Ideally I'd like to hear from other women, but I've been friends with a married woman for a number of years, when I'd talk about my dating experiences or even post pictures on social media she would say things like "If I wasn't married, I'd be all over you." In the last couple months she and her husband have apparently gotten a divorce, and while we've been just friends I'm interested in her. I know the pressure is usually on guys to make the first move, is it worth seeing what happens or did I read too much into what she said? Thanks again!

I try to explain myself communicating and he thinks I'm arguing or being difficult 

She never explains to me why I never seen him or pictures of him. It was something she confessed to me after she discovered she is pregnant with me. I'm hispanic and both them are white. She and her husband got blonde hair and I got black hair.  Is it doable to get a DNA test while she is still pregnant? If it turns out I am the father, I told her we could try to work this out but she will have a long way to go to earn my trust. Now I will be known as the scumbag who plowed another man's wife. How long will it take to fix all this mess?

Few months ago my husband told me he doesn't want to have children with me. It was a big surprise for me because we discussed it prior getting married. It was one of the reason I married him, honestly. Since his confession I can't stop thinking about leaving him. It's on my mind all the time and I can't do anything about it. Something shut down inside of me. Should I share my feelings with him?

My husband called me a dummy, in a jokingly way, and my 3 year old step son heard it. Later, the 3 year old called his mom  a dummy and she ask why. He said, "my dad calls my step mom a dummy all the time." My husband was laughing when he told me this, but it truly hurt me when he called me that. Should I think it's funny too? That a 3 year old said that? I don't think it was. 

She is always on this site. She talks about her apparent 'husband' and four kids. However, if that information was true, how would she have the time to constantly be on this website? Does her 'hubby' take care of the kids while she sits of her butt all day answering questions about pets and sex? Who is she anyways? I assume some troll.

I have an unborn child with my ex wife and I dumped her once I found out she was pregnant with my son. I got remarried to another woman and it's been 3 months since I left my ex. My ex wife has been trying to call me on my phone asking me to come back to help take care of her and our baby but I have been declining every attempt she has made to get in touch with me. I think she should just abort it and get it over with so I can move on with my life. I need peace in my life.

My husband and I were meeting his ex wife and husband to pick up kids. His ex wife is currently pregnant and my husband points at her belly and says, "what's going on there?" I don't know why, but it made me feel weird. Should it? We all 4 get along, so I guess he was just making small talk. 

I am a woman. I've been unsure of wanting children my entire life. I'm 24 now and looking to find someone to marry. The subject of children would be an important decision to make up my mind about before I find a mate. I don't have that innate maternal instinct or desire like the rest of my friends. I'm actually extremely awkward with kids. I like the idea of having children, but when push comes to shove (pun intended) I'm not sure if I have what it takes. Kids are super expensive and emotionally draining. I've noticed what fluctuates my desires. When I get emotional I tend to want children, but when I think logically I want nothing to do with them. How can I firmly make up my mind about this? Is there some decision making process I need to go through?

I mean, the person who was cheated on didn't ask for or deserve to lose out on time with their kids. 

for starters, my husband is not the biological father to his ex wife's daughter. She brought this child into their marriage and then they conceived a son together. The ex wife ran off on drugs and left her child with her parents (the grandparents). My husband has full custody of their son. I have a wonderful relationship with him. The grandparents decided we should get her every other weekend. I am in no way asking for advice on how to change this, more so to change my mind into having an ability to deal with it. I am struggling to form a relationship with her, and have been since the beginning. I can not wrap my mind around why these grandparents want to drop her off every other weekend, other than convenience for them to have a kid free weekend. They never ask for their grandson on the other weekends. They never see him except for on Christmas. I'm frustrated with the whole situation. 

