Me and my gf slept together for the first time, just sleeping anyway, cause I am her first so she doesn't exactly know how an adult relationship works. I told her slept al curled up and didn't make a sound, didn't snore, didn't push me away with her legs or hit me with her arm on my chest, or privatize the blankets, like other girls do. As I said other girls, her smile turned into worry. She started getting mad, asking questions like (how many girls did you have before me? Even if they were bad you stayed with them? Now I'm supposed to take you after you've been with them? Of course!!) And she started crying. Like a baby. With a red face, tears etc... did I say something so mean to make her cry like that?? Was she judt jealous??

About a month ago, my boyfriend of a year broke up with me. We're both 22 and he stays with his family (mom,grandma,sister) Our relationship was amazing. He was one of the most caring and sweet men I had ever been with. But we had one problem. His family hated me it seemed. They would make rude remarks about me all the time, and he would never really defend me. He would run to them every time we got into a petty argument like all couples do. He painted this picture to them like I was a bad person, I was his first real girlfriend and longest relationship so I thought maybe I could coach him into not venting to them because I knew it would ruin our relationship. He would vent to them about me and vent to me about what they would say about me. He wouldn't stand up for me, and eventually I ended up cursing the whole family out I called his mother and grandma bitches and said they were nuts. He has since blocked me on everything. I feel so bad but I asked him multiple times to fix this but he wouldn't. I thought he would change and learn not to vent to his family but instead he kept doing it. HE WAS A WONDERFUL boyfriend other wise, but simply a mother's boy and couldn't make decisions for his self. It was so extreme to the point that his mom has access to his debit card, he didn't have his own house keys, and he didn't know how to cook. They did everything for him. They have him on a tight leash and it's almost like they don't want any other woman to ruin that or come in between. I love him very much, but he is very childish and looks to his family's opinion for everything. But he was soooo sweet and everything I was looking for otherwise. Should I try to make this work? Or move on? It's so hard to move on because we stay a few blocks away from each other and EVERYTIME I pass by their house I can't help but get emotional about the situation. I do want to add on that his family did seem to like me in the beginning until me and his sister got into a disagreement about me asking a guy for a number because I was interested in a pop up shop event (I started a business) and when me and her argued he literally blocked me on everything instead of just telling her to mind her business (we both had the passwords to each others phones so I felt like he let her opinion affect what he had going on, instead of looking at the facts)