AHH where do I begin. first of all, iv e had crushes before but this one feels different. Ithink I just liked those guys before because I was bored but this one I don t even know how to explain it, He sits across from my table of friends with his twin brother and his friends, and I ll occasionally look at him and he kind of looks at me too, like one time it looked like he smiled at me but it could ve been about something else. I also see him in the hallway some days i ll just give him a quick smile But, then he was at my drivers ed orientation and I was so excited because I thought we were going to have the same class, but nope! I only see him sometimes after school when he s waiting for his student driver car thing, but his brother is there how should I start a conversation with him or get him to? I literally feel my stomach drop and start smiling whenever I look at him and I just feel a connection. ugh

I've been talking to this guy for a year online. We live five hours away. The first time I wanted to go see him. He had to go to a wedding. Now this time he has been in the hospital and had several seizures. He's staying with his mom she's monitoring him so I can't come this time either. Should I forget about him?

Me and my friend have been friend for over two years but she is nearly a year younger than me although we are in the same grade. I feel like I'm getting quite mature while she still remains a bit childish. Once we were walking home (I was 15 she was 14) and we passed a park and she wanted to go on the monkey bars. I felt like her mother waiting for her to finish 'playing'.  The only thing is, although I can be friendly with a lot of people in my class, I'm not that close with them. I find it hard to make closer friends and I feel bad because I think I'm just holding onto my current friendship because I don't want to be by myself. 

I meet a girl four months ago and im a very good friend of her, we stayed a long time toghether for almost everyday but a week ago i meet her best friend that she knows for maybe 8 years, there is nothing to be jealous about, but I feel completly reject and jealous when she prefers to be with her best friend instead of me or calls her best friend to go to her home instead of me. I know its just egoism from my part to think that she would rather be with me then with her best friend but i cant stop feeling bad about it, im to emocional and cant balance what i feel most of the time, what should I do to be able to accept this situation and to learn how to balance my exageration of feelings?

I went on a couple of trips last summer with a guy friend (I'm female). At the end of the last trip he was hungover and screaming at me for not leaving the hotel without checking the bill because he wanted to get to the airport (our rooms were secured on my credit card and I'd read reviews of other guests being scammed). We got home and went our separate ways. A few weeks later he turned up to dinner with some mutual friends and was vile to me. The next day we were at an event with different friends and he was telling everyone I wasn't speaking to him but had not told the truth about why. I called him out on this when he later text to say he missed my company and I made it clear I wanted nothing to do with him. Since then, he's told lies and talked badly about me to all of our mutual friends. I have also discovered he was telling people we had been a couple (which we never were and never would have been!) Why do people do this? Is it best to set people straight when they ask or not comment?

I'm a 20 yr old female and at my job I have at least 8 managers all of whom seem to love me but one in particular for some reason or another he ignores me won't look me in my eye when I'm trying to talk to him and I've caught him before just kinda staring at me I don't think I've offended him in any kind of way he's come out and even told me when I quite my job but wanted to come back  I'm always welcomed here and took me back but his body language is completely off with me but he's cool with everyone else he even took me to look into a shelter once so i don't understand what's going on any advice would be great thanx ! 

This guy and I have been talking for almost a year online. We live in 4 or 5 hours apart in  different states. He's been telling me to come see him. We talked on Sunday and then we didn't talk to me again until yesterday. I had been texting Monday and Tuesday and he didn't reply. He replied yesterday saying that he had a second seizure but that he was getting out yesterday. He hadn't told me anything about him having seizures to begin with. I'm going to meet him tomorrow. I can't cancel because everything is paid for.

Is seeing each other once a month good?

Tengo una mejor amiga que nos conocemos hace 7 años, es súper buena y todo...me ahorraré de explicar como es, pero lo qué pasa es, ella tiene un novio y yo como su amiga le pregunto qué tal va su rela, como se siente y eso. Pero a mi me dice como que no se siente muy bien y que las cosas están maso pero que no quiere hablar de eso con el novio porque queire ocuparse de otros problemas. Pero sin embargo se ven siempre, lo invita a la casa y antes nunca lo hacía, e a mucho más tiempo con el que antes. Tipo hace mil cosas que antes no hacía pero según ella "están mal". Y por otro lado me enteré (amigo del novio de ella) que están súper bien y más unidos que nunca....  A veces tmb, algunas cosas que hacen me cuenta y ella da una versión pero el dice otra totalmente distinta de cómo fueron las cosas. Tipo en una me dijo que el novio había ido a su casa y no quería ni levantarse, pero me enteré que ella lo había invitado, o cosas así. Cosas totalmente opuestas. Sinceramente no se que creer ni entiendo porque hace eso 

My friend offered to buy my work shirt, but I denied the offer because I don't have money to pay her back right now. It sounds dumb because I can pay her back once I get paid, but I feel like pay day is too far away. I also don't want her to wait long.

Meeting up once a month for five or six hours?

Tips on making friends at college?  I have really bad social anxiety, and I'm a introvert, and I give off awkward vibes until I'm really comfortable with you, and I'm horrible at small talk. So how does a person like that make friends? Ughhh I don't wanna spend my college career by myself!!!

For the past few years including all of my high school years I have been very lonely. I lost my best friend sophomore year and made a new one that same year and lost her as well. I of course had people I knew but not ones I actually hung out with. I'm 19 years old and am now in college still dealing with this issue. Everyone seems to either already have their friends or are way older than me to even be friends so I'm stuck being alone. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me before nee years and I got with my friend instead. i know it was a bad idea to move into things quickly but the company felt so nice. I met someone on psn because i play this game and they added me. We started talking and I thought maybe I had found someone I can just play and joke around with. He lives in another state but it was alright  because rn the company is all that mattered to me. After two weeks of playing and talking he says he likes me. He occasionally gets upset and doesn't talk to me because of it and im always trying to get him to stop and just be my friend. The whole problem here is no one wants to stay my friend. It's almost impossible to find another girl who wants to be my friend and if a guy from literally anywhere in person or online talk to me, they always end up liking me. Yeah its fine but I feel so alone in the end when everyone is mad at me because I'm not what they want me to be. Im not very out there when making friends as is and am very shy. What do I do??

Hello. I'm 20 and am in a sorority. This friend group has 6 people, including myself, but one girl is abroad. So, I have me, and 2 other friends L and S. The other two friends H and B live in the house, me, S, and L do not. At the beginning of this year they were being distant but it seems to have gotten worse. Last weekend, there were 2 parties that H and B went to that they didn't invite us to. Today, they went out and again, didn't invite or even ask if we wanted to go. This used to be a customary thing. I'm upset because this is usually how my friendships fall apart. There isn't usually a fight there is just people slowly distancing themselves. Basicallyyyy how do I handle this

 Im a dude,  and I was friends with this girl Patricia from work.  Me and Patricia would talk all the time,  we knew eachother almost 2 years.   But later on i found  out from someone else that Patricia was catching feelings for me   But i dont understand how she was catching feelings for me.  She's married,  plus she is 36 and im only 24...... what did i doo for her to catch feelings for me????? And yess she was catching feelings for me