If we're at a party she's grabbing my leg the whole time advise me to stop though she does it gently. My father always tells me after I'm fine and that she is the problem not me. She never does this to my siblings. I'm 29 so not a little kid and how do I get her to stop feeling so much anxiety in public with me? She's fine when we're alone and never does any of this. As a kid she used to have fights with family members over me and as a result I feel guilty for the conflicts and estrangement.

She says if I pay for a gym she will go. I feel like if that were true sged use the dumbells I got her, and use our stepper machine and abs machine. Or anything.

Besides all this my parents got a 4th dog because they felt bad for my sister she wanted a goldendoodle. My mom is freaking out about that saying it's going to be like another baby. And also god forbid when my sister goes to the hospital now I have to deal with 4 dogs my dad work a lot and then when that happens both parents stay at the hospital.  My sister has cyclic vomiting she goes in & out the hospital, when that happens the house cleaning, taking care of the pets, & my youngest sister. It's to much stress on me I can go on & on! So Besides that I don't care what my parents do but the one thing that has me shaking is they use no protection when having sex. I get so scared if she'll get pregnant even though both my parents are 45, there's no one to call to for help I have no family or friends the last time my sister went to the hospital I had a really bad flu I was basically crawling on the floor taking care of my other sister. I am shaking while writing this I can't relax just thinking of the what if's & being stuck even more. My parents keep the condom box in our only closet in the upstairs, one day I was helping my mom clean & the condom box fell everything is still the same way it has been for a year. There's literally no other kind of protection, my mother hasn't been to the doctors in years so definitely no kind of birth control. My dad definitely didn't get anything done if you know what I mean. Nobody understands my situation because I can't write it all on here 

I don't mean phisycally healthy... The reason I ask this question is because I can't exactly decide whether what I experience is healthy or not at all Here's what I do know: I've got a 3 year old sister, and when she's home, I don't like being home, and I also don't like to do so when my mother's home(even if it's only the two of us) Practically the only time I actually enjoy being home is when I'm home alone A little backstory: ever since my sister was born my mom forced me to spend every second in the living room with them as long as we didn't have guests over or my sister wasn't asleep, or in the first 1,5 years when my sister's dad wasn't there(after that they got a divorce), not allowing me to do anything else, always arguing that "in a family everyone contributes as much as they can, and only after can they recieve the benefits". Problem was I contributed way more than I could and didn't recieve ****. Thankfully this ended at about may of last year, and now I only spend between 1-1,5 hours with them each day, including lunch, which is way less than before, but I still feel like I'm babysitting too much, as most of this time is actually spent with me playing with my sister, which I obviously don't like. And as such I'm constantly afraid that it'll get out of my control and I'll have to spend way more time with them than I'd like to. As such don't like being home unless i'm home alone. I think it's important to mention that I'm 15 years old, as this could influence this

If your next door neighbor comes to you and asks you to quit your job to take of their ******* dog while they are at work, isn't that dumb?  By the way, they want you to do it for FREE, and they refuse to feed you and pay your bills.   I wouldn't do it if they don't agree to pay my bills every month. They can't use me.   I'm not loosing my home because of damn dog that isn't even mine. **** them and that ******* dog. That's dumb!  

So I have a crush on this girl who went homeschooled this year and i text her sometimes and today at my school in class i was yelling my crush's address because it was funny at the time because i was telling someone it was my address (i regret it now) and a girl from across the class said "that's MY address" and so i repeated the road of the address and she looked scared like i knew her address and was completely serious and i have no idea how she could have the same address as my crush, my crush is black and lives with her sister and her mom and step dad and her sister and mom are black but idk about the step dad and the girl in my class is hispanic, could she be some room mate or something i'm really scared that my crush will find out somehow i know the girl isn't her sister because i know what my crush's sister looks like 

My dad is a habitual liar and yet he complains about this guy Bill who lives in a similar way.

