The other day he insulted me because I told him to ask for help from the gov. He has always been against it, but I thought he would make an exception due to the quarantine, so he got mad and told me I was unworth it as a wife, then he received the help from it and he didn't tell me. We have the stove broken for almost 3 months now and he told me we needed to save money, so I was like ok. Then his recliner breaks and immediately buys another one (he is paying for it monthly) but still, so anyway when he says he loves me and he wants to make love to me. I feel not loved but used!! What do you think? How would you feel if you were in my shoes?

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Known him for years. He's 20 years older. Reached out to me on fb & complimented a pic. Said his wife had not touched him in 8 months. I'm not married & guess I let my singleness / quarantine get to me. He's very handsome & we messaged back & forth for 2 months. Did not meet.  I asked him a week ago if his wife still isn't touching him. He said she had the last week. And a red flag went up. I said I was done playing the game. He then said he was reluctant of it all anyway because he has known & been friends with my dad. He was hesitant in sending pics, sweet messages, or suggesting us meeting at a hotel when he's out of town for work. He's liked some of my posts on fb but no messages. I thought he was really in an unhappy marriage & didn't think he was playing games. Was he?

Two of my relatives they are in their 60s they are depressed and angry they ddidnt marry and have kids. I stayed with them for few months and all they do is fight and argue. Im in college right now and im not ready for marriage now but Im genuinely scared if I stay single forever I will end up unhappy like my relatives. 

My wife's parents got divorced when she was 3 her mom chose her step father over her and she went to live with her father her father later chose her stepmother over her she was not wanted in her home but we were happily married for 22 years and my wife is an amazing women and she is just a sweetheart but she still breaks down and cries about her parents choosing their spouses over her when she was about 3-7 she never got over it somehow things will be good then BAM!!! she will remember and get depressed again it wounded her very deeply and she isn't willing to move on or heal from it As her husband what can I do to comfort her?

I am married to an amazing loving husband and we are having a child free family but I still am upset about how my parents chose their new spouses over me first my dad chose my stepmom over me and my mom chose my step dad over me they didn't want me so I moved and lived with my aunt and uncle so far they are my parents but I wish that my parents chose me over their spouses and they don't even know their son in law I am married to an amazing man he is giving me the love that my parents never had I told him how my parents chose their new spouses over me my husband says that I should move on and I cannot dwell on the last and be grateful to my aunt for stepping up the plate Should I move on and pray to god?

I don't know what's wrong with my wife. She's only 30 years old and always forgets the simplest little things to do. She goes out to the grocery store and I'm like ok, "can you please get napkins while you're there?" That's it! ONE little thing for her to remember. When she gets back from the store, she's like, "Oh I'm sorry I forgot!" And then she goes out and takes out the trash and I see the empty soda cans still on the kitchen counter. And I'm like, why didn't you take out the recycling as well while you took out the trash? And she's like, "Oh I'm sorry. I forgot all about those!" Just one thing to remember (i.e. the recycling) and she forgets. I don't understand with her. She constantly does that where she forget ONE simple little thing to do. I yell her many times about this, but she still forget. I fear what might happen if we have kids one days and she'll be like, "Whoops, I forgot to pick up our son from school" What is wrong with my wife and why does she forget these simple little things? And it's not even a long list of things that's easy to forget; they're just ONE little thing to remember. What is wrong with her???

So here's the story. My fiancé and I were supposed to have a big wedding at a venue in a couple weeks which was unfortunately cancelled due to the virus. We're planning on eloping now to keep the rest of our families safe and plan on celebrating later when restrictions are lifted. So now we're trying to come up with creative ways to do an elopement. We don't have a backyard since we live in a Manhattan apartment, and not much of a living room even since it's a tiny studio. So we're trying to think of other ways to do this. Maybe go to a mountain, take a helicopter somewhere. Go to an isolated beach or a park in upstate New York? Don't know, it's tough when you live in New York City. Please help 

My fiance who will become my husband soon, he's very kind and I do love him. He only pays attention to me when he wants something but he never sits with me or starts conversations or does anything with me. He never wants to go on walks with me. I always have to go out alone. Hes nice to me but he always calls me fat. I am a bit overweight and he is too. Whenever he sees a severely overweight woman, he starts saying that this woman is me and I will soon become like that. I laugh along with it but it breaks my heart. He never wants to communicate or go out with me. All he does is sit at home and play video games with his friends. There's no dates, nothing. Should I be worried or is this just a man thing? This is my first relationship.

