My BF of 8 months was the one who brought up the marriage talk for this year but now says maybe next year. He says he is not asking to break up and that we should just enjoy the present together. He says we will see. I don't get it? He has told his family and friends (who I met before this pandemic) about me and calls me everyday. One of his recent messages is "No future talks and commitment as we discussed before. Stay happy in the present and enjoy". 

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My husband has known our neighbor for 10 years. I moved in my husbands house and have been living there for a year. His neighbor cuts up and is a big flirt when he is drinking, but acts normal when he hasn't been. The other day, I was riding my bicycle and he saw me and asked if I wanted to come over. Not thinking anything, I said okay. We sat outside and I didn't realize his wife wasn't there until he told me. He showed me their underground storm shelter. He told me his wife would be back soon so I continued to sit there until she came back because he invited me to eat dinner with them. Well, it was about 30 minutes and she still wasn't there. I noticed he had about 4 beer cans and was working on his 5th. I automatically felt uncomfortable and wanted to leave, but being the nice person I am, I sat there and waited. He started flirting and talking dirty to me and saying how I was attractive. He said he was just complimenting me and wasn't trying to be all weird. Not too long after he flirted, I said I was getting tired and went back home. I told my husband everything and he said I shouldn't have went over there because he knows how he is. He wasn't mad or anything. I felt like the neighbor straight up wanted to do something with me. What further action should I take if he tries? Was I in the wrong to go over there with it being just him? Why do I still feel weird about it? I know I made a mistake. Why do I feel guilty if I didn't do anything? 

I've been with my fiancé for almost three years, and we have two beautiful children. But the issue I'm having is I don't feel like I'm getting the respect I need. I'm never heard and I'm just so angry all the time because of it. I have to talk to a counselor, and I brought it up to him to see if we needed to see a marriage counselor but before I even said that he agreed I need to talk to someone about me possibly having bi polar. I keep getting into fights with my mom about our arguments. Even to the point where I'm ready to block my mom on Facebook. I love him to death and don't want to see it end but I'm no longer...happy I just don't know what to do.😔😔😔

I have been married for 6 years ..im starting to notice my husband and his sister walk on eggshells when it comes to my mother in law . I'm not sure if she has mental issues or if she easily gets offended...or jealous that my husband is married and is focused on my son and I ..recently my husband canceled his anazon account and naturally since we are married I added him to mine (I figure why not pay for one account) well my mother in law added him to hers and he told her mom its ok my wife has an account... Im not sure what happened but his sister called him and said just to keep himself on there too.. I told my husband why was his sister scared...to tell her that you dont need to added...that is just one of many things his mom does...i brush it off but it seems like my husband and siblings are afraid...when we purchased our new home...she looked at me and asked if i was on the title too....i guess for a while she thought of our home as her "sons" house and whats his was hers too...again I ignored her...why do you think my husband and siblings walk on eggshells with her?

His surname is S(redacted)-S(redacted). Now I don't want to take one of them for personal reasons, and I was just wondering if this was possible. Thank you! What about our future children? Would they be able to take his hyphenated surname at least if I don't?

I have a strong fantasy. Me and my husband and another woman. We are all together having sex with each other. It is just so submissive. I do have breast fetish. This fantasy is like the best appetiser ever but I can't live on appetisers alone. It is even a turn off If I try to this of having a relationship with a woman.

I moved out a month ago for various reasons. We didn't speak for weeks. Now we're talking again but he "doesn't want to talk about our issues right now." I'm not moving back in until our issues are resolved, I've established that. But he's making no effort to see me; not even to go on a date or anything. All we do is text as communication and every conversation we have turns into him making sexual comments like "It's been so long my hand is raw." Like childish comments. I just brush them off and don't really give him any attention as far as that goes. Because if you can't be an adult and talk about our problems and work towards fixing them, why would I have any desire to have sex with you?? How do I say that to him without pushing him away again? 

I feel like it's sad yet I also think there are alot of old fashioned values that are still just as good today. We shouldn't throw that all out the window. Anyways, I often hear people say that people can't stay together anymore whether it's a romantic relationship or a marriage. I generally hear people say that the new generation will either break up or divorce. That may have become "the norm," but I feel like you actually have to work at your relationship and have the maturity to realize that you can't expect another person to make you happy. So, why do you think that is? Is it true or not true?

My narcissistic husband was touching me as payback for a great foot rub, and he stopped right at the start of my orgasm. It left me in pain. When I asked why, he said because I was too loud. There are no words for the rage pounding in my chest right now.

