I came home from work, a few days ago. I was very tired and a little upset over something that happened at work. My husband came from work earlier than me. He had plans with his friends. They were gonna go out for dinner. He invited me to come with him, but I didn't go. I was not invited by his friends and I was tired from work. My husband left and then came back five minutes later! He said he didn't wanna go out without me. He said that he would rather be with me than be anywhere else! I thought it was weird. I mean, he just left. Anyways, we ordered pizza, at home. Then we had sex, which I didn't expect, at all. He kept telling me that he loves me during sex. We were both tired and after that we fell asleep.   

He was fired from his job because of his temper he got a new one and they disqualified him because he didn't show up for a background drug test...apparently they sent him a form via email and he never saw it until they called him...he acts angry at me like its my fault insulting me saying rude names im working taking care of our son paying bills and he refuses to clean while at home he watches tv and doesn't clean " he says hes not a maid" he's getting worse im tired of cheering him anymore

Would it be best if we just stayed home? Fast food is horrible but it's ok in moderation the fact we've ate it five days in a row so far is horrible. I know money is right but I was expecting fast food for only one or two days. I wanted to eat real food. Fast food messed up my stomache. We decided to go on vacation because being in our home state is very dull and boring there's nothing to do or see. And we were getting tired of being at home

In general I believe most parents don't want to be a burden on their kids. But bad decisions, bad luck, ill health, can all affect that. I've seen people who planned well for 20-30 years get cancer, have life changing accidents, end up losing their jobs, get divorced, etc. and they end up tapping much of their retirement then and things aren't looking great. That's assuming you even had a life where you can save substantially for retirement. There is never a guarantee, you have to just do your best to prepare while also enjoying what you can today.

He says he wants the first meeting with parents as "initial meeting" as in just dinner with them but no talks about marriage yet.

I notice when I'm out shopping my mood improves by a whole lot which makes me wonder if I'm actually depressed or just spend too much time in the house. Working from the home is great for not having to answer to any crazy bosses but it does get very lonely and at times I feel mentally crazy. When I finally get the chance to go out shopping it's like I'm a whole another person and I'm happy. Even window shopping makes me happy

For my wedding hashtag, my idea is #IRiendeau (using his last name making it similar to I Do) My worry is that people will pronounce it "I Rien-dough, not I Riend-do Anyone have any other wedding hashtag ideas?? My name is Hannah and His name is Tyler Riendeau!!

I am marrying a man with the last name Riendeau (always getting pronounced wrong but he says it's pronounced Ree-On-dough!) Our wedding hashtag is #IRiendeau (supposed to be pronounced I-rien-do)Should it be spelled like that,correctly? Or #IRienDo? One I spelled right but can be pronounced wrong, and the other is clearly obvious and spelled right, but not the spelling of his last name!Which is best??

reasons why marriages are likely to be homogamous. how marriages may become more heterogamous over time and what effect this change may have on marriage

I've been with my husband for a decade. We separated  and i filed for divorce because he was abusive and i couldn't take it any longer. Although he signed the papers,  after one year of being apart we reconciled and began dating again. He attended anger management and we got back together because seen an improvement in his character. The problem is, after i filed for divorce i stayed seeing another man. There was an instant connection and i felt comfortable with him since i was so used to being put down and abused and made fun of. His intimacy was the best I've ever had, which really was not much to compare to. Now that im back with my husband i cant stop fantasizing about this other guy. My husband is not attractive to me anymore, i cringe just thinking of being intimate with him. But he has changed. I don't know what to do to get this guy out of my head. (he was no good for me by the way).  will my love for my husband ever return to how it used to be? Will i want intimacy if i give it enough time? He is so good to me now that i feel bad for not trying. But this other guy is on my mind constantly even when u try my hardest to tell myself thats over with, im constantly having flashbacks that are out of my control. I feel horrible  

Or would they likely just be relieved that this marriage is over? The couple has separated five or six times before now they're officially divorced.

Im going on a girls trip with my friends to Miami and told my biyftiend " it's gonna be a lot of beautiful women in Miami and he was like " beautiful women what are you talking about. Sounds gay.it sounds gay fo say that out the blue. What if a dude said there's going to be a lot of handsome men in Miami. It's like you can't wait to get to Miami to talk to the women. It's like you want the women."" We had an entire 30 minute conversation about this. I'm not even excited about the trip anymore. He really put a damper on my mood. I told him I'm not gay. It's just a fact that there's a lot of besutiful exotic women there

Ive been in a lack luster marriage for 30 years. I stayed to raise my son. Now hes grown and is married. I want to divorce but my son said if i continue to live this lifestyle of friends and fun and drinking and get divorced he will not speak to me. I raised him well but i think its not fair. Do i stay in a unhappy marriage?

Back in December my mom, crying in a pool of tears, shattered told me that she had "just given up the love of her life".  I was completely shocked.  She said that this man whom she reconnected with (childhood love) again proposed marriage to her, has tons of money lives in Vegas and promised her the world to her.  But she gave him up, as she told me. She swore to me that she would have nothing to do with him, that she deleted him from her phone...etc blah blah blah. Fast forward to a month ago and she waltzes into my house to tell me that she's decided to leave my dad, that all her priest friends have advised her to leave him.  She asked me if she had my support to which i vehemently said NO.   Then she called off the divorce asking my dad to seek therapy.  However, the whole time after calling it off, she schemed and planned the divorce!  Suddenly last week, she disappeared with most of what was inside their house, moved into a 2 bed house paying $1100 for rent, (very expensive in this area) she has no solid job, she has odd jobs here and there.  She claims she will be able to afford that.  On top of the fact that she's volunteering to pay the taxes of hers and my dads house. How is she affording this?  And after 40 years of marriage, her admitting that my dad changed a lot for the better in the last few years WHY ALL OF THE SUDDEN!!?? Is she cheating??