I was married to his mom for 10 years (before she got pregnant) and in that time she was on the pill and never wanted to have kids, because when she and I met she already had a 3 year old. So she didn't want any more kids. We got divorced three years after the our son was born. I didn't have any reason to question if he was my son. I never thought he looked like me, but I just thought that he took after his mother's family.  Fast forward 7 years, I met another woman, she and I get married and we welcomed a little boy into our lives. He looks like both of us. at times he looks like me and times he looks like his my new wife. I told my new wife, that I thought my older son, wasn't mine and she decided that we do a DNA test. She has had her doubts, but she never wanted to say anything. We did the DNA test and he turned out not to be mine. I pay child support for the child, I stopped going to pick him up for my visitation time. I don't know what to do or think. My wife, doesn't know what to do, she comes from a wealthy family, her parents are still happily married and in love. I went and talked to a lawyer but because when my ex wife and I got divorce, I didnt question paternity in the courts eyes, im still his legal father.  I don't want to have any ties to her or the child. What would you do? NO I haven't told my ex-wife that I know that the child is not mine.  I have just stopped talking to her, and I changed my number.   I did contact an attorney. He told me based on our state laws, I would have had to questioned paternity at the time, my ex-wife and I were getting a divorce. And because the child is 10 years old, they wouldn't change me as the legal father of the child.

She constantly crosses my boundaries, insults me, and criticizes me. She has nothing going for her other than that she is pretty and smart. She also constantly gossips and makes fun of other people who are overweight, different, weird, etc.

My step mother who I really like is just a few years older than I am. Dad must like young beautiful women as she is both. She has a great personality and is just a lot of fun to be around. She loves to joke around with me. Jokingly one day she told me "The batteries in my dildo are dead. Would you go to the store and get me some more?" Should I have had the balls to say "They don't make batteries for dildos any more but I have something that you can use in it's place".

I'm hearing that in California they're trying to push sex ed on children as early as grade 4. I swear to god America is ran by psycho's and pedophiles. Don't you realize that trying trying to introduce this to children at such a young age will cause SO MUCH backlash you wouldn't even be able to handle it. It's like they're trying to sexualize children at a young age. Nothing about sex should be introduced until at least 8th grade, Grade 4 is just straight out on some creepy child predator stuff. Please NO LEVEL 7's answer This question. I've notice a lot of you level 7's tend to be autistic trolls with too much free time on your hands. When I asked this question once before some of the people said that children should be introduced to Sex Ed at as early as Age 4! WTFFFFFFF?????? This is why a lot of you Level 7 users need to probably consider suicide. It's bad enough you're a Level 7 on Yahoo in 2020. Who tf uses Yahoo at a serious level like that? That alone tells me you're likely autistic. Do you know how many years and comments you'd have to dedicate sitting on your smelly a*s just answering question after question to get to a Level 7? A lot of you people tend to only say what I disagree with. A child's body doesn't start to make changes until age 10, she why in the flipping g*ddamn f*ck are you talking to a child about sex at age 4? Teaching your child about strangers and teaching them not to let anyone touch you in your private areas Is one thing Pregnancy can start between ages 11-12 so why in the **** at you teaching your children about sex at an age MUCH earlier before age 10 to 11? THINK before you speak you autistic pieces of crap. I wouldn't be surprised if you were already allowing your children to watch porn, you people really pissed me off with your responses to that last question. 

Im 19 years old, I have BDSM wear and dildos and keep them under my bed in a box because they're my private belongings, while I was out my mom said she was going to clear out my wardrobe so I'd have more room in there (I usually do the cleaning in my room and sort my clothes) but she was obviously sorting things and did it as I was out, when I got home she was in a really bad mood with me, she was swearing etc and I thought she was just in a bad mood, she then shouted at me and said there's a lot of things going on in the house that she doesn't know about, so I said like what? I then realised she must've gone under my bed and saw my belongings and he said that I knew what she was on about and that she was disgusted. I'm really upset and embarrassed and never thought my mom would go through my things but I didn't think she'd make me feel like that about it. (Pvc stockings and suspenders, gimp mask and a few dildos) especially because she's told me before that I can talk to her about anything, plus the fact I'm a grown woman. I'm really embarrassed and feel stupid now for even having them things, I don't know if I seem stupid or not? 

My mother brainwashed us against her family and thus made us disloyal as kids but I have gotten hyper loyal as an adult to her family. Yet, I still feel I am 2nd rate. As a kid I believed my mother who was bitter and so was cold and distant from her family. As a teen I realized my mother was misleading us out of bitterness and got close. My mother has also softened. However, I feel guilt and like I am 2nd rate for the 7 or 8 years I was believing my mother and we'd miss things like Christmas'.

My sister has cyclic vomiting she goes in and out the hospital, when that happens the house cleaning, taking care of the pets, and my youngest sister. It's to much stress on me I can go on and on! So Besides that I don't care what my parents do but the one thing that has me shaking is they use no protection when having sex. I get so scared if she'll get pregnant even though both my parents are 45, there's no one to call to for help I have no family or friends the last time my sister went to the hospital I had a really bad flu I was basically crawling on the floor taking care of my other sister. I am shaking while writing this I can't relax just thinking of the what if's and being stuck even more. 

