Lately the past couple of weeks I've been on a high in life. Very confident about things in my life. I've made some friends at work. People I can talk to and actually see myself continuing to talk to. I had dinner with former coworkers I've kept in contact with. I've been talking to some girls. Some of whom I'm friends with. And they actually seem happy to talk to me. Plus I'm doing ok in school. I mean my test was a 52 but if I can get better grades than that for the next few I'll be doing good (doing good on the homework). I used to be so depressed and hateful of things but lately I've been positive and realizing my own mistakes.

i have 2 friends. in very close to one of them lets call them D. The other one is B. B and D had a thing a little ago and some stuff happened and they broke it off. B blamed it all on D. but theres 2 sides to every story. I was talking to D and accidentally let slip that someone called him a **** person. and he asked who but i obviously cant say who. Its D's right to know since its about them but i cant betray B? D is really upset over this and i know D is already aware that B probably calls him that alot but still saying it might cause a problem between both of them. I barely talk to B and B and D never even look at each other. Im very close with D.. Should i tell D the name of the person or not?

I mean, I used to have joy but ever since losing my best friend, seeing people happy with all their friends and loved ones brings me pain because it reminds me of how happy I used to be and it hurts. I don't hate on them or try to bring them down. I'm happy for them, but I just hurt so much all the time. My best friend died in my arms. Before you hate on me for feeling lonely(**** you junebaby) I am in a financial tight spot and I have a pretty bad flu. I'm not a bad person, I've just been screwed over by all my other "friends".

I dont sleep around. I am just shy and it seems men are nicer to me. Lots of women seem either envious or just sont get close to me for some reaaon.

So my friend nathan is a smoker. I'm not. Sometimes we hang out and it really bothers me that I get to breath that smoke. Sometimes we hang out outside but when it rains or if it's cold we usually go to his house. He lives alone..I thought about hanging at my house but here there's other people and it's not really the best solution going at my house and we should all talk quietly... I wouldn't mind going at nathan's but it's that damn smoke.... I know lots of smokers with whom I'm much more closer than with him and they have the decency to just don't smoke when I'm with them. Nathan smokes..I thought about asking him not to smoke in my presence but at HIS house I think it would be sort of rude. After all he doesn't smoke when he's in my car.. what should I do? We're not close enough so that I can tell him 'dude knock that sh*t off" .. How shall I tell him that? I think it would be kind of rude. It's his house after all..I care about my lungs so I don't go there much anymore but I feel bad cause I'd still want to go.

My friend and I put A LOT of effort into an English project, and we did all of the work evenly between her and I. We created an original idea and hung out one day to work on it, it took a few hours and another day to complete. We have another girl in the group, she did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Not even give us a single idea. She knew since last weekend that she wouldn't have time to hang out, yet didn't remove herself from the group or offer to help in any other way. She had over a week to choose another group or do it herself, but didn't. I know it's mine and my partners fault but I kept the hope in me that she'd at least contribute with the making of our rubric, which she didn't. I don't think she even read the assignment. My friend and I were thinking of privately telling the teacher the situation, but I don't want to be that person. What should I do?

Like she will.go to her room ok, now I'm telling myself I get alone time to hear my records. She sneaks up on me and I think it was a ghost. It scares the crap out of me. I like to be alone sometimes too. She gets her feelings hurt, if I respond ticked off like "what"?  I said you snuck up on me. She lowers her head and goes away all depressed. Honestly I need space from her. She has really bad depression and its draining. We also live like hoarders. I hate it.  I did not snap

My roommate, who is a freshmen, (I'm an upperclassman) has been lying about drinking and smoking weed in our living room when I'm sleeping in the bedroom. She has boys over almost every night until 3am. I'm thinking this is just her being naive, but she goes out super late at night by herself. It's completely unsafe because she doesn't know a lot about campus yet. I've talked to her directly about the issues and she continues to lie about drinking, smoking, eating my food, and having people over. I can't get around it anymore and my resident assistant can't do anything about it either. Her parents call her almost every night to make sure she's home because she fakes her location on a life360 app. What should I do? I don't want her getting hurt and I don't want her bringing sketchy guys over. Is it wrong of me to get in contact with her parents? I feel like I'm dealing with middle school drama, but it's escalated because she's going to hurt herself.

she is suppose to be my best friend but she hates very much when i feel confidence and she always tries to put me down and convince me that i am ugly also What is her problem?? i cant understand.... I am always nice to her

He went from joking every so often to more and more and now it's every day. Describing the stuff and how much she farted. I don't even want to talk to this person anymore as there is mental illness here. What do I do??

I cannot really hang out because the subtitutes are by way of chat. There are so many people who are tacky and obscene and do not have any good ideas of how to be decent beings. (I am not trying to sexchat them) What are some good conversation topics?