L et's empty the bag of tricks here and now.  No advice considered too extreme! What have you had to do in order to make it  INTERESTING for yourself and your husband? The till death can be a very long time for the usual bland and predictable marriage. So bland.  These can't possibly be the secrets to marriage till death.  I already do all these things. I have all of you beat hands down in: 1) creativity 2) the bedroom 3) life achievement You know my technique to keep things interesting? I'm always on the brink of crazy.  It makes things unpredictable even for myself. You guys are such a snore. Try harder marrieds!  Pretend you gonna die tomorrow!  What haven't you done yet?

Ok ladies, I'm gonna be nice moving forward.  No more disparaging remarks about the past. Anyhow the castle near where I live is throwing a masquerade ball and the wife is signing us up for it.  It's rather pricey to weed out the riff raff, hood rats, and other undesirables. Have you and your husband ever attended?  Where did you pick up your costumes?  And what to expect at an event like this? I'm actually looking forward to this! And that is all.  See no negative commentary! Maybe I can ask the fairy godmother!

She was recently sent to accompany her boyfriend's cousin's wife to a grocery store because the wife isn't allowed to go out by herself as her abusive ex-boyfriend her husband's older brother has promised to kill her and other family members. While in the store they almost ran into him but the wife saw him 1st and fled with my daughter who froze. My daughter was terrified and shouldn't have been put in the situation. This family is known racist, the wife is black barely 22 who married into it when she was 18, was knocked up back to back 3 times with pregnancies that nearly killed her, dated the abuser underage, and I don't want my daughter involved in this circus. Her boyfriend is a nice kid but his family is the problem. The 22 YO came over and apologized for frightening my daughter and she was like an angel on earth but I explained to her and my daughter's boyfriend that I don't want my daughter involved. I feel awful for the 22 YO as she's so young, beautiful, kind, and trapped with these people and I don't want that for my daughter. 

As comparing with past experiences is a natural human thing?

I have been with my fiancée for the past 6 years. Everything has been great and we've been extremely happy together. Anyways about 3 years ago I was out and extremely drunk and I may have cheated on her. This thought never even crossed my mind until a friend brought up a night from 3 years ago. I'm not sure if anything happened that night and I can't tell if I cheated since it's so long ago and at this point I have no recollection of what happened. I guess my question is, should I tell my girlfriend. 3 years ago I don't recall feeling guilty about anything and I don't remember cheating but for some reason a thought has manifested itself in my mind. I keep thinking what if something happened. Should I tell my fiancée, please need advice 

They talk constantly on the phone. (Not around me) I check his phone log from time to time. And recently I found out that she's in our phone plan without telling me about it ... and also I found out that he sometimes sent her money while we are struggling to pay some bills. Now I am 10 weeks pregnant..always nausea throughout the day so i have no energy to confront him right now .. what should I do?

My girlfriend has never shared her phone passcode with me? She does allow me to use her phone GPS when we go far away places and leaves it on my car window. We do watch movies with her phone and she allows me to choose them. She does leave her phone in the couch when she showers. We spend most of our time together and she never misses a family party. When we had a flat tire once I once checked her call logs and there were just my calls. Should I bring suspicion up if I don't know her passcode? That's the only problem? She never bothers me about mine?

Disclaimer: None of you are doctors and she refuses to see one so all I have to go off of is what your opinions are. My wife is an odd person. I love her, but she's odd in how she handles things. She tells me her parents raised her to be a "proper lady" which involves manners, posture, beliefs, class awareness, and Christian morals. I don't know what this means at all tbh, I've spent 18 years trying to understand it. But she's very odd with her ideas/approach to a relationship with me. Here's what I mean: She thinks sex is only for making babies and has no sexuality at all. None.. She will read a book on how to fix a problem and do everything according to the book but will dismiss anything that doesn't follow the book exactly the way it was written (example: parenting, homemaking, friendships, marriage, sex, etc). Basically deviation from script isn't allowed.. She has a very childish personality to her and will do things that little kids will do, like send me childish photos on Snapchat when she could use the sexy ones since we're married and she could sext with me.. She prefers looking "cute" over "pretty" and she has baby syndrome with small animals (we own a bearded dragon) and even talks to it like she would a baby.. She has low tolerance for debate and makes everything about the books she's read (she needs better books).. She doesn't care about her looks but gets mad when you call her out for not caring.. She's 38 but she acts 15 sometimes and 65 other times...

