I'd like to give my doctor (a male) a gift for treating me for a very serious condition.  I was thinking of getting him a customized cup (i.e. coffee/tea) or maybe a glass, but likely either a cup or an award of some type with customized text.  He does a pretty big ego so I am struggling to find something he'd actually like.  I really want him to know I appreciate his help (although that is his job), and that he made a difference in my life.  What kind of gift can I get him that he'd like?

What does it mean when my best friend tells me she's not going anywhere? 

I am a 28 year old woman from India who has lived in the US for 3 years. I have 4 close friends(22-25) who were my house mates and since ive been in the country they have truly supported me. I am the odd one out of my friends, they are 5'2-5'4 petite white women, yet I am 6'7 300 pound dark skinned brown woman. This has been an ongoing insecurity since they would continuously date many attractive guys, yet I would be getting rejected. Now they all have boyfriends who are all 6'0-6'3 muscular white men, around their age. They have all been in relationships from 10-16 months. My friends still treat me the same, and still truly care for me like a friend. On top of that, I get along well with their boyfriends and they seem to respect me. Our friendship has grown stronger if anything. But even though I should feel happy for having such supportive friends I still feel insecurity around them. I have gotten more self conscious about by height and weight, being both taller and heavier than everyone in the group including their bfs. Ironically I am more self conscious about my race and cultural differences even though I am more assimilated. I spend alot of time around them so I want them to understand my insecurities, inorder to strengthen our friendship. 

I work in a not so good job (just in the mean time), but anyways, I have this "friend" who's been working with me for almost three years now. I'm a 23 year old man, and she's 22. She's not a really good friend because she would never want to hang out, outside of work. She only went once because we had other friends present. Any other time, she blows me off. Anyways, she always leaves early out of work because she gets her way with the bosses. And today is the one time I actually got to leave early, she was being a b&tch to me! She started yelling at me and being over dramatic because I got to leave earlier than her for the first time this year. She then started texting after I left, saying that her "foot hurts," even though it's been two weeks. Just so I could stay. She could've called off if that was the case. I was just amazed by all this, because I was stupid enough to believe we were actually friends. And how immature of her to cause a scene like that. Now that I think about it, she's never been a friend to me, but a side of me still feels bad.... What do you think?

My friend texted me this: "Ive been crying so much lately. Do you think life would be better without me? Especially to the people that talk to me? I'm thinking about deleting this biliie fan account" I don't want her to do something she will regret. Yeah life sucks but it eventually gets better. I've noticed she has lots of self hatred for herself and is very insecure and she's my best friend ion know what I would do without her.

There's one person in particular who likes to constantly stalk vulnerable people on here and harass and acts like he is so "above" everyone else (LAN). By the looks of it, he's been doing this for years but it still continues to happen. Why doesn't YA do anything about these types of people? 

I asked him to remove the picture but he said no and that everyone should be able to see it. Here is a link to the picture https://flic.kr/p/2iwjhhw ... should I be embarrassed?

There's literally no point. I've got nobody left and life's only going to become worse. By 30 there'll be nothing to do other than work and gym. I'm almost 20 and my fun days are over already. I've flirted with the idea of suicide for a while. What's gonna happen when I turn 25? I might (might) meet a girl, but at the end of the day it's all fake. Any millionaire with a bit of charm can get any woman to cheat, that's why it's fake. I swear I'm the most hilarious person I know, always got people in stitches but my people don't want me anymore. I shout them to see what they're doing, but it just seems impossible to go for a pint or do anything interesting. My group are quietly rejecting me, they've got a lads holiday planned but I can't explain it, I just know they don't want me there and making plans just isn't possible. All today I've been seeing Snapchat story's of my mates at a day rave and it cuts me deep because I didn't know until I opened snapchat. It's weird as **** because I woke up this morning to a dream with the narrative that pretty much none of my friends wanna be my friend no more. I must of laid there watery eyed for about 30 mins because I knew it was so true... then of course I opened snapchat and I was wounded bad. If I kill myself sooner rather than later, at least people will love me again. I remember my friends would tell me "J I actually love you man". But now I'm so disconnected, feeling rejected and honestly tempted to hang myself in the woods. 

I was laying on my front and I asked if I should take my bra off? He said no but then he said oh its loose let me fix that that for you. Then my shirt was a little off to the side when I sat up and he adjusted it on my lower back. Not sure if this is normal. He has told me I'm very beautiful in the past and he looks at my chest a lot.. I'm In my 20s and I think he is up there so not sure if I should just ignore it?

