Friends: Question: Am I UNLOVEABLE??? (PLS READ)?? |
- Question: Am I UNLOVEABLE??? (PLS READ)??
- Question: Good comebacks to say to a bully?
- Question: My friend randomly ignores me for long periods of time and I don't know why?
- Question: Why do my friends think it's cool to touch yourself?
- Question: Why do kids at school always assume I'm an "innocent" boy?
- Question: My friends don t care about me what should I do ?
- Question: Help! I stunk up my friends bathroom!?
- Question: Should I text my Ex guy friend this?
- Question: I don't have a lot of friends....?
- Question: How do I deal with my annoying friend?
- Question: Is it too late to say I'm sorry and say let's be friends again? What should I say to rekindle our friendship? Will she say yes or no?
- Question: How to stop being so weak, soft, and sensitive?
- Question: Why am I always the one to put more effort into relationships?
- Question: Best friend problems?
- Question: Whats your opinion/advice on this situation?
- Question: Was she a true friend? Why did she never want to hangout? can I hear someone s thoughts on this?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Why did my ex boyfriend's mum send me a letter and a Xmas present? Should I give her something too?
- Question: Guy at school stares at me?
- Question: URGENT HELP?
- Question: How do I deal with this? Being replaced?
- Question: 10 points for best answer!!! Why won't my friend talk to me?
- Question: What's wrong with me? Can't move on.?
- Question: My best friend changed after knowing a new girl..?
- Question: Serious question about friendship. Answers from both male and female angles would be good. Help?
- Question: Is my friend a true friend?
- Question: Is it wise to live in the same house as your friends?
- Question: Why do I feel the need for revenge all the time?
- Question: Fake facebook account?
- Question: What's your least favorite type of person and why? Feel free to rant.?
- Question: Are you mean to hide your feelings?
- Question: Well, what do I do when I ve been a awful friend. Not caring about their feelings and saying There overacting. I have done this oftent?
- Question: Do you photobomb people?
- Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?
- Question: Why do people gossip so much?
- Question: Are today's styles different compared to 7 or 15, 20 years ago?
- Question: I am beginning to hate my 'friend.'?
- Question: Care too much what others think?
- Question: Should I text my guy friend hey?
- Question: Is my friendship over or and I over thinking it?
- Question: Do you prefer the 1984 Footloose or the newer 2011 Footloose?
- Question: How to respond to "lol" and "yeah" in texting?
- Question: Is This a Horrible Thing to Do for Someone's Birthday Gift?
- Question: How to ask my friend for a ride?
- Question: I ignored my friend,now he's gone?
- Question: My friend saw me topless is this okay ?? Please answer fast?
- Question: Challenges me and friend can do?
- Question: Why wouldn't a guy friend accept FB request?
- Question: My bestfriend never has my back?
- Question: Am I in the wrong here?
- Question: My fiancé's friends come from a different social class than I do. What do I do?
- Question: Did my friend lie to me for money?
- Question: Is there anything better worse than an extremely jealous and bitter persob?
- Question: Why does my friend and his friends do this to me?
- Question: I feel very jealous because my best friend is having fun with her other friend?
- Question: My friend is miserable with life and i think she's suicidal and i don't know how to help her or what to do?
- Question: I imagine myself alone for the rest of my life, and I always get sad, but that's my wish... Is this... normal?
- Question: Steve harvey interview w medal of homor winner?
- Question: Is it weird if asked if I can follow you?
- Question: How do you make rich internet friends that buy you things?
