Hello everyone. This one is interesting.  I am teeming with so many feelings, it's almost unreal. Where do I begin? Anywhere I guess I'll just start. So my significant others 'sister in law' does things that are very discomforting. She kisses him on the lips. Slaps his behind and over the phone says I love you baby. Wait? Am I confusing myself you may be wondering...no this real. Real. She's quite a bit older than him. She's 50, he's 34. She's known him since he was 16. Does this give means to this behavior? No. He calls her Mom. She isn't his Mom. In fact he has a Mom who's absolutely wonderful and acts like a Mom should.  Okay, so back to sister in law. She will come over unexpectedly, and he will get right up. He won't get up to help me with things, but as soon as she's over it's whatever she needs. Btw, she's a stay at home Mom. And has everything she possibly could want or need. So my significant other who didn't have a vehicle, just guess what! Got a car from them. And she calls frequently to see if he wants to borrow her sports car and motorcycle and help her with taking the cars in for routine check ups because she has the kids and all. We have a nine month old together. And I can't even get him to help me to put on my windshield wiper without him putting up an argument or complaining. So I said to him last night, I don't like that she does that it's creepy and weird and he got so upset! He said that's it I'm calling her this is rediculous. And did! And told her.wow And calls her on speakerphone in front of me. Like I get it maybe this family stuff you do, but talk with me about it. I couldn't believe he just called her like who cares about my feelings? Wow, I'm just like pretty much on the last straw here. I feel like I did the right thing speaking up, but how it was handled just blew me away. I don't like the situation and I guess I'm here to express myself. I am sad. I'm so sorry that I can't make him happy like she can and give him whatever he wants.