I admit, I don't catch on to things as fast as most people. I understand things at best pace I can. I've been at my job for 10 years and I think I'm good at it. My boss asked me to do a report. I do it and he gives me back story about why it's important. So then after my boss explains the back story to me.  I said,  "I don't quite understand what you're trying to say"So he laughs and continues to explain it the same way. He then pauses and says while sounding frustrated with me, "Do you understand now?". Since I know the back story is not so important right now, I decided to not put too much stress on trying to understand it. I told him, "I'd like to let it sink in and understand it on my own." I told him also, "I feel like you're pressuring me to understand this right now. I'm just not good on the spot." He laughs some more. Explains it all over again. Then asks again, "do you get it?" I said, "I guess". He laughs again.  Honestly, I feel offended. This isn't like a playful manner he had with me. 

Is it some sorta fad?  The tattoo is famous or what? 

in Louisville Kentucky, or we call it metro Louisville, they only have 1 country music tv channel, that would be CMT channel 66. Just recently we did get another tv station that is called Circle TV which is another country music tv channel, that one is halfway decent compared to when I go into rural Kentucky or Tennessee.

So person A is is cooking and they leave a pot of food on the lowest heat (1) so the food can stay warm before it needs to be served...because there's about 15-20 minutes left still before serving.      Person A then leaves the kitchen to entertain a guest. Person B then takes the pot of food off the stove 15-20 minutes later & place the food on the table in the living room where person A and guest are.      Neither person A or B ever turned the stove off though. Who is at fault here ? person A because they didn't ask person B if they turned stove off? Or person B because they were the ones who took the pot off the stove  P.s. Both people are grown adults  So I need to clarify some details, we are both 25 years old. I am person A, Person B is my bf and this occurred at his mothers home. His mom assumed I was the one who left the stove on, and when I reminded my bf nicely that it was him who took the pot off the stove so it wasn't fully my fault, he refused to take responsibility. He claimed I was suppose to ask him if the stove was turned off, and then he refused to tell his mother the entire situation.. basically giving me the full blame. 

My friends birthday is this month and I hired a mariachi band (4 people) to stop by outside his apartment (maintaining social distancing) and sing feliz cumpleanos to him along with 2-3 other songs as a birthday surprise. It's at 7:15PM on a Friday. The absolute longest they would play until is 7:45PM. Should I let my neighbors know to give them a heads up? I'm in the city so I'd have to tell a lot of neighbors. If I should, whats the best way to go about telling everyone without blowing the surprise?