Often she will spend months with her family, I'm talking about five months without coming back home...is this normal in marriages?

Drunkard break down bottle and is shown angry to wife. Why is broken up bottle a proof of his anger?

A married friend of mine is in trouble. Her husband has a 5" and they were having great time suddenly his husband has started telling her stories of his college life where he told a lot about his two friends who were 7" & 8".. he told a lot how they were into ladies and how ladies were happy with them.Sine then my friend is upset, she has started thing about sizes and is planning to cheat on his husband. she has started speaking to tall gents in search of someone with big.Please advise how I should help her to get out of this situation?

Can someone give me some advice on what to do. He saves he loves me but he says I deserve better than him. He says I shouldn't be on my top toes on guard anyways afraid to upset him. He said that's no way to live and he said I deserve a better man than him. He said mabye he's not cut out for marriage. His ex girlfriends had a lot of the same things to say about him he's controlling overly opinionated with a short fuse and easily angered. I believe he was the only that always left though. He said he would never hit me and he had never hit me in the 6 years we've been married. But he gets riled up about the smallest of things. And a lot of times he has threatened to break up with me. Today we were Celebrating Mother's Day at my house and my husband pulled me aside and said he wanted to get a "quickie" at a hotel before everyone else and ate and I told him this was not the right time to be asking for that because my brother in and the rest of my family would be here any minute and I needed to cook for everyone . He got mad at me starting screaming and told me I was just trying to get out of having sex with him. I told him ok I'll do it but they're expecting me to cook since I'm hosting dinner and just when we were about to pull out of the neighborhood my brother called me and said he was on the way. My husband apologized to me and said he would never scream at me again. I hope this is the last time this happens because this is draining my spirit. He always apologizes. Another instance he went off on me because of a bad dream I had of him and he threatened to divorce me because of the dream.  My mother never liked him up until this year. She is finally warming up to him but it's definitely took a long time. It's been along time coming.

He has been married 20 some years. His sister did the same thing and it ruined her family. By it I mean she and her lover ruined the family she had. 

She was very unforgiving to him and is a rather unforgiving person (we do not speak to her anymore cause she won't speak to us). My question is in a marriage with problems is it normal one member is sorry and wants to fix their mistakes and the other refuses to give mercy? In this case the husband (my blood relative) had a bad temper and was an alcoholic. He got help (though has fallen into bad habits again) and stopped his temper (he is never angry now). The ex would not forgive.

About my friend. We knew each for years. Hang in the same group. In the same boy scout troop together. Then he move to another state. Years later he decided to get married. Next after the ceremony then the wife throws the over her shoulder for a lucky man to catch. Before she throws the flowers looks at me and said "I ain't going to throw the flowers to him." What do you think? What would you do? My problem is I didn't know to react. Whither to lose my temper or do nothing to avoid ruining the party. Thank for your lookin into.

I am really gassy today and I am wondering if I may be coming down with coronavirus.

My mother left our family when i was twelve and it was a rocky relationship for years. Im older now and my relationship with her is good. Im having issues with my marriage. My husband is very negative and controlling. So today i spent the day at my mothers house. We had a nice time. She supports if i stay married or not. I came home and my husband is furious. Was i wrong?

My son is due to be born in a couple of weeks but I'm honestly not thrilled about the thought of being a dad. My wife is over the moon and has been disappointed that I haven't shown the same enthusiasm. She basically constantly talks about the baby and things see wants buy for and do with the baby, while I'd rather talk about anything else. We are both in our late 20s and I knew I wanted kids eventually but really didn't have a desire for them right now nor did I feel prepared for them.  The last 8 months has been filled with stress of preparing for the baby and paying medical bills since my wife has to see a specialist. I have also been dealing with the reality of having to put the interest of other human over my own. The last several weeks have been even more stressful as I've been concerned with the possibility of losing my job or taking a pay cut because of Coronavirus.  I definitely want to be a great father to my son and I have no doubt that I will love my children. This has put a strain on my marriage as my wife is upset by my lack of enthusiasm even though I explained to her I wasn't ready to be a parent before she got pregnant and felt pressured by her. What makes things worse is seeing the excitement of my family and in-laws. I feel like I have to fake being excited to avoid being judged.  My question is, is this normal or am I just selfish? Also, what should I do about it? Please no, suggestions of divorce or abortion.

My husband of 25 years calls women dear. The girls that deliver our food, clerks at stores, waitresses.. is this appropriate? I'm asking because today the little girl acted very uncomfortable when he did this and honestly, I feel uncomfortable with it as well. Is it inappropriate? 

So me & my wife have been married two years, we are a young couple so in my opinion there is no reason we should be having such problems.    Whenever my wife wants sex & I'm not in the mood she complains or makes me feel bad about it, but when it's the other way around and I'm the one who's in the mood and she's not she doesn't care and won't Give in.    Anybody else relate? 

I've been in a relationship with my bf for 7 years now, at first he would talk about getting married, he was a bit romantic, he would make an effort on Valentine's Day, & Mother's Day and especially my birthday. As they years have gone by he doesn't care to to make an effort on those day's  knowing those little things make me happy and mean a lot to me. He also doesn't talk about marriage, I know he has debt to pay but a few years back he said he doesn't care to be married.  Today he didn't even say happy Mother's Day, (i had a son when we met) he said he doesn't have to say happy Mother's Day because I am not his mom.  Other than that our relationship is fine, but I don't understand why He doesn't care how I feel about it. Should I give up and move on? Or is it something even worth fixing? 

