So I'm married now and have been for 4 years and out of nowhere.. I start thinking about my ex. Have no clue why. Like dreams, memories, everything. My marriage isn't the best. But I love him with all my heart and would never cheat or leave him. But why in Jesus is this happening to me?? I don't wAnna go to counseling now. Haven't mentioned it to ma husband. Don't wanna make things worse between us.  

when you are tired of dating weird people and almost give up, then suddenly you meet a person that you really like by accident.... does it happen in real life or just in hollywood movies?

My kids father betrayed me and starting building a home in his country behind my back, we are not married and have three kids in common. We was suppose to get married this year. I am thinking about pulling out. Because he claims he is sorry he now is fulling investing in helping me grow my business! I still feel so hurt, he is always doing business behind my back! any advice

My ex wife and I got married when we were a bit young. She was 21, I was 23. Just a year or so in the marriage, she started saying that she was too young to be tied down and that she was not happy. I literally did everything to save the marriage... I did the things I knew she liked, took her on vacation, I proposed counseling, a little gift here and there, thinking she would change her mind. I literally begged that woman to not get a divorce. In the end, I learned she cheated on me with her boss, which was the deal breaker for me. She is a very unstable person emotionally and very radical and impulsive.  We got a divorce about a year ago. She went around telling her friends and family how terrible, manipulative and controlling I was. But not one single thing about her bad behavior. Obviously, they all agreed. Since then she has had a few boyfriends. She even traveled to England to meet one of the whom ended up being a total loser. I know she has at least slept with 5 guys since she left me. But recently, she called me crying how terrible of a mistake she made. She wants back in. She will do everything to make things better. How I was her best friend. Should I be mean to her and cuss her out.?

I have low self esteem and always feel unworthy although it is clear that he really loves me but I keep doubting

I was reading a book in where a married couple has a 4 year old child. Anyway, the husband is having a long-term affair with his wife's best friend. Both the husband and his wife's best friend have gaslighted the wife into her questioning her sanity. The husband and his wife's best friend ended up getting married and the best friend legally adopts the child as if the child was hers. However, in the end, the husband and the wife's best friend get arrested and the mother and child get reunited. This doesn't happen in real life, right?

Is marriage outdated? I finally silenced my inner critic and went for it when my husband was visiting his parents out west. It was wonderful and fulfilling. I feel zero remorse or regret, and now my sex life with my husband is better than ever because I fantasize about the experience and it makes me much more passionate, which he loves. Just because he doesn't know, doesn't mean he isn't truly enjoying himself. So how am I in the wrong here? Is it a religion thing, or do people actually buy into it being wrong?

Would it bother you to live in a house that your spouse shared with their ex spouse? Or do you think it's just a house and no memories or anything is attached? 

Husband joined a volunteer organization back about a year ago. My husband is one of those that will give the shirt off his back to anyone who he thinks needs it. This organizer has taken full advantage of him, bullying him to come to practice, belittling him and shows absolutely no respect for any of his volunteers. My husband is aware of this man bullying him and understand this man has no respect for anyone but himself but my husband simply will not tell this guy "no". I am not understanding why. I know this is ultimately my husbands problem but it hurts me to see him hurt. I hate to see others being taken advantage of and never saying thank you or nice job, or nothing. What can a wife do. And just a bit more info. All parties are in their 50's.

Not a legal divorce obviously in fact she is married, but a break off from her family. Long story but she is distant though in the last year has come in a little bit. Her two daughters are practically strangers. Her two daughters used to be close.  My mother used to do this to us as my Mom was abusive. 

If a famous celebrity tells a woman that is in a relationships to dump her husband and marry him instead. She would probably leave her husband for the celebrity life in the majority of the cases even if her husband was a good man. I'm saying because I heard of such stories. What you all think ?

My parents told my relatives that I speak a lot of languages and my married female cousins called me a slut and a playgirl for it and that it is disrespectful to my husband whom my relatives also approve of. No one can speak more than one or two languages on average and they do not like the idea of anyone speaking more than that and don't want to be involved with them because they might have friends of the opposite gender in other countries (or from other countries) who speak their target language. Should I just give it up for the sake of my husband as well as others like my married female cousins want?

So just recently I've experienced pain in my legs, this morning it was hurting really bad, so I told my mom about it and she just ignored me! Usually when she's ignoring me, she's having sex with her husband. So I figured that was what she was doing, So I figured that she'd rather " make a baby " with Eric than take care of me! I'm 22 years old. So I thought to myself, I'm 22 years old, so I gotta take care of it myself! I'm a grown woman, I don't need my horrible mother taking care of me!

My wife is 6 months pregnant she's been having really bad pain in her lover back lately. She didn't have this much pain the first time. She's going to the doctor for it this week she's not sure if it's a good idea she doesn't really want to be out with the virus. She gets to be in so much pain it makes her cry. I always give her back rubs but it doesn't help also her back is already bad anyway. It mostly happens when she's sleeping. How can I help her feel better ?

Had an interesting discussion about this. A few people I talked to seem to think that getting on one knee is absolutely necessary for a proposal. I thought a proposal is a proposal no matter how it is done. Thoughts?

She doesn't know what her husband does while she is away.

Newly Married spent 50 days my husband avoiding intercourse and not intiating sex.hardly had sex for 4-5 times(not consumated).without doing intercourse he said u will be pregnant.he is not as close as before.not even talking to me properly.always in fighting mood.we r living separately now.he is not in contact.