| Question: Am I UNLOVEABLE??? (PLS READ)?? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 05:09 PM PST I have autism, and am 16.... I go to alternative school with only 3 other boys......in the 9th grade, I would frequently try to escape due to my panic and anxiety disorders, and I have not had friends for many, many years..... I was so awkward I did not know how to hold a conversation, but that has changed....but now, I rarely see people (only 3 classmates) and when I do get attention, I smother them and scare them away.....my own relatives don't pick up the phone because before I would call them every day.....my cousin added me on Instagram, and then blocked me........my other cousin deleted the ability for me to send a friend request to her.....I told my cousin (who is 14) I was in love with her (we're Muslim) and haven't heard from her in a year......I have tried befriending children, but that does not work either (two of them have blocked me, even one who I thought was my friend) one boy who I thought was my friend said he'd add me on google plus, promising to do it that day, but its been several and still nothing.....children run away from me, girls think im a joke, guys cant relate to me (nor me to them) and I feel completely alone in this world.... I have even been banned from forums multiple times....I am in tears....what should I do? |
| Question: Good comebacks to say to a bully? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 05:09 PM PST Hello. I'm 16 years old. Im from Ohio.There is a bully at school who constantly bothers me a lot ever since I was in the 9th grade. At school he would call me mean racist names. (I'm a muslim girl.) (Im going back to school this Thursday and I really want to roast that kid) almost every single say when the bus driver drops me off at my stop he would yell mean things such as camel lover ,terrorist, sand ******, towel head...ect. I have told the school officials about him. They really didn't even do anything about it I just cant ignore this especially since its been going on for many years in my life. I mean just think about it, isn't just a horrible way to end your day by receiving insults from a kid in the bus? (almost every single day for a long time) Im sick of it. He has also caused my depression when I was 13-15. He made me feel horrible for who I am I just want to make fun of him too. He deserves it. What are some good come backs to say to a bully? |
| Question: My friend randomly ignores me for long periods of time and I don't know why? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:56 PM PST I have this friend who I have been friends with for awhile. We use to be good friends and now a lot of that has changed. We are both girls and I kind of have feelings for her. She knows that and she said she has gotten past that. Sometimes during the year we will talk and be just fine. Other times she will ignore me for no reason and then when I ask her why she didn't include me in her plans she says we weren't talking and that's why I didn't invite you and then threatens to ignore me again. I have been giving her more space now and only texting her occasionally to hang out like once a month. She never puts the effort into texting me. I have made a lot of friends so making new friends isn't a problem for me and a lot of them think she is not worth my time. What should I do? |
| Question: Why do my friends think it's cool to touch yourself? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:55 PM PST I was at a sleepover a while ago and my friends asked me if I've ever masturbated they said they do it but I don't because I'm 13 I'm a kid that stuff is for adults I think it's kind of weird and inappropriate for me they didn't believe I didn't do it they said that everyone does so I just went to sleep. Why do they think this is coo it everyone has to? |
| Question: Why do kids at school always assume I'm an "innocent" boy? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:54 PM PST I'm 15, high school sophomore and I am kind of short for my age; I'm only 5'2"; I'm one of the shortest sophomores in the school. However, since I hit puberty, my voice changed over summer and whenever I talk to new people, they always say my voice is so "deep for my height". I mean, what does that even mean? Do they expect me to have the voice of a 12 year old or something? For example, a girl I started talking to was like, "Your voice is so deep. I mean, you look like an innocent child, but when I hear your voice, I get thrown off". That doesn't even make sense. Is she implying that short people are supposed to have high voices? I have deeper voices than a lot of guys taller than me (I know that's kind of odd). I told her "puberty" happened and she still couldn't believe me. I used to have a high voice, until it cracked and it got deeper. They say, "I'm an innocent Asian boy". When they say that, I'm all like, "What's your proof behind that?" I've known these people who said this for only like a couple weeks-a month and they always think I'm innocent because I look like it. They're pretending they know me well, but just cause I look innocent, doesn't mean I'm a good person. They think I'm Jesus. I'm not. I've done terrible things that I would not like to share and it just pisses me off to make people think I'm "Jesus". High school... if any of you adults out there who have the same experience; PLEASE HELP! Easy 5 Points To The Best Answer Possible! Thank You! |
| Question: My friends don t care about me what should I do ? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:50 PM PST There is a popular group girls and we started hanging out, they been known each other for 3 years so I m the new girl , I made a strong bond between me and them ... I did everything for them , but you know I am still the new girl , I loved them so much , they are funny and kind to me , and I like hanging out with them . But the problem is that, sometimes they hangout without me and that s hurt me , and when I hangout with them , I feel something is changing in my personality, I mean I don t get crazy a lot like I used to with other friends, I doubt myself in a lot of things , I m not me when I am with them , and that s s bad thing , I mean they are kind to me , but sometimes I feel that I am the girl who doesn t know anything ... I feel that they don t care for me , I keep telling myself that it s a matter of time , just give them time and they get used to u , I am doing everything I can for them absinthe return I only want them to care ... 😓 |