GODAAAAM ladies!  You were supposed to be using lock down to work off that extra inches...maybe feet. You didn't take my advice ....wow look at your body! Is there a way to wipe my memories of the last 2 hours? Now fellas...if you're a fatty and you're woman is a fatty too, you have to say something! Don't let it slide and you both need to hit the gym. Who's with me? Really, did you go uphill in the snow both ways too?

A statistic shows "for every 100 husbands who killed their wives in the United States, about 75 women killed their husbands" 

Also  how long have you been married

My wife is disabled and I am her caretaker. I spoil my wife with a big home and Everything she ever wants. We have children and I work Full time as the only provider. She is disabled is in unable to walk without major assistance. Sex of course is a major issue. She can lay on her back and enjoy, but it's hard for her to move and get involved. Everything is an adjustment. I Really love her and Don't want to leave, really leaving is not a option to me. But I miss going out and loving life as a couple. The Main thing that I miss Is sex and the freedom of it. and I feel like I take the lack of exciting/ romantic/ and fulfilling sex out on her with my bad attitude when it builds up. I know its not her fault. It's just hard to be backed up not able to release it the way u want to. So,, ended up cheating with a former lover, and though I felt horrible, I actually acted better when I got home. I felt like I was a better husband because the stress of sex was gone. So I was just taking care of her needs instead of worrying about mines. I know it's wrong to cheat, but I feel like if I don't, I won't be able to survive a sexless life..  and the stress just build up.  I'm not going the player route and starting a new relationship. But I feel like I need a friend with Benifits who understands what's goin on and won't mess up my marriage, and I can take care of them however they need. If not the stress I feel like will make me leave my wife over time!! 

I heard an ad during a recent Hannity radio program from a law firm specializing in divorce, from the man's perspective.  I found myself laughing, I couldn't believe they were saying the stuff out loud.  How the current economic crisis could make this time a better time to pursue divorce, as the financial hit would be softened.  That's awesome, not?

On this glorious of Mother's Days, exemplifying the only true example of love (that of a mother for her child), I note that there are no days signifying this love towards a husband.  Every day of the year a guy is supposed to signify love of his wife, above all that he does.  So guys, what is the biggest piece of evidence that you wife does not love you?  I'll go first. The biggest piece of evidence that a wife does not love her husband, is that she just expects him to go without any sex during her monthly menstruation period.  If there are times that she wants to have sex, it is expected that he be ready to go, and make her the center of attention.  However, the husband, should never expect to have action thrown his way during his wife's period, because that would make it seem like it is all about him, and a wife wouldn't do that.

I told my husband jokingly that I thought a guy that goes to our church was nice looking also the guy is married and this guy has never looked my way. I never told my husband who it was but my husband said he has a idea who the guy is. Now my husband is treating me like crap over it. He called me a slut ***** , won't kiss me and he is now sleeping in the living room and he's telling me I have always sucked as a wife. I'm miserable . What should I do?  My husband is 39 and I am 36 years old. We have a 8 year old son and have been married for 9 years. My husband is now saying he's going to report me to the church for adultery 

Will she compare him as its a natural human thing to compare, and she has lots of partners to compare him. But the husband has nothing to compare her. Then, what can she do so that the husband too can reach to her height and also does'nt have to feel inferior than her and does'nt have to fear of performance, STD's, being inadequate, etc? And what can she do if he finds out that she explored everything with all her exes and nothing is a new act for her including the words (I Love You) which she already said to many other men in bed and other things and so he will not get to explore anything new with her as for her everything is a repeatation of same acts she already had with her exes many times but instead he may not get those acts as she might have got bored of it?

And also hide  about it.  p Will the husband ever be able to reach to her height?

I love my wifes smoking hot bod but i absolutely HATE her name, something about Debra just gets on my nerves so much. I want her to change it to something more graceful, like "Aquanetta" or "Gracelica". When ever i mention this too her she just gets mad at me. Any suggestions?

Ok so i am 27 going on 28 next month, we were shopping online and she asks me 'so when are you going to get married?" i said to her 'where did that come from?" in a sarcastic way. and she said "well, your going on 28 pretty soon, your body clock is ticking, do you want kids?" I told her No I dont want kids. she has asked me the same question many times before, and she knows my answer. My answer is going to be "no". I don't want kids, PERIOD. I'm not changing my mind, and no, my body clock isn't ticking. I'm happier off in my life in the way it is right now. In terms of my employment I'm not happy there but am working on applying elsewhere. But no, having a spouse/kids is not on my priority list. I would be much happier having pets than i would having a spouse and kids to take care of for 18 plus years. Plus I'm in no shape, nor emotionally/financially/mentally stable to handle children, not even handle one child. it would be too much stress for me to handle. I dont want to go thru the pregnancy / giving birth processes. Please help me as to how i should of handled this without upsetting my mom? I'm not going to change my mind. In fact, there are people out there who don't have kids and are much happier for it. Married couples out there who are together but decided to not have children or have no desire,my hat goes off to them, its not something i want. its my body, my choice. I'm not changing my mind for anyone. How can i get her to respect my wishes? Update 1- thank you for your responses so far. In fact my sibling is not married, nor have children, my sibling is gay. Homosexual couples can adopt/foster children if they wanted to.