i have a aunt who married a man that she has been with for about 5 years. One day me and my sister were searching through the sex registered list and he appeared on the list! he was there for rape tier 4 and served 7 years in prison. I asked my mother about this and she admitted that yes he did serve time and that she knew. fast forward to a family gathering i hosted, i made it clear that my aunt was not to bring her husband if she wanted to attend. That i did not feel safe nor felt safe for the children. She got upset and said he did his time and that was in the past and that it was not his fault ect. with all of these excuses. Now it got back to her husband and when i see my aunt he does not speak to me. i at least try to say hello but he refuses to speak to me which is fine but im wondering was i wrong? How should i handle future gatherings? 

Ladies just curious to know have you ever felt physically attracted to another man other than your husband?.Could be a mutual friend, coworker, husbands friend, client?. How did that go?

Or boys family has to approach girls family with marriage proposal or both ways ? What happens to boys who keep quiet and don't search for proposals ?

My husband and I have been married for 7 years, together for 10. Last summer, my husband &I got into a heated argument while on vacation with his parents. Ever since, we ve been trying to work through our differences & move on. Sadly, our argument still gets brought up & now his parents say "we are not invited" to their vacation this year, because of me. They are not fond me & my demeanor & they think I treat my husband poorly...which I really don t - they don t see the half of it. My husband is REALLY BIG on family - always has been. So, by his parents telling him this has put a damper on OUR relationship to the point that divorce may be in store for us. Me personally, I don't care if they don't like me - I don't live to please them...but my husband, I care for & want to see happy. When I am around them, it feels awkward. His parents are so nice to my face, but then I hear about this later on.  I despise two-faced people & I would rather confront this head on like adults.  But, my husband says "words mean nothing to them - actions only" -- so if I show them I'm all happy-go-lucky & everything's fine (WHEN IT'S CLEARLY NOT) - then what good does that do? I don't like pretending everything is peachy when I know how you really feel. My husband says "they don't hate you, but they don't like the things you do". I do truly love him and I know he loves me. I just want his family LEFT OUT of our marriage. HOW CAN I CONVINCE HIS PARENTS I'M NOT A HORRIBLE PERSON ?

In the long run the shorter guys could be doting and loving,but would a taller wife want something a little better than fun size?.And in that case, have you pursued something behind hubbies back? or regretted the decision.I know most women are short, but there seems to be loads of taller women who are married to avg sized men and i,m not sure how satisfied they are.

My mom's 39 and there's no easy way to say this but she's very good looking. All my life I've heard it from my friends how "hot she is". She's middle eastern and looks like Salma Hayek but with even fuller lips and same body. Her and my dad have been married 18 years and he was her first time for everything. Their marriage was arranged when they were young and still in Lebanon. But lately I notice that EVERY time me and my mom are out in public and men of a specific look walk by, she gets all nervous and starts fixing her hair and tries looking her best. These men are always black, fit/muscular, and usually dark-skinned. I'm 17, I can tell when a woman is checking someone out. She always checks out handsome black guys around her age when my dad isn't there. Another thing, her phone's search history usually has the Kim K adult video with Ray J. Why is she always looking this up? Kim is middle eastern too! Interracial romance is normally forbidden or frowned upon in our community despite being Christian. So she never dated outside her race and she's been in the US since 20 yrs old and never even had time to date. Even if she thought of dating a black man her family would've disowned her no question. But now that she's grown with her own life I'm scared that she's lusting after something she's never experienced, especially since black men have always been forbidden fruit to her. Do you guys think my mom is faithful? I feel like women always want what they can't or couldn't have.