Him and I have been seeing each other for 4 years now, after 10 months of seeing him I found out 2 things, that's he was married and we were expecting. We had our baby she's almost 2, he's been a really good father to her. Yet he's still married. I have never asked him to leave her. Even though he says he loves me and I do feel it that he does. But why is he still there? They have 3 kids together. He says because of the kids but I honestly don't believe it. I know he is unhappy. I can feel that he loves me, we enjoy our company so much when we are together. I tried to stay away, I tried dating other people after finding out he was married. But yet I always come back to him and he is always looking for me, he always treats me so good. What can I do? I really would want for him to just be with me but I know it's not going to work out on the long run.  4 years in august. 

So i met him years back when i had a boyfriend..so we remained friends although he really liked me. Over the years he got married and mainly it was so his fiance could get her green card and stay in america (atleast thats what he says) now she doesnt need the greencard anymore and wants a divoce..him and i have been hanging out and ended up having sex a few times. Although he is married he is seperated but he still goes home to her ( i suppose) this all doesnt make me so happy and im wondering if he ever will or if i should just cut it off now

They came to you and admitted that they had been keeping a secret about themselves for 29 years. They never outright lied, they just didn't bring it up. Nothing like infidelity or past relationship drama. Just a personal choice that they kept private for a good reason. Is the keeping of a secret that long a trust/ relationship destroying event?

My husband & his ex wife have 2 kids together and were married for 7 years. They divorced almost 3 years ago and we have been married for 9 months, but known each other for 2 years. The ex wife's husband works in the same city as my husband and I. We were coming out of the store, along with the kids, and saw the kid's mom sitting in the parking lot and their step dad coming out of the store also to go on his lunch. We all talked together for a few minutes and then went our separate ways. We all get along really well. As my husband and I were driving home, he says, "they are gonna break even with him having to drive all the way here for work, her coming up here and now they're probably gonna spend $20 on lunch." I took it like he was upset or that it bothered him, but I asked him about it and he said no, that he was just saying it just to say it. Does his reply make him sound jealous or like it bothers him? It kind of bothered me him saying that. They were together for 7 years. 

im contemplating divorce. Along with the divorce im contemplating cutting my mother, father and brother out of my life. I found myself in a abusive relationship at 15 and one day at 17 i ran to my mothers house with a broken ear drum from being smacked and she told me  "go back home before he brings another girl in that house". i went back home.  the abuse began and every time i would run to my family, they would not help me, defend me, or advise me to look for better. 3 years ago, my husband grabbed me by my neck, slammed me, and while i was on the floor, he pored dirty mop water in my face. My family said nothing about it and when i asked my dad to go with me to get my belongings that day (because i was afraid of going on my own), i found him outside conversating with my husband, telling him he understands and they hugged. I felt extremely betrayed.They have even done this with friends who have betrayed me.  the last straw was when i went to my husbands business and started an argument with him. I pushed a huge cabinet filled with paper and it fell. My husband called my mother and both my mother and father showed up yelling at me saying how dare i do that to his business. I thought, the business means more to them than me being abused. I never heard 1 peep about me being abused but they came to his rescue and told me off. Now im thinking about divorce, & im thinking of cutting them off too, for each time i was abused and they told me to stay.Should i?

i have been with my husband since i was 15. for the first 6 years i was abused physically and emotionally and cheated on. 3 years ago i finally got the strength to kick him out of the house and i was alone for 1 year. after that 1 year he convinced me he has changed and i moved him back in. He has in fact changed. its been 2 years since he moved back in and all he has done is look out for me, help around the house, and caters to me.  The problem is i cant seem to get back into marriage mode after being on my own for that one year. and the memories of his abuse still haunts me. I cant even get naked in front of him because of those times, years ago, that he would criticize my body and call me ugly. i still don't feel safe at home because of the times he has abused me. Everyone tells me i should stick it out because he became a good man and he is trying his hardest and that i'm married and its forever. They tell me they can tell he loves me so much Should i try to just forgive and push forward or leave? We have an 11 year old together as well that was affected by our break up. Please help with advice. thank you. he even attended anger management, that's another reason i gave him another chance.

My partner has a lower sex drive than me but we still have sex often enough. The thing is, we almost only have sex when he's in the mood, whether I am or not. But if I'm in the mood and he's not, we won't have sex. I'm very open about when I'm craving intimacy with him and will flat out tell him, "I'd like to have sex tonight" or "I want to play before bed." He says OK but then evening comes and we don't have sex if he doesn't want to. Also he knows how much I love oral but he doesn't enjoy giving it as much as he likes to receive it so he'll go months without going down on me even though I go down on him at least once a week. When I ask him in the heat of the moment to go down on me, he will. But I always have to ask even though he knows I want it any/every time. Lastly he's done once he orgasms even if I haven't. These things seem selfish to me but he's the only partner I've been with so maybe it's normal? If so, how do I deal with sex always being on his terms? I really want to reject him the next time he initiates sex just so that he'll know how it feels but I don't want to hurt him or his feelings and I don't want him to feel embarrassed and then hesitant to initiate sex again. What should I do?

My husband keeps complaining about everything and is always mad for some reason.I can't remember the last time we had sexual intercourse.He keeps watching weird porn which i don't think is quite normal but i still love him. I tried roleplaying and acting out his sexual fantasies but he wasn't into it at all. He keeps saying he's not in the mood or just ignores me.My husband and i have been married for 3 years,the first year was just fine.. i don't know what happened nothing works anymore.

If you have experience with ugly girls, especially with the chubby and the hasty ones, do you think they have a bad attitude?