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- Question: Which disease is the most deadly?
- Question: I had sex with my cousin and now my whole family knows about it?
- Question: How do I get my father to understand me and stop being so ignorant?
- Question: Could I go to jail for this? ?
- Question: Signs of dementia in adult?
- Question: How to enforce boundaries for extremely over protective mother? She feels entitled to interfering with my life but I have lived on my own ?
- Question: How do I tell my controlling over protective mom I'm moving out in 6 months?
- Question: Was this comment insensitive for a woman to say?
- Question: Am I too young for a baby?
- Question: How can you stop a parent from trying to open credit cards in their infants name?
- Question: My son thinks he knows everything?
- Question: Why isn’t my dad proud of me?
- Question: Why do people spend so much money on useless Christmas gifts?
- Question: I let someone live in my home with my family for 2 and a half years, he left and took my car and refused to return it. ?
- Question: Would I be a jerk for telling my mom her drinking makes me feel suicidal?
- Question: My Dad has hurt me more then anyone I know. What do I do with my rage towards him so I can move on?
- Question: I overheard my dad talking **** about me.?
- Question: How do I control my kids?
- Question: Do you think this is cruel or justified?
- Question: Why do I feel happier around my friends than my family?
- Question: How ro best care for ailing, parents?
- Question: Needing advice please..?
- Question: Younger brother ?
- Question: My boyfriend is mean?
- Question: Any ideas? ?
- Question: Should I continue to show affection or back off?
- Question: Why do some people say, "well, I don't know." when you're telling them about someone?
- Question: What to do with my mom's mental illness?
- Question: Is anyone else grossed out by touching/ being close to family members?
Question: Which disease is the most deadly? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 12:52 PM PST Rabies, Ebola, or the new caronavirus? |
Question: I had sex with my cousin and now my whole family knows about it? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 12:06 PM PST I've been spending a lot of time with my cousin at all of our family get-togethers because we are both bartenders and we make drinks for everyone. We've always been a little flirty with each other and the time we spent together has escalated things. I told him about how I been wanting to try anal for a long time. He's sort of an expert with anal, so he offered to try it with me at Christmas. A couple weeks ago he got into an horrible argument with my brother and told him about our secret fling, which my brother told the rest of the family about, even our mom's side. I feel like my cousin and I are now being ostracized by everyone. Most of our family is just avoiding us because they're uncomfortable but his parents are really mad at both of us and my dad is mad at my cousin. I overheard his father tell our grandparents that he hopes I have an abortion if I ever get pregnant with my cousin's baby. Our other cousins refuse to go near us and it's just the most awkward situation ever. I don't know what to do and I really need advice. I haven't talked to my friends about it because I'm nervous to tell them. I know they'll still love and accept me but I'm just not ready to talk about it with them. |
Question: How do I get my father to understand me and stop being so ignorant? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 11:33 AM PST |
Question: Could I go to jail for this? ? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 10:18 AM PST I was getting the mail at my house and there's was this package. I didn't know what it was and I didn't look at the label so I open it impulsively. And when I opened it there was a dildo inside! I immediately knew it was my older's sisters. Who is 27 years old. 5 years older than me. I started to have a panic attack. I didn't want to tell my sister because she would yell at me for looking at her stuff. I also didn't want to have that awkward moment with her. I couldn't just put it back because my sister would know I opened it because I've opened her stuff that she's gotten in the mail before. She wouldn't believe that it came like that. So my brain came up with the plan to throw it away the package so my sister would think it got lost in the mail. I didn't want to throw in away at my house so I went to the dumpster near my house. The dumpster is behind a church. So I ran to the dumpster and the top of the dumpster was open so I tried to toss it in but i missed! the package hit the wall of the church. I thought I heard some voices and I didn't want anybody to ask me what I was doing and to investigate so I just ran home. My mind is coming up with all these scenarios that's going to happen. I have really bad anxiety. I'm scared someone who works at the church is gonna find the package and there gonna look at the cameras and see that I threw and I'm gonna go to get arrested. I can't eat or sleep. Should I be worried? |