Hi All, So I moved from Texas to California to get away from a bad relationship and clear my head. The plan was to give California two years and then go back to Texas as the majority of my family and friends are there. However, I met a guy in California who is very nice, and treats me with respect, and that is a great thing for me considering I was in an abusive relationship while I was in Texas. I was very happy and excited that things were going so well, but when I shared it with one of my close family friends, whose son I nannied for (that lives in Texas), she stopped talking to me. Why is this? It makes me feel bad, and she won't talk to me.

Hey, im a 16 year old girl. My best friend is 16 and his little brother is 14 and hes my other best friend.  I realized the last few weeks I have serious feelings for my best friend. Now, they live an hour away so I only see them once a month. The three of us are going to dinner next week and I intend on telling him then. I want to tell him, so badly, but here are some things holding me back. - one of my best friends is his ex -i dont think he likes me back -his brother would be there if i do this how do i get my best friend alone or how should i say it? because i dont want to call him because i should say it in person

I've been trying my hardest not to get into it with my baby's father other baby's mom but she's really irking my nerves. She's on facebook sharing my posts, posting pictures of her bruised eye etc. JUST trying to make me look bad. Now my friends are trying to be nosy adding her as a friend. I NEVER wanted to get into it with her because I know her *** is broke and miserable! Plus, it probably is true that my baby's (which is her baby's father) is physically abusing her. But, so? That's NOT my problem. Is she trying to embarrass me.? Now my friends probably isn't coming to my baby shower. Smh

There is this girl in my senior year who looks really lonely and sad. Every day I see her sitting alone at break and she looks really sad and just has her head down. I'm in 2 of her classes and she does the same thing there too, as well as when she is walking to class. I never see her with anyone, and I have heard her speak maybe twice in the past few months. I just get this weird vibe about her that is hard to explain. Not a bad one, just one that she needs help. I don't even know her but I just get this bad feeling.  I really want to say something to her, but I'm worried I will say the wrong thing and upset her. I have no idea what she is like. Maybe I am just worrying over nothing, idk... Any tips or similar experiences? Thanks :)

At work, a co-worker said we have a beautiful friendship that's growing stronger and that his favorite part of coming to work is seeing me. He said if everyone was asked I'd probably be everyone's favorite. We talked about possibly getting a place together just to watch movies, play music, video games, etc. and leaving our job for another one together.

Hey guys!! I'd been dealing with a problem with one of my old friends for a month now.. I feel like I kind of escalated it? For one, I am not sure exactly why he is no longer my friend. He always tended to keep things to himself, even when I tried to gradually encourage him to speak his mind more because he always let me speak mine. Things got very awkward between us when he started ignoring me, so I moved away from him at lunch until things cleared up. Next thing you know, my whole friend group moved away from him. I feel awful about that.. I didn't mean to drive anyone away from him. Now the table is completely empty. Even the girls who we didn't really know, but sat at the table is gone. I really have no clue what happened but I feel guilty. I no longer see him smile, he's always alone, and he always gives glances at me. I feel terrible! As a best friend, it was my role to make him feel important and loved. I did that as much as I could and I hate that he pushed me away from him. My friends believe that I should leave him alone, because I didn't deserve that. Another group of my friends want me to settle things with him because they believe he misses us. I feel as if I shouldn't have distanced myself from him so soon.. how can I fix this? Should I speak to him?  He's been sitting with his friends that he doesn't necessarily talk too, and is very quiet around. The guilt has been eating me up so much recently. I don't know what the next step is. I fear that if I try to speak to him, he's gonna try to act like "he doesn't need anybody" which he clearly does. He's done it before, I don't know how to handle situations like this, especially when I'm not the one who caused it. But there's an obvious problem, just don't know what's been going on.  He was a wonderful friend. He was sweet, funny, laid back, he showed he appreciated me with passion. Although, he's very prideful. He'd do something wrong but would refuse to fix it. He's done that many times before. He's made things worst than he should and instantly regret it, but act like things are going good. That's what's worrying me, he wouldn't express how he feels but I can see it in his facial expressions. Idk why he did this.

Hey, im a 16 year old girl. My best friend is 16 and his little brother is 14 and hes my other best friend.  I realized the last few weeks I have serious feelings for my best friend. Now, they live an hour away so I only see them once a month. The three of us are going to dinner next week and I intend on telling him then. I want to tell him, so badly, but here are some things holding me back. - one of my best friends is his ex -i dont think he likes me back -his brother would be there if i do this how do i get my best friend alone or how should i say it? because i dont want to call him because i should say it in person

I meet one of my best friend´s wife last summer in a vacation on a Disclosed location , the first thing she did was disrespect my countries national sport , and pretty much most of the times kept rolling her eyes  , and pretty much had a bossy attitude , she just seemed annoyed by me , How can i make our next encounter less awkward?