My MIL moved in with us 4 months ago after leaving her husband, she happily announced her plans to us less than a week after we lost our 2 month old son and asked us for a place to stay. My husband and I talked about it and we agreed it wasn't a good time for us and he told me he'll talk to her and offer to assist her financially instead. However, he put it off and never gave her a reply. She put us on the spot one day and we caved in and said yes and she told us it would be for "a short time".  I am now pregnant, due in June and the situation is making me feel stressed and resentful. I feel like she has manipulated us and is being inconsiderate and I question her intent on leaving as soon as she is able. My husband asked her at the end of last year if she is planning on being out by June and that we would like to have some privacy and space to bond with our baby and she said "Oh, I'll be out long before then!" We thought she is waiting for her house to sell.. she recently rejected a decent offer on her house which I believe she overpriced and has been on the market for 2 months. When I asked her about whether she wants a condo or apartment, she said "I won't be even thinking about that until I get my divorce settlement". Her court date is less than a month before the time we asked her leave. My husband asked her again and she said she will be out by then but I still have my doubts and I don't know what else we can do. Am I wrong for feeling resentful? She's not particularly difficult to live with, but neither my husband or I feel close to her.. and I am introverted and value my privacy and space especially at a time like this, I need to bond with my little family and I feel like she inserted herself into our household without any regard for us. She's also very nosy and makes comments that irritate me, she likes to tell me how tired I look, ask about my weight and give unsolicited advice and make other comments that seem passive aggressive. 

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years. we are currently in college. we originally planned to get engaged sometime soon and marry end of college. now he's saying he doesn't want to get married or anything until we are like 26 or 27. and he doesn't want to start a family until way later. this upsets me because being a wife and mom is all i have ever wanted. it seems like every time we get close to making a mile stone he pushes it back. we have plans to live together in a year, but i'm starting to think he will back out of that last minute too. i've tried to make compromises with him by offering a longer engagement, but he's not even up for getting engaged until years from now. i'm starting to run low on patience and i'm going into depression because of it. the stress of it is eating me alive and i don't know what to do because no matter how many times i talk to him, he thinks i'm crazy and doesn't even give room to meet me half way on anything. I'm starting to think he doesn't know if i'm the one for him or not. I wanted to get married within the next few years bc my parents are not in good health and i want them there at my wedding and to possible watch my kids grow for as long as they can. Can someone give me advice?

Other stuff being friends, spouses, experience, etc. What picks you up in the morning to go to work? 

Did you end up making the other man your husband. Like the other man is heaven sent right. The sex is amazing. He listens, he's romantic ya da. Anyone been through that

I will tell the story below so you understand what I am talking about. Then answer the question above. In this affair some were backing the cousin and her lover with others backing her husband she left. Many like my parents claimed her husband had done no wrong other then be a hard worker and began practically worshiping him. Meanwhile others like my aunt called him an arrogant puss and backed the cousin and said there was no affair and Chuck (the boyfriend) was just a friend. As a teen I backed my parents and began calling the cousin's lover and berating him and calling him horrible names. After a while my mother said the phone calls were making it worse so to stop. Well 15 years later the cousin who had the affair has died (last year). She stayed with the guy though never married him until her death bed. The lover is already seeing someone new I hear (and she just left her husband is the gossip). Meanwhile the cousin's ex who my parents practically worshiped is now a bitter old man and we don't know him at all. He remarried and fell of the face of the earth from there. He is divorced again I hear. My question is this, how could an affair, as awful as it may be, destroy the entire closeness of an extended family that was once close?

I filed for divorce over a year ago. My children go to my ex's house every other week. He seems to treat them with respect. His new wife, however, doesn't seem to care for children. She even got her tubes tied just in case. Starting six months ago, my eldest (a 2yo boy) would come home with a bruise on each of his legs. He was wailing and I asked how he got it. My husband always says he had no idea. His wife would always say that he was "playing with rocks", which sounds suspicious. Starting from two months ago, my 9mo daughter would come home with a new bruise on a random part of her body. I asked how that could have happened. She said that she was crawling around and got bit by their dog. I have a REALLY hard time believing this, too, because there aren't any bite marks and since they own a Doberman Pinscher, it would do far more damage that that. What is actually going on?

