In particular, how difficult was working with your priest? I have only ever seen weddings in movies....and I want to go through the rites and rituals as necessary. Yet I do not know if the rituals will actually take as long as (i've heard) 3 hours. If anyone has any experience with hindu weddings, please comment and calm my nerves. Perhaps explain your experience.

Please stop doing this, yahoo. It is extremely annoying and makes it harder to find categories for questions. Oh, never knew about that. Interesting. Thanks!

She only wants missionary or side by side in front of each other, of course cuddling, hugging and kissing. Every other attempt to do it differently (on the table, in the shower, standing) ends bad. Once I convinced her to do it with her on top of me, knees on the bed, open in front of me, she cried and said she couldn't cause she felt like a bad girl, I had to reassure that it was alright anyway and that I was at fault for asking her, when all I wanted was some change in our relationship for once, since we are both in our 20s and we could always do something different, not just missionary with cuddles and hugs like she always want. How can I tell her without making her cry? She is really sensitive with these topics. Once she also told me we should have got married first, but since we were so in love we couldn't wait. That's true, but marriage can come later, she said a true wedding is when the bride is virgin. Once you sleep with your man it makes no sense wearing white. I find it a really sad and old fashioned thought.

So my fiancé and I were supposed to have a big fun wedding reception this Saturday. But obviously because of the ongoing virus, it's been cancelled. We plan to throw a big reception once conditions are safer, but we really want to get married legally to keep the date, and because we want to take advantage of the legal benefits and I want to go on her health insurance since I don't have a plan and she does. But as of now, all the local courthouses are closed and not giving out marriage licenses till further notice. And I also feel it's not safe to even have a small 5 person ceremony at the moment. I live in New York. What options do we have at the moment?

So our venue just contacted us that our mid June wedding has to be postponed. We wanted to keep the same date so we pushed out a year, plus is the only month of the year certain family members can come to my neck of the woods. My fiancé just wants to get married now and have the party later, but I don't want to get married alone or on some stupid video chat or anything, I want to get married officially in front of my family, even if I have to wait a year, as many of my guests hate vow renewals. I don't understand what my fiancé's rush is. We can get married anytime we want, we'll always have each other, a year really isn't long to wait, so why is she pushing me so hard to marry now. We already live together. 

I'm in quite a pickle here. I have a wedding coming up last weekend in July. At our venue, deposits have already been put down and contracts signed, and our venue is not letting us change the date at all no matter how much talking and convincing we do, they will only help us if the state still has gatherings restrictions in place by my wedding date. Even lawyers said they couldn't help me since we signed a contract, and a contract is a contract. We're slightly confident things may clear up by then, but a lot of my guests are asking me if the wedding is still happening, and I've had a couple even back out.  I don't quite know what to tell them yet, that's what I need help with. Our wedding date is far enough out that I don't know how things will be by then, but close enough that I, along with many of my guests are worried conditions won't be safe by then. I also feel like even if I could postpone it, which the venue isn't letting me right now, I don't know what date would be safe to postpone to. Maybe 2022 or 2023 since next year may be way too soon too? Everything is just so unpredictable with this virus and I need help 

A friend of mine sent me an invitation for her daughter s upcoming wedding. I know her over thirty years but we have not seen each other for ten years now since they moved out of state. I talked to her once yearly or so and once her daughter when she had a question about my career because she was also interested in the same career. I dont want to take few days of for the wedding to travel out of state and spend $1000 for the travel. If I sent a card and a small gift, would that be ok?

I have only attended two weddings, so far. You can count your own wedding too, if you like :)