I had a baby last year and I was promised that if I lived in with my partners in laws we would have our own living room, two bedrooms and a toilet. Shared kitchen and  bathroom which would help us save for a home of our own. I agreed. And for over a year I have stayed in the bedroom as the house is very hoarded and there is just no sorting it. I have tried to help sort it but every time I do it leads into huge arguments.  Being in a dark room for all this time with a new born has truest been hard. I feel like I tread on egg shells. I can't relax either I sit on the edge of the sofa and some days I would sit in the car if my partner wasn't home. Our daughters room I cleared out whilst heavily pregnant and then had to put the stuff back and then had to do it again. I just struggle to cope. I cry all the time, and my parents would have me back like a shot but it would mean my partner wouldn't sacrifice to live with my family in such a smaller home. I really don't know what to do anymore? I'm sick of saying I'll go, I've walked out before. But deep down I know I won't feel better until I've moved out it's just dealing in the mean time? I'm petrified of my daughters safety and I really don't know what is best 

I understand a lot of you ugly m*therf*ckers are slow in the head, but I'm F*cking that you pieces of scum think that it's ok for someone to do porn as a means of living. As if getting a Regular g*ddamn Job Is that f*cking bad? Like what's wrong with you people and your way of thinking? This type of thinking is the reason why I'm so hateful to you people. You pieces are crap have NO morals and no f*cking control. I was the person who posted the question asking was my uncle wrong for cutting his daughter off and literally EVERYONE said he was wrong and that Porn is a good way to make a living. If you think that then I'm begging you to go commit suicide. And don't threaten to flag me, this YAHOO! No one takes yahoo's i seriously. I have thousands of followers on IG and Twitter, you know the sites where state's actually matter. I'm just disgusted with the level of trolling you people are doing 

I recently bought a car with a bank loan...so, I am making payments every month. I trusted my mom and step-dad to "keep my keys hidden" and no one drives it while I am at University. I live 4 hours away and I recently got a call from my aunt saying that my brother was driving my car. I confronted my mom and him...basically, his girlfriend (who has a child with him) left him. So, he needs a car to take my nephew places in case of Emergency. I know my brother. He has gotten fired from numerous jobs after a month of working, he drives recklessly, and he uses his "depression" as his excuse. Is it my responsibility as a sister to allow my older brother to drive my car for the next 3 months? Although he said he will give me $100 each month, I do NOT trust him. Should I make plans to go back home and park it here at college?

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Weight has always been a struggle for her. My husband and I have always tried to help her to get on a healthier path. We had a falling out about it a few months ago, essentially her telling us to back off and let her deal with it. Since this fight, she's just continued to pile on weight and looks to be at her heaviest. We don't want to go about this the wrong way, so, what is the best way to do this? She's 16, I'd guess in the 220s

My Uncle has a daughter who started doing amateur porn back 2018. My uncle ALWAYS gave my cousin money, but it seemed like she started doing this to be rebellious. I understand it's her body, but why disgrace your family like this? It's like she expects for him to automatically agree with her bad decision making. I can understand if her father wasn't in her life and never helped her but he was ALWAYS been there for his 2 kids. She is currently 20 years old and he hasn't talked to her In over 1 year. This embarrassed him so badly and I can tell it hurt him to the core. I heard my uncle talking to my grandmother the other day and we saying he failed as a father. Do you agree with his decision, or is tough love the answer? I actually agree with him cutting her off to be quite honest.  I've noticed that I NEVER agree with any of the questions posted by Level 7's. I'm starting to think you guys are professional trolls or something. You way of thinking seems to never me logical. Something is definitely weird about the people on this site, something is off. 

My mum passed away a couple years ago from cancer. I now have a 4 month baby with my boyfriend. It kills me that my son will never know the amazing grandma that he would've had, my mum would've been so involved in his life and was such an amazing woman.  My boyfriend's mum is a bit odd, she has addiction issues and is a bit uncomfortable to be around as she is slightly brain damaged too (long story) but never the less I'm always polite and civil when I have to be around her. But I just HATE seeing her with my baby son. I can't bare to watch her give him kisses and cuddles and call him 'my baby' and 'nana's boy' etc. I just hate it. I go to some family events or sometimes go to her house when she invites us over for Sunday dinner but a lot of the time I just feel bitter and angry that my mums not here and his mum is the woman who my child will now know as his grandmother and not my mum. That she gets to see my kids grow up and my mum doesn't. I'll admit I'm very angry and bitter. Who wouldn't be Is it normal to feel this way and is it just part of grief? Will it get easier? I just hate seeing them together. Of course I know there's nothing I can do, she is my child's grandmother too but I just don't like to be around it and only be around her when I have to be. It kills me seeing her cuddle him and spend time with him. I just wish my mother was here too, it's not fair. 

