How does stigma play a part in bullycide?

Me and my partner are in love and have banter. He's never ever laid a finger on me and never ever would. We were having banter earlier and he whacked me on the head lightly as a joke and I did it back. He squeezed my wrist in banter. And then he kept saying he wanted to hit me (he would never lay a finger on me he was bantering and I can definitely say this) and so I was just saying I'll hit his egg head and stuff back joking. But he wasn't laughing when he said it he was really serious, but he was just kidding around he would never. Is this okay as long as it's just messing and nothing serious 

The other day my husbands friends came over he always avoids looking at me but when he does he gets nervous. But jumping forward he went into my bathroom twice and took longer than usual. I noticed I forgot to but my bra away after the fact. Later that night he was looking for his phone and went back to in the bathroom and started was patting up my bra and sweater. He did not know I could see him at first but I did. So he looked quiet and uncomfortable after. Do u think its concerning?

What are two examples of multiple relationships 

This person would get critical with you over the slightest offense. You would say something that you think she would agree with and she would retort what you say and you would look at her confused like 'why would she do this?' Then she would start to tell you off because she disagrees with what you say. You seem to find yourself not being able to communicate with her, because you would either get retorted Or 'put in your place' for little to no apparent reason whatsoever. She seems to point you out on what you said, and say that you should reconsider your actions and use of words before talking to her. If you talk to someone in front of her, she would naturally spy on yours and someone else's conversation and bud and and make a scene and tell you off in front of everybody, just because she might disagree with what you had said.

Hola, de antemano gracias por leer. Coconi a un chico muy lindo en la universidad, para mi perfecto muy buena apariencia, inelegente, tierno, caballeroso.... Eso fue en primer semestre, despues el cambio de univeridad y no lo volvi a ver. Me parece que el vive cerca de mi casa, o eso creia pero me he dado cuenta que por el rncanto que el tenia lo veo en todos lados. Él tiene gafas (ahora cada vez que veo un chico medio musculoso y con gafas, pienso que es él y me pongo nerviosa), cuando salgo a la calle siempre pienso que me lo voy a encontrar, salgo mucho con ese pretesto. Siento que algunos chicos ya me evitan porque no entienden, yo porque me pongo nerviosa al verlos si ni me conocen. En algunas ocasiones se me han acercado con mala cara haber yo que les decia. También cuando veo parejas de lejos creo que es él y se me rompe el corazón. Me gustaria que me dieran su opinión, má allá de usuarios de yahoo como amigos. Creanme que esto no se lo he contado a nadie. Como hago para salir de esa obsesión? Que piensan de mi? Les ha pasado? Acepto cualquier consejo. :Ç