My husband has known our neighbor for 10 years. I moved in my husbands house and have been living there for a year. His neighbor cuts up and is a big flirt when he is drinking, but acts normal when he hasn't been. The other day, I was riding my bicycle and he saw me and asked if I wanted to come over. Not thinking anything, I said okay. We sat outside and I didn't realize his wife wasn't there until he told me. He told me she would be back soon so I continued to sit there until she came back because he invited me to eat dinner with them. Well, it was about 30 minutes and she still wasn't there. I noticed he had about 4 beer cans and was working on his 5th. I automatically felt uncomfortable and wanted to leave, but being the nice person I am, I sat there and waited. He started flirting and talking dirty to me and saying how I was attractive. He said he was just complimenting me and wasn't trying to be all weird. I said thank you. Not too long after he flirted, I said I was getting tired and went back home. I told my husband everything and he said I shouldn't have went over there because he knows how he is. He wasn't mad or anything, but I told him if he tried to come over to our house, I wanted to move or something. I felt like the neighbor straight up wanted to do something with me. What further action should I take if he tries? Was I in the wrong to go over there with it being just him?

Resisting the urge of getting a wife and stay single and have alot of money and freedom and relaxation and just banging women for your whole life while laughing at the suffering of married men. Working for 40 years never enjoying the money and passing away just to let the wife and kids enjoy

I enjoy all the things parents are missing out on like their senior graduating ceremonies and all the new moms missing out on all the attention they normally would have gotten with their newborns. Plus imagining all the hidden fights husbands and wives are having from being stuck together more often. Kids more abused by their parents. I feel it's like Christmas everyday I wake up imagining these thoughts 

I'm rooting for the schools to stay closed so women have to quit their jobs for good to deal with the kids. Win win cuz they lose that income and no freetime to exercise so it screws the husbands as well cuz of all the added weigh gain from the constant stress of listening to cartoons all day

I survived never getting married so I have about 300k in cash, paid off all my loans no debt etc. I'm retiring in 7 years at the age of 42 and it seems as each year i get older, the more amazing casual sex with young hot women I have. Should I feel guilty because all my married friends are suffering or am I a good symbol to show you g men that you dont have to throw your life away by being financially sentenced to death to an old ugly aging wife and stupid kids nobody cares about or will ever remember in a few 100 years 

My soon to be child's mother and I are having disagreements as far as who should stay home with our future child. She wants to work and save money for her (and us she says) and continue working for another 7-8 months after our child is born and then quit her job. If she stayed home she would be losing $1100 in pay and her insurance.  If I stayed home I would be losing $2400 in pay.  From her perspective she's ok with me staying home and being dependent on her income. She's not ok with depending on me during this 7-8 months. I offered to give her $9000 up front to supplement her loss of income plus an upfront amount for the insurance she was needing. This would solve her worries. She told me it was dumb to do that. If I stayed home our combined income would be $6500. If she stayed home our combined income would be $7500. I don't know what to do because had she not been working when her ex divorced her she would have been screwed and I get that. That's whats she's afraid of. But I offered to pay the upfront difference before she made any decisions and she said no that's dumb.   She told me she wanted to go back to work after those 7-8 months and my thought is why would it be smart to lose $1000 in our combined income only to have me quit a great paying job on a temporary bases? A job that has rare openings bc it pays $20.50 in the door as a ICE detention officer. Easy schedule and great pay. And to give that up for a 7-8 month situation is not smart. 

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My BF of 8 months was the one who brought up the marriage talk for this year but now says maybe next year. He says he is not asking to break up and that we should just enjoy the present together. He says we will see. I don't get it? He has told his family and friends (who I met before this pandemic) about me and calls me everyday. One of his recent messages is "No future talks and commitment as we discussed before. Stay happy in the present and enjoy".  Thanks seedy history! Does this mean I should give it time?

Is it when they see their wives fall apart do to age and child bearing? Is it the money they realize they will never get to enjoy? Is it the free time they miss out on? Or realizing they coulda had sex with their young coworker but cant because their dumb wives would destroy them?

