She or he was never your wife or husband in the first place. Also, hardness of heart means disobeying God. God dis approves of hardness of heart described in Old and new testament as it refers to divorce.

It just feels so weird to think about my parents having sex. He told me that mennjust biologically need sex or they will be in a bad mood. My parents are 35 and 34 if that matters.

I told my husband to slow down during anal sex multiple times because it hurt. He said he cant slow down or stop. Two minutes later he gets off puts oil and comes back and i place him in my vagina i think he assumed he was in my anus because the position i was in. He went hard then finished. He's done this before. Ignored me and he didn't care if he was hurting me. He's never done this before****** Our tight on both side but thanks for being a douche Or* Also i said stop and slow down please because it hurt i feel like he forced himself on me and i hope no female in your family has to endure that

This guy says he has chemistry with me and that he likes me, but he is also close with another woman that shows she's into him too. I've known him for 7 years by the way. He's dated others and so have I

not for marriage.   i'm 38 never married, single.hes 37 divorced.. we plan to live out of state. he will come pick me up when they are gone somewhere and then he will drive to that state.  i stay with my parents.. and don't want them knowing.    

They just got separated today. There is no final legal decisions or anything and my mom and I left the house. My dad blocked my mom's credit cards and he refused to give us one of two cars we had. All we have are some of our clothes and a debit card that has about 2000 dollars. We walked down to one of the nearest hotels and we are going to sleep here tonight, but I'm afraid that we don't have any plans after today and not enough money to plan anything. Is there any legal evidence or reason that he has to provide us anything before my parents actually divorce? Also I'm not going back no matter what and I'm not letting mom cuz he is a ******* monster. I witnessed him hit my mom once or twice a year since I was like 11(I'm not 17 and graduating high school) and he yells and breaks stuff more and more often. He uses foul language in every chance he gets, and he did today.

So my husband's ex wife just had a baby with her husband and we usually drop the kids off on weekends at their house. I feel like it's gonna be weird going over there now that she has a baby. How can I not feel weird about it? 

My husband and I carried his kids to see their new sibling at the hospital. Their mom and her husband showed them the baby through window because of the pandemic. I stayed in the car because it felt uncomfortable to me. He told me later on that it felt weird, but he did it for his kids because they wanted to go see the baby and plus, the kids are staying with us for a few days. If he says he felt weird, does that mean he has feelings for her? If he felt weird or miserable? 

Yet again, for the uncountable(th) time, I will feel like bringing up the lack of sex.  Except that I am not going to this time.  I think I am done.  Finally, after 21 years, I have reached my breaking point.  I got woken up the other day, really early, by a wife who was not able to sleep.  She had been working 7 overnights in a row, and during that time I didn't pester her about sex.  She knows I'm pretty much always horny.  When I went to bed that night before, I had been up nearly 22 hours, as I got up early for work that day before.  Being woken up in the morning though, I'm not going to say no.  I enjoyed making her make that much noise, with my face getting that wet.  Anyways, being 7 days since the last time, I only lasted 30 seconds, and I could have gone again - things never did get soft until much later.  The blood on the sheets and me indicate that I am going to have to go another week, as she is averse to sex during her period. She woke me up because she wanted to have an orgasm.  If I was to wake her up with an erection against her buns and dripping on her back, she would be pissed off.  So, I am wondering if I should pursue a former co-worker that propositioned me with an invite back to her apartment after happy hour, or if I should just watch a lot of porn and masturbate to my heart's content.  I'd like to know if guys and girls differ on what you think I should do (based on what you would do, or what you would tell someone to do in this case) Thanks Lily, honest answer like that makes the decision simple.  I've thought what you said at the end a lot, and now it's time to do for me.  Former co-worker it is.  I ran into her again at Costco last week, the flirtation was still there, along with the offer of coming over for a beer.  I'm either getting laid or slapped.

Without divorcing my wife, I am stuck in a monogamous/faithful marriage with a woman who doesn't enjoy sex, giving, anything to do with emotions, hard choices, or hard work. Everything she says/does leads me to believe she has undiagnosed Asperger's because it seems to run in her family (our son has it). She just doesn't respond to ANY non-verbal queues the way that other women I've met does. She's very, very odd. I love this about her, but it also drives me crazy... My wife has two modes nature/things or power/status and little much anything else. She will obsess on things like video games like Final Fantasy but she will obsess about how to gain power and status to prove to herself that she isn't stuck in a stalemate in her personal growth... Her appearance means nothing to her and her hygiene as well (autism signs) and most of the time she treats me like a roommate not a lover or a romantic interest. This became especially true when she started taking Zoloft and birth control pills (for hormone reasons not sex). With my recently adopted 18 year old moved out (but visiting to see my wife as her mom and ignoring me) and my 17 year old aspie son trying to get famous through making Roblox video games instead of graduating high school and my 14 year old daughter keeping to her room, I just have no purpose any more if my wife is going to keep up her autistic tendencies and ignore me... I could return to being a gamer or otaku, but I'd rather have social connections tbh...