I smoke weed almost everyday. I have smoked for about 3 years but it's on and off. I'm 19 years old and I'm a freshman in community college (I'm paying my tuition) and still live w my mom and her boyfriend. I get solid grades (3.3 GPA) have a part time job working doubles on weekends, I have a completely clean record, and I'm currently launching a podcast. I really smoke only when I have exhausted all priorities for that day and then I take a couple one hitter rips in my backyard and do anything honestly, it opens up my mind. But I'm responsible with it and don't drive. I partly smoke because of boredom (most friends are away at college) and partly because slight anxiety I have dealt with since a kid. Don't have it anymore tho. My mom admitted she used to smoke weed but everytime she smells it she freaks out and takes all my stuff and threatens to kick me out. When I ask her concerns, she only tells me "it's illegal", (I live in a state where it's legal but I am underage still) yet she does admit that it is NOT a detriment to my life but she'll  just shut down whatever point I make to say "it's my house it doesn't matter". I respect that entirely, and I'd move but I couldn't afford to get an apartment by myself. I could have gone to a 4 year university, but I took the cheaper option. I'm a good person, but seriously sick of being judged from my mom who smokes a pack of cigarettes a day and has a drink every night. Everybody has their vices. What do I do yahoo?

My 6 year old brother has an official diagnosis of autism and ADHD. The first thing my mom wanted to know was: what did I do to cause this? How can we fix his disorders? The doctors told her that they don't have "cures". Whenever we go out in public, my mom tries to stop him from doing anything thats out of the norm. She's always scared of what society (the public) will think of us if they see my brother doing odd things. 

I am a 20 year old female. I am currently living in a extremely toxic household which I don't think mentally I could survive another day because of my parents. They are very abusive. I have to leave! My boyfriend and I (that my parents doesn't know about) have a great relationship and he is getting his own place and he insists I move in with him. However, my parents provide for me and pay all of my bills while I am in college. If I leave home I will become completely dependent on my bf until I can get a car and a job of my own. I am afraid for long term that what if things don't work out. My parents would never let me come back and I would be homeless. Not to mention that I have two small dogs that I could never part from. They are my only reason for living. My bf said I could bring them with me. If I leave them at my parents home they will let them run free. So, the question is do I stay at home and continue suffering the mental and physical abuse all for financial security or do I move in with my boyfriend and risk things not working out in the future and winding up homeless? By the way, my parents forbids me getting a job! They also would never allow me to go off to college so there is no way for me to leave home by myself

The grandmother who raised the 6 month child. The mother is so stubborn and loves to criticise all the great things the grandmother did to the child. 

I am a pharmacist and I just refinanced my school loans at $325k for 10 years looking at $3300s a month for next 10 years. I got a deal for Excalibur hotel for around $200s for 5 nights but I am interested in the venetian for pools and spacious room for my family and 2 kids (age 3 and 5). I got a deal through work for queen venetian for $800s. I am just wandering since I am on a plan on getting rid of school loans and financial freedom should I still work with the budget or is it ok to allow myself to do something nice for extra $600? my other 2 weeks of vacation we stay at home since it is during daughter school time. I plan on paying off my school loans in 7 years by paying extra etc. School loans are my only debt now. Do you guys recommend that I stay cheap during vacation time for the next 7 years and then go big once they are paid off then? any tips advice thanks

like not just a baby i want to help it grow up. and ive always wanted to be the chill mom. my mom would be ok with it. im just scared of how people would think of me at school and how i would get pregnant also the money do i get benefits since im a minor with a kid  i was at target with my dad stepmom and 2 brothers one is 11 the other is one i told my stepmom id take him just so she can shop and when i was hanging outwith him I was looking at bathing suits and a worker went up to him and said "helping mommy find bathing suits" and i said sister but she didnt hear me then i realized how much i wanted my own also does a c section hurt and id look so cute in a bikini with a baby bump 

He said "I want to sex you" and it made me so uncomfortable. My brother and his wife should make him stop and I don't want to be around him when he talks like that. He is 14 and should know better. How do I get out of having to see him, I don't like being around him. I live in Texas and it should be against the law to make me see people I don't want to. 

