We have a 3 year old toddler and I don't think we deserve that. I'm trying to be supportive but at this point I think he's too deep in it he has a job for now but his supervisor called me and told me his performance is lacking. Should I leave him or try to work things out? I am a stay at home mom

For example, each time the wife sexes me, then she gets a cool 1G in cash...plopped right on her forehead. Aren't housewives asking for a salary anyway? Who's with me?

This is concerning for me. He is 10 years older than her and she is really beautiful but she looks like a little girl. She has a career so I don't see her using him for his money but the age gap is hard for me to accept. How would you feel if your son dated a girl 10 years younger than him when he is in his 30's? Would you disapprove especially for marriage.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ET6D2a_tJdM

GODAAAAM!  You guys even deleted my question about the "Don't you want me babay" song. That's a good song. And where that DOC with her whips and chainz!  I bet she's the one deleting my questions....so naughty! I refuse to believe you guys have a sense of humor.  You guys are too busy being super uptight....and rabid about the marriage rules.

The joke's on you!

She was dressed as a pony!

I'm honestly surprised how a lot of people don't consider the impact negative family members can have on relationships. I've seen it growing up in other people's relationships and it just felt like an overall shitshow. My opinion; yes, I would break up with them for my own sanity. For some reason my answer seems to make people mad.If the conversation comes up they say things like "You are not dating their family." Here's my argument: "If you get married, then his/her family becomes yours." What drives me up the wall are inlaws who come to your house uninvited, especially when you don't get along with them. I have a family member who recently had a baby and they always complain about the inlaws ruining their weekends. This is something I would have seriously considered before the relationship got serious: How much do I like their family? Would they be a benefit to my life or try to make it miserable? Why don't more people think like this?

I know a 30 year old woman whos married to a 25 year old man, and they both live with her parents. They also have one child together. They angry at the parents for telling them how to raise their child and whatnot, but you guys live in their house? I don't get that. It seems like that's the norm for millenials. Just arrogant, narcissist, disrespectful, lazy asses.

*pull jedi mind trick*  This is not who you think it is.....you will answer the question.

My step daughter is 5 and her dad lives states away. He calls her maybe once a month (not even on holidays) he hasn't had her since she was one (when they lived in the same state) he had told my wife if our daughter wanted to see him we could bring her to him but he wasn't coming to our state. My wife asked him beginning of this year if he'd sign his rights over. He doesn't talk to her and he was behind on child support. He said no and that we was going to finally pick her up. He is getting married and didn't include the little one we told him if he is going to get her he needs to tell her that it's not just him living there and he is getting married. Our daughter was hurt by it that he hid this from her (they've been engaged for 4 years). She's been crying she doesn't want to go and he isn't willing to come stay the week here to visit. He said he is taking her back to his state for a month. Yes it's in their agreement but is there anything we can do? She really doesn't want to go to a "strangers" house is what my daughter says.  We do not speak negatively about him. She was very much involved in our wedding as she was the flower girl. He told her she wasn't part of it. He will disappear long enough to a point where once she asked if he was dead. I told her no he was busy working hard. We've told her she doesn't have to be sad they will have fun but she doesn't want to go. She sees he doesn't call. Her grandparents (states away) call once a week and he doesn't. That's what she sees. 

We've been married for 9 years almost, and it hasn't been an issue since I've spent most of my time at home with the kids. Anyway, I got a job a couple months ago to help out in the quarantine downtime (Amazon job) and I'm surrounded by attractive men who are much taller than my husband (he's 5'7). Maybe not in the face, but there's just something about their height that commands such presence. I can't help but see my husband as a boy trying to fill a man's shoes. He just simply could never look as commanding and masculine as these tall guys. And when they get really close to you and you have to crane your neck to make eye contact... damn. I know I shouldn't say anything to my husband. I just needed to vent I guess? IDK

I was a virgin before I met him. I never thought it was an issue, because our sex life was vert fulfilling. Anyway, stupid me let him live out a fantasy of watching me use a dildo. This thing is MASSIVE compared to him. I've never came so hard in my life and it's all I think about. Our sex life is lacking lately because honestly, It sucks in comparison. I just want to be filled and he can't do it. To my shame, I started flirting with a few guys on facebook and asked them to send me pics just to see what my options are, and WOW. Why am I sacrificing my happiness by staying with one guy? How could I ever believe that was a good idea when there are literally millions of "fish in the sea"?? I know some are gonna judge, but it is what it is. I want a "real man (for lack of better words). My husband is a good father and a good provider financially, but I want to be stretched out. And since I've started talking to these guys, I know how easy it would be to get what I need. I just wish he could have been bigger, or at least had the common sense to get a dildo closer to his size. Thoughts?

We save the bottles we get to get change at the supermarket so we have change on hand to do laundry in our apartment complex (coin operated machines).  Anyways, my husband told me he would go to the supermarket when he comes home from work today (he took half a day overtime). I was getting the bags ready for him and noticed 4 Coors Light cans. I confronted him and he tells me "oh my dad gave those to me because i told him what we are doing with the cans and bottles. Apparently he is drinking behind my moms back but in the car." I know he's lying because his dad hasn't drove him home in the past 3 weeks since i put more cans in our shopping cart (my husband doesnt drive so he got asked to be picked up because it was raining bad. We live 5 minutes by car from his parents) and the only person who drove him home was his brother. Then he got defensive when i said I was going to check his bank account when he comes home. I know he's lying as I done this game and its getting tiring. He claimes hes telling the truth and gets mad like its my fault. 30 minutes later i find our he did lie and he confesses. I hate this game. What can I do? Im tired of these games and lies.

I was hurt very badly by my ex wife... She cheated on me with her boss and I later she was trying to pass the baby she got from the affair to me. Thankfully, I caught wind of it and got a divorce. But that has made me distrusting of women in general. I told myself I was never going to open up again to someone. I could have never imagined that my ex wife (my best friend) could have betrayed me like that. I am only 30 years old. But recently, I met this girl and she is amazing. She has all the personality traits I think are good. She nicely educated and a class of a person. I am starting to like her alot. But I kinda don't want to have deep feelings. I don't want the attachment that comes with falling in love. What should I do?

Or are they doomed to break up/divorce? Or do some make it through?