Friend getting married and all. His fiancée already picked out her bridesmaids. He said he's not sure on his groomsmen yet. I asked other friend of ours if he knows he's a groomsmen he said he's not sure yet. So chances are my friend hasn't done his part of planning for wedding right. It's still like 11 months till wedding as well. 

becomes thicker, physically fitter, and better looking than the groom to be, do you think she is justified for breaking off the engagement? She was a 4 or 5 on the attractiveness scale, now she's a 7 or 8; and men in her attractiveness range are taking notice of her?

My best friend got married in Philadelphia on December 7, but I didn't go to the wedding because I live and work in China. Plus, early December is always a very hectic time for me at work, and also I had to return to the US anyway on Dec. 19. So, it would have been a lot of traveling in a very short period of time during which I was already stressed and busy. In any case, since telling him (in June) that I would not be attending the wedding, he has not spoken to me. I offered to make it up to him in several different ways, but he simply won't respond to my emails, and still hasn't spoken to me since. Is it me, or is he being ridiculous?

As in just three of our closest friends, parents, and biological siblings. No step siblings, no step family (aside from parents), no grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. The reason is simple. We will save a lot of money. Having a small wedding party means we can reserve a table at a nice restaurant for the after ceremony party. Saves hassle, saves money, saves headache from trying to plan things. More than 10 people is just too much to deal with. I want to know how we go about inviting people since it's not really a typical, traditional wedding. How do you formally invite parents? I know how traditional wedding invites look and I feel like they'd be too much for what we're doing. But we don't want to be tacky and send invites by phone or social media either. Any other advice will be welcome too. Thank you!!

My cousin is getting married this weekend (5 hours away), but it is on my SO's birthday. He wasn't invited to the wedding, and he wanted to spend time with his family. I RSVPed to the wedding, but now I'm not sure if I should go. I really want to be with him, but I feel obligated to go to the wedding. Should I make him (and honestly myself) happy and stay home, or should I just go to my cousin's wedding? Also: If I don't go to the wedding, there is a family friend that would go in my place and the money wouldn't have been wasted. Also, the couple is having a large wedding and they likely wouldn't notice me missing. And he did ask me to stay home for his birthday, but I told him I needed to be with my family, but my family has shown they don't really want me around.