My husband and I been married for about 1 year and half  We have a 11 month old my husband just got back from deployment but I'm here seeking help because I don't believe in giving up in marriage but to be honest some days I do   I get he just got back from deployment and that he enjoys playing video games but sometimes I feel like he doesn't hangout with me enough or our son like his video games are more important and his buddies on there and I get it I don't want him to stop playin if that's something he enjoys but I think there needs to be.a limit on top  Im still insecure cause when he was deployed he started saying inappropriate things with his ex girlfriend and when I was pregnant about to give birth txted his ex  Ever since all this happen I just have an attitude of i don't care he ask me something I say I don't care even though I do but I say it cause I don't wanna lose him or want to be the over reacting wife  There's just days I miss my old life  I hate myself  Hate life  Help me 

I had an affair with this man well actually he's a friend I've known a long time . Yes I know it's wrong yes I know I deserve whatever karma comes my way. I just want to know why he won't leave me alone. I hate him for trying to blackmail me into having sex with him but He's a handsome guy he's funny he's romantic he had so many women that go crazy over him so why he won't leave me alone. Why can't he just go have sex with one of them. Plus all the times we had sex it was pretty bad So why is he craving bad sex from me?! Wtf. I purposely made it bad so he could leave me alone. I thought men would run faster than fast when they get bad sex. I told him I wanted to work on my marriage and he should move on and find someone else to have sex with and go out with. He blackmailed me and told me he would send my husband pictures of me naked if I didn't continue having sex with him. So I was nervous and frantic and told him my dad died and that I needed time to grieve. It was a fake story but I needed to buy some time and figure things out. He told me he's sorry then about a week later he texts me again telling me " you might. Want to call me ASAP. I got something important you might want to hear.."" I don't know if he has a real emergency or he's just trying to lure me back in but I ignored that text. My husband was emotionally abusing me and has been for years but the other day me and my husband were talking he screamed at me and was so hostile towards me I was in tears and my My husband saw me upset and my husband was like " listen. From this day forward I will never scream at you again. I'm not gonna abuse you anymore"... he's never put his hands on me in all the years we been married but his temper was always out of control and he threatened to divorce me every month  I told him " I don't want to give up on us and I have faith that you'll never emotionally abuse me anymore."

I had back child support from over a decade ago. I have caught it up and have even kept paying it after my hours were cut to less than half of what they were. My wife works full time as well and we have a child together. We pay in taxes each year including 2018 and 2019. Now they are saying our entire stimulus money will be taken and given to my ex wife. She gets her stimulus money and ours as well. My wife of course is furious. What makes our child less important to my other children that I have supported and continue to support?

Don't think I've forgotten about that seedy history!  I promise you I'll be back soon enough.  Just you wait!

I'm 15 and I've always had a fear of divorce if I ever get married. My parents nor anyone I hold close to me have been divorced and as far as I know my parents have a really good marriage since they've been married for 20 years. I don't know why I have these thoughts but I'm just afraid if I got married I'd end up getting divorced and causing hurt 

I have been dating a separated man for three years. Just recently I asked him when is he getting a divorce. He told me he does not have money to pay for a divorce. Then he asked me to help him pay for a divorce. What should I do?

Like I'm desperate to marry her and make her mine like I'm crying right now 😭. Any help 

I am starting to wear condoms so I don't get coronavirus. I usually go raw dog

We are in our 50s and all of our kids are adults now.  My partner didn't officially move in with us until 2017, he was living with roommates despite having a family. We have been engaged for about 15 years.  My partner tells everyone that I'm his wife, even though we aren't married. My partner recently confided in me about having feelings for a younger woman but we moved past that.  We are more like friends than anything, according to this younger woman, my partner feels unloved and unappreciated at times.  Do you reckon he has commitment issues when it comes to relationships? 

He's working hard so she can live an easy life as a house wife and she thinks he doesn't pay enough attention to her because he is working 9-5 so she goes off and cheats on him while he's at work. How can a woman even justify this in her mind? He is working and providing for her because he loves her and pays attention to her when he gets home, but that isn't enough for her and she needs attention from him 24/7 or she doesn't feel loved. She doesn't understand that you have to work to earn money to live and pay bills and raise a family. Same thing with woman who have active duty military husbands. He's off protecting the country risking his life and supporting her with his military income and she's back at home cheating on him.

We got married some time ago. It's been a year and 8 months into our marriage. He use to work when we were dating. After marriage, he's became so different. We are both 26 so we're both pretty young. He basically does nothing all day, and he doesn't have a job. We can't afford the things we need because he relies on the government for some cash. He doesn't let me work and says that he's gonna do it. I landed a job interview but he didn't let me go. Hes also talking about how he wants kids but we literally can't afford the kid. He is getting mad at me for staying on birth control. I will not get pregnant and make my baby suffer. All he does is play video games all day, eat and he doesn't shower for days. He smells really bad sometimes to the point I stay far away from him. I'm stuck inside all day because he doesn't like it when I go outside. I don't let him touch me anymore because I somehow fell out of love with him. I'm stuck being his personal maid. He expects me to listen to him and get him everything he wants. Sometimes, he calls me from the bedroom to come pass him his headphones while he's only inches away from it. I cook, clean and do dishes and take care of the place. He does nothing at all. I feel depressed now and I just want to leave but I am scared of breaking his heart. I tried to talk to him but he doesn't listen and says that I'm just as lazy as him and that I do nothing so i shouldn't complain. 