| Question: Help! I stunk up my friends bathroom!? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:40 PM PST So I took a dump in my friends bathroom and now it stinks really bad and now I'm embarrassed! What would I do??? Me and him are really good friends and I don't want him to smell it because it smells sooooo bad so yeah |
| Question: Should I text my Ex guy friend this? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:36 PM PST My friend has blown me off too many times, I'm done with his bs, but first I want to text to give him something to think about, don't care if he replies and don't care to ever speak to him again. I'll text, "You say you want to hang out but you blow me off. Uncool and rude. Your disrespectful behavior has made me lose all regard for you, and although I wish you luck, I don't think either of us would benefit from future contact." Should I start with a "hello" text before sending, or randomly send it without pretext? |
| Question: I don't have a lot of friends....? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:30 PM PST So im in middle school and in elementary school i screwed up. I would have friends but i would make drama and like break off from them. A lot of people from my elementary school now hate me. I know I did really wrong and I regret everything! Now a lot of those people are popular, they don't spread rumors or anything it just makes my confidence go down a lot since they are popular and I don't want them to notice me or talk sh*t about me :( I have two best friends but one of them is in 10th grade and the other is in my grade but we are on different teams. I sit at lunch with mostly boys and a couple of girls but i want more girl friends to sit with but i can't really sit anywhere else. And next year I'm going to the high school and I'm worried that i won't know where to sit since my best friends and i might have different lunches... Ugh i regret so much in elementary school and most of the day i think about how unpopular or popularity and i want to not care about that! Any ideas that might help me? Thanks |
| Question: How do I deal with my annoying friend? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:29 PM PST So, I've known this guy for about 5 years. He has every class I have, but I try to talk to my other friends over him. My whole group of friends play this online game, but no one really likes to play with him because he gets angry a lot, and he's kind of bad. He also has an ego as he always feels the need to point out when he does well. For a while, I thought of him as a close friend, but as of late, I've been getting more and more annoyed with him. He's one of those people who tries to say the cool things, but just doesn't. The problem with just telling him straight up that everyone in our friend group can barely tolerate him is that he is suicidal and has a lot of family issues. His mother passed away recently, and I know it's a terrible time to try to push him away. He has listened to my problems in the past, and I did the same to him out of respect, so I do feel obligated to tolerate him until he has moved on. But afterwards, I'm in the same boat as the rest of my friends. Many of them don't really like him and think he's a lazy freeloader in school, but they are aware of his issues at home, which is why they tolerate him. Yet, once again, on game nights, we rarely invite him, and really don't try to associate with him unless he makes an attempt to associate with us. Also, we are high school seniors. So I guess an option is to put up with him for 5 months until we all move on |
| Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:24 PM PST There's a girl I was friends with. We've never met and only through Twitter. I closed the door on her the 1st time a few years ago by ignoring her text messages. The reason why I got rid of her the first time because I couldn't take it anymore when she was controlling me. When I got back together with an ex-boyfriend, she got angry at me and told me to be careful because I didn't know how committed he was to me. She said that I couldn't wait for him forever and didn't want me wasting my time. Then when I got rid of her the 1st time, I didn't hear from her again until 3 years later. Why would she try to reach out to me a few years later? I closed the door on her a 2nd time because she was at it again. Six months later after getting rid of her, here's the email I sent to her: Hi, I know it's been six months since we last spoke. I'm very happy with my life right now. When you contacted me on Facebook after not speaking for three years, I thought it was a mistake when I accepted your friend request. I've moved forward and I don't think it's a good idea to rekindle our friendship. I wish you all the best. Take care! She never replied to that email. Do any of you think you know why she didn't? Do any of you think she's angry, sad, or hurt that I sent this email? How do you all think she reacted after reading this? I have her blocked from FB, Instagram, and most of all her phone number. I'm curious to hear what you all think. |
| Question: How to stop being so weak, soft, and sensitive? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:17 PM PST I feel so weak compared to every other boy in my school. I'm so soft and sensitive. |
| Question: Why am I always the one to put more effort into relationships? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:16 PM PST I feel like I think/care so much about other people, and they care so little about me. I remember everyone's birthdays, but no one remembers mine. With the majority of my relationships, I feel like if I don't initiate conversation, they'll just die off. It's even happened a couple times, where I've made the decision to only speak to that person if they speak to me, and they just never do. I feel like many people are my best friend, but I'm not there's. It's a terrible feeling :( |
| Question: Best friend problems? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 04:05 PM PST I've know one of my best friends for 6 years now but it's gotten to the point where I'm not sure I want to continue our relationship. We're in high school now and I have no classes with her. She's is starting to get on everyone's nerves and causes a lot of drama. Everyone is starting to hate her for some things she's done and the other night she did something horrible to me. I'm very mad at her for it and she's also ruining all of the couple relationships in our school by talking to all the boyfriends. Her other best friends are no longer talking to her and now I don't know what to do. I don't want to be hated because I still talk to her but I'm not sure whether I want her to be my friend still. What should I do? |
