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- Question: I cut my absent father off?
- Question: My dad told me he wanted a son during an argument. I told him to f*** off then. Do you think he deserved it?
- Question: Why does my family want nothing to do with me when I won’t accept my Dad’s new spouse?
- Question: Why does my dad always buy me stuff?
- Question: Would it be rude to bring my own food to my in laws over the weekend, since I am on a special diet?
- Question: Am i a pyschopath?
- Question: Was I a normal kid?
- Question: Can someone have clinical depression if they can go to school and work?
- Question: I am scared of my Dad's wrath if he learns I ever associate with my uncle's ex-wife. What do I do if the event were to arise where I do?
- Question: Advise pls?
- Question: What was she doing?
- Question: Do you think I'm selfish ?
- Question: I have a situation and i have a 1 year old child pls listen ?
- Question: My mom demands that I coddle my adult sibling?
- Question: Why do 14 year olds always use their age as an excuse?
- Question: M I the only one who thinks that my paternal grandmother should get over me preceding her in death?
- Question: My bf doesn’t want to help around the house, he says that’s how it should be ?
- Question: COVID-19 college student problem?
- Question: Uninvolved noncustodial parent wants to take child on vacation?
- Question: Parents kicked me out because I have COVID-19, what do I do?
- Question: How is a woman physically able to throw someone?
- Question: Is it fair?
- Question: My Dad has an uncle who is 90. When he dies I want to travel to the funeral, what do I do if my father strongly objects when I'm an adult?
- Question: How should I deal with this lazy slob of a person, when I am not?
- Question: How do I get my brother to stop teasing me about how I look?
- Question: How can I convince my parents to let me move into the garage?
- Question: I have a sister who is no good. I am estranged from her. Is there any point in my trying to find good in her like I do with my Dad who hurts?
Question: Who should be held responsible for covid 19? Posted: 14 May 2020 02:02 PM PDT |
Question: I cut my absent father off? Posted: 14 May 2020 12:04 PM PDT I am a close to 31 years old and just last year made the decision that I no longer need any communication with my biological father who just turned 75 years old a few weeks ago.my entire life he showed little to no interest in me or anything I was ever involved in.He often lied about weekend visits when I was a kid and the broken promises continued into my teens.he knows nothing about me other than the basic information:alma mater,family members etc and when I expressed all of this to him he literally said i sounded stupid.after the death of my older brother some years back we seemed to be a little closer but I know realize that was only because someone had died.i havent spoken or called him for almost a year and all of a sudden I'm getting messages from his flunky asking about me and my children.Cant help but feel like why wait until I'm grown and have my own children to act like you care.i do not care that he doesn't see his grand children nor do I care of how "hurt" he was because I didn't call for his birthday.I turned ALOT of new ages and didn't hear from him..I feel like he's earned this.am I supposed to just forget the fact that he left me hanging out to dry and contributed nothing at all to my life because he's old now? |
Posted: 14 May 2020 10:58 AM PDT I am my parent's only child but I don't believe that it's my fault. If my father wanted a son so badly, he could have either tried again with my mom or with someone else, right? I told him this side of my argument at all and he had nothing to say afterwards. After I told him to f*** off, his instant response was "How dare you talk to me that way!" Also, just to clear things up I don't live with my parents. I am a fully grown adult on my own, so it's not like I'm disrespecting him under his roof or anything. Also, my mom didn't say anything at all about our argument and kept out of it, and treats me as good as she normally does. In fact, plenty of times she actually takes my side in things, but the older my father has gotten the more miserable he has become and treats people around him badly when he gets angry. I haven't talked to him in over a week but honestly I am not going to bend until he apologizes. Do you think it's wrong for any parent to say things like that to their children (no matter their age), or do you believe it's not right for an offspring to swear at a parent for any reason? Who is more justified here? |
Question: Why does my family want nothing to do with me when I won’t accept my Dad’s new spouse? Posted: 14 May 2020 10:55 AM PDT |
Question: Why does my dad always buy me stuff? Posted: 14 May 2020 08:09 AM PDT I'm not complaining at all. I'm very grateful for all the things my dad buys me, but every time an issue arises in our house he fixes it with buying me something I want. |
