worked with these people I actually do open up and make a few jokes or two as I've never been a serious person. I actually speak pretty loud too, I really wish the shy kids would stop mumbling because that just makes me feel terrible for them. But I don't really have any friends as no one really ones to talk to me, assuming I'm not going to talk back. I try to bring up simple things but they really never know what I'm talking about. This wouldn't bother me but it's the fact that I have no friends in half of my classes that bothers me. Everyone gets into a group and I'm standing alone with people staring at me. What? I was nice to these people, and everyone usually just stares at me and leaves me out. I have made a few 'acquaintances' but they have other friends to pair up with. Ugh, I hate being excluded so much. It happens every time, all my friends are in a class together and in a class with the non-honors students who I've never really had a chance to connect with in middle school. I need some kind of advice to help me somehow just get some of them to maybe accept me, I try to befriend then but I just don't like any of them, secretly of course. |
| Question: I wish I had more friends? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:35 AM PST A couple years ago, I had so many friends. I used to get invited to so many different things all the time. I don't really know what happened, I guess I drifted from them, but we just aren't really close anymore. I have a group of 6 friends and sometimes were hang out all together, but 3 of them have boyfriends, so they are always preoccupied with that. One of them that has a boyfriend is my best friend, and we are still close, but lately I've just felt distant. I kind of just feel distant from all my friends, and I hate that because I love going out and doing things, but most of the time I find myself sitting home doing nothing. I want to make new friends, but it just seems like everyone already has a group. Does anyone have any advice? |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:28 AM PST so my mom and my dad divorced in august when i was just starting to make friends in school. Now I'm home schooled and the only way i can make friends is through my one friend or church events, and that doesn't even work for me. my mom and i moved about 4 hours away from where we did live but I have this crush on this guy in the town we used to live in and the only way to talk to him is over kik. but he has a girlfriend, and i don't even know if they're ever going to break up!! And i can't make friends where i live because everyone here is weird and i just want to move back and shes too stubborn to see how much I'm struggling!! My dad dis-owned me |
| Question: My boyfriend is really passive? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:25 AM PST I've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now. We both had life guard jobs over the summer. He flirted back when I flirted with him, but he never made a move and he is really cute, so I just asked for his number and eventually asked him out. I always initiate everything. I almost always start our conversations (but he's really sweet and funny once you get him to talk, and we always have a good time). I have to tug on his shirt and pull him close or pin him against a wall to kiss him. I have to initiate hugs and handholding. I even have to tug at his belt to let him know I want sex because he never imitates it. I'm also always on top when we ****. He's really indecisive and I have to plan all our dates. What can I do so he's not so passive? I don't want t dump him, he's really cute (like an 8), plus he's really funny and cool. He's just really passive. |
| Question: Maturity Problem or Overprotective? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:24 AM PST Well I've been 15 for a while now, and I'm turning 16 soon. I usually get invited to hang out with my friends, but my mom never lets me go. For example, last night, my friends were planning to go see a movie around 8, and I asked my mom if I could go, at first she was indecisive, but then she agreed to take me, as long as she stayed and saw the movie with us, which would kind of be embarrassing to me, not because she's embarrassing, but because I'd feel like a baby with all my friends. I told her the movie, which was Creed, and she said she didn't want to see it because she already saw it. It made me mad hearing her say that, because she was treating it as if she was invited too, and she wanted us to change the movie. I asked her if I could find my own ride instead, and surprisingly, she agreed, then I asked for around $15 to buy a ticket and for some candy, ( considering a ticket costs around $12), and she treated it as if I was asking for $100, and changed her mind about letting me go, but if she came, it would have been $24 for the both of us, so she would have spent even more with her going too! I also have a curfew of 4 p.m. EST. I honestly want to enjoy having fun with my friends, but I can't when I'm so limited. I'm almost 16.. What do I do?? |
| Question: I switched rooms without telling roommates. Was it wrong? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:17 AM PST I'm a college student and I have a roommate and two suitemates. I don't like my roommate or one of my suitemates . they are loud and disrespectful . My roommate has yelled at me and cursed me out which caused bad vibes. Even though my roommate and I "made up" I still dont like her. My suitemate has also disrespected me and got one of her friends to join her.plus my roommate never cleans the bathroom. I did not want to be in this environment so I moved before I came home for semester break. My roommates left before me so they didn't see me move and won't know until they return. I don't know if there will be someone new in my old room. Do you think I should have told them I was leaving? |