| Question: Whats your opinion/advice on this situation? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:59 PM PST I was friends with someone for 8 years. About a year ago she betrayed me by blaming something on me which caused people to hate me. She was my only friend for 8 years. When I gained new friends she became very jealous and tried to keep me away from them. Each time a guy or something tries to talk to me she says ''dont talk to her'' or says that im her girlfriend which is really annoying because im not gay. I only continued to be friends with her because she didn't have any other friends and I felt bad. What do you think I should do? |
| Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:57 PM PST I cant put much detail because of the word limit so here it goes. Im a guy shes a girl, We became close friends in a class, I went to a different school for a year, but she was gonna go there after that year so we kept in touch. We become so close through our conversations through face timing and messages. She said I was like a family member. So here I am in school that year, excited for her arrival because she was my closest friend at that time. When she gets there. she only initiates talks with her other close friend who is a girl. When I talked to her she always seems like she indifferent and on her phone. But when we FaceTime or message she's like so interested in talking. She hangs out with her friend but not me which makes me feel left out. She knows that shes was the only close friend I had at that time. I ask her to hangout but shes says she is very busy but that's bullshit because she hangs out with her other friend. I told her how I felt and she said she was sorry but that she says like I act like its all her and that their relationship is different because they are girls. But nothing changes for the next few months. I got so pissed. I told her in text that I was tired of half *** friendship and feeling like talking to a different person in real life. She tried calling me but didn't answer. She deleted me off her fb. I am so sad and disappointed. That year that we talked on facetime I felt like she was a true friend. She made me laugh and feel important to her:( We got in a huge argument before she deleted me on fb. I would ask her to hangout and spend time outside of school like what real friendship is, But she said that shes busy and doesn't always have the energy to keep up with everyone, which is bullshit because she always hangs out with her other friends. I feel so hurt because she told all this things like how I'm so diff from other guys and I'm a good person and all this stuff. Was I expecting too much? I have stopped talking to her for months:( I have made friends with people of the same gender, they are good friends but we are nowhere near as close as I was with her. |
| Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:56 PM PST I'm a freshmen in highscool and there is this sophomore that is like my role model. I've known her for about three years and ever since then I've looked up to her but she unfollowed me on Instagram. I see her all the time in school but I don't even remember the last time I've talked to her. I still want to be her friend but I'm not sure she wants anything to do with me. What should I do? |
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| Question: Guy at school stares at me? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:38 PM PST It doesn't bother me it just kind of makes me curious he always walks by the area where I hang out when he never used to and he just stares then looks away when I look back . I can see him walking from a distance just turning his head over to where I hangout. One time he kept staring so I smiled and he said what's up but I got shy but he's not some random stranger we used to text a lot..why does he stare |
| Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:37 PM PST OK so one of my friends is really annoying. whenever he starts up I just punch him in the face a couple times. So yesterday he was bugging me and i bashed his nose and now it looks a little crooked. He stared yelling and telling me what a terrible person i was so i punched him in the face till his nose started bleeding. Right now he wont talk to me. Its really annoying bcus he usually gets over it quickly. Not sure if why I sould still be his friend but hes lonely so he needs company. @Natalia wow im his only friend and you call me a bad person. Is this how society treats those who wasted their time on others. |
| Question: How do I deal with this? Being replaced? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:23 PM PST What am I supposed to do when I told my best friend she didn't care about me (I went off the grid for over a week and she barely noticed) and she gets pissed, brings up old **** that she knows will hurt me, and has already replaced me? All because I said she didn't care? Which is proving she doesn't care? I feel sick and can hardly breathe every time I think of her just replacing me so quickly and its terrible. I don't know what to do, and it's my fault for even bringing it up. Now I've lost a friend (or probably more, because she talks) all because I wanted attention and to be cared about. Help? How do I fix this or deal with it? |
| Question: 10 points for best answer!!! Why won't my friend talk to me? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:22 PM PST My friend was married to a abusive man for 30 years and she recently remarried him after being divorced for eight years. We became close friends while she was divorced for eight years. I'm shocked that she remarried a man that was extremely abusive towards her. I don't get that. She didn't even tell me she was getting married to him again. I tried talking to her on Facebook but she doesn't respond to my messages but it says she's seen the message. If we weren't friends anymore wouldn't she tell me or block me on Facebook? She's also in the group I monitor on Facebook and she views my posts I put up because it shows a list of people who's seen it. What can I do to make her respond to me? I feel like I've been kicked to gutter after everything I've done for her when she was divorced. |