Unsure if he was cheating, but all signs appears that he was. While he has never admitted it, let's be honest, most men don't. It's been a year ago. He is still somewhat secretive, gets texts , responds and deletes. Takes phone calls outside or advises to whom is on the other line, that he will call them back later. I do want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but also don't want to be a fool in the meantime.  How can I get past the feelings of being hurt, deception. I really want to move forward, but something holding me back I am a very jealous type person. Wished I wasn't. But can't change who I am. And he knows that about me. Any ideas? Private detective out of the question. Lost my job due to virus.

Will it be an awkward situation for the husband as he is yetto have sex with his wife being avirgin, but other men like these FWB's have already explored everything with his wife and are also enjoying in their wedding easily?

Working from home is taking a major toll on our relationship. My wife's work day begins at 6:30 so the alarm is set for 5:45. My work day doesn't start until 9 but I get up with her and just lay in the bed listening to the radio or watching the news until I have to get up. Recently her job is now cutting back so they are requiring the employees to take one day off without pay. So . . . today is that day. Last night my wife tells me to set my alarm so she doesn't have to set hers and get up early. I still set mine for 5:45 because I like routine. I wake up, turn on the TV but mute the sound and turn on the closed caption. I open my laptop and plug the headphones in and listen to my local radio station. But I pissed my wife off because I typed an email to my sister and the typing got on her nerves. Granted, I still have a regular day so should my schedule change because her's changed? No, I never sleep to 8 or 8:30. I get up when she gets up and I NEVER complain. But the one day every few weeks that she doesn't work I'm supposed to not disturb her. Am I wrong here or should I have quietly gotten up, packed up all my stuff and went to the living room as to not disturb her? Again, my workstation is in the bedroom so I'll have to eventually come back in there. But because she doesn't have to work I should change my schedule.

I work in computer sales and it has been a very rough year with the bad economy. I finally got a large order. I delivered the computers and installed them. I suddenly had a problem. One of the programs that the customer needed would not work. I tried everything I knew to solve be problem but I could not get it fixed. I called the program's help number but after hours, they could not solve the problem either. I was in a panic. I badly needed that sale to pay my rent. I called EVERYONE I knew that might help me get the program to work and nobody could help. I was desperate or I would not have did what I did but I called my ex husband who was very knowledgeable in computers for help. He immediately came to help me and solved the problem. I was VERY GRATEFUL for his help. Then I saw he was wearing a wedding ring. I asked him about it and he said he had remarried. I had not talked to him for over a year so I did not know that. I FELT TERRIBLE. I can only imagine what his current wife thought when he told her he was going to help his ex wife with a problem. I apologized to him for what I had done and told him I would apologize to his wife. He said no apology was needed. "I help my friends when I can". Please tell me how I can repay him for his kindness with out causing him a problem with his wife.

Thinking that it is cool to sleep with exes(who are good friends now with whim she shared everything and had lots of memories) the day before the wedding as farewell sex because they have not taken any vows yet with their husband? And as the modern people says that marriage vows starts from the day of marriage and not before that. So, did they feel it wasnot a big deal and not cheating as tgey were still not married tillthe previous day? Is that a modern act?

My wife and I disagree on most issues, major or minor. She says our disagreeing on so many things is killing our marriage. I say that it's dishonest for me to say "Yes" to something I don't agree with because it's going to come out one way or another that I don't. I think that she just wants me to say "Yes" to whatever she says, no questions asked. I also said that discussing our disagreements can help us come to an agreement on things but she calls them arguments and we never get anywhere. What can be done to agree on things without disagreeing on every little detail?

My ex husband and I went to custody 4 years ago in the end he got every other weekend He remarried the year we were divorcing his new wife during that time insulted our child.She called him horrible names and she didn't want him around there child they have together . She attacked him on social media too me and basically called him a bastard so everyone we knew could see it. She doesn't like him because she told my ex husband she sees him in me she knows me because she was a friend of mine.when my ex husband started to date her he stop being a dad I told him he can pick up our son whenever he felt like it but he never did. I told him I felt uncomfortable our child going over to his house because of what his wife said  so now he tells our son he can't take him there because of me but before he even told me what she said he wasn't even seeing him he never invited him anywhere for four years he hasn't even see our child on Father's Day. he can come and see our child whenever but he doesn't.he sees our child in the last four years once a month and I finally stop asking him. He ask our kid if he wants to go to his house knowing his wife doesn't like him.I told him she needs to apologize to our child and myself But she won't. I need to know our child will be treated with respect and he can go to his house but he won't tell. I do want to go have to court to file for full custody he has 12 percent but he basically left me raising our child alone since he was 9 now he will be 14 soon. Let me rephrase because some of you aren't getting what I wrote . His wife said things about our child 3 times not once the first two times I still allowed him to go over and he never took him to his house just his grandmothers house . Like I said after court I told him he could pick him up whenever I GAVE HIM MORE TIME he didn't take it. He hasn't seen him in 4 years except once a month because he wants to & I finally stop asking him To come & see our child  I been asking him crying to him to be around him more yes I want that security he will be safe because even his father said things to him infront of her that's why she said it three times already. Our son went to depression because of the name calling he would tell him in the past that's why I tell his dad if he wants him over at his house the same thing can't happen but the first time I trusted him he verbally abused him he sees our child at his mothers house & he wants to do that 

What documents are necessary for when you're getting married and how to obtain them? 

What is the point of alimony?