Question: Signs of dementia in adult? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 10:09 AM PST computer roller dog ask jeeves? My friend's name is JOHNSON i RAMmed MY SPInAL cord up his REAR END. My EXCAVATOR is being MALNUTRITIONed by the poodel. I am gong to shove gorillas spinal cord into poodel chews. POodel chews poodel bites cereal toxin released on planet robert in the year before the nuclear tetranode. MY POODEL IS EVIL I AM OGING TO SEE A DOCTOR HIS NAME IS JOHNON. PLEASE RETRIEVE MY EXCAVATOR CHIP> ADRESS CHATTANOOGA GUNBALLRE ROADS. |
Posted: 24 Feb 2020 08:47 AM PST Been living on my own for years. She really oversteps her boundaries, such as trying to log into my student loans account (and getting me locked out as a result because she couldn't guess my password) and holding on to my SSN card and birth certificate so that I had to order my own copies. Mom cried when I told her that she could not go with me when I traveled out of state for a work sponsored training trip. She keeps trying to break me up with my boyfriend and paints him as evil but refuses to meet him. She says that I will change my mind about my relationship when I am older (I am 25, she was married at 22). She even will try and call me out of work to send me to my sisters place to make sure she wakes up on time for school. I try to explain to her how inappropriate it is but she just clings on tighter. |
Question: How do I tell my controlling over protective mom I'm moving out in 6 months? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 06:56 AM PST So recently me and my mom have been fighting over the fact that she hates my boyfriend cause of a mistake he made and that he used to drink and do drugs but has now been clean for 5 months cause he wants to be in the navy.She used to tell me to forgive him for his past now she hates on him for it and is trying to force me into breaking up with him when I graduate.She also takes all my money cause we need it since my dad is old,sick,and disabled and she works a target as a stocker so she need my money too.I really don't want to leave cause she is a great mom at the end of the day and I want to be there to help take care of my dad but I just can't deal with her anymore.I graduate in 3 months and I'm going to college in a different city and I want to move out in 6 months on the 1st of august. How do I talk to her about moving out and how I feel about this stuff?How to I prepare to move out? I also just don't feel like much of an adult and I feel like moving out and dealing with stuff on my own instead of my mom always Helpping my with stuff will make me feel more grown up. |
Question: Was this comment insensitive for a woman to say? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 06:53 AM PST My cousin is currently 16 and recently had a late miscarriage. Both of the twins died. She's off course understandably crying inconsolable and is currently depressed. One of her older sister's friends said: ''Hey at least you got your life back on track now. No more worrying about crying babies''. Needless to say she got super pissed off and started crying even more. |
Question: Am I too young for a baby? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 03:27 AM PST I've just turned 20 years old and really want a baby. I have always wanted to have children and be a full time mum. I still live at home with my parents, sister and my boyfriend stays round every night. My family is quite wealthy and we live in a big house and my parents would be both supportive, however would discourage me to have a child this young. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and we have spoken about marriage and children, we defiantly know we want to be together and are both perfect for each other. I'm currently doing a project management apprenticeship and he is doing an electrician apprenticeship, each earning a monthly salary of around £1,500 after tax. We both have around £40,000 each in our savings account. I keep dreaming of having children every night and am so hooked on the idea that I just can't wait. Am I capable, or am I not being sensible, please help. |
Question: How can you stop a parent from trying to open credit cards in their infants name? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 02:00 AM PST The mother has lost custody but paperwork was received showing that she is trying to open accounts in the childs name. |
Question: My son thinks he knows everything? Posted: 24 Feb 2020 01:54 AM PST My son is 40 years old and is very extremely successful. He has a PhD in Accounting and is a successful CPA. However, this has caused him to think he knows everything and refuses to listen to the opinions of others. He obviously only listens to the opinions of people that are more successful than him only. He is a very hard individual to deal with. How do I stop this? |
Question: Why isn’t my dad proud of me? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 11:47 PM PST I'm 27 years old and I put myself through college I paid my own college. I got myself a decent job. I bought my own car and manage to pay my bills on time. Yet, my father when I talk to him he tells me I'm an idiot and don't know squat for my age? He never went to college and worked at a warehouse his whole life. I truly don't think I know it all but I have put in some effort in my life. I have at least tried. What is his deal? |
