My Aunt husband comes back form his office at 6 pm An uncle from a neighboring house returns from his job at around 1pm, he has his wife and two daughters (Students but they normally return home at around 5 pm). My aunt starts coming to terrace at the time of return of neighboring uncle, exchange smiles when he returns and goes to his house one hour after his arrival at home. It is customary in our locality for every one to take nap at this time. She spends there around one hour or a little less. Uncle is around 55 years old while she is around 36-38 Can they be in an affair? how to confirm? (I see all this from my room that has blinds.

He is the only one who works in the house and doesn't have much time home when he isn't tired from work. But when he does have any free time, instead of helping out around the house or with the kids, he goes on long walks. Do people normal walk for this extended period regularly or is he just avoiding being home?

My wife reads a lot of the conspiracy crap online and believes that there will be forced vaccinations. She believes that Bill Gates is behind the coronavirus pandemic. When she talks to me about her fears of the coronavirus conspiracy theories, I just don't know what to say. What I really want to say to her is that she's crazy for believing these crazy conspiracies. I just wish she would stop reading all this conspiracy crap online.

Marriage

I need some opinions: How would you feel about sharing a bed that your husband and his ex wife and their kids shared? They only had it for a year before she left and now we've been married for almost a year. Any thoughts? It's a nice bed and mattress. I don't want to tell him to get a new one, because it was pricey, but what are your thoughts? We have rotated it and cleaned it. 

Im only 20 and im unhappy at home sometimes. To be honest i get jealous of married people with kids because to me they have their own life away from home. 

Back when I was 19, I was forced into marriage by her and my dad. They both emotionally drained me and kept telling me how ugly I was and how no ones gonna marry me if I don't get married now that a man wants me. They both threatened me and I just decided to go along with the marriage because I was tired of being bullied all day by my mom. My parents are cultural and they had an arranged marriage as well. I spent 2 years with my husband whom I was forced to be with. I never fell in love with him and I was always so depressed. He wasn't a bad guy but I wasn't happy and I wasn't ready for marriage or children. His family were always pressuring me and he wanted me to have children. I took birth control without him knowing and pretended that I'm just not getting pregnant easily. He was patient with me but after a while he lost it and told me that we're gonna start fertility treatments. I ran away after and we got a divorce. I moved back to my city where my parents were. My mom keeps saying how she regrets doing that to me but I don't talk to her. She's been texting me ever since I moved out of my apartment. It's been 3 months. I love her but I can't bring myself to see or talk to her. She ruined my life and I keep blaming her for my severe depression. I did go to the doctor for my depression and I'm on medication. Am I overreacting? My brother knows where I live and he says that I'm overreacting the whole thing. Am I?

So me, my husband and his ex and her husband are all friends on social media because my husband has children with his ex . Her husband posted a pic of their soon to be baby "sonogram" and my husband liked the pic. Is this weird? 

Any thoughts?

My wife has told me that if I do something that she wanted me to do after we've had an argument about it, then what I did doesn't count because we argued about it instead of me just saying "yes" and doing it. I don't see it that way so am I missing something, is she absolutely right or it is a mixture?

Too often such people over-simplistically describe men as violent simply because they cannot put any reason as to why their ex- wife hates them. Such naive thinking would not be tolerated in some industries where true expertise is expected from industry specialists.

My husband talks to a lot of women.  They text And call him constantly all day. A lot of this is do to his many jobs.he also coaches girls basketball, so parents, players and coaches, as well is His full time job is full of women. So he has a lot of reasons for women to actually be calling him. But He is also very naturally flirty and talkative.  I just get the sense there is more. Like maybe he is just really good at pulling this off.  When I ask him about it, he makes me feel kinda stupid for asking and I'm afraid to get caught really checking his phone since he does Do a lot of work. When I have, I have actually found nonthing but lots of conversations. A few times his gps had in in a few odd spots, but again he always explains it away. But I still just feel like it's something. What should I do? How can I investigate? Am I crazy?

Will she treat her husband any different, or will she treat him just like her exes with whom did enjoyed before and has memories with them?

My daughter disabled and is separated from her husband. She has no income other then a small disability check and cannot afford to pay for a divorce. Legal aid does not seem to be so good here. Is there any other organizations who can help her??

