Hi, so long story short; I have a daughter whose 3 and a neice who's 5 (they'll be 4 and 6 when wedding takes place if all goes to plan), however, I only want my daughter as a flower girl because I want to get a "mini me" dress custom maid based off of my dress to keep as an heirloom/keepsake (may be as a christing outfit for baby number 2?) and I can't afford to do this twice but I don't want my niece to feel left out. So I was thinking that my niece could be a junior bridesmaid, however, most places say junior bridesmaids are 10+. Do you think she'll feel left out I do this? Will she understand that she can't join in on the majority of the bridesmaid's activities? Or shall I make them both flower girls, despite the dress differences and let my niece have full reign (within reason) of what dress she wears so she feels like the dress differences are her choice? But then will my daughter throw a tantrum cause she didn't get to pick her own dress? What do you think?

I personally love all kinds of stones, but I find that in recent years diamonds have become a major competition piece of jewelry and has lost most of it's meaning, so I've been thinking about choosing a gemstone instead. The problem is that while they are beautiful, I know they are not quite as durable as diamonds and may be prone to scratches. I do like a little more bling to my ring which is why I have been considering gemstone, but I would never dream of asking the one I love to splurge on a big diamond that we don't need. At the end of the day I just want to love the ring and to wear something that my boyfriend would be proud that he bough. I know there are smaller diamonds available, but the end of the day they just seem like a rip off to me for something that the diamond industry considers to be "rare" when in reality they are incredibly common but for some reason disturbingly high priced. I would be happy with a diamond despite the size because he bought it for me, but I wouldn't want him to waste 2 grand on something you can barely see, if you get my point. What do you think? Would a sapphire, ruby or emerald make a nice engagement ring? Also, this last one might be a bit more unconventional, but I have been in love with moonstone lately.

I can't stop thinking about it. Did she do that on purpose? I can't wait to ask her when we'll meet again. It was our first time together (first of all for her) and she wore a white dress til the knee, no bra, had thin straps and was open on the back. It was a bit baggy on the skirt but tight on the upper part. She drove me nuts. As soon as I saw her, I thought she was an angel. Did it symbolize our wedding? Why did she wear that if not? Girls usually wear those lacey things they buy on purpose. But she wore that. Like she came from another time. I couldn't help but want to kiss her all over. It was like doing it to an angel.

About my friend. We knew each for years. Hang in the same group. In the same boy scout troop together. Then he move to another state. Years later he decided to get married. Next after the ceremony then the wife throws the over her shoulder for a lucky man to catch. Before she throws the flowers looks at me and said "I ain't going to throw the flowers to him." What do you think? What would you do? My problem is I didn't know to react. Whither to lose my temper or do nothing to avoid ruining the party. Thank for your lookin into.