I mean how long will it take for it to be over?

Im 69 and haven't made love in around 2 decades. I have been divorced from my husband for what seems like forever, and I have been so lonely. Is there a way I can find a companion ? I am not that tech savvy and I don't know how to use any of these apps like Tender or Hot or not. Also Im worried that I'm too old and nobody will want me :( 

I am SO tired of my husband and his irratability ALL the time! He is NOT the man I married and I am doing my best to stay with him, but I am over it. Have we talked about it, yes. Will he go to counseling, no. I told him I want to leave and he said that he will get a business and make it fail on purpose so he shows negative income and therefore I won't get a penny for our children. He TRAPS me with his words. He makes threats about money. I do work, but I don't know how I can survive with kids and no child support. Who knows what other things he will try against me.

My dog is 5 years old and she freaks out whenever my husband gets a call or text. She doesn't freak out when my phone or my aunts phone goes off, only my husband's. She will start shaking and either run to a corner and sit there shaking or she will try to jump on me or hide by me. When she tries to jump on me or hide by me, she messes me up on whatever I am doing or she trips me if I am walking. We have tried changing his notification tone several times. She still freaks out when his phone goes off and idk why. 

My husband and I have been together for a year now, this entire time I have been asexual and faking my orgasms. I don't feel attraction at all but I'm afraid he'll leave me if I admit to it. Is it wrong to hide this? I love him, I just feel no sexual attraction.  When I say a year, I mean we have been married for a year. We were dating since 2013 and got married in January of 2019. And no, when we were dating we were never sexually active because I said I wanted to wait till marriage. Honestly I don't like it at all, I find it disgustingly unsanitary and dirty. I don't understand y or what anyone feels from it but he enjoys it. I just don't know that I can tell him how I feel Sorry if this is weird But  He wants to do it SO much.  Its tiring and I have to keep showering over and over again, I take around 3 a day now.

I know my husband loves me because he shows his love in many caring ways that I am thankful for. I do the same for him and he often tells me that he appreciates everything I do for him. The only problem in our marriage seems to be in the bedroom. Sex is very 'vanilla' for me because there's usually very little foreplay and not a whole lot of experimentation. What hurts most though is that my partner never makes me feel like he just cant WAIT to have me. He's never handsy, flirty, or just plain into it. I just want to feel desirable, I want my husband to make me feel like he just can't resist me any longer, even just once in a while. I don't expect sex to be like that all the time of course. We're only 30 and 31 years old, we should be far more sexually active together than we are! I dress nicely and maintain my figure, I'm a healthy US size 4 and take care of my skin, diet, hygiene, etc. I've tried to "seduce him" with things like climbing on his lap and kissing his neck, whispering how badly I want him in his ear, etc but he doesn't reciprocate. I trust him fully and have no suspicion that he's being unfaithful to me. What do I do? 

Hey everyone so me and this guy have been dating for two weeks. He has a son with this other woman and he said she has two other kids that aren't his from another relationship but they think he's their dad. Im not sure if it's appropriate for me to be dating him because they are still living together, however, he told me she's been looking for her own place. She was supposed to be out by the end of this month, but now it's pushed back to July because that apartment fell through he said. When we've spent time together she's called before and he doesn't answer. He also hasn't spent the night with me yet which makes me suspicious that he may be lying to me, however we are newly dating. Him and his wife have been together for four years and he says he's just not in love with her anymore because she doesn't appreciate how much he does. However, I also don't want to be "The other woman" if he's lying to her and lying to me. Should I tell his wife or how can I get the truth?

I found some online therapy companies that can prescribe prescriptions online. I'm in dire need of antidepressants but I don't want my family to know bc I don't want to stress them out. I do live with my parents & im in my 20s. I'm still a baby to them so they like to monitor everything I do. The insurance I have is under my dads, meaning that he pays for any insurance bills regarding all of our family members. However, the online company I'm using requires that you have insurance. If I do provide my insurance, I Will my dad be notified that I signed up for online therapy and that I'm getting antidepressants? I have no idea what the process is like to get prescription drugs 

I posted about my wife having a vaginal tuna-esque odor last week and finally told her this past weekend.. Well she called me everything but a child of God and told me maybe we won't work. I wasn't rude or anything just playfully told her she smells like red lobster. Please help! 

I am not sure how I feel about it, and I am still hurt, and it stings. I ran into my ex, and she was in a small group. Looked like they were getting stuff for home improvement. They were Pickering about getting a place, and making temporarily changes. Some old guy with them smiled, laughed and said you two sound like an old married couple. They been together less than 2 years because she started to date him shortly after we broke up, and she never wanted to live with me, and no one said that about us, and I even asked her to marry me. Why do they sound married?

Anonymous; Uh oh, I am doomed then. I guess I better stop. I forgive though, she does not. I am not mad at her though some of the family is. 

My husband, his ex wife and her husband all get along. My husband has 2 kids from his ex. We are all friends on fb because mainly to see pics of the kids. This morning, she shared a pic of her 2 kids in the same bed that I sleep on now. I'm sure she slept on it as well. Should this upset me? 