Posted: 14 May 2020 07:38 AM PDT So I have some health issues and I need to lose weight. I have mild fatty liver disease and bad GERD. My heart burn is alot better now that I changed my diet . I like my mother in laws cooking , but it's not in my diet . They cook spaghetti every time we come, even though she knows my stomach issues . So now my diet is even more strict , I am cutting down on calories and cutting out dairy, breads, pasta and rich foods etc. She is very old school and believes everyone needs to eat what family cooks or else it's rude . I'm bringing food regardless , but will I look really bad doing this? |
Posted: 14 May 2020 06:42 AM PDT Am i a physcopath? so my mom found out that i was inti my 'stepsister'(we arent related itsher boyfriends daughter) and she told me theres a diffrence between being curious and a pyschopath is she right? im a 15 year old guy btw |
Posted: 14 May 2020 06:22 AM PDT lately I've seen "relatable" memes online about parents-typically moms and their little kids doing certain typical kids things. Like when the mom is trying to go to the bathroom in peace. But little sister and brother cry and wait by the door calling for mom. Or other things that ultimately bug the parent and/or cause this constant need for attention. It got me thinking. I was never like that growing up. Sure. I'd go to my mom and ask to play or want attention. More than not-I did get attention and playtime. And when she was busy, I'd just entertain myself in my room with toys or play outside etc. I knew my place in the household. When company came over I engaged with them. Talked. If they had kids over. I'd play. And if they needed adult discussions (business related. Gossip related whatever) I knew I had my time go in my room watch tv. Play etc. I rarely interrupted my parents when I knew it was important. I never pestered. Was it because I was an only child? Is it a sibling thing? Because every one of my friends have many kids. They always seem to never want to leave their parents alone. Up in their personal space. Up in my personal space when I visit. Always loud and full of energy. Crying when they dont get their way. Siblings always rough housing etc. So...was I not normal? Please let me know. I confuses me to no end. |
Question: Can someone have clinical depression if they can go to school and work? Posted: 14 May 2020 05:49 AM PDT I have a cousin with clinical depression but I doubt she has it because she functions normally. Clinical depression is a disability. Having a disability means you can't function normally. Since she can function normally (by passing classes and going to work), it's not depression. |
Posted: 14 May 2020 04:51 AM PDT Like when her mother dies I think I should go to the wake or funeral for my cousins' sake as they came when my grandmother died. |
Posted: 14 May 2020 01:05 AM PDT What would you do if your parents constantly critisize you, mum always gives me used stuff as 'gift". For my bday my family dont buy me a cake nor a card. Also ever since I was 11 she made me make lunch everyday for school for my dad and siblings. Age 16 onwards cook everyday aswell while she doesnt do nothing in the house. How is that fair I am the one called crazy for acting like I have ADHD because Im agressive? I am strong dont get me wrong but I do feel I self victim. And now my self esteem hit rock and im in my 20's have 0 money because I had to buy my own clothes,shoes(managed to buy nike air max) and food and with my own money cook for them and they call me lazy. I got beaten up too. my family are not poor. So basically I am suffering from childhood trauma. I do not know how to build confidence when my own family stab me so much in the back. I have no job. I keep being unstable.. I wish to leave but I want to save. I will litrally live in hell with my family save and than leave? I made the lunch sorry I wrote she. Also my dad complains to me that she doesnt do anything in the house when he is being a B and the worst dad ever aswell |
Posted: 14 May 2020 12:33 AM PDT When I was in middle school I was laying down on a bed mat under a sleeping bag and the teacher aid pretended to sit on me she didn't actually sit on me she just kind of squatted her butt on me. Why? |
Question: Do you think I'm selfish ? Posted: 13 May 2020 11:10 PM PDT Well, my parents disinherited me from their million-dollar fortune, so I've decided to disacknowldge them as my parents. I treat them as complete strangers in public and I treat them as if I never knew them. My children won't know their names, either. Their disinherting me means our relationship has ended. They aren't my parents anymore and I am NOT their child. I do not know them and won't ever again. |
Question: I have a situation and i have a 1 year old child pls listen ? Posted: 13 May 2020 10:03 PM PDT i got pregnant at 17 i'm 19 now and my baby's dad is in my life still he's going to stay in my life . but the problem is we were living in my dads house yes we paid bills and bought groceries but my dad has been in jail for 2 months now and it's been very stress full on my boyfriend and I we been paying my dads rent and it isn't cheap we don't know what to do because my dad is going to be gone for a while and my boyfriend and i have a 1 year old son and were already doing as much as we can to be parents working and now we have all this stuff to do we don't really have time together again i'm scared it's going to break us apart |