I am a 25 year old single guy with a 15 year old niece, my sister' daughter Pam. I like Pam and think she is a very nice person. Pam ask me to take her to a high school function and I said OK if it was OK with her mother and she understood IT WAS NOT A DATE. Her mom was OK with it and Pam said she knew it was not a date. It was just friends having fun. Pam ask me to do this 3 more times. We all had fun doing this but nothing romantic happened as I would not do ANYTHING romantic with a 15 year old girl especially my niece. However Pam's mother ask me to stop taking Pam anyplace. I told her OK but I ask why? She told me I was so nice to Pam the she would develop a crush on me. I don't think she would but just to be on the safe side I agreed not to take Pam anyplace in the future. It looks like Pam's mother did not tell her she ask me to stop taking Pam places because Pam called again asking me to take her to another school function. When I told her I could no longer do that she was very mad a her mother and ask me to talk to her mother and explain that it was just friends having fun together NOT ROMANTIC. I am not sure I should talk to her mother about that. Should I?

My father passed away when I was 9 years old , after he passed my mom received a check every month for 900.00$ , until I turned 18. Most of my childhood she did not work , she collected that check and food stamp assistance . So she would use the check for me , her , and my brother that she had with another man . My grandparents bought me most of my clothes , school supplies , etc . I'm now 21 and just learning that I could have continued receiving the check MYSELF if I had notified them that I was attending college etc.  Would she be responsible to owe any of the money back to me ? Seeming how it wasn't really spent on me or my needs most of the time ? I know it may seem petty but in that time it's over 60,000$ I never really saw . ( my father had other children with another woman , they each received a portion of theirs every month from their own mother )  She IS NOT currently on food stamps  Once she stopped getting the check then she decided to get a job & now works to support her and my brother .  I lived with her on and off because it was always toxic and my grand parents were the ones buying my clothes , shoes , paying for my phone , etc  I also started working at the age of sixteen as soon as I was able to and supported myself until I turned 18! 

I've been talking to someone for two months and soon we are going to meet up. I am going there. My mum has had to pay a huge amount of money to allow me to get the train there and what's got my back up slightly is not even a thank you. Not even saying tell your mum thanks. Maybe he will thank my mum on the day? If he doesn't, is this a clear sign he is thoughtless and just a user? I know I may be jumping ahead but not even a thank you to my mum who has very kindly paid over 100 quid to get me to see this bloke..! Does this seem one sided? Should I give it a chance. I always thought it should be 50/50. I just got out of another relationship not so long back with someone extremely thoughtless, someone very tactless constantly making hurtful comments and took the piss out of my mothers wallet, it was all one sided and everything was to revolve around them and I am fearful of a repeat. Am I paranoid. Or is this a worrying sign it will be a repeat of it being one sided and thoughtless?

I want to be better than her and almost everybody's on my side. Even my mother who enables her evil ways admits that I'm better than my sister. She even calls my sister an ***

I'm 13 years old. My little brother pissed me off yesterday and I slapped him in the face. Now I feel guilty. Should I let get a free slap on me?

I'm 20, my brothers 28 and he's now engaged. He's been with his fiancée for 3 years now. I don't talk to her, nor talk to them because they are always together and I'm not fond of her. She's so comfortable with my family and she's always giving me stuff and trying to do things but I don't want to.  Not too long ago my brother texted me saying "If I don't start showing respect to his fiancée I won't be close to him" He's never really been a good big brother to me especially when she came in the picture. I was pretty much non existent and whatever she says goes. My mom said my brother called her about it too because it bothers him. He's my brother not her? Why do I have to act like this girl is family? Or be "cool" with her?  If he wants to cut me off it's because of her?

I heard from some people that some of their relatives copy everything they do, like they cook or do something their relative went and does the same. One friend told me when she got pregnant her cousin also got pregnant on purpose also. I mean I heard about these things couple times before but why some people get pregnant on purpose just because another person Pregnant? 