As I have mentioned before my wife, when we first met, weighed about 105 lbs. She was very thin and lean. That was one thing that attracted me to her. In the 16 years since we've been together she's put on some 40 - 50 lbs. She said she was tired of being the "skinny girl" so when she started gaining weight she liked it andkept going. No, we don't have any kids together. She had two sons from her first marriage. This past Sunday I was at my parent's house visiting with my mom for Mother's Day and one of my sisters bought her photo album and inside of it was a pic of me and my wife at a family gathering some 16 years ago. She looked so slim and trim then. I took a pic of the pic on my phone and showed my wife later that night. We both got a good laugh out of it and moved on. Last night I was looking at the pic and my wife started pressing the issue with me. "What is it about that pic you like?" She wouldn't let it go. I knew where this was going because now that she's gained weight I do still love her but I don't find her as sexually attractive. We only have sex every couple of months. She kept pushing the issue asking, "so, what do you like about that pic?" She knew I loved her thinner frame but she wanted me to say it so she could argue about how I don't find her attractive now. Well, I bit the apple and finally told her, "Yes, I loved the thinner you." That was the match to gas moment and we ended up arguing about it all night. She kept saying that that's not where she was going with the question but when I mentioned her weight it hurt her feelings. Was she just looking for an argument?

I have a friend who told me she has a shot of scotch after a certain event with my other friend who owns this company. He is ten years older than her and is married with children. She always seems to be alone with him as well when I leave. When I asked her more about it she got mad at me and stopped talking to me. Is this inappropriate behavior? 

My sons father income refund and stimulus check was offset to child support but the child support office told me that i wont get cent of it because it all going to the state instead of his children. anyone else having this problem Texas child support

My wife and her love for Lolicon & Shotacon and are open marriage My wife as a fetish in which I share in some what her fetish somewhat . I met my wife 5 yrs ago on we got married we both use to have husbands from previous relationships, I got divorce hers died in a car accident. I couldn't find a man that I love as much as him. I met her at lowe's we started to talk about roses next thing I know we were wife and wife she inducing to hentai I found some of it to be cute and or romantic. But hers is a little weird she mostly likes Lolicon and shotacon to which is a sub category hentai but I might being coming around to it but don't tell anyone. We both still haves are kids living with from previous relationships ages 5 and a half 11. So what do you think about lolicon and shotacon is it OK with children in the house or what? PS we didn't go full lesbian we have a open marriage and once the government legalize plural marriage we're going to get a husband or two to join us. And then I guest we're going to have to buy a double or triple size bed.

So i was on business trip to dubai signing a contract and everything was ok till the moment i saw this young japanese girl she asked me for my no but i refused telling her that i am married man then when i was going to sleep she came after me and seduced me with her sexy body and in the end i had sex with her  Now i feel sorry for my self because i am not cheater at all i love my wife and the other thing my wife is from traditional family and i am scared that she may find out what happened Any help or suggestion how to keep my family and not get hurt when i return please...

look or the car you drive, your status in life or because of what his mother, your ex-wife,  told him about you? That you didn't want to be a father? That his birth was an accident? What if you told him she was lying about those things but he didn't believe you maybe?What if you're an older father and trying to improve yourself but it's so slow because you're sick a lot, getting old and made sick by psychiatric drugs that you were forced to take after her divorce by the court, and maybe your child gets impatient with you? Because you can't get it together? What if you get angry at your child for being judged by him but you realize that he didn't deserve your anger because he had a shi tty upbringing And your low self-esteem and weakness played a big part in that? How do you tell him that you might not be able to ever improve the way he would want you to but you love him anyway? What if you want to spend more time with him butWhat are you supposed to do? And I won't stop loving my son so please don't tell me to do that. I'm just not sure how you deal with it? Does anybody else understand this? Is anybody else going through this? I'm wondering if I'm going to get answers like just kill yourself? Believe me I've thought of it. I don't even know why am asking this here in Y!A,  it's just that I'm pretty much alone and I don't really have anybody to talk to and I don't trust psychotherapists and psychiatrist anymore after all the damage they did to my life. A few good points here and there but I strongly suspect some of you people, if you were ever actually parents in the first place, didn't do much better than I did. And the person who said they were in court a lot and had seen a lot of divorces, yours was the worst answer definitely. For your information they did not literally "force" me to take psychiatric drugs but they told me to continue taking them so what's the difference?  You also assumed that I had not spent enough time with my son when he was younger. He lived with me for a number of years because his mothers fourth husband was abusing him and I didn't want him living with her. And since she worked for the same court where we had our custody and divorce proceedings, I never had a chance. An attorney that was assigned to me for one hearing told me that as far as she was concerned my ex-wife should have had to undergo psychiatric evaluation. But she worked for the court so who is going to make her do that? They didn't care that her fourth husband was abusing our son either. They were supposed to be mandated reporters but because she worked for the court they turned a blind deaf year to all of that. So don't He such a sanctimonious as shole. Consider yourself lucky you never went through what I did, watching your son suffer unnecessarily after being "profiled"the way I was because my son's mother worked for the court and on and on.  Well, I suspected I shouldn't have asked the question(s) in the first place. That's what I get for asking a question like this on Yahoo answers. Serves me right  *Edit: "turned a deaf ear" "don't be such a sanctimonious as shole"  Should have proofread more carefully.