Question: My mom demands that I coddle my adult sibling? Posted: 13 May 2020 08:45 PM PDT when we were both in uni, I had to run all the errands and do the house keeping for both of us. I had been living on my own before but I was pressured into taking my sibling as a roommate as she didn't even look for a roomie. Then I was expected to take my only 1 hour break I had between work and school and drive her home to have a cooked meal Every day , despite me giving her lunch money and packing her a lunch. If I didn't cooperate the rage fit she threw would make the neighbors think of calling the cops. Then when I was applying for grad school she set up the tv next to my desk while I was writing my entrance essays, yet I'm not allowed in the apartment at all if she is studying. Now she is out of work because of covid and left me with the apartment which I can't afford alone. She moved back in with our parents and our mom cried and was pissy with me until I agreed to move back home too. Now I am 2 hours away from my boyfriend and had to quit my job to move back home and I feel like a complete failure. I could be independent but my family smothers me. |
Question: Why do 14 year olds always use their age as an excuse? Posted: 13 May 2020 07:39 PM PDT My little brother is always telling me and my dad sht like "I'm 14 you fckn btch" and "why you trying to argue with a 14 year old" and he's always calling my mom grandma. Nah he randomly starts mentioning it out of the blue during the most inappropriate times. Like we'll be watching Tv and he finds some way to mention how old he is lol |
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Question: My bf doesn’t want to help around the house, he says that’s how it should be ? Posted: 13 May 2020 07:02 PM PDT I've always confronted my bf that he never cleans up after himself, he leaves his clothes on the floor , he never wants to wash his dishes, basically any mess he makes, I clean up. Today I confronted him again, and he tells me "I do a lot of stuff outside this house, I work hard and sometimes get out late" and I tell him I work too, and I'm not telling him to do much just clean up what YOU make. And he starts asking me "what are you doing, that's nothing, wow your really arnt worth it" i told him that I work too, and I do lots of stuff outside this house too. He said "this house isn't equal , and I don't want it to be equal" he means he pays the rent. But I've always told him I could give him half of the rent, I'd rather do that, than being told what my "role is" I'm 21 he's 22 and I didn't move in to be his mom, I wanted to grow together, not be a mom. I buy my own stuff , pay my own phone, pay the WiFi and cable. Am I wrong for telling him to do his part, i just don't understand why it's so hard, I hate feeling like I'm not worth it because I don't keep up with him, I have my own life too, I just finished school, while I was at school I worked at a fast food restaurant, and he made me feel less, saying that job ain't nothing...... but I do get tired, I have a right to be tired.. |
Question: COVID-19 college student problem? Posted: 13 May 2020 06:40 PM PDT I'm a senior in college and will be graduating in December 2020. I have an apartment with friends on campus. My parents don't help me pay for it, so it is fully my responsibility. Because of COVID-19, I lost my job and after my lease ends next month I won't be able to renew it. I have to move back home with my parents. My parents only have a 2 bedroom apartment where my brothers get his own room and my parents do as well. That is the main reason I moved out for college. Now that I have to stay home I don't have a room and a place for my stuff. I found a job recently by my parent's place which is good but the idea of living at home is so depressing because I simply do not feel at home here. I am not sure if my university will open the campus for classes in the fall so it makes it hard for me to try to save up and be optimistic. |
Question: Uninvolved noncustodial parent wants to take child on vacation? Posted: 13 May 2020 06:31 PM PDT How would you handle it if your child's noncustodial parent was barely involved, refused to take the kids more than a couple of days per month, hadn't paid child support or helped with medical/dental expenses in years because he was "too broke," but suddenly wanted to take the kids on a very expensive beach vacation? My kids' dad of course went ahead and told the kids already and they're excited. It may not even happen due to COVID-19 restrictions here anyway, but I'm really on the fence... I know they would have fun, but they barely see him and when they do they come back all stressed and upset...he can be pretty nasty. He literally never calls them or shows up to school events. The kids (5 and 7) want to go because their half-siblings and cousins will be there and they like the beach. I guess I'm just lookin for other moms/dads who may have similar situations, and how they might feel about it or handle it. |