| Question: Am I doing something wrong here? Please give me your opinion.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:54 AM PST I am a straight college senior. I have a lot of straight and gay friends. One of my gay female friends told me about a problem she and many of her gay girl friends have. There are social occasions they would like to attend where they need a male escort. Because she was my friend I told her I would be happy to help out. She passed the word to her friends and now I go to the social meetings with them. At these meetings, I have met and made friends with some of the top people in the community. Several have given me their business cards and told me to call them for a possible job when I graduate from college. These are contacts my fellow students would die for. However some people that know what I am doing claim it is wrong for me to "use" these women for this purpose and that all I am is a gigolo. I don't get paid for this and there is obviously no sex involved. Do you think what I am doing is wrong? |
| Question: Did I do the right thing to dump my boyfriend over this? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:40 AM PST I work in an office with 9 other people. I am the only woman in the office. The guys I work with are terrific. I am happy to go to work each morning just to work with these great guys. They are always there for me when I have questions or need help. After hearing other women talk about their jobs, I think I am one of the luckiest people on earth. I am not married and neither are my co workers but none of them hits on me. If I need something to do my job, they get it for me. They have a tradition that after work on Friday, they take me to a different restaurant each week for dinner. I really enjoy these dinners and so to they. However my boyfriend found out about them and demanded that I stop "Going on a date with 9 guys". I tried to explain to him that it was not a date. It was just friends going out for a meal. He would not listen to me. He said the only reason they were doing that is so they could get into my pants. I think his jealously got the best of him so he is now my ex boyfriend. Do you think I did the right thing to dump him? |
| Question: How can I get my friend to unblock me and forgive me? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:20 AM PST We dated for two months before he stopped a while ago and wanted to remain friends. We were fine and pretty good friends. Weve known each other for almost two years and got along well. The last 3 months we argued quite a bit and I know when I freak out I over text and blow up his phone. He doesnt like it but i try to stop. He just likes to deal with the problem by ignoring it and i just want to solve things. I have been stresssed out with college, work, and struggling with my depression and i "smothered" him. Last month when he refused to talk to me i told him my dad passed away and he didnt even say anything to that. I tried to talk to him everyday for a month until he blocked me. He has never done that. I tried calling him through my number but as restricted to leave a message and try to understand things and he unblocked me, told me to please stop contacting him and that calling him through a restricted number is ridiculous and theres a reason why he blocked me." Then reblocked me. Im always the one reaching out and fixing things and this time I dont know what to do. He always said to me he doesnt hate me and cares for me. So i dont understand why he did this. Ive been going through a real hard time with losing my dad, finding out I have siblings I wasnt aware of, and problems with myself, and now tis with him doing this to me. However I really care and want to fix things. What do I do? Ive done a lot for him. Right now i havent tried contacting him for 5 days. |
| Question: Should I Stop Being Friends With Them? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:20 AM PST All my friends do is obsess and swoon over my little sister. Some of my friends will not stop talking about her and I'm getting sick of it. I feel very under appreciated. I do not know how many times I stressed that I do not want them talking about her constantly to me, but, they do it anyways. Should I leave them and try to find other friends? |
| Question: Harassment from neighbors what should I do? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:10 AM PST Just bought a house and moved in. It's mostly wealthy folks in this neighborhood and they keep on harassing me. Is this normal. IM not going to disclose my race lets just say My family moved to America from another country for work and I grew up here as a citizen and love it here but this seems racially motivated. I usually ignore them but had a lash out the other day which I should have been more wise. Now the others are inviting me over to their house agressively. What the **** is going on. Can I not make a honest living without being harassed by my neighbors. I would like to get a long but yeah, not anymore. Any advice from white people on why you guys do this and other nationalities is mostly helpful. |
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