My little sister was being bullied in school and doesn't want to go back anymore. She is currently receiving help but she refuses to go to even the extra exclusive classes that are only 3 hours every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. I tried talking to her about it but she just says she doesn't want to. If she keeps going she won't be able to get her high school diploma and start working minimum wage jobs(in this country they will kick you out if you stay in the same year twice). All she wants to do is play games on the computer until late, the specialist said we can't take the pc away because of emotional stress. What can I do to encourage her to go?

Hi, I'm 14 year old girl and i'm in a dilemma. My parents and I have  been living at a place for 7 years and it's been awful. I've been pulled out of school because of bullying, and my mom is always crying because she hates living here. The problem is my dad wants to stay because he loves his job. We're trying to move but we're having a hard time finding somewhere. My mom feels like she's stuck in the middle because we want to leave but my dad wants to stay. I just want us all to be happy. Please help!!!

I'm hearing that in California they're trying to push sex ed on children as early as grade 4. I swear to god America is ran by psycho's and pedophiles. Don't you realize that trying trying to introduce this to children at such a young age will cause SO MUCH backlash you wouldn't even be able to handle it. It's like they're trying to sexualize children at a young age. Nothing about sex should be introduced until at least 8th grade, Grade 4 is just straight out on some creepy child predator stuff. 

I am a girl and I have really bad acne, like really bad. My older sister, even though shes older, has awesome clear skin and im jealous. Today i was eating some cereal, which i dont eat often i mostly eat really healthy. And my mom said in front of my odler sister, wow your eating all that? oh my gosh thats soo much thats probably why you have acne. im pretty thin and i usually eat really well and make good food choices as far as being good for me but it made me feel really fat and for a second i considered eating less even though im clinically underweight due to genetics. Then I got quiet while i finished my cereal and left and my mom got irritated that i was so quiet and when she asked me i said it was embarresing, and she told me i need to tell her stuff like that because she cant read my mind. I was crying because it felt unfair that she was upset with me after she pointed out a bug insecurity for me in front of my family. She left and kind of rolled her eyes at me even though i was clearly upset? i dont know what to do is this normal?

I go to a private high school now... my parents and I thought it was the best decision at the time but I really don't enjoy going here anymore and I want to go back to public school. The school is about 18k per year but we get 8,500 in financial aid so we pay about 10k. I have quite a few reasons for transferring but I'll just tell you a few of them. The private school I go to is very political and a lot of teachers are unqualified. I also came here to play football  but the program here is too competitive and I view it more as a business than having fun. I'm not playing here anyway. If I go back to public school not only will I play football will some of my best friends since preschool but I'll also have the opportunity to wrestle, and run track or play baseball. Also, there is a program at the public school that allows you to go to the local community college and get college credits (they also bus you). So I definitely have my reasons to transfer, but I don't want to let my parents down. I feel like my mom will probably have my back once I tell her about the college program. I feel my dad will be a little disappointed but once he sees how happy I am on the field/mat with the friends that he knows he'll be so proud of me. On top of this he'll be happy to save the 10k a year (we are tight financially as we have a decent amount of debt). What do you think is the best way to tell them? I considered telling my mom first and then telling my dad together or vice versa.  Another thing I forgot to mention is that the thing I really feel bad about is the 20k that was already invested into this private school education. How do I go about telling them that I'm sorry I "wasted" their money. I feel like the money really wasn't wasted tho, I made memories and friends that will last a lifetime. 

My dad didn't do his stuff, and my mom is mad at him. However, whenever this happens and I try to calm everyone down, my mom throws stuff at me and tells me to shut up. What did I ever do????????? My mom tells me I shouldn't be her daughter because I am the daughter of an indolent husband. What should I do, my mom is ruining my vibes...........

So I have an arrangement with my daughters mother where I get our daughters 3 days a week. I'm starting a career in the airline industry part time but I want to do full time. I think she may get bitter if I do full time instead of part time even though I have good ententions. I am also in school 4 days a week. I live with my mother right now and ready to get my own for the kids. Any suggestions ?

They make excuses for him because he has mental illness with things like OCD. My mom said I could have my own bathroom and he wanted to use it and I told him not to and he grabbed me by the shoulders and our parents made excuses for him and made me leave the trip. I'm scared of him and they make excuses for him, my father especially. What do I do about this?

He just said he wanted to take his time visiting but I know that's a lie and he'll be in a huge rush so how do I avoid getting my hopes up for this? I don't wanna be disappointed when it turns out he's in a huge rush is this involved a visit in May when in town for a wedding. I'm the person that writes frequently about a father that's a chronic liar.