I love my husband and he's a great father and husband. But with 3 young kids, I'm exhausted and always doing something. I feel bad he's last on the list. I'm just not in the mood for it and I don't want it. It's been almost a year now. I like when we are doing it, but we just don't have alone time and I'm rarely in the mood.  Any thoughts if this is normal and tips?

I had a little glass of wine with my neighbors while our kids (5&7) were swimming. My husband can't drive and I have to pick him up from work with the kids. Should I tell him I had a glass? He doesn't like it when I drink just a little bit. I'm afraid my neighbor will tell him. 

I don't know what to do . My husband had an affair for a few months with a close family friend of his parents almost 2 years ago. During that time his parents invited her over multiple times and  bought her Christmas presents even after I told them what was going on. When he moved over to their house she came over often. My husband ended the affair and moved back home. We are both in therapy and we are working through our problems. It is getting better. The problem is, I obviously can't stand my in laws and they feel they did nothing wrong... " they stayed out of OUR business". They said they have stopped seeing her. I hate them because of the rejection and how they chose her over me. I have no contact with them but I get triggered when they call to talk to my husband or my children. My husband had a very strained relationship with them even before this and now it's worse. He is very avoidant and timid to put his foot down with them . I don't know how to move forward in life with this toxic couple that I can't get rid of. Thoughts? Please be kind. I love my husband and we both acknowledge our role in the demise of our marriage . Of course we both know he's completely at fault for the affair.

I had a little glass of wine with my neighbors while our kids (5&7) were swimming. My husband can't drive and I have to pick him up from work with the kids. Should I tell him I had a glass? He doesn't like it when I drink just a little bit. I'm afraid my neighbor will tell him. 

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Just FYI, we don't have our marriage license yet. It's been difficult to even know how or when to obtain it with COVID stuff going on. So my fiance and I both want to change our last names (have a whole new name together after we are married). i.e. he would change his last name and i would change mine but we'd be changing it to the same last name. We're doing this for personal reasons and also the fact we just want a new start but my question is does he have to change his last name before we obtain our marriage license or get married so that its legitimate? I'm so confused as to how to go about this and need someone who knows about the laws to educate me lol. For reference I live in Southern California, San Bernardino County but I'm also willing to drive to Orange County to get our marriage license if need be.

As they knows that she lied about her virginity and past to her virgin husband trying to fool him and now if theyhusband comes to know he may get hurt and feel like being fooled by her. So, whatoption does she have in this situation? Should she accept her exes proposal and sleep with them secretly cheating on the husband so that she could enjoy both ways, or should she let her exes show those videos to her husband and let him feel the humiliation and like a fool and face it?

Will she compare him with her exes on the forst night to know who was better in bed?

On top of not being financially stable enough for marriage we have had many issues in our relationship the past 5 years. He used to be extremely controlling and short tempered. He's 37 lives with his parents. He's upset because I don't want to move in with him and get an apartment. I said he can move in by himself but we need to work out our issues a little bit more before we even think of get married or move in together. He said we can do a court house marriage first and then a wedding when we can afford it. I should feel happy he wants to marry me but I don't know why a part of me feels like he's going to go back to his old habits. I told him I need more time because even though we've been together for 5 years weve been having problems the whole five years. Just the other day he was screaming at me over a dream I had and threatened to break up with me. He threatens to break up with me every time he's angry. And I need to know that he's not going to just end things when tough times come. I never broke up with him even through everything he put me through. Why does he want to marry me so bad even when he breaks up with me a million times.  I'm 28 I just lost my job and I don't want to be relying on him to live because that's just going to make his controlling behavior worse.  He's never hit me he's just always been short tempered and hostile with me.

I don't feel like she needs to move out. She has everything she need here and if she helps out with the household bills she can stay. I personally don't think a woman should be living alone. It's not safe for a single woman to live alone. I would prefer for her to stay here till she gets married. If she gets married. If she doesn't get married she can stay here forever if she wants and help us when we are old and need assistance. She does pay for the phones, cable, internet and pays for groceries. Can't imagine we are gonna do if she leaves. She's a very helpful daughter and i don't understand why she wants to leave. I want her to stay!!

Both my husband and I work from home right now and it seems that every day or every other day after my husband gets off work he has to get out of the house. He says he loves to just drive and get some fresh air. LAst night he didn't get off work till 8 then he sat down and ate dinner. Shortly after that around 9 or so he said he would be back. He was going to get some fresh air. It was pouring down rain but he came back about an hour later. I find that strange that he does this. Could he be up to something?

My wife believes anything that could benefit her SHOULD benefit her, and anything the could hurt her SHOULDN'T hurt her. Take feminism for an example. She believe she should be treated like an equal to a man in a relationship (which I agree) but she doesn't believe that she should have to do any work in a relationship with a man because it is a MAN'S JOB to do all the work to "get the girl"... Can someone explain to me the logic in that? So she gets to be my equal but she doesn't have to do any equal work? That's like saying someone wants to be able to drink all the liquor they want but they refuse to have a hang over the next day; like they told their body that if they have a hang over then the body is grounded or something... It just doesn't work that way. You don't get the benefits of something and then have the consequences of you having it not apply... But yeah, this is my marriage and has been since 16 years ago when we got married (we married young and she wasn't like this prior to the marriage); so what am I supposed to do about this? She has undiagnosed autism so arguing logic/reason with her only results in circle thinking that the system some how supports her and it doesn't support BOTH OF US... And obviously being emotional about it goes no where; so it seems to me the only options are: (1) Divorce or couple's counseling - both she won't agree to, and (2) Avoiding her and just living in a loveless/sexless/friendless marriage.... Your thoughts?

My wife and I have a very good marriage. We get along great and truly support one another in all things and interests. From the beginning of our relationship we agreed on being "open" to experiences with others if they arose. We've had such experiences through the years and had 0 issues. Recently that changed. We had always had set parameters for what each of us was ok and not ok with and had always lived by those in these moments. My wife went completely against and broke 3 of these parameters during this last encounter. Never before had even 1 lime been crossed, but then 3 all during 1 encounter. It has caused a major strain on our relationship as the reasoning behind it was "just got caught up in the moment". This may seem like an odd question but I want general feedback on if I'm crazy for being upset or if I'm justified that it seemed there was more to it for 3 parameters to suddenly get broken all at once. Please reserve judgement 

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And how often Do you do it to keep him happy.. please be honest..