| Question: What's wrong with me? Can't move on.? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:16 PM PST 2 years ago I fell in love with my best friend. They were planning to move away so out of fear I pushed away and things got weird. The last time I saw them we got into a huge fight that ended physical and lost the respect we had for one another. There hasn't been a day since then that I haven't thought about them, and it's become a ritual to analyze and relive everything over and over again in my head. I'm not sure how to let go. I want to contact them again and apologize but I did so many times after and I don't know if they care at all anymore. How do I move on? |
| Question: My best friend changed after knowing a new girl..? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:15 PM PST We are friends since we were 4-5 years old and we grown up together in school, and now we are almost 20. I always knew her like a girl who act like a boy. She loves mangas, video games and death metal but after a long time actually she's hating all these things. After she knew this new girl/friend she's acting like a very snob person. I use too act like a boy too so when i see her doing shopping, make up, stalking boys and talking of bullshit about boy bands like a duck, eating less (as that girl is very skinny)...annoys me a lot. So, she's more feminine. And obviously i'm different compared to that girl so i end up being alone...It hurts me a lot, you can't imagine that. I'm so angry cause i feel like it's all fault of that girl if i don't have with me my friend like before. I don't have nothing against my friend but it's awful how a person can change after so many years. She says still that she cares about me but it's not the same as before. What should i do? I talked to her about it but she don't understand... Should I accept who she is now? Or just leave her? I really care about her but she's not anymore the friend i love... |
| Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:01 PM PST Well, I'm a girl and I have this guy friend from school. We met not so long ago and he was so funny and made me laugh, he was so kind to me and said some very sweet things and I adore him. I think I like him only as a friend but I'm worried that i maybe sent some wrong signals or something because he recently started to give me cold shoulder. He isn't that chatty anymore and when i text him he is just... cold. Also he never texts me first anymore. I asked him is everything okay and he acted kinda normal, like nothing is happening. Now he started again with that coldness and it just makes me sad because I really liked when we were friends. And I want to do something but I can't because I feel like I'm annoying when I'm always encouraging a conversation and he seems like he doesn't care about me. I think the reason of his behavior is that he thinks I like him and he doesn't feel the same way so he is avoiding me. I think he doesn't like me because I think he slightly friendzoned me few times (even if my intentions weren't to make him think I like him in that way) so... How to save this friendship and bring things the way they were before, how to show him that I like him only as a friend (btw, there's no chance to talk with him directly about this because a) we're both too shy for this type of conversation and b) there's a chance I'm wrong about this and there's another reason he is acting cold) I hope you understood me well and I hope you can help me. Sorry bc it's so long :-D |
| Question: Is my friend a true friend? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 03:01 PM PST - she indirectly insults my religion. like someone put a Bible verse in their twitter bio and she said 'ew wtf is that ugly' (she's not christian) and i didn't say anything bc that insulted me in a way. - she copies basically every other thing i do - she one ups me EVERY day. i say i got something? she says shes getting the same thing, but better!!!!! - she lacks confidence - she competes with my other friends to be the best friend? idk if that makes sense - she wants me to focus on her ALL the time. - she is rude to me so easily. there was a black shirt on the counter at a store and i said 'ooo i dont have a black shirt like that' and she HIT me and said 'yes you do!!! i dont!!! get a striped one!!!' and it was just so aggressive of her? so whats up with her? please answer |
| Question: Is it wise to live in the same house as your friends? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 02:58 PM PST We finished with Highschool last summer. During Highschool I started my own business the first year was pretty ruff but Its been fairly sucsesful as of lately to the point where college just isn't of importance as I've hooked up with business partners all like my moms age. But I hired all my closest friends & some cousins as assistants, office manager roles etc. I saw it as an opportunity to give them a different outlook on life cause we grew up in Chicago. There's this big house & I was thinking we could all link up & pay off the mortgage together with the money we make off our respective businesses. Is it smart to move in to a house with your friends I know we all need space which is why we'd be in difrent bedrooms but is it smart? I gave these guys a name & they've always been grateful however gg sometimes gets wild he means well but he's eunique We're all guys btw & this isn't forever |
| Question: Why do I feel the need for revenge all the time? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 02:54 PM PST I'm 43, When people do me wrong I get revenge, not petty revenge either.. Here is an example One day a kid started saying stuff about my friends on the internet and doxed them and said homophobic things about them and made them very miserable IRL(He was about 12) One of those friends eventually moved and dropped contact with me (he was my best friend) due to all of this, so I got my revenge.. I doxed the kid back, sold his information to parts of the deep web, put it on craigslist, Threatened his family etc etc Eventually I found his facebook, Hacked into it after a few weeks of trying, and posted that he was gay on it... His school found out and he was bullied, I was informed by his cousin he had committed suicide, I felt so happy I did this as I needed to get revenge for my friend, I mean my friends life was pretty much ruined and he lost his job.. Oops, i'm 23, not 43 JK this is a joke question, haha wasted your time |
