My husband wants a threesome. Is this because he thinks I'm unattractive? He did ask me if I wanted to be with a girl with big boobs. Does he secretly want to cheat? Does this mean I don't make him happy or satisfy him? I'm upset. He does say that he would only do it if I was okay with it. I told him I'm not.  We did have a small threesome a while ago, which I did not like at all, and the girl had small boobs. I do too, so I guess that's why I feel like he thinks I'm unattractive. 

I'm 37. My 28 year old wife doesn't know anything about this, only my best mate who's also married and meeting girls there like myself. I got so tempted I couldn't resist these women. None of these girls know about each other or about my wife and I'm still in a relationship with them and I help them financially. I feel stuck they want more commitment I have to make things up to cover up my tracks. I've got two kids with my wife and if she finds out I'll lose EVERYTHING!! What should I do?

My wife and I have been married for almost 8 years. Our anniversary is coming up this month on the 19th. We have two kids together, a 7 year old and a 4 year old. She has gained around 30 pounds with baby fat from having kids. She used to have a really hot body when we were dating and before we had kids. I'm still able to get an erection and have sex with her, but it would be really nice if she got her hot pre-child body back. How do I ask my wife (in a nice way) to start working out to get back into her hot pre-child body?

Did they sum some things up to prevent anyone from getting it?

Heaven forbid we should disagree! You know, that's how disasters begin, with group think like yours.  By all means, proceed.

He has even told his parents about me, etc.

My husband wants a threesome, particularly a MFF. He tells me that it's all about the forbidden which makes it hot, but I honestly don't think I could do anything with a girl. I also am emotional so I don't know if I could see my husband with another woman or even a man (if we did a MMF which I would be turned on if I saw him with a man). If he tells me it's just all about the forbidden, should I give it a shot? I'm just afraid it will ruin our marriage and this will be in my head for the rest of my life. I also feel like by him wanting this, I feel like I don't satisfy him enough. Is this why men want a threesome? 

Let's take that statement at full face value as a truth.  The question is: why is it difficult to admit?  (Btw, I'm thinking of asking this in the Logic section of a future exam in the capstone course I teach) - I'll you know how many points you would have received.

Want a pre nup have a buisness that does not make money yet and will. So I want a pre nup if my business takes off. I just want to know we are getting married because we want to.the only reason we are together is because we want to be. I lost my house in my last marriage I don't want to repeat my mistakes .

Should it make me upset if my husband sometimes gets things for his kids to take to their moms per request from the mom? 

It's a heart shaped amethyst ring set in platinum with diamonds on the band and two smaller diamonds on the side of the heart. It's a very deep purple that kind of changes from red to blue flashes on the inside. It's very pretty and I love it. However, over the years of my life I have received quite a few amethyst rings as well as other pieces of amethyst jewelry for my birthday and other events of my life. I change my jewelry so often that I don't even think my fiance has seen my other amethyst rings(we've been together for almost 3 years). Obviously the ring looks great paired with some bracelets, necklaces, earrings, etc. However, what should I do about the other rings? It's not like I wear them all the time. In fact, I sometimes go years without wearing them so I don't think he's ever seen them. Should I wear them at the same time as my engagement ring or would it make my engagement ring simply look like an ordinary ring then? Should I maybe pawn the others that I haven't worn in years? Or should I keep them in my box and continue not wearing them? I know it sounds silly, but I am afraid of showing him my other rings now kind of in fear that it would break his heart knowing I already have some, but I will happily wear my other amethyst jewelry with the ring to compliment it. Obviously, the first poster didn't read a single part of my question. Downvoted and reported. Too stupid, didn't read. 

My husband an I have been talking about threesomes. I said I would feel dirty and uncomfortable with a girl, but why do I fantasize about my husband with another man? Should I do it for him? Are threesomes dangerous?