i have this new friend. i haven't had a female friend in years due to my last best friend secretly liking my husband and flirting with him behind my back. My husband exposed her and ever since then i have been suspicious of any female friend. Its now to the point where i don't know if im traumatized because of that i dont trust this new friend, or if i really have a reason to raise red flags.  so this new friend saw my husband at the bar around my home one night. I never introduced them two, but from seeing pictures of us on Facebook, she recognized him and called me. She said "your husband is here, i asked him if he was your husband, he said yeah, hes over here with a friend." i said thanks for letting me know." right then i start to feel uneasy as to why she would try to conversate with him while i was not there and i had not introduced them. But i brushed it off as being paranoid. Then my husband tells me this "i was talking to mike at the bar and your friend walks up to us and looks me up and down. then she walks back to where she was. then after a few minutes she walks back up to us and asks me if i was your husband. i say yes and she introduces herself. i said nice to meet you and i turn back to continue talking to mike. While im talking to mike, she just stands there. For a while at that, to the point mike is giving me a weird look as to why she doesn't leave. finally she walks off. so my question is, was this inappropriate of her?  about 1 week later she asks me to go out. i said i cant because sundays are for my husband. she says "he can come". i say no he can not. she asks why not? i said because that will take away from our girl time. she says "i dont want him to think that we are hiding anything or that i dont want to be around him". i said he doesnt bring your name up, your fine. But that made me very uneasy. i dont know if its because of my past that i feel this way, please help. she is also sleeping with a married man which concerns me more

I hated my neighbor, because he cheated on his wife, whom mom and I really love, and he passed away weeks ago after a long illness. Our neighbor says she's not happy at all, but maybe due to my immaturity, I was amazingly happy when he died. 

To crave attention  His real mom gave him up because she was not ready to be a mom. Her sister took care of my husband For his life  It's crazy because I really do try to spend as much time as I possibly can with him but whenever I ask him it's always some excuse and he's always running upstairs. It's only so much attention I can give him. I don't know how to make him happy. I TRY to talk to him and try to spend time but he still doesn't ever seem happy and is always snappy when he's not center of attention. He's very cold and makes a lot of rude comments when someone else seems to be gettting recognized or attention  I want him to get into therapy to help cope with this because it's only so much I can do to make him happy. If he's not happy with himself he can't be happy in a marriage. He claims he doesn't want to pay for therapy. Said he doesn't believe in therapy.

Our son got engaged a couple of months ago but prior to that they had already been living together for about two years. Both are in their mid 20's. I think our son is doing great especially since most young men his age struggle to even get a small apartment. They have their own house which is quite nice, it's very spacious and luxe. My son has his own car, they both have great credit, no debt, he has a great paying job that he loves. But he really has always had a great head on his shoulder. He's always been quite responsible and always had a go getter attitude. His fiancé is a wonderful person as well and she is equally as ambitious. Always extremely respectful to us and the family. This is why I can't understand the rude attitude my husband always. It's really starting to irrihtate me. Anyways on to my point - I was telling my husband how nice it was to have all of our kids together under one roof again since they are adults and doing their own thing and have their own life and work and college . It was nice to be able to go on vacation with everyone and spend quality time. And my husband mentions about how he thinks our son probably didn't want to go since he just recently got engaged. Then he goes " I don't like all that shacking up he doing." And I told my husband " sweetie he's an adult and paying his own bills. Why does it bother you." And then my husband goes on and on about how our son is so in love with his fiancé and I was like " of course he is. Should he hate her We went to New York on vacation the whole family and my husband said to me " I really didn't want our son's fiancé there. I just wanted it to be the family." And I said " she is part of the family. They are about to get married." And he said " they are not married yet"  I was like" she basically is. You're being so rude right now. If she heard what you're saying about her right now she wouldn't even wanna be apart of this family anymore." Keep in mind this is the first time we've had her on vacation anyways because it's normally just the kids 

I have Wal-Mart Family Mobile $42.99 a month pre paid no extra fees if I were in a standing relationship why in the hell would I get a plan with a 2 year company when pre paid is so cheap 

Is that a thing? Any time I ovulate, my husband wants to be all over me like an animal, but any other time he isn't like that. It's like he can sense it.

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