Girl who I now call my girlfriend joined a membership at my parents business, the membership fee is around 150 a month and she has never had a problem paying it. We have been dating for over a year and I am not sure if I should ask my parents if it's okay for her to stop paying cause I dont want to feel like my significant other is paying to have to go. On the other hand I dont want her to lose interest because all the sudden the classes are free to her. What should I do? Also She was just a student there for about half a year before we started dating.

He's dating again after several years later. Though he's concerned about what the girl will think if she finds out he's still a virgin. This is due to a traumatic event. It took him long time to move on. When he was 16, he saw his then HS (his then 1st love) girlfriend getting run over by a reckless driver and killed right in his face. At the time they were dating for 4 months but the girl wasn't ready for sex yet so he waited for her. She got killed and he wouldn't date for years till recently last month. He decided to finally take a chance but doesn't want the girl to lose interest. Eventually if things get serious between them, I a he would have to expl  I assume he would have to explain it all

My family came from the South and Central Europe. I am aware I don't look Anglo-Saxon, so won't be perceived as a White person in the United States. However, I really want to know what you guys think. Am I White to you?

In 2013/2014 that woman yelled at me cruelly for simply pacing back and forth in front of her office and jumping around while she's talking with someone. Instead of being nice and compassionate about it, she's not nice about it. Why? It's not like I've done that all of the time and it's not like I do it to deliberately annoy or irritate her. And she didn't even BOTHER apologizing for it. If I see her again, I wanna kick her @$$ for it. But you know what? Not only do I not want to be put in jail for a long time, being overpunished by a society that's corrupt itself, she's a former member of the service. And I don't feel like getting into it with her. Honestly, she should've suffered for that.

My husband is mad that our daughter's husband comes on every vacation with us. He said they are together too much and that she seems like she can't live without him. Should we start telling him that he can't come or is my husband over reacting

I'm a 30 year old male and my fiancée keeps abusing me when I asked her why she said the ex used to beat her up. I told her that I love her and that I would never do that she said ok but she keeps doing it. Is there anything I can do?

My girlfriend and I have been together for several years now and we love each other very much and I plan to propose to her soon. However, there is something that I keep battling with and would love insight from people that have been in similar situations before. My girlfriend and I get along about 90-95% of the time (I guess that is average?), and every now and then like all couples, we get into "fights." Most of the time it is worked out in a few hours and we are back on track, but... out of the the 5% when we do not get along, about 2% of that we get into extremely draining and horrible arguments that always result in us not talking for days. Without getting too much into the personal details, in our 7 years we have had a small handful of these arguments and the most recent was about a week ago. The argument escalates to the point where she wants to completely remove herself from the situation and storms out of the apartment crying and very upset. For some reason, as much as we try not to these arguments seem to occur during late hours and the overprotective part of me begs her not to storm out but she does not listen and continues to head for the door, which forces me to try to plead with her and stop her. The last time, I physically stopped her from leaving in the middle of the night but made things even worse. We are getting over it now but I feel like in the midst of the argument, I may have grabbed her arm harder than I wanted and accidentally left her a slight bruise.

1. Grown, physically abled younger person only ever helps out when asked, often with much persistence, (except on rare occasion and it is a personally pleasant, easy task like lawn mowing), pays no rent or money on utilities,  never cooks or helps with cleanup after being cooked for. Works part time and goes to online school. Neglects cat often and brings back borrowed cars on empty frequently. Changed oil 1 time. All other chores/ cleanup needed to prevent build up of filth/ disease/ sickness and bugs left on the shoulders of other residents who pay all bills and do the cooking and caring for pets. Dirt/ filth can pile up for weeks with zero intervention from person. Wears worn out skin tight clothes unless someone gives them new ones.  Person stays in room for hours daily and comes out for food.  2. Any attempt to address issue is met with anger,  stomping feet,  throwing things and/or yelling at the top of their lungs. So not only must other residents carry grown person's burden, they are not allowed to speak of it either. Addressing issue doesn't happen very often.   If this were your situation what would you do? Would the relationship to said person make a difference in your decision?