My hubby is furloughed at the moment and I'm working from home. We have been using this time to be more constructive like deep cleaning the house,teaching our two sons as they are out of school, and getting more reading and researching done.  However my husband has also gained an extreme libido. We have sex at least twice a day now for the past 6 weeks. It was fun at first but and I liked it but now with working from home, teaching my sons, and everything I'm just really tired.  I have to work and teach my kids but twice a day gor sex every day is getting to be a chore more than pleasure.  How can I approach my husband about this without making him feel awful?   I know he is already down by being furloughed. I love him i really do but i cant do it anymore like this. I'm exhausted.  

And being blocked....luckily he doesn't have her number

My wife just got a new job shift where she won't be able to pick him up from work only drive him to school. I'm off work by the time he gets off work but I'm so burnt out That I don't have energy to pick him up from work. I don't understand why he can't just drive. He has a car but she doesn't want him driving because she feels like he's not ready. She got frustrated at me when I said he needs to drive to help me from being more burned out. She said " you'll be just fine but our son is not good with paying attention he will kill himself. I would rather have you tired then a dead son. So get over it and drive him. Plus he has other errands he has to run including work. We don't trust public transportation and our son is 18 and I'm just so tired I have a hard labor job and this is 3 more years of driving him around because my wife has it set in stone he's not driving until she feels like he's ready. 

My current boyfriend of two years. Is a father of four. Two bye one long time ex and two bye his wife. He left his long time ex and married his second baby mother. She is a hoe and he left her. We broke up once or twice and he went back to her but now that she has a boyfriend and  Contracted herpes. He wants nothing to do with her. He came back to me afterwards. His first baby mother, he hates her and doesn't see his kids because i hate her. She always picks with me and talks stuff so he won't speak to her or the kids. I'm not really sure if he pays child support. she claims he doesn't but she's a liar and a miserable lonely whore. Legally he is still married and we are raising one of his kids with h3 created with his wife. He ask her for a divorce all the time and she says no. She even still wears a ring. She is delusional. Do you think once they divoroxe he will marry me? He always says he will but his ex wife claims he promised his first baby mother the same thing. If it makes a difference i am a white woman and i know he's happier with me. They're both black bitter women and fit the stereotype. How can i speed up the process of their divorce? I just know once this is over he will marry me. 

I am employed and I have been financially supporting my family and the mother of my spouse for a year and a half now. My spouse has an extremely low paying job and does not help very much with finding good deals to save money. One way I try to motivate myself to get something done is to say "If I had to do this within a reasonable amount of time or I'd die, could I do this?" For example, if I had to figure out how to use this stove within 10 minutes or I'd die, would I? I'm almost always able to do so. Can I reasonably say to this to my spouse? That they should get a better paying job in 30 days if they think they would be able to if their life was on the line? These things are hard for me. I don't know if I would sound too harsh. Thank you for all your help. God bless

I Would never cheat because it's just so wrong morally and spiritually. But in a world obsessed with sex and sin cheating isn't seen as a big deal by many. It's quite disturbing to be honest. Cheating is selfish as well as just downright a slap in the face. 

 The guy i exchanged messages with is married the reason he stopped messaging and blocked me was because my husband found out and told him not to message me back.

Because she already given her first love and other love, also her virginity of every acts to all her exes and only settled with the husband in the end after getting rejected by her exes after finding her unsuitable for marriage and also is not virgin from any side or act? 

Because last time my fiancé and I argued bad, he told me very hurtful words and my mom found out and she said it's emotional abuse. And that she doesn't approve of it. She said she's not going to my wedding. 

If yes, then do they still get reminded of her exes and the good times and sex they explored together when they sees their exes after marriage? Then, do they keep comparing and pretending in front of husband to be satisfied but in their mind thinks about being with their exes atleast in bed, but without marriage as they are not good in other things compared to her innocent husband who loves her always?

Not to be rude but she also apologized to me and claimed her dad died but then I found out that she was lying and she still talked bad about me behind my back. Her children and the mans family are the only ones who need sympathy in my opinion Lost 

 Does she feels like boring and thus thinks about her exes with whom they explored everything together with them? Will they pretend to be like satisfied with her husband but always compare him in her mind with her exes as she knows the difference between the sex experience between a virgin and non virgin and will be missing them?