Hi I am a 17 year old guy and my sister is 12. However, I've got a dwarf disability so my height is only 3'7 However, my younger is so much taller than me and is 6'5. Also she is so much stronger than me. The doctors said she might reach 6'10. She takes advantage of all of this. She bullies me and mocks my height and beats me badly everyday. The thing is though I love her more than anything in the world and I admire everything about her. She is sooo beautiful and i think she is sexy and I hav a massive crush on her. She knows I think this about her. But she hates me the most in the world. She sometimes threatens to kill me using her bear hands and Ik she is more than capable of doing this. Also, she makes me hard on purpose and then exposes me and then puts me in a headlock and doesn't let go until I admit that I am a pervert and I fancy my sister, which I do say. Tbh I don't mind being a lot weaker and shorter than my sister, I actually prefer it this way. Ik you'll think it's weird but I actually love and enjoy having a younger sister that beats me badly, humiliates and dominates me, makes me sumbit to her, be her slave and get bullied by her. Should I just live life like how I'm doing or try to change things?

I was sitting on the couch working on a book about me being overseas captured as a POW. My brother is 40 I am 23 he has never worked a day in his life. I am currently also a college student we both live under my parents roof. I'm nearly done with college and work part time but since my capture I have not been able to. I only work on my studies. My mother told him to move his friends truck in our yard, it was simply not allowed. He came into the living room where I was sitting very hostile I felt saying, "IT WAS YOU WHO SAID SOMETHING DIDN'T YOU? I said, "NO". Then it spun out of control with him looking very angry. I finally said, "What is your problem?" In my mind it's nothing more than a simple task my mother asked of him. He said, "you, you ruined my life." I replied, "are you serious?" It then.. got very bad quickly..Finally I said, "you're a 40 year old man living in a shed with no job, who's probably on drugs." And he called me a punk shortly after. And was talking about how I was a danger to my mother for behavior when I was a 13 year old boy I did pretty dumb things but I grew up.. and he still is on about it. And my mother knows this. I said, I was a 13 year old boy then! I'm a grown 23 year old man now! ARE YOU CRAZY MAN? Over and over.. he looked like he was about to hit me too. I wouldn't put it pass him either. He looked me dead in the eye and goes, I'M NOT PLAYING WITH YOU BOY. I said.. I've seen things over seas this doesn't scare me none of it. And he left. He is still here as well.. how should I handle this?

For years I've hoped I'm adopted. I've hoped I might find another family that loves me more thus my birth family. It turns out I am not adopted as I did ancestry.com and I am a blood relative to both parents. The reason for the hope is while my parents love me I've always been second right to my siblings. My older sister was a dancer and she got all the fame. My brother was the only boy in the family so he was special and my younger sister was the youngest child and she's the golden one who gets whatever she wants. I've always been the black sheep is at fault if there's a conflict. I'm the only one who's divorced and I was never particularly attractive. Times when there's a sibling conflict I'm always the one at fault. For example at the family cottage in the summer my sister was allergic to cats so I had to go sleep in the barn with my cat. There's not even a Bathroom in there so I had to bring a piss jar. I understand when my sister is visiting for the two weeks she comes up with her son I should do this, but not to be sent there for the whole summer. I was sent out there though for the whole summer because of the cat. Meanwhile special accommodations were made so my other sister, the gold one, could stay in the house. I was told to leave while she was there since she doesn't like me. So anyway this all hurts a lot because I'm the black sheep. I had long hope that I was adopted since I look different from everybody and seem to act different with the games the family plays. Yet I did the DNA and I am biological and I'm so disappointed I even cried.   So how do I get over this hurt and disappointment that I am not adopted and indeed my parents are the ones who see me as second rate to my siblings?

Long story short my wife left her ex husband for me and i always supported my kids emotionally spirtually and financially and they love me and i have grown to love them but my step kids biological dad seems to hate me though he just glares at me angrily he would refuse to attend events when me and my wife would come he would ask my kids to refer me as that guy he also said "you are the cause of the break up you are a horrible step father go kill yourself" that is not the worst of all he would try to sabotage my relationship with my step kid s i always loved his kids like there my own and their dad would tell them not o listen to me just because i have no relation to them this is not a troll what do i do?

