When we got married six years ago she was a sexy petite girl with awesome boobs and a fantastic bum. She looked great in a little dress, tight jeans or nothing at all. She was a solid 9.5/10. I couldn't believe she was mine - at best I'm a 6/10.  Since she's been on maternity leave with our twins it seems like she's put on a few pounds, and I miss my hot wife. This didn't happen after the first baby - she got back in shape pretty fast.  How do I tell her that she needs to get back in shape without sounding cruel? I don't think I could love a fatty

We've been married for 3 years and now he wants a divorce. I love him. I'm heartbroken.  It's all because he found out I did 3 years in jail for drug smuggling and my criminal record means we can't adopt a baby.  How can I make him love me again?

He says he's working late a lot but I know he's actually having sex with his boss. 

My marriage has been on the rocks. My husband hardly talks to me anyways. Our children are grown. Theres no sexlife, no conversation and of course im blamed. Now no Valentine's Day. Would you give up?

And I mean religiously. He deliberately looks at every story I post but is in a relationship. Why would he keep looking at my stories if that's the case?

My significicant other thinks that this will be fine for our children! This is one of her sister's offspring! I don't know what it is! It's amazing what living on the other side of the equator does to people, and I'm expected to move there for her "dream"!

From time to time, though not frequently, my teenage and/or adult sons will hold my hand in public, while we are walking, or "pet" me. (Ie, they will rub my back, or arm, or leg while we are sitting on a couch.) I never feel that it is sexual, or inappropriate in anyway, as it is just my extremities, and we have always been a hugging, holding, kissing on the cheek kind of family, but my husband (of 3 years) feels that it is "weird" and somehow inappropriate. What do you think?

Especially when things are getting heated She drags her tongue up my neck and behind my ear  She also growls.  We are a new couple

My husband is paranoid and insecure. He doesn't trust me and got jealous because I was talking to a friend about our aggressive dog. He askes me if I cheat almost everyday and drinks so much beer he constantly has the stench of alcohol on him. We have a 4 month old son and lately my heart has been telling me something is wrong and I've been thinking about leaving for a couple weeks now... I hate the thought but I don't even know if I love my husband anymore... I have ptsd and anxiety too and his constant distrust is affecting me in a bad way... I don't know what to do?

He usually does this with all special occasions but I still get hurt every time... It seems like it doesn't get easier it just hurts me more and more... It's not about the stuff for me it's about the thought and effort that he could ( but doesn't) put into something- anything! If I am totally wrong for feeling neglected and hurt how do I get over this? Almost Every holiday this happens...

I had relationships but didn't think of marriage until I was 40.  I got a college degree and a job but didn't really think about making real money until I was 44.  I have children and didn't realize how fast time flies and everything I should teach them.  My grandparents were sister and brother.  They were both born February 14 and got married on their birthdays.  What am I to think...

Edit: I didnt know I could post more details... The couple has 2 children together and will likley split amicably. The man is initiating investing in a condo with her, but is also planning to divorce her (not to her knowlege though). He makes more money than her and will likley be paying quite a bit of child support and/or alimony. Would investing in a rental before divorce somehow help him financially after the divorce?

So my husband is bipolar and I've been with him for 12 years. I have become overwhelmed and cannot move forward in the relationship. He does not work he is at home all day and just does nothing.He likes to abuse his medications at times. I have tried and tried to suggest help and it doesn't go anywhere. He gets very angry when I even bring up any kind of help, like counseling etc. so I talked to his mother in law thinking she could help and she basically told me not to be surprised if he commits suicide or abuses drugs again. She says she isn't doing this to lay a guilt trip on me but I needed to consider it. I have considered all of this. We do have kids together and I am fully aware of what is going to happen. I have thought about everything for the last 6 months. I am unhappy and really need advice. 