| Question: Fake facebook account? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 02:53 PM PST Does anyone know what his name is or can someone find me a link where this photo could be. I think I've found a fake facebook account and I'm just checking |
| Question: What's your least favorite type of person and why? Feel free to rant.? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 02:41 PM PST For me it's flaky people. My friends are all so flaky I'm done with this ****. I need new friends. I'm in high school and I can't drive so I have to bike or my mom has to drive me places. I have to be home everyday by dinner. It's so much effort just to see my friends. I feel so lonely cause I never hang out with them anymore. For example the other day I was going to go to the mall so my mom was kind enough to take the time out of her day to go out of her way to pick up my friends, then drive us all the way up to the mall in a bad traffic hour. My friend proceeded to have us wait for 15 minutes outside of her building before cancelling on us. We had other people to pick up too. Also I am usually the one initiating plans. I will text someone saying we should hang out, I always have to decide on a time and what we'll do because they don't, then when it's the day we're supposed to hang out they will take forever to text back, confirm or not confirm plans, and then when they finally do text back they will change the time and everything and even sometimes after all that **** they have the nerve to cancel?? It's so inconsiderate if you don't want to hang out with someone, you should tell them, not make there life incredibly difficult. |
| Question: Are you mean to hide your feelings? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 02:27 PM PST If you suddenly feel found out, that you went too far and your secret is out? Do you cover it up with being rude or detached? Then, do you regret it after ? |
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| Question: Do you photobomb people? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 02:08 PM PST |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 02:06 PM PST Ok so today at school I was sitting with a group of people I always sit with. I wouldn't consider them friends because I don't think they are my friends. So they all left together to go somewhere and they asked someone who was sitting at the table too to go along with them and they ignored me completely like they didn't see me there. I felt like everyone was starring at me because I was sitting at a really empty table and even my crush saw me. It made me feel embarrassed. Then the people I sit with and hang around returned. I saw one of them say something to the other one while laughing when they saw me sitting by myself. Then when they sat down I told one of them that I felt like a loner when they left me and she said that I am a loner. It made me feel bad. I'm in high school.What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: Why do people gossip so much? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 02:03 PM PST I have a guy friend (A) and I hang out with him on weekends and stuff. A is very, very large and doesn t get with girls. A has a friend (B) and B and I work together. There s a mutual attraction so when I hang out with that group of people, B and I sometimes hook up, and it happened often over winter break. The other night we tried having sex but for some reason, that particular night, he couldn t fit inside of me. So we re back to school today, but B doesn t go to school with A and I. A tells a bunch of people, and someone in particular who I feel should not know. B and I don t tell people, so what s A s fascination? It s just a hook up and he didn t need to embarrass me by telling people that I had been "too tight." It s so obnoxious, it s not even his business Um, it's with one guy that I've been talking to for months..? Not exactly slutty. |
| Question: Are today's styles different compared to 7 or 15, 20 years ago? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 01:44 PM PST Like clothing and what not? I feel like movies and music could be better, we'll the mainstream ones but I've still seen that get better. But everything around us like the whole vibe. Bevause when I was younger I paid close attention to the environment and I see this day in age it's changed but I feel like it hasn't. I'm 18 and when I look at the past years I think of it more and feel like nothings changed except technology. But people still dress the same. In fact Wikipedia says the 20 10s are a combo of all the other decades as far as appearance with everything we've got. |
| Question: I am beginning to hate my 'friend.'? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 01:12 PM PST I don't want to come off as cocky, but I think I'm a pretty cool person. I keep secrets, I know when to stop teasing someone, I don't mind sharing, I have a great sense of humor- but my one friend is getting on my nerves and I hate the fact I am starting to feel hatred towards her. Maybe not hatred but enough anger to throw her out of my life. Me out of ALL of our friends for some reason, she is a *****. She will make fun of my appearance and WILL NOT shut up, even when I tell her she is being annoying and needs to stop. She will call me a '*****' if I respond with someone that she is self-conscious about and start muttering stuff about me to others, she'll expect me to share my lunch with her when she never does with me. She will make fun of EVERYTHING I ******* do. EVERYTHING. She'll take a photo of me randomly where I don't even look bad, and laugh at it. I can see if I was trying to be funny but seriously? She'll make fun of how I walk, stuff I say- she's a ******* annoying douchebag. What do I do? Should I quit hanging out with the group because she's a little ***** all the time, or do I stay and start being a HUGE asshole. I am rude to her when I want to be but even worse. And she'll judge my decisions over everything too. She got mad at me once because I didn't want to bring her one of me t-shirts because my mom would get mad at me for giving clothes out. I am so mad. |