 She graduated high school in 2014, and basically, her life stopped. She never tried to go to college or find a job. Our mom is pissed, but she won't do anything to change the situation. We try to talk with her, but she always changes the subject, gets rude or silent. I tried, but don't understand her at all. She is 26, antisocial, with no degree or work experience, and it seems like she doesn't want to change things in her life. I do wanna help her, but as a college student myself I find it difficult to have time. And I have my own life to live, right? If she at least would find a job, and help mom with rent or rent her own flat, would be better that sitting around with her phone in hand. Is here any hope for a person like this or we should accept that she's gonna become homeless when mom passes away? :"[

My mom never let me see my friends because it's "dangerous out there". I asked to go to the mall when I was a little younger but my mom watch's the stupid asś news so much that she thinks there's a shooting there everyday. I'm never allowed to go anywhere ever. I'm not allowed to live my teen life to the fullest because her favorite word is no. I'm sick of it. Everyone else I know can go anywhere and have fun and be actual trends while I'm stuck at home. I can't wait until I'm 18 so I can go where ever without her saying no.

Say if a guy gets a really strong b*ner, and it happens in front of his mother. And because of what he was wearing, whether it be basketball shorts, pajamas, or even just his shirt and boxers, and knows she notices it. It's happened to me a couple times and tell you the truth, no it's not embarrassing if it's just her. Mostly because she knows it happens and knows what it is, that's just my view on it.

I don't why my mom & dad are still together. They argue pretty much everyday.

For a month I've been sleeping in a room that smells like old musky weed ashes and the room is small and I've been staying in there for long periods of time and I'm now 12 weeks. It's my sisters room she leaves her bong out and ashes out in dresses and her unburned weed and I'm upset it's all I can smell she doesn't smoke it by me but I feel like it stays in her room and my kids going to come out with problems because that's where I always I am  She also smokes in a certain jacket and leaves that jacket in the room 

My parents went to a doctor's clinic to get help for my mom. Both of my parents came back very upset with me because of something certain employees told them. My parents both state that these women claimed that I called into the clinic and stated that 'my mother doesn't want to work anymore.' The way my parents framed it suggests that I was calling my mother very lazy. My parents also claimed that it was three female employees who all claimed to have heard me say it, and they all laughed.  I did call in a day earlier to get info about extending her temp disability. My mother is not in any shape to work. I might have stated it wrong, due to the fact that I am not very good at phone conversations, but I never called to insult my mother. I talked to a female operator, left a voice message, and it was a male employee that called me back. He understood me perfectly and told me exactly what I needed to do to reapply for disability.  My question is how do three women claim to have heard me call my mother 'lazy' when the only person I discussed the information with was a man? Also, why did they laugh when they told my parents? Even if what I said was true, and it is not, I don't see what is so funny about it. I don't appreciate these people trying to pit me against my parents. Can I do something about it?

Everyday my parents argue. They'll just randomly start arguing. I'm tired of hearing the yelling.

My dad hates my boyfriend whom I've  been together almost 1 1/2 years. Somethings I can understand on certain things where he is coming from, but there's no changing my dads mine even on the best things about him.  My dad judges everything about him. The one thing about my dad is he's extremely old school, and some say more than old school.   My boyfriend will spend the night at my apartment, and my dad thinks it's wrong. A couple should not spend the night together unless married. It doesn't matter it you are 16, or 116 it's wrong.  My dad also doesn't like the fact a lot of times when we have went out we went to the bar. I live in a town that there is nothing to do but go the bar unless you count the movies or bowling. Unless you drive or they have an event going on.  My boyfriend wants us to hopefully get a place together this summer. We are together pretty much every weekend. So it makes sense to him, and he thinks it be easier to save up, and get married.  I won't get help from my dad, and he can't depend on his mom. It 100% falls on us, ans that's okay. My dad would flip with us living together. He hates when my boyfriend is simply here. We live together I don't know what we would do.  My friends all think I need to step away from my dad for a while. I don't want to do that, but it's so hard. 

Most the family dislikes her and all in my parents dislike her other then 1 aunt who roots for the under-dog no matter what. So I know I am better then her as everyone likes me and yet she still is a very cruel person and so it hurts when she says her cruel words. Also we have cousins who are younger so they don't know how horrible she is and so are nice to her. I fear she may sway their minds against me since they won't know to see through her insults and lies. So how do I shake off this hurt when my sister hurts me? I want to leave our parents out of it if I can since we are young adults and not little kids. Are parents dislike my sister obviously cause of her horrible ways but they still love her since it is their daughter so they kind of have to.