Question: Parents kicked me out because I have COVID-19, what do I do? Posted: 13 May 2020 06:30 PM PDT I was staying on campus, but they closed the dorms. I tested positive for COVID-19, and my parents won't let me come home...my step Dad has high blood pressure and is wicked old (like 50) and my little brother has asthma. Where do I stay? Note: I'm a little sick, but not very sick. I've been camping. |
Question: How is a woman physically able to throw someone? Posted: 13 May 2020 06:14 PM PDT When I was 11 my mom got so mad at me she threw me on the bed I was standing still and she grabbed my arm and I landed on the bed. How could she physically do it? |
Posted: 13 May 2020 05:22 PM PDT My friend told me how her parent loves to yell at her and always put her down saying stuff like she's lazy or a disgrace meanwhile she's trying her best. her younger siblings are living on their own and treated with so much respect. My friend said her parents would always say stuff like " you don't need to move out stay with us" but at the same time she has a 10pm curfew and is constantly disrespected and she's 28 years old. What should she do? Is this fair? Her parents put her down because her younger siblings have a better job and are supposedly doing better |
Posted: 13 May 2020 05:20 PM PDT I have this problem where I am terrified of conflict with a loved one. A parent is a loved one. Knowing my Dad he will not want me to go. I work for my Dad so I can't just do it and go even though I am an adult living on my own. He won't want me to because I am OCD and so anything I do for a family member is viewed as an obsession yet I take pride in being a leader (I have an obsession with rules of loyalty like if I don't see a grandparent on Christmas then I am disloyal). However, I take tremendous pride in being a leader in the extended family and am close to this uncle of my father's and most his children and two of his grandkids. Missing the funeral will agitate me. The relative lives out of town and it would thus involve travel. I am terrified of this conflict. What do I do when it happens? I suspect in the next year this relative will die. Of course COVID-19 could impact funeral but this question being if COVID-19 does not bar a public funeral. |
Question: How should I deal with this lazy slob of a person, when I am not? Posted: 13 May 2020 04:57 PM PDT Okay, ANOTHER question( I know) for the crowd. I currently live with and am related to this lazy slob of a person. I have yet to figure out how to move out if that is your suggestion. This person happens to be my Mother. Here are a few examples of Her behavior: 1. She will throw garbage in the sink when the trash is less than two feet away. 2. She often will be laying around eating or sleeping, while I'm cleaning up the kitchen(and picking up after Her) 3. She will walk around complaining that the house is a mess, when She is the one who hardly cleans it! I know She worked hard raising me, but c'mon. On top of all this She often sleeps until nearly noon. |
Question: How do I get my brother to stop teasing me about how I look? Posted: 13 May 2020 04:28 PM PDT He's always telling me to fix something about my appearance or teasing me about something I'm wearing ( I know for a fact that he's not serious, I have a sense of style and I generally look put together). How do I get him to stop? He's 29 and I'm 18 fyi. |
Question: How can I convince my parents to let me move into the garage? Posted: 13 May 2020 04:10 PM PDT I'll make this as simple as possible: 1. I am 16 in my parents house 2. We have a empty, almost never used, guest room over our garage and I want to move into it My reasons for wanting to move: 1. My sister had to move home because of the virus and even though we have separate rooms the house feels super cramped because we now have 4 people, 5 dogs, and my personal pets 2. I want to redo the room, which would give me an activity in quarantine because I have nothing to do. 3. My entire family constantly invades my space and then THEY complain about it. 4. I have 3 pets that I take full care of in my room and it is kinda cramped, and the new room would be bigger giving them more space. 5. One of my animals is a ferret (which have a slight odor no matter what) And my entire family Except for me hates it, and when they barge into my room they complain about the smell even though it is very minor ( I have spent about $200 of my own money to try and fix the smell, it doesn't bother me at all, but they act like they are dying). So if I was in the garage they wouldn't have to smell it. But when I asked my parents if I could do this they said no because they don't trust me enough. I've never done anything to give them reason not to trust me, plus I would still be like 10 ft from the main house so they could barge in whenever they wanted still. I see no reason why they are so against this idea, and I really want to do this. EDIT: my dad and I also don't get along great and he always invades my space. I think this would also help our relationship |
Posted: 13 May 2020 03:28 PM PDT My Dad has hurt me terribly but I try to find good in him and I am able to. However, my sister I cannot find one ounce of good in. We are estranged whereas I see my Dad still. Should I try and find good in the sister or just treat her as though she is a stranger or never existed? |
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