Question: Why do people spend so much money on useless Christmas gifts? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 11:35 PM PST People know they are a waste, but still buy them. I don't get it. My family doesn't even give gifts for Christmas, we just have a nice family gathering and have a good meal and enjoy EACH OTHER. SHOCKING. People just wanna buy each other useless gifts and stare at their phones these days and take selfies "enjoying" christmas |
Posted: 23 Feb 2020 11:33 PM PST I ended up giving him the car but all of his possessions are still in my home. He is 20 years old and his dad wants to get his things but his dad has threatened me. What should I do. |
Question: Would I be a jerk for telling my mom her drinking makes me feel suicidal? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 10:10 PM PST My mom drinks too much. I've been diagnosed with anxiety, and depression. She knows her dri king makes it worse, but she doesnt know that I have suicidal thoughts. The thing is that her drinking makes my not want to be here. I dont really think I'd ever kill myself, but I'm not sure, but I feel like I'm at my wits end, and I'm afraid I might do something, because im so sick of dealing with it. My dad was an alcholic all of my. Childhood. I thought it was over when my parents divorced,but now my mothers just like my dad. I've refrained from telling my mother this, because im afraid shell just think I'm being a drama queen. |
Posted: 23 Feb 2020 09:18 PM PST His ignorance and arrogant ways hurt me more then words can describe. |
Question: I overheard my dad talking **** about me.? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 08:44 PM PST Tonight, on a whim, I decided to check my old voicemails. All of them were pretty much spam except for a 3 minute long one from my dad from about a month ago. I listened to it out of curiosity and found that he was talking **** about me to his coworkers. The reason he was calling me was in order to find my phone (I asked him to call my phone via my laptop in order to find it). He went on and on about how once kids turn 16-17, they're just really stupid. He started with how he thought I had left my phone at school all night (I hadn't, someone put their clothes over it the same day). Then he went on making up some long story about me calling him at an airport. I knew the story was completely fabricated because of the bullshit details he gave. He did an impression of me with a stupid voice as well. I don't know what to do in this situation. My dad and I are on good terms with each other despite our disagreements. I have some sympathy for him because most people ****-talk and gossip about others. Should I confront him about it or not? If so, how? |
Question: How do I control my kids? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 08:28 PM PST I am a single father of 3. My twins are 17 and my other is 16. Me and their mother are divorced and she moved back to England shortly after. I've been trying my hardest to raise them by myself but they are teenagers now basically meaning I live with 3 emotional demons. They don't listen to me anymore. Anything I say goes in one ear and out the other. They choose when they want to come home, and that might be as late as 3 AM on a school night. I come home from work and they are smoking marijuana and there is kids in my house I've never seen before. Their mother bought them a car to share and she sends them money when needed. A few months ago my son let a girl spend the night at my house. I woke up to find them sleeping in his bed together. We got into a huge argument over it which got extremely physical. After that I completely gave up which sounds bad, but they can't be tamed. |
Question: Do you think this is cruel or justified? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 08:02 PM PST I have a father who refuses to take responsibility for his actions and thinks that I have an obligation to drop everything and help him when he gets into trouble. For example, he drove on soft sand and got stuck even though I had warned him never to drive on it. He called me for help so I drove 80 miles to go dig him out. Another time he tried to repair a vehicle without knowing what he was doing and set it on fire. If I hadn't been there to put it out, the house would've burned down. There are dozens of other examples where he put himself and others in danger but suffered no consequences cause I helped him every time. He always laughs when he talks about them and minimizes the danger he was in and what I did for him. This of course angers me. Because of this, I am planning on never helping him ever again and letting him suffer the consequences of his actions. If he dies, he dies. I don't really care anymore. So do you think this is cruel or justified? |