First of all, we are both fat. I'm 210lbs and I'm 5'5. He's 5'9 and 255lbs. We met a year ago and he knew I was fat when he met me. He's the one that approached me in the very beginning and I weighed the same as I do now so he knew I was fat. Whenever I say something, he starts talking about my weight. At first, I ignored his comments and jokes about my weight and he has not stopped talking about it and bringing it up. He knew I was fat so why want a relationship with me? It gets very annoying. We had a normal talk about getting a kitten. He than made a comment and said I would crush the tiny kitten with my weight. He throws dumb jokes like that in every conversation and it's getting on my nerve. He's always pointing at my stomach and pinching it. It gets annoying. I feel like he's trying to make me insecure since he's insecure about his weight. Or am I taking it too serious? 

My ex use to be my best friend. My first love and now the father to my first born. He was absolutely amazing before the abuse begun and then we found out I was pregnant and he completely changed. He was kind about it at first but then began to behave as if I ruined his life. He already has two kids with his first wife and they are his world. He kept accusing me of cheating or wanting to leave him. He then started to accuse me of planning to take his unborn son away from him. He has spent over 20k in lawyers fees for custody and divorce. After that little by little he'd hit me. First it was a slap in mid argument, to choking, to pushing, to doing all at the same time. He'd always apologize and be his amazing said again. I had enough and called the police. He was released on bail but instead he choose to stay in jail because he says it's what he deserves. He's been released after a month. A friend that has him on social media says he post stuff regarding me and how I will always have his heart and he wishes I can forgive me and he wants to be apart of his sons life.  The fact that he willing stayed in jail gives me hold but I read abusive ppl don't actually feel sorry they will do anything to make themselves look good. 

The coronavirus could be very bad here because of that stupid decision.

If you are and have been in this situation how did it work out for you? If you were in a toxic marriage and left for another man did you regret it or did you find happiness in that other person? I've been married to my husband for 4 years. We are both 29. But I just can't take the misery anymore. I'm tired of the roller coaster. He has a problem with being wrong. He has to be right about everything and doesn't respect anyone else's opinion but his own. Because of that it's been hard to have a relationship with him because he shuts down any opinions that are different from his own. Having a basic conversation about life is hard with him. He said it himself we aren't compatible and we are from very different walks of life. On top of that he's emotionally abusive because every time we get into a fight he threatens to leave. I can't even count how many times he's broken up with me and then called me begging to get back together. It's draining and toxic. There have been two instances where he broke up with me supposedly and then he slept with the mother of his children. Yes he has children with another women that he was dating before me. That part doesn't even bother me. It's the emotional abuse, control, ego trips, and lack of love that really grind my gears. On top of that he's not romantic at all. I've spent both Valentine's Day and new eve years eve with another man because he could not even be bothered to spend 5 minutes with me. He said he got off work late and I said yes I understand you get off late but it won't kill you to spend 5 minutes with me. Everybody else was with their significant others but of course I shouldn't ever expect him to care  I tried one last time to fix this relationship by surprising him for an all paid for hotel room where I catered to him all day and wore lingerie. I feel like he didn't even appreciate that when I brought up to him what I had planned  He was like " what are you doing this for. Are you doing this for me or you" I was like forget it. Any other man would have been jumping for joy  He gets mad at me because I never want to have sex with him but my body reacts to how a man treats me. I can't get wet when he's sitting here emotionally abusing me And when we used to have sex it was always on his terms and when he wanted to have sex and this and that  And any time I try to communicate with him about how I feel he thinks I'm trying to argue with him. So I told myself forget it I'm done trying I'm just gonna let this marriage die because it's his way or the highway  I've found comfort in another man that I've known prior to him. He's the one person keeping me from losing my mind and I do feel like I'm falling in love with him. I've known him for a long time actually but the past couple of months I'm seeing him in a more attractive light  This other man actually listens to me and cares and gives me great conversation great advice amazing laughs. We've had lunch a couple times and he's just always there for me. Because of the strong emotional connection and because he treats me right my body responds well to sex  Because he treats me so well I actually want to have sex and I actually want to do oral which is something I've never done before. He mentally stimulates me like never before and because he treats me so good I feel compelled to treat him even better  Me and the other guy have talked about a relationship and we even said we love each other. I told him that I don't have my license so I told him to give me a while to get my stuff together and then we can be together and get out this mess of a marriage  I want to be the best possible person for him which includes being self sufficient and learning how to drive 

I asked my mentor to take me to Wal-Mart 1 time and she said nicely no but when I asked her 2 more times she went off and said no and hit the steering wheel in her car Why did she got upset when I asked her take me to the Store?