Most of my childhood during the summer, I had to go to summer school or some type of summer activity. All I wanted was to watch TV and play video games. I only had one free summer out of my school years. When school's out, so why can't kids chill out at home without their parents being all soccerly all of the sudden?

They also don't trust my friend but we've been living in a dorm together for the past year and nothing has happened.  My scholarships cover housing both on and off campus and it is enough to cover the majority of the payments and I make enough to pay off the rest on my own. I'm not worried about the financial aspect. I'm worried about seeming disrespectful when I just want to gain some independence.

My Facebook friends often post memorials when a grandparent or other family member dies. Do I post that or is that tacky? I know my mother, his daughter, hates social media so should I ask her and her two brothers first? None of my cousins have posted anything.  Also what do I expect in the coming days? Do people visit before the funeral? I am 24 and have been to funerals but no family member has died since I was 9 and that was a teen death so different. Funeral is Thursday.  It was not sudden as he was 91 and in declining health.  I still feel sad though. (81 I meant to type not 91). 

We are going on a family vacation. What would you do? He lost his job recently and now is completely broke. He has 3 dollars in his bank account. He can't afford to pay for food, shopping, the parks, hotel, gas nothing. We are leaving in 3 weeks. It's a strain to have to pay for all his stuff and it takes away the joy and excitement from the trip. It's always a burden when someone is broke like this and coming on the trip. He said he doesn't mind staying at home since he has no money but I don't trust him in my house alone. I don't know what kind of parties he might try to throw and he might have his girlfriend come over and have sex in my house. There's no sex happening under MY roof period. We are not rich so it's going to be hard paying for all of his entertainment food etc  My son was like " to be honest I would rather go on vacation with my friends or girl anyways it's more fun that way. So I'll be ok staying at home." I don't even have anyone he could stay with because our in laws live in an whole another state. 

So it's been a few months since I have moved in to my girlfriend's house. It's closer to my workplace so i thought it's a good idea.  I am 18 and she is 25 also I am around 5feet tall but she and her parents are around 6feet. Ever since I have moved in her parents keep on making fun of me and don't leave any chance of degrading and insulting me. I am usually the butt of all jokes. They keep making jokes about our sex life and how big of a sllutt I am. When I get angry they laugh more maybe because I am shorter. At home I do most of the house work and my girlfriend is very happy with me. I wanted to leave but her parents are on a mission to prove that I am not good enough for her because I am shorter and younger than her so I think I have to stay and tolerate the pains without letting her know because I fear they might manipulate her in my absence.

My fiancé and I have been together for 3 years and about to get married. My fiancés family includes his mother, younger brother & sister. (Very small family)  Every time (even 3 years back) his sister starts some problem. I can be with my mother IL having drinks and conversating, to being with my fiancé and she ALWAYS has something to say and a attitude. She's texted me numerous times telling me I should abandon myself from their family and go. How I'm not **** and nothing for her brother. She's never addressed me by name, or ever said thank you to me (only to my fiancé on my behalf) for gifts or a meal I've given her. I'm about to get married and my fiancé is so embarrassed on her behalf he tells me to not talk to her or give her anything anymore. He is supportive of me, I just think he's so ashamed and embarrassed his sister has treated me this way over nothing I've done to her.. but me kind and giving. I'm tired of being nice now and don't want anything to do with her. I love the rest of his family but her. Is it okay to cut her off? Even after my fiancé told me to never give to her again? She's always gonna be my SIL?

Without thinking my mom decided to sell our home, so we have until March 18th to find a place to stay. Today she asked me if I wanted to live with her or my sister. I wasn't expecting her to ask me this, I assume she wanted me to give a definitive answer and say I wanted to stay with her. However, I've been contemplating everything and I'm not entirely sure. The thing is my mom is very irate at times. I already pay 450 for rent, but she threatens to kick me out over approximately three times a week. She tries to dictate everything I do. If I stay out past 12AM, she is calling my phone 15 times, calling my friends phone. With my sister being gone she has me doing all the chores, yesterday I even fixed up her room. Also, drama seems to follow her everywhere. My family has moved 12 times because she causes drama in the area. With my sister she's only 3 yrs older than me(25), but she's a party girl. That's her life style. She's out all night, then she brings the party back with her at 3am. She is irresponsible with her money and like my mom makes decisions without thinking. I'm just unsure of what to do and there's so little time.