Hi I am Robert  My wife told me that she was abused as a child by her parents her mother would hit her slap her kick her and yell at her and her dad would call her ugly and said that nobody would want to be with her. My wife's needs weren't met and it was very lonely for her. Her mother also told her that she looked like a whore and enjoyed treating her like crap. They would lock her in the shed for 24 hours and if she was luck only 2 hours. When she was 22 she met me and moved in with me and my family and I helped her get out of an abusive family. We got married at age 27 and we are stable we have 7 kids and Gorgeous grandchildren. But my wife still breaks down and still cries about her parents not giving her any love during her childhood some how things will get better than bam she will remember and then get depressed again it wounded her very deep and she isn't ready to move on or heal from it What can I do to help her heal? This isn't a troll this is a serious matter My wife's mother is still alive and she lives alone in a old age home and is a lonely old hag  I have been supportive and loving towards my wife and I have been trying to comfort her through all of this  Vincent I am sorry about your past and you should really try to seek counseling  I wish I can call my wife's mother and tell her how much I hate her guts  With my support and love my wife became a great mother to our 3 daughters and 2 sons and 1 adopted daughter  When my wife moved in with me and my parents at age 22 and when she met my parents and how loving and supportive they were she put her foot down and cut off contact with her parents and filed a restraining order against them  I forgot to mention that my wife had 1 brother and 1 sister her brother would slap her yell at her and belittle her and her sister would bully her her brother also hold a knife on her when she was 6 when she was 11 she told her parents that her brother started hitting her and whenever she did something that her parents didn't like they threatened to get her brother to hit her and yell at her  My wife told me that she also started cutting herself at the age of 13 she also tried to bang her head against the wall thinking she deserved to die.  My wife cried herself to sleep every night  My wife never moved out of her home until she met me  My wife has abandonment issues when her parents would abandoned her for weeks when she was a child and when she started high school She had no more escape. When we married we moved 6000 miles from my wife's family and lived in North Carolina ever since and we raised her family their  I mean our kids  I forgot to mention that when my wife was in high school she got an a in math  She also got bullied in high school My wife's parents hated me because I threatened their relationship their love for their daughter was conditional  It was a mistake 

Say a man on a vacation in for example Thailand, falls in love, take her back home to give her a better future, marry her, is as perfect husband as anyone can ask for, only to get divorced. These poor souls who only wanted to give the love of their life a better life. Divorced. Dumped. Used. Thrown away like yesterdays trash.  Do you feel sorry for these poor fellows? 

Now, the husband has lots of worries about what else she might be lieing or whether she will again fool him after marriage in similar things? How can she assure him that even though she loved many exes and got dumped she wont go back to them if they again tries to return to her life for free sex after marriage, as even after loving and having sexual relationship with other men she later decided to go forarranged marriage which is little strange and not usual?

How can he removed his mind from those tattooes whenever he gets intimate with her as those always comes to his view? Should he close his eyes while being intimate with her and never see her naked so that he does'nt have to view other men's name on her body?

As a single woman working in a male dominated field,I do run into some weird situations.I've never been confronted by an angry wife before. I work in a field that requires me to be awake at odd hours.Frequently throughout my career a way of passing information or receiving it I have to contact another coworker(partner). On this particular night I was off but awake around midnight preparing for my night shift. I had a question that anyone working currently (not my shift) could help with. I called the first person I could think of that was on The current shift. The coworker answered and said he was off work. I apologized for calling so late and was unaware he was off. I immediately received a call from his wife who was angry I called her husband at that hour and said she felt disrespected. She told me to not communicate with the coworker at all. I apologized but she continued to go on about the disrespect towards her.  I didn't mean to upset her. It's normal for me to speak with other coworkers at odd hours because we work 12 hour shifts on the road and if we needed to pass information we'd contact each other if we knew our shift was on. I meant no disrespect to her and their marriage I just thought he was working otherwise I would have never called.  I work in law enforcement and all of the guys I work with know I have no malicious intent. I am not physically nor romantically attracted to any of them and they respect me as a sister. I want things to be cordial between me/her To be clear I called in reference to a work related question only the current shift would have the answer to. Me calling this coworker was only based on our work relationship. 

Do you deem yourself under your parents' authority, or do you view yourself (and your new family) as independent entity? What do your custom and your religious teachers say?

I'm in a hard situation rn amd I need some good advice. I might get chewed up about this but I really need some good advice. I'm married wit a 9 month old girl but my marriage is going to shambles at the moment because I'm in another state due to this Covid-19. But she went back home and we just been arguing cuz she wants me there to be in my daughters life. We constantly talk about divoce but I always choose to make it up to her because at the end of the day she's still my wife. On the other hand while I'm out here I have gf, (yea Ik bring in the insults) They don't kno about each other at all and I grew to love this woman all becuz I felt a connection and went to far. Now is the time for me to go back home becuz I chose to be an actual husband and end the other life I had in the shadows But my gf don't kno about this. Plus my brother just got shot so that's another reason why I'm heading back to my home town.. since my marriage is in shambles rn should I just let my wife kno the truth and let her go? Or should I breakup wit my gf and do right by my wife?