Ok, hear me out!  In line with marriage enforcement laws, I want to design giant brass rings you wear around your waist like a belt for all to see. If you so much as glance at the opposite sex, you receive a gentle reminder in form of electric shocks. Doesn't this sound grand?

than parental rights and has been ordered supervised visitation but has only done about 10 hours in 2 years. I know the other parent will object me to move and moving from CA but i will be able to buy a much bigger home with my husband and 2 younger children from my current marriage. My husband will have a better paying job and i will be able to transfer my current position to OH as my corporate office is located there. Has anyone had an experience on this or have any advise? Thank You THIS IS FOR THE RESPONSE BELOW..... My comment is too long for me to respond ............Dang I hope you feel better about your self creating a whole comment under an anonymous person. Im guessing you're that kind of dad i'm speaking of huh. Let me respond to your remarks. No child support in force. I've paid for my child since he was born to include her "dad" who was a free loading EBT wanting government moocher. I had held the same job for the past 15 years thank You!   I decided to leave one day with the clothes on my and my daughter back when he threatened my life. Lots of physiological issues with that man. No he wasn't like this and the mental illness slowly started to progress after my son was born. Its not about me let me make this clear. This is to protect my child from a very very scary and bad person. No one is using my child as a weapon. You're "facts" arent facts but simply your opinion on trying to justify your sad little life. . Also that "dad" you protect hasn't been a part of this kids life since for the past 4 years. That "dad" had 50/50 custody when my son was 2 and lost it by the court because he was irresponsible and slept in the car, didn't bathe my son, loved to use drugs while taking my son around at 2 in the morning, me getting calls to pick up my son by the police because or warrants the "dad" had. Supervised visitation was ordered where i had to pay half the cost! So again please go on

Ladies, you have made me a staunch believer and supporter of marriage AT ALL COSTS! I wanna work with you to harness the rabid fervor you have for marriage to take over the world! Just image the possibilities. We could force marriage on everyone and everything to bring endless happy marriage joy to the world!We'll call it the "marriage force".Who's with me?

My husband recently hit me with an extremely low blow in my book.  I can't seem to get past it. His comment was particularly hurtful, unprovoked, and bizarre. We were at his family's home for a birthday party. We hadn't been arguing, we hadn't had a disagreement. NOTHING. He was behaving strangely. Not himself. Wouldn't engage in conversation. In fact he avoided everyone. This is so uncharacteristic of him and people began to ask where he was. I had no idea so I called him and asked him to join us. He came and sat at the table next to me. Seated with us at that same table were three of his brothers. his dad, his step mother, and our youngest daughter. We were all enjoying ourselves talking and laughing. Out of nowhere he says to his dad (referring to me), "yeah I'm going to have to put her to work here soon." Then he continued "got any yard work you need done?" No one laughed. Everything went quiet. We weren't even talking about anything that would have made sense for him to interject that comment. I shot him a look and he quickly dropped the subject. He quietly tried to reassure me that only his dad heard him so I didn't need to be upset. I was completely blindsided and hurt. Where did that come from? I wanted to disappear. We have only known my husband's father and his wife for two years. Which is why a comment like that was especially awkward and embarrassing. My husband apologized on the car ride home and maintained he was joking. I am overreacting?

Me and my husband have been fighting and arguing every since we met ever since day one but because I don't believe in giving up I've been trying my hardest to stay with him. But we have different opinions and different values about everything. One of our differences is that he's a very serious minded person and I'm goofy I have a sense of humor. Since we have been together I've lost my glow my spark I don't smile as much I don't laugh as much. Being around my friends you can see the life in me  But then when I'm around him I feel dead again and I feel like I can't fully be myself  I'm so tired of arguining with him every single day . Any time I have an opinion that's different from him it's an argument . And every time we right he threatens to divorce . I feel like I can't have a different opinion and I also can't communicate with problems we have  My sex drive is extremely low and I'm not sure if it's because of all the fighting and arguing we have or what. He's been my only sexual partner my entire life so I can't say  He's been angry at me for never wanting sex but how can I crave sex with someone that argues me down every day and is somewhat controlling also. He tells me that I better fix my sex drive or we will divorce but I try so hard to get turned on but the fights affect me I believe  It's like I have to envision another man in order to get off. I can't get off looking at him and plenty of times I've had to take an orgasm  It's like I have to envision another man in order to get off. I can't get off looking at him and plenty of times I've had to take an orgasm 

will the husband have to bear the child now hacing got fooled by the wife? Now, after having signed in the child's birth certificate doeshe becomes the father of the child forever and thus has to pay child support even if now the husband divorces his wife for cheating? Otherwise, what other option does he have to save himself from that situation and what action can he take against his wife?