So we took lots of different photos together with my husbands family. My family photo with my husband was about 20 people. (huge)  His only included his single mother, brother and sister. So it was 5 of us.  We made big canvas pictures for our families to hang up in their homes, frames etc. No I am not the closest to my in-laws.. because they are much more quiet and I've never even hugged his family. They hung up a huge living room photo on the wall of my husband with his mom and siblings. I'm not even in the big picture.  As I look around more, I'm in the little framed picture on a table. I've never been this hurt but I don't even know what to say. When my husband and I saw the big picture he looked at me with his eyes saying "I'll explain later, don't take it personal" but how can I not? His mother was never married, and neither are his siblings. I would think being the first married couple, would be a beautiful new addition to the family.. but apparently the mom still views her kids as only that. Anyone experience this? How should I go about this now that I feel excluded and not family that I married into? 

So yesterday my husband and I took his kids to see their new sibling at the hospital. His ex wife, her husband, me and my husband all get along. Later on that day, he said "even if it makes me miserable, I'm going to do everything and anything to make my children happy." Does this mean he still has feelings for his ex wife if this situation makes him miserable? Or no? 

He's moaning and yelling loud enough that my wife and I can hear him with our bedroom window closed. He's behind his garage. Our son (14) is autistic and I won't want him to pick up car-******* habits.

He has had many bad things happen to him in the past year, along with our separation. The problem is, its been a year and I am ready to file divorce as I have met someone I am interested in having a future with. I wasn't totally perfect, I threw things sometimes when I busted him cheating but the last straw for me was when he choked me in front of my kids for accusing me of cheating when I didn't.  I don't want him to become suicidal or homicidal but I am ready to move on and just co parent with him and love him from a distance. I already have a restraining order and he has a visitation schedule that he follows until recently when he got sick with covid. How can I present this or should I just file and not say anything? In his sick twisted head, he cannot accept that it is over. 

What will be the differences in feelings and emotions between them? What will be their expectations asboth are totally opposite in experiences, one is veteran and the other is inexperienced and never did any such acts with anyone

So there's this girl who I'm interested in asking out. I've known her for about 4 years and have met her a few times. I have a crush on her and I'm interested in her and so I plan on asking her out. My best friend says it is ok to do this and that he supports me in it but my other friends claims that it is creepy. They said that it is creepy cause I don't know her. But I do know her cause I've met her in person a few times. I don't want to not ask her and regret it later. Is it ok to give her flowers and a teddy bear ???

I am 38 years old my wife is 39 years I am truly blessed that I have my wife she is beautiful, sexy , hardworking a good mom and great home maker. But I struggle with lusting over other woman. I was lucky my wife forgave my indiscretion but I don't want my lust to cause me to not appreciate her , cheat on her and lose her. I often fantasize about women that are 22 years, 25 years or ex lovers . I lost one marriage in the past due to me and my ex not being a good fit and my cheating did not help. I am blessed with my wife and I want to be the husband she deserves but it is hard not to have lustful thoughts about other woman. I wish I could turn off these thoughts like a light switch because I know how counterproductive they are and I do not want to hurt my wife. Lately it feels like i am in survival mode in which I am just focused on getting through the day without engaging in cheating and it is unfair to my wife because she deserves me to nurture her and be in the moment

Should she simply enjoy the situation and laugh with her exes by supprting them as she still are in touch with them and that gives them the courage to do such thing? And if the husband complains about it, she can instead easily call him insecured, loser and narrow minded for not being able to digest the words of her exes as they are only enjoying and saying about past things which should not bother him as she married him not the exes who dumped her and did'nt find her suitable for marriage for them

Because for equality in genders its important for both to have equal amout of benefits and rights? Just like the wife's virginity is her choice with whom she eants to lose with and with whom she wants to explore everything without marriage, then should the husband get the same rights and choice to lose his virginity to whomever he wants to, and why should he give his virginity to his wife even though she gave it to others saying its her body and her choice and a husband does'nt own her. So the husband too should get that right to not to give his virginity to her because of equality. In such thing, what can be done so that both can get equality rights? What should the wife do for the virgin husband so that both are in equal stage and both feels same and the husband does'nt feel inferior and the wife does'nt feel superior

I like his hats

I had a water leak in my upstairs bathroom. It backs up to our bedroom. I went in to the closet to clear things so they wouldn't get soaked. I found a large cardboard box that was wet on the bottom. I opened it to empty it and I was shocked what I found. My wife has these very provocative outfits (mini-skirts, halter tops, stiletto heels, and a corset). I have never seen her wear them and I didn't even think she owned stuff like that. She is a very conservative dresser. I am now curious about this wardrobe of hers. Should I ask her about it and if so how should I approach the subject? 

What will go in the mind of the experienced wife who had many sex partners before? What will go in the mind of the virgin husband who saved himself for his wife with self control, knowing that now he will have to compete with her exes and have to perform better from first attempt as well otherwise his wife will not like it and feel like bored and might not be satisfied with him, and might always fantasize about her exes who were experienced in bed and she also might treat the husband like a fool?

Because whenever a virgin husband shows a little fear of performance(natural) in front of an experienced wife then some wives immediately calls them insecured, loser or non manly