Was busted for prostitution, drug possession with intent to deliver. We have been married 5 years. Love him so much and has been the greatest boyfriend and husband. He has own business but still makes time for us tell this all came out. He even helped me open my own studio which had been a life time dream that thought would never happen. Way he found out I ran into someone from past and they mad a comment which opened this whole mess

Fiancé and I just got engaged. My fiancés family is very very small. Unlike mine, all his grandparents are gone, his mother never had any siblings, just 3 kids. Right off the bat I wanted to become as close to his mother and siblings because if I married him, that's the only family we'll be encountering. The mom and I have gotten along great for years, we have had plenty of personal conversations, meals together etc. Outside of her respect to me, we just are very different people. (Not judging)  She's never been married. Her 3 kids all have different dads. She hasn't dated the past 4 years I've known her which is her choice. She has the attitude that she doesn't need a man, and rather do things on her own. She's a very independent black woman. I am with her oldest son, (27) her other kids are 21 and 18.  Whenever my fiancé brings up our marriage or getting married she seems uninterested. We would be the first couple ever since her parents to get married and she's just eh about it. She says congrats but doesn't have any excitement about the wedding, us starting a family one day.. nothing. I know for a fact she likes me, do you think marriage is just not a big deal to her?

he fell in love with her.My cousin is not pretty.She is basic.Someone then told me they are in the same cult.What do you think?

I have been married to my husband for 7 years . We have a one year old daughter . You wouldnt know it by my inlaws facebook . When we go visit , she never takes her picture but she does of my husbands nephew all the time and my husbands brother . My husband ask for a group photo with me at christmas and no one came over to be in it after he asked so it turned into one of just the three of us . I get along pretty well with them so i don't understand? Not so much fb that bothers me with zero photos of my daughter but when we visit they take no photos. My parents on the other hand take gobs . I am usually not included . My husband has tried to get them to include me but it doesnt work . Has always been this way . Idk maybe I embarrasse them ? But i don't understand why they dont take pictures of my daughter when they go on and on about how pretty she is and they dont see her very often either so you think they would ? She takes more photos of my husbands brothers dog than she does of my daughter and they have zero toys for her to play with when we visit either . I don't understand when we get along why they dont include me and oh they always include whoever the brother is with and my bil .

both parties are adults. I agree with child support but not spousal support.

I'm finally about to file for divorce from my husband we have been separated since April of 2019 I decided to leave him because he liked flirting with women way too much and I found out he was saying a lot of inappropriate things to different women and it go to a point when we started physically fighting about it and after my daughter was born I stopped fighting back but he continued to flirt around and when I would try and talk about it he was still get physical and there were times when my daughter was present (she was (1-2 years of age) and a few times he even threw something  or missed me and hit her in the process since then he had been arrested but I dropped the charges later and has been doing nth but sending me disrespectful text he has had a slight alcohol drinking problem in the past and still continues to drink every now and then had even threaten to kill me one time and has really bad anger issues I'm not trying to take my daughter from him she loves her dad and he does do some things for her but when it comes to where she lives or who has been making important decisions for her it has been me since the day she was born and still is he doesn't want to even co parent with me and one min he says do what I feel is best for her and the next he says no he wants shared custody then back to she's prob not mine do what you want so I want to know do I stand a chance of sole physical custody I want her to still be able to see her dad of course

I was very hurt by it. We had some good sex and good times after the divorce, living apart for a couple years.😉

Ex and I have 2 kids together she has given me my youngest son and kept my older son.. still married working on processing our divorce and have custody set on paper.. am I still obligated to pay child support directly to her for my older son.. I'd rather buy him what he needs clothes ect vs giving her the money.. good mom just does not manage money well. She can't take my youngest away if I refused to pay or can she?? Married we still have 50 50 custody right.. and since she willingly gave him to me.. that would help me maintain him with me right 

My wife is fuming right now because she feels I always put other things and people ahead of her. I noticed that she recently posted a question about her setting up an appointment to get our taxes done. However, she set the appointment for a time when she knew I'd still be at work instead of for a Sat when we both would be off. Then she had the nerve to say I just don't trust her because I won't let her sign my name to the tax return. First of all it's illegal because she doesn't have power of attorney over me and secondly, I just like staying in the loop on these things. I don't want to be the type of guy whose wife handles everything. Well, when I got off work a notification popped up on my phone about my 7 year old grandson's basketball game. I like seeing him and the other kids running up and down the court play and I'm making memories with him by showing my support to him and his team. My wife assumed I was coming straight to the tax place to sign the taxes but when I told her to just have her mom save them in the system and I'd sign them another day she got highly upset again saying I always put everyone else ahead of her. I'm sorry but there are other things that some times take precedent over her. Taxes can wait 24 hours. I can't tell my grandson to postpone his game till another night. Should you ever put anyone or anything ahead of your spouse from time to time?