My wife was abused as a child her parents had no interest in her and her family never had any interest in her either she left home when she was 17 we have been married for two decades and we are very happy but how can I make my wife understand that I do love her and will never leave her for anyone else and will always love her? My wife doesn't believe me 

I am married to a great man and we are happy together for more than 2 decades and we have a good house and we have no kids  Is anyone else here happily married?

Also because the are larger than most other men? Doesn't society make you believe that black men are rapists?

My husband made up a story about me saying that when our town was plastered with snow a few years back, a man in a van threw ice/snowballs out the window at me and it hit the back of my head and out of anger he supposedly ran after the van man to protect me.. None of this story is true. My husband told a 19 year old girl this and he came out about having feelings for her.. we both 52.  Why would he lie? Is he trying to appear like a protective alpha male or something?! Tell me in your answer... do you agree that this story he made up sounds completely far fetched and unlikely?

We have came back and right as we parked the driveway, a gentlemen outside had walked up to us. He told us to listen if we could hear something. We didn't know what he meant but then we heard these screams of the neighbor's wife. Then we heard a lot of bangs and heard the wife scream and cry for help from the inside of their house. The gentlemen calls the police and waited for them to tell them what house it was. The police to the husband in, and honestly I feel they will be upset for us because of this. Their young son likes to come over our house and play with my nieces and nephews, so it is heartbreaking to have him see his dad go away. I know the husband and wife have had problems with their relationship and arguments outside, they have been to jail before but they always seem to back with each other. I just feel they will back together and be upset we had called the police. *the police took the husband in* correction. The gentlemen who came up to us did call the police, he was a few houses down but came to us since we were the neighbors and to actually know he was indeed hearing something but didn't know what until he had come closer to the house.

If a spouse has made it known that the sex and affection is lacking, and the other spouse is aware of how their spouse feels, is it fair for the spouse to bring it up yet again?

I moved out of my shared home with my husband and in with my mother because we were having too many issues that he wasn't willing to compromise on. Ever since, he doesn't speak to me. If I text him, he doesn't respond. I haven't tried reaching out in over a week. The last time we spoke was at therapy on Tuesday (almost a week ago.) It was only our first session so we basically just told the therapist our issues but he didn't offer any advice what so ever so we've just continued to not speak. I'm 20 weeks pregnant with twins and he doesn't even reach out to ask about them/the pregnancy. I had to go to the hosptial because I was having really bad pain two nights ago and it's an ulcer from stress. He doesn't even know. When I first told him I was pregnant we were arguing and he said hoped I miscarried. He's apologized and said he didn't mean it, that he was just angry when he said it but with the way he's acting now I genuinely don't think he cares about me or this pregnancy. We have therapy tomorrow and I'm honestly considering not going and seeing a lawyer for divorce instead. 

My baby father lives with me and he has other kids by other women that he did NOT married.   Would you let your baby father Live with you knowing he have other kids by other women that he did not married?

I'm 32 years old, divorced, no kids, lost my job due to this coronavirus the company completely shut its doors.  I live 14 hours from home and my ex husband wants to sell the house we own. It's not worth much money it's a townhouse and I'm not sure we should be selling mid-coronavirus. I think we are going to lose the little bit of money we would make on the home. I have a grand total of 3,000 left in my savings account after everything that's went on the past year. I'm really ready to give up and move home but I'm embarrassed to do so at 32. I'd EVENTUALLY like to get married again and I'd really like to have children but I fear that the clock is ticking for everything in my life. I feel like a complete and utter failure. I've been looking for work with absolutely no luck everything is closed unless I want to work at a grocery store which at this point seems like my only option. I'm getting unemployment however I'm now being told that because my company CLOSED permanently I can't collect the 600.00 extra per week which makes NO SENSE. This leaves me with a grand total of 171.00 per week until mid-June. NOBODY can live off of that. The state I live in pays TERRIBLE for unemployment the MAXIMUM benefit amount is 284.00 per week. Honestly just feel like I have no other option but to give up. I'm so depressed I haven't eaten in days. 

How should the husband feel staying in the same house or same place where his brother lives and knowi g his wife and his brother will be facing each other frequently? Will they be behaving like Brother in law- Sister in law now after the marriage and will it be easy to think like that after they slept with each other?

Can she call him "Brother in law" knowing she had physical relations with him many times before? Can it now a Brother-Sister relation after their past action

My first name starts with an A, and my fiancé's last name is S(redacted)-S(redacted). I hate the initials (A$$). Would I be able to take the first part of his last name, or is that not possible legally? If so, would my future initials be obvious? I swear I'm not trolling lol. I'm just new to all this.