So, in such situation will the husband be just a settlement for her after she enjoyed and explored everything with their exes but now the husband will only get the boring side of her and she will never let her husband do such things as she already did it with all her exes and in her mind the exes will always be a better partner in bed always?

What goes in their mind when they sees them? Will an Indian wife introduce their exes to her husband and then spend time with them and tell the husband that they are just friends now, even though secretly they may be stillhaving casual sex behind husband or may call them to their house in absence husband in the name of modernism?

Do they secretly have fun discussing about their husband's performance and jokingly memorize about the good times they enjoyed and explored together? How do such wives feels when they meets their exes later? Do their mind reminds them about the intimacy they shared before and do the exes sees them in a lustful way as they knows everything about her body and so they feels superior than their husbands and shares about it with their friends?

Does she feel superior and laughs inside her mind thinking how her husband might have never have got intimate being a man, but she enjoyed and explored everything with all her exes and now her husband will have to give more effort to impress her as she has already been with variety of men otherwise he will never be able to become special for her compared to her exes? But she does'nt need to worry about anything as she will not get compared to anyone as the husband is a virgin and nor does she has to worry about any health complications or any fear of her husband still being in touch with exes? Will the situation be justified where one will have everything to compare but the other has to be under fear of performance?

For me it was at a conference a few years back, where this really nice looking girl invited me back to her hotel room to 'continue' the conversation, before she needed to check out and head to the airport.  I should have, she was really cute and fun-looking.  For some stupid reason, I didn't.  Maybe holding out hope that my wife would be that way when I got home.  I suspect the offer happened because our presentation was the highlight of that morning session, and I was kind of the rock star there for a bit. God-damned stupid!!  Anyhow, what's your biggest blunder?  Not going for it when there's no chance of a negative outcome makes it a bigger mistake.  And for those of you liars and asexuals out there, don't bother with the "I would have no reason" - 70% of guys cheat on their wives, especially when there's no chance of getting caught.

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I am a middle-age married man with a great family and several children.  I recently met a foreign woman on a language learning website after she initiated a contact based on my location (pen-pal). I am learning her language or relearning it. I am 10 years older. We have exchanged photos and stories about family, nature, culture, professions, and many family friendly topics.  She has written me every day and I have written her back in turn. She speaks well of her boyfriend, son and situation and I of mine.  Because we are friends on social media, I have seen some photos that were more hidden on her accounts from the past decade where she has done professional modeling. When it comes to looks and her attention to style, she is stunning...some of her photos are a bit racy from my perspective. I am just an average in looks, and I can't figure out why she is trying to write me every day, and I am thinking of ways to make it more appropriate. These conversations are sometimes deep and meaningful but now she has introduced the idea of meeting when she comes without her family for her yearly trip to California (after COVID). I love my wife and family, but I feel conflicted about how to make this relationship be okay and clean but not evolve into something that has a bad ending if that is even a remote possibility  She is very friendly but not overtly flirtatious or signaling in emails and rarely sends benign photos of herself. She is not needy financially. Any advice?

Husband doesn't post about me at all on Facebook. He doesn't on my birthday, on our wedding anniversary, etc. Should this upset me? He thinks it's corny, while I like to. 

I need some opinions: How would you feel about sharing a bed that your husband and his ex wife and their kids shared? They only had it for a year before she left and now we've been married for almost a year. Any thoughts? It's a nice bed and mattress. I don't want to tell him to get a new one, because it was pricey, but what are your thoughts? We have rotated it and cleaned it. 

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My fiance told me that he was no longer interested in me one month before our wedding (which was to take place in april). After that we just talked every day. We have no seen each other in two months since we live far away and cannot travel because of corona. He has been reconsidering marrying me ever since I found a new job. He told me that he has to see me, which I would like to as well. However, its really hard with the virus going around and demands from my new job. He told me I have to see you what if you gained like 300 lbs. I told him that he has to love me unconditionally. He said that was stupid

Hi there, if a Christian man's wife forsakes him due to issues like say a job opportunity abroad where she'll stay for a very long time and chooses to divorce on account of the newly acquired job, can the man remarry afterwards? ( According to Christianity)

Im raising a child with a disability, she is now 19. She can work part time, but not full time. I hope that someday, she can live on her on, but that is still not set in stone. I have take low paying jobs , worked part time hours, and stayed in a certain income bracket for her to stay insured and get a check from the Government. I do not want to stay there, but I dont know how to get out. I sub teach right now. I have been sub teaching for 10 years.I have a four year degree in Communications from a great college. I have two other kids that, I am helping transition to adulthood, one 21 and one 17. I divorced when they were two. I never married to try to focus on my kids, and raising my disabled daughter. I want to get out of this funk of just existing. I want to make gains, but I don't know how. Any ideals?

My husband is a wonderful partner but nobody is perfect and the one issue we have is in the bedroom. He knows exactly what I love when it comes to sex (specifically foreplay) but he's too lazy to do it. We've had the same discussion a hundred times, I tell him that I can't orgasm without foreplay but receiving oral would satisfy me every time. I give oral all the time but it's been months since I've received it. I asked him if it's a hygiene thing because I could easily fix that but he explicitly told me it has nothing to do with hygiene, he's just too lazy and would rather just have sex. He actually said that to me! This hurts me because he essentially said that he's too lazy to satisfy me even though I always make the effort to satisfy him. I don't think foreplay is too much to ask, it's a very natural part of sex. I want to have a frank conversation about wanting foreplay and oral to become a normal part of our sex routine but at this point I don't know how to get my point across without causing an argument. Any advice please?

Is my wife being narcissistic or toxic when she tells me all the things that I have done to not improve our marriage (but doesn't acknowledge anything she's done as well or says 'I wouldn't be this way if you did what you should have done') or is she absolutely right about everything and I am absolutely wrong about everything?

My mom and dad share one bed but have two blankets. Is this a weird thing or normal? They are 36 and 37.

I was on deployment and while i was gone my wife out of the blue said she wanted a divorce, about two weeks later she told me she had met someone and was cheating on me. Its been about a year since and i can't seem to trust anybody anymore. Its not fair to assume everyone will do wrong but thats exactly what i do.

I didnt thinkguys could e shyer than me ( a girl). But hoenstly im getting tired of it. Even though im just as muchnof a shy retard.