If the wife denies about commiting adultery in court and does'nt wan't to divorce, then will the husband get divorce on that grounds? Or will he have to prove it again while the wife gets away getting the benefit of doubt?

I'm not that in love with my boyfriend. We respect each other but we don't love each other. It's a little complicated. I moved in with him several months ago. I do the cooking and cleaning in the house. He's a very lazy man who doesn't do much. Sometimes I just want to be so far away from him. I always need breaks away from him. We don't make love for weeks at a time. I always go on vacations every 3 weeks to get away from him. I give myself a break so I can miss him. I go on my vacation alone and loneliness tears me apart for 2 weeks and when I come back, we start making love and enjoying each other. But after 4 days, the love is gone again and I want to take another vacation away from him. Is this a normal feeling? or should I just end it? We both work, but I work longer hours than him. I come home to a big dirty mess me makes all the time. He never bothers to clean anything. He sits there and plays video games the rest of the day. 

Do you know coronavirus? How do you think about coronavirus? detail

My mom is 39 married to a 60 year old man who discretely degrades her by making funny racist  housewife joke puns and since she's fairly gullible she doesn't even realize it!!! He sees her as a maid 3000. I'm starting to worry 

I have 3 children and my oldest lives with her dad and I care for my other two, whose dad is incarcerated. I'm barely making ends meet but a child support worker says they could possibly take one third of my check. My oldest lives several states away, she was supposed to live minutes away when I gave them custody since I was struggling, now this high child support. Any experts, hearing is next month 

I'm rly upset and feel like somethings wrong with me :( I have really extreme issues with sex and have struggled with drug abuse a lot in the past i feel like i have met a surplus of creepy men in my life, or like i have a target on my back. asking to see if this is a normal amount of creepy events. i'm 20  -my dad cheated and almost gave her HIV. he tried to have sex with her bff -I got molested by my cousin at 10. They fingered me when I didn't want them to and I kept saying stop  -was cat-called by many men from cars at 10. -offered beer from adult man at 11 -at 12, a classmate kept talking about getting me pregnant and touching me -13, guys regularly made comments about my boobs and trying to date me  -almost raped by a celebrity when i was 14 at a music festival. i didnt realize how close of a call it was at the time. He invited me to his hotel party  -groped at festival at 14 by random guy  -at 14, guy said he would only date me if i sent him nudes. i said no so he ignored me  -at 14 senior told me he could have sex with me because i was at the age of consent -at 15 i went on my first date w/ a guy. I met him online and he was much older in person. On the way home he forced me to blow him, fingered me, then tried to rape me and I got away.  -at 18 i slept w a dude who wanted to date with me then told everyone i was "disgusting" he was bipolar tho -went on a date w a guy that told me rape scenes aroused him - at 18, 3 men tried to get into a car I shared with my friend  -at 18, pressured into sex with dude i thought was really ugly.  -at 18, got extremely high and had sex with random guy. i dated him. he turned extremely abusive, told me i was replaceable, constantly called me stupid, told me i didnt deserve to be treated well. Tried to get me pregnant and threatened to throw me down the stairs  - at 18 I was alone on a beach At night and 3 men came up to me trying to kiss me -at 18, almost raped by drug dealer but got away. I was laying down, saying no and he kept trying to put it in repeatjng "please" -at 18 briefly dated dude that gifted me chocolates his mom got him -at 19 was having sex with boyfriend. He took the condom off without my permission, held me down and made me have sex with him. I kept saying no and trying to push me off but he told me he didn't care and that the more I resisted him the hornier he was. he told me he raped me afterwards and made me cuddle with him  -at 19, guy in friend group raped my roommate. he always made weird sexual remarks about me - at 19, uber driver told me about first time he got head while staring at me -at 20, dudes followed me in the dark with their car and kept telling me i was cute and to get in the car  Then in 4 friend groups a male friend of mine has hurt one of my female friends