| Question: Care too much what others think? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 01:11 PM PST Hey, I will try to keep this short: First of all, I'm 16 and I'm in my Sophomore year at HS. I've always been an introvert, and I rarely ever talk about my personal life with anyone - not even with my closest friends. So here's the thing, because I'm so mysterious and awkward, people used to easily make fun of me in Elementary and Middle school. After I started HS, things got better. Some people still think I'm awkward and boring, but they never make fun of me for it. However, another problem popped up - I started caring WAAAAY too much what people thought of me ever since. For an example, my friend has been asked 'Why are you hanging out with that gay retard?'. And this really hurts me, because I'm not gay, and I'm surely not retarded. Another example from different perspective 'who the F is that pathetic dude, let's avoid him'. My brother tells me all the time 'why the hell do you care what they think of you', but I just can't help myself. Please, is there a way to solve this? |
| Question: Should I text my guy friend hey? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 01:02 PM PST My friend has blown me off too many times, I'm done with his bs, but first I want to text to give him something to think about, don't care if he replies and don't care to ever speak to him again. I'll text, "You say you want to hang out but you blow me off. Uncool and rude. Your disrespectful behavior has made me lose all regard for you, and although I wish you luck, I don't think either of us would benefit from future contact." Should I start with a "hello" text before sending, or randomly send it without pretext? |
| Question: Is my friendship over or and I over thinking it? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:57 PM PST My friend and I have been butting heads for about 6 months. He's my best friend in the world and we tell each other everything. It got to the point where I couldn't ask him a single question without him assuming I was mad at him. We live in different states and it seemed like every option I gave for a meet up this year was put down and he put little effort into trying to find a time that worked for him. I finally asked if we could just not make plans for this year because it was stressing me out. He got very angry about this and I got maybe 3 messages from him about it over the course of 4 or 5 days which isn't normal since we text alot. I finally told him I think I needed some time to think. He agreed. After 2 days of not talking I texting that I missed him. I got nothing back which really hurt so the next evening I texted him the same thing. He texted me back saying he was tired of being used a door mat and wanted time to think about things. I poured my heart out saying that I didn't want what happened with other friends to happen with us. Where we just quit talking and become strangers with memories. Because it's a horrible feeling that I've been through a lot. He never responded that night... The next day I asked if he could please let me know and he said nothing again. We haven't really talked in a week... I just don't know what to do or think about the situation anymore. I don't want to lose him... Is my friendship over? Should I accept it? |
| Question: Do you prefer the 1984 Footloose or the newer 2011 Footloose? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:53 PM PST Also, which generation were you born in? Are you closer to the 1980s, or the 2000s? |
| Question: How to respond to "lol" and "yeah" in texting? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:47 PM PST There's this girl I text with who always responds with one or two word texts and it drives me insane. I'm always the one who has to bring up topics and ask questions and she responds with something like "lol" or "cool" or "yeah". Funny thing is she's always the one who texts me first so I'd think she would have something interesting say. Ignoring her seems rude but I don't know what else to do. What would you do? |
| Question: Is This a Horrible Thing to Do for Someone's Birthday Gift? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:44 PM PST Get a bunch of their friends together and go in on a group gift - requesting fifty dollars from each of them - and ending up giving them a twelve pack of AA batteries from the gas station that only cost five bucks. You also don't credit the other people when you give the gift. |
| Question: How to ask my friend for a ride? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:44 PM PST So, I dont drive. My family all does but theyre not around right now and/or refuse to take me anywhere. Id like to go pick up my tips and then go to target (the drive to my job and target is like 15 minutes tooops). I could take an uber, but thats money and id like that to be last resort. So, my friend has been pestering me to hang out for like ever. But all he wants to do is sit at home and watch movies and thats boring as fuuuck. So im thinking of asking him to take me to work, get my tips, give him coffee (he likes coffee and i work at a coffee shkp), then maybe stop at tbe beach?? Then go to target.. id give him like 20$ for gas.. i just feel awkward about it. I do want to hang out, but Im the person to go out and about. Help? Good idea? No? |
| Question: I ignored my friend,now he's gone? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:20 PM PST I'm really sad,next week marks the 10th anniversary of my friend's death in Iraq. During our senior year his father got sick and died,I was so selfish and I was depressed and thought about how my life sucked. My friend tried everytime to cheer me up even if he was probably heart broken about his dad's illness. I ignored his efforts to make me happy,he probably liked me,but he never told me.However I ignored him.After his dad died he enlisted in the marines,following his dad's footsteps and less than a year later he was gone. I never realized how much I liked him until he was no longer around. I can't believe that it's been 10 years. I'm crying as I type.I would like to honor him by bringing together friends,his marine buddies, and possibly family. His mom works with my mom at the post office. Do you think it would be a good Idea if I went to talk to her about that? |
| Question: My friend saw me topless is this okay ?? Please answer fast? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:17 PM PST Im 14 and today me and my crazy (female) friend were messing around and she pulled my shirt and we fell and she accidentaly pulled up my bra too!! , we were just messing around and another friend (also female) was near and she saw too ! I am reaally embarassed , that was so wierd . i dont want to see them at school tomorrow ..should i pretend it didnt happen? Sorry if this sounds wierd |
| Question: Challenges me and friend can do? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:15 PM PST Me and my friend want to do a challenge day before break ends. |
