last year before I went into my freshman year of college I had a lump in my throat. My parents were the one that noticed and took me an ENT and I met a nice doctor who said it was cyst and he would keep an eye on it A few months later on Christmas break I came back and I had surgery for them to remove it. The doctor was acting kinda weird though I loved him because he was so good to me. Before surgery he came in my room to check on me and told me he was going to get me a cocktail ( Valium ) to help me relax which worked  Apparently after I had my surgery I was knocked out and he kept calling my dad that night to see if I was ok and ask how I was doing He did this over a period of weeks and even before my other doctors appointments he would call before and recommend what I should do He also came hack from vacation early to take out my stitches and when he came in the room he was knocking stuff over and looked rlly nervous. He ended up telling me I had lymphoma and said that he would do everything he could to fix this  He was very charming and smiled at me a lot  I'm 18 btw  Ik I'm not paranoid because my dad even said it was odd how much he kept calling and checking up on me and said he was a rlly good doctor Am I overthinking or was he being flirty? He had a son around my age too but I'm a girl and he's a guy and we're different ethnicities lol. Plus if he rlly thinks of me as his child why did he say he was gonna get me a "cocktail"? Even though it was Valium lol 

My friend gave me this guy's number because I was telling her i'm kind of tired of guys our age and want to talk to someone new. And she said she was talking to this guy who ended up ghosting her and that i could text him if i wanted to but warned me that he might end up ghosting me too. Anyway. I texted him but never mentioned her name. And he kind of figured it out. I told him i got it from someone he used to talk to, then stopped talking to her and didn't want me mentioning her name to him because she didnt he would want to talk to me if he know I'm her friend. Anyway. i can't help but wonder if he still kind of likes her because he's not interested in anyone or talking to multiple woman. Which is weird because he said he was looking for a wife lol. Unless he was lying. Anyway when he found he asked how she was, and what I knew about him. And thought that was kind of weird he asked that. Makes me think he wants to know what she said about him good or bad. Like why would he care ya know? anyway i asked him what kind of girls he's into and he said short girls and my friend was short. then asked if i liked coffee and my friend liked coffee and even works at a coffee shop. like out all the questions why that one. do you think i should just ask him if he's still into her or if he ever was. i just think it's weird how he's not actively talking to anyone when he's looking for a wife. The last person he talked to was her i believe.

I'm a teen boy and whenever I'm at home/school when I hug someone I can get rubbed in the back Is it a sexual thing

A family member, friend or spouse who knows everything there is to know about you, know you like you know yourself? Your past, thoughts, worries and so on. 

I been dating a woman for 13 years and she gave me access to emails and bank statements and I go through them or used to go through them all the time and never found squat. She also leaves her phone out anywhere and has showed me contacts and text messages. Should I snoop harder? Is she just good at hiding it? What's the problem why can't I find anything?

I think he's fine, it just made me (and others) really uncomfortable especially when he would talk close.  this obviously happened in the past. (for the past 2 years)..

Is it weird that I like when people are afraid of me? Like I feel powerful like "yea that's right" u better be scared... that type of feeling..  Is that weird?  As a black men I dig it when white people are scared . Like I already know I'm a piece of **** y'all are too but I dig it..  I'm like chunky. Or dark Vader I really dig this **** 

And what changes will you make after the virus is over?