Question: Why do I feel happier around my friends than my family? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 07:30 PM PST I'm currently 15 years old and I'm always laughing around my friends and love to be around them. When I'm with my family I barely talk to them, always stay in my room, and apparently I always have a "face" when I'm around them. There have been multiple conversations between me and the family regarding our relationship and they're asking me why I act like this but I don't even know why. I am diagnosed with depression and I'm wondering if this plays any part in it. Usually when I'm at home I'm extremely sad. I just need some clarity on what's going on. |
Question: How ro best care for ailing, parents? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 07:29 PM PST |
Question: Needing advice please..? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 05:24 PM PST I have a hard time telling my step kids that I love them. I don't know why, but the opportunity will come for me to say it and I won't. I will just tell them bye when they are leaving. I do love them. How can it be easier for me to say it? I think I am afraid of rejection from them, but I know they're just kids. I only see my step kids once a week. |
Posted: 23 Feb 2020 05:18 PM PST Ok so I got a older brother. Everyone kisses his butt. He thinks he's great. I'm really not jealous just gets annoying after awhile. |
Question: My boyfriend is mean? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 03:56 PM PST |
Posted: 23 Feb 2020 03:52 PM PST I have a hard time telling my SD and SS that I love them. I don't know why, but the opportunity will come for me to say it and I won't. I will just tell them bye when they are leaving. I do love them. How can it be easier for me to say it? |
Question: Should I continue to show affection or back off? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 03:43 PM PST My 7 year old step daughter does not like affection from me. Should I show it to her anyway, even if she doesn't want it? I do give her space and am scared to show affection because of how she is. |
Question: Why do some people say, "well, I don't know." when you're telling them about someone? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 02:53 PM PST It's like my biggest pet peeve, especially when the person doesn't know me and someone from my family makes up lies on me. I do not live near my family because of the toxicity. It's just that every time I call a member they always tell me stuff that others say and then question me. It's offensive because why would they ask me anything? They obviously know that I moved. |
Question: What to do with my mom's mental illness? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 02:53 PM PST My mom was diagnosed with schizophrenia almost 20 years ago. I was a teenager at that time. She was a single mother, so life wasn't easy but she was also abusive. Two years after her diagnosis, I immigrated to another country with my dad and his new family, and my mom and I have been living in separate countries since. I've always struggled with my own mental health, but things got better in my mid-20s. I felt like I was starting to gain control over my life in some areas. Because I was also financially independent, I invited my mom to come visit me where I live. I thought it would help her with her mood because I wanted her to get better. She was no longer on meds because we couldn't force her again and again, and eventually we gave up. When she came over, she didn't want to socialize and we got into a lot of fights. I felt like she was controlling and it wasn't good for my life, but she really liked coming here, so once she booked a flight overnight and showed up at my door even though I told her it wasn't a good time to visit. I made the choice to not let her in, so she stayed at the airport for the evening and flew back to her country. My family got mad at me. Everyone called me and said a lot of mean things. Because of this incident, I lost touch with my family for a long time. Whenever I talk to her, she is still abusive and nowadays my family is forcing me to have her come visit, but I don't want to compromise my own mental health. What should I do? Also, the only person that is taking care of her right now is my grandma. My aunt told me I should be the one taking care of her if my grandma passes away. I am not rich enough to pay for her rent if she ever settles in my country or send her to a mental hospital. What should I do then? |
Question: Is anyone else grossed out by touching/ being close to family members? Posted: 23 Feb 2020 02:39 PM PST I am extremely repulsed by touching people in my family. Luckily, we don't do hugs or anything like that usually, but it's still horrible because it would break my parents' hearts if they knew I didn't even want to touch them. I'm completely fine with most people outside my family, except my very best friend who I've known all my life. She's basically like my sister though, so it's the same kind of thing. Is there a name for this? Treatment options? Has anyone else experienced something like this? |
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