| Question: Why wouldn't a guy friend accept FB request? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:13 PM PST I've been friends quite awhile w/old co-worker of mine and yet he refuses to accept me on FB. his account his like an alter ego version mostly for entertainment, but he has other "girl friends" on there so why not me? We are very close with personal matters but he says it's the fake version of himself. What could be the reason? |
| Question: My bestfriend never has my back? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 12:12 PM PST It gets annoying when I'm fighting with someone and I need help and he's just like "it's none of my business" one I fought with my other friend and he wanted to beat me up (I'm a girl btw) and he's was just like "it's none of my business" What should I do? |
| Question: Am I in the wrong here? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 11:39 AM PST I was in school and some guy punched my best friend in the stomach and he fell over and started to cry. I took my friend to medical and the teacher said what happened and since he didn't want to lie he said that he fell over but then I told the teacher what really happened and he got angry, after we got out of the medical room, my friend slapped me really hard and told me that I should have never done that. |
| Question: My fiancé's friends come from a different social class than I do. What do I do? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 11:33 AM PST So my fiancé, well her group of friends are just different than the people I grew up around and raised me. I was raised affluent, my gf's friends were raised poor. What sort of annoys me is that they bring that up here and there. "Oh he will get used to us." Or ...... "Unlike you, we were raised poor blah blah blah." Some of them even hold my upbringing against me. As if they think I think that I am too good for them. Thoughts? |
| Question: Did my friend lie to me for money? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 11:25 AM PST This past weekend my friend needed money for his phone to be turned back on. I told him i have the money which he needed $30. we were talking on twitter and he said he was on his way. so i said if you don't have a phone then how are you able to communicate with me? he said he was using his friends phone who was driving him to my house. when he got there he parked like a few blocks away for some odd reason. when he got there he said $27 was fine as i was digging for it in my wallet. i just feel as if he lied to me and i don't want to believe that because we've been good friends since high school. we are both in our early 20's. am i over thinking or did he lie to me you guys feel?? |
| Question: Is there anything better worse than an extremely jealous and bitter persob? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 11:14 AM PST When it comes to any negative traits, is their anything worse than this? |
| Question: Why does my friend and his friends do this to me? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 11:11 AM PST I'm a girl and I have this friend who's a guy and he owns a pet monkey about the size of a cat. Sometimes when I go to his house, his friends are there too. They like to pin me down and have the monkey lick me. It really upsets me and I feel really violated after it does. It licks my face, arns, shirt, chest, etc. it's happened so much that I can't get the experience out of my head so now I'm like constantly thinking of being kicked by a monkey. How do I get him to stop???! It's soooo gross |
| Question: I feel very jealous because my best friend is having fun with her other friend? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 10:59 AM PST I've had known my best friend for about 8 years and we always were bffs. But she has another friend that she finds annoying but she's going out with her too sometimes and I feel very jealous then. I try to hide it and it's making me feel sick. When I do that I get very anxious and cry like all the time even though I have no reason to at all! She told me that I only am her best friend and that this other friend is really annoying but I just can't seem to be okay with that, I get extreeeemaly jealous. help? |
| Posted: 05 Jan 2016 10:56 AM PST The fact that i can't help her upsets me because i want her to be okay but i know it's not that simple. She has whisper and she puts her location on and I've worked out that a user is her and she talks about this world being better off without her etc. Recently, she's had a bad breakup and things at home aren't good because her parents are breaking up and they argue all the time. Things just keep on piling on her. She's started self-harming as well. I don't know what to do How do i help her? Please, i'm desperate |
| Posted: 05 Jan 2016 10:54 AM PST I'm still planning to tell my used to be "best friend" that I don't want to be friends anymore (I have good reasons). I'm glad that I don't have any friends, but I still feel lonely and isolated in a way. I love being alone and having NO friends at all, but I feel sad that I may alone forever... yet happy. Why do I feel this way? |
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| Question: Is it weird if asked if I can follow you? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 10:52 AM PST I know it sounds strange but I really want to follow you so I can see what you're up to all the time. I want to know when you wake up, when you go out, when you're watching a movie, what you have for dinner, when you have an argument with your BFF. Even though I don't know you, I'm just really interested in every aspect of your life. After I follow you, you can follow me if you like. I don't have many followers at the moment, probably because I don't tweet very often. I want to retweet your tweets so all my followers know what you're doing. I'd like to have thousands of people following me, I want the whole world to know what I'm doing every hour of the day. Right now I just slept for an hour after a long day of work, how interesting is that?! |
| Question: How do you make rich internet friends that buy you things? Posted: 05 Jan 2016 10:47 AM PST Help im broke and homeschooled and dont have a car, but i want cool friends and material wealth. How do i make friends with a rich person who wants to buy me things in exchange for friendship over the internet? |
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