A married man n woman are getting ready to divorce - they have custody/ guardianship of the mothers sisters children when they seperate what will happen to the kids they are 11,15,17 

My husband has 2 kids with his ex wife. She is pregnant and about to have her baby so we are taking the kids to see her just through the window. That's what the ex wife wanted us to do. I feel a little iffy about it. Idk why  We're taking the kids to the hospital**

-The problems started when she got pregnant. Due to the high risk pregnancy, we couldn't have sex for over a year. After the baby, things didn't change all that much. Her sciatica had become an issue, and it became a strain on our marriage. -We share almost no common physical desires when sex does happen. She doesn't like to be touched in numerous places, including her boobs (not the case before marriage). Which, kind of makes me feel like she just wants the intercourse. Sex hardly happens at all now that she can't get pregnant anymore (tubes tied). -I struggled with being faithful over the past few years, and to be honest, I haven't always been. She knows about at least one time, and we are still recovering from that. Now she thinks she isn't good enough, despite anything I do or say. -It's gotten to the point that I have performance anxiety because I'm nervous of touching her somewhere she doesn't want to be touched when we do try to have sex. She doesn't exactly enjoy making out with me, because she claims she gets bit every time I open my mouth. I'm not trying to bite her at all. It's so frustrating. Dry kissing does nothing for me, and she doesn't like her boobs touched. -Every time I try to talk to her about ways to fix this, she gets defensive. Then, every argument we have following said talk will just have her accusing me of wanting her to be a slut. I've never asked her to do anything slutty, unless touching my wife is considered demeaning. I feel like it's over

I love my husband dearly.  We met after we both ended previous relationships.  Things moved quickly and I got pregnant.  We moved in together and married a couple years later.  I can't get over thinking he married me because we have a kid together and was the "right" thing to do.  He is never romantic with me and never remembers our Anniversary.  I've talked to him so many times about it to the point I feel like its nagging.  I don't want to do that.  I want things to be genuinely from the heart.  I don't want him to do things just because he thinks it will satisfy me.  He says he loves me.  In the beginning he made several comments about his ex and I feel like I could never be better than her.  I just don't know.  

including sex, thinking that it is a cool act and is an act of modernism for them

My 76 year old husband says there are too many buttons and how do you reheat or keep the carafe warm. I will be returning. this is my second Keurig. I really liked the single cup.

I am a bit of a difficult guy, I mean, I don't like people so much and I mind my own businesses. I usually intervene only if I see something wrong. But this time is different, I want to stop being guarded with her, otherwise I will lose her. There's this girl at work that I like, since the first time I saw her. She blushes everytime I look at her and I always dream about her being my wife. It's like she's my soul mate. Last time she asked a guy who was passing buy to help her with something that was not working in her department. The guy came, solved thr technical thing, and before he left I saw him turning his cheek so that she would kiss him. I saw red. She blushed, didn't understand what he meant, and took a step back. He laughed and went away. I came closer to her, was all mad as hell, asked her what he wanted, she was too afraid to say it and became nervous and said 'he is just acting stupid...' and went back to work. I wanted to tell her to inform me if that ever happens again so that I will sort it out with him but I just bit my tongue. Now on I am always checking her from afar. Who talks to her and what they tell her. Yet I can't seem to be more direct to her, telling het that I like her and that I want to be with her. I think she likes me too but still, it's so hard for me to tell her. I would rather hit that guy for hassling het than tell her directly that I love her so bad.

The other day we get a notice from our cable provider that if the bill is not paid within the next 48 hours they are going to disconnect the service. This morning I'm working in the kitchen and my husband is still in the bed because his workday doesn't begin for a few hours. I send him a text to say that we need to go half and half on the cable bill to avoid it being disconnected in the next 24 hours. I get no response from him. 15 minutes later I walk in the bedroom and he's laying there watching tv. I look at him and he looks back at me. I say, "Uh, did you get my text?" His reply was, "yeah I got it." I then ask him what we're going to do and he said we don't have to pay it "right now" so what's the big deal. He said it'll be paid before the service is disconnected but it's not like the cable service sent an email to say that if it's not paid in the next 20 minutes we're turning you off. I got paid today but he doesn't get paid till tomorrow. I like to pay the bills when I get those notifications and he doesn't understand that. He tends to procrastinate. No the cable isn't off but why wait till the last minute to pay anything. He feels it can wait till he gets up or lunch time or 6 PM tonight when he gets off work.  I'd rather take care of it now.  Why wait?

My wife has a bunch of her girlfriends over right now. They're having a girls night watching the 1994 film Little Women. I'm in my man cave just relaxing, playing darts, listening to music, drinking beer, and having a blast. Isn't it just nice for a husband to have a man cave in his home?