I don't understand what she meant by treating my friend kim right. (Kim is my name)

I know i'm super emotional, but my favorite band played last night and i didn't go because i didn't think anyone was going. But as it turns out everyone did and i was SO FRUSTRATED since they were all posting his best songs and I listen to them every single day. I felt left out and betrayed by friends who didn't invite me.  Everyone was posting on instagram and i've been listening to those songs ever since they came out. How do I get over this?

Would he think the woman is no longer interested in him?

My friend, "F", is asking all the friends in my friend group together to meet for a party that we have every year. She is inviting everyone but my boyfriend (who is also in the friend group), "B". F and B are currently roomates. They had a disagreement and B angrily confronted her. He didn't threaten her, touch her, or yell, but it was clear that he was angry and because he is a large man, F said she felt scared, upset, and disrespected.  B has since realized that he should have calmed down before confronting her and apologized. F is saying that she doesnt feel comfortable having B at friend events, even though she lives with him. As a result, B is feeling hurt and isolated. I don't know how I should approach this situation and any advice or thoughts would be appreciated. 

A year ago today I lost my best friend in the world. She died suddenly and it has been the hardest year of my life. I'm looking for a song that expresses the pain that comes with losing the most important friend in your life. 

This is the situation- Growing up I was close with my 2 sisters' growing up, when I was in college, they were still at home, by the time I graduated both of them moved to another city and got married to their husbands. In 2011 I moved out to their city (they asked me to), and we were still close. Over the years though, they have gotten married/had kids, and the 4 of them are close (sisters, their husbands). They are always making the effort with each other to hang out etc, which is totally cool with me. However, its always me making the effort with them, such as I'm usually the one texting them if they want to hang out, and whenever we are in the room as a group, the 4 of them keep to themselves and whenever I try to converse with them its very short on their end. I have made them aware of this issue, and where I stand! I totally get they are busy with their lives but all I ask from them is for them to make an effort with me as well, to meet me half way, alas they haven't. Last weekend was the boiling point for us- I sent them a txt saying I was done making the effort with them and if they want me in their lives they can contact me, they both said "ok" and that was that. My question here- It's been a week since their last text. Will I ever hear from them again? Or should I let all hope go?

I was in the car with her in the parking lot of her campus when her friends called her on the phone so that they could meet up but everytime her friend was saying something she seemed like she didn't care at all. She's very introverted and a bit anti social. It's hard for her to find friends that she likes since she finds everyone annoying except for me...for now. 

I'm a 14 year old girl and a freshman in high school. I'm best friends with a couple of other girls in my class. The three of us are inseparable and get along really well. The thing is, I have to give them money in order for them to talk to me and be my friend. It's their "rule". If I don't give them my lunch money or something, they won't talk to me or hang out with me at all, and they'll even threaten to hurt me if I try to talk to them without paying them. At the beginning of the school year, one of them kicked me, which hurt for days, because I didn't pay them but tried to talk to them. I can't help it! My mom packs my lunches some days, so I have no money to give them. I really miss them when they won't talk to me! I give them my lunch money as much as I can. If you're wondering, I don't starve or anything. I usually eat something when I get home because I usually have no money for lunch because of these friends I have. Anyways, I overslept this morning, so I didn't have time to have breakfast. I was starving during the school day, so I HAD to buy myself lunch. I couldn't give my lunch money to my friends. I told my friends my situation, and they just said "You know the rule! Pay up or you can't hang out with us. Now get lost!". Please help me guys! These two girls are my only friends at school! I have no other friends I can hang out with! How can I get them to talk to me again? I feel really lonely right now because of this! I don't want new friends! I'm too attached to these girls!

I have Moon Leo conjunct Leo ASC, Moon Leo trine Venus Sag, Venus Sag trine Mars Aries, Venus Sag trine Leo ASC, Pluto Scorpio square Leo ASC, Mars Aries trine Leo ASC, Saturn Sag trine Leo ASC, Sun Cap conjunct Mercury, Mars Aries square Neptune Cap. Sorry for the long list, just looking for detailed answers.

Told him i wanted a relationship, he didn't want that because he wants to have "fun". I made it VERY clear I'm not an option while he's playing the field and I've moved on. However he still watches me all day everyday and even mirrors my behavior. The things I like, he likes them too! It's like he wants me to notice that he's doing this. I still have feelings for him but I don't like games or being strung along. Why does the Scorpio man act like this?