I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and we have been living together for about a year.  We are Latinos and well if you know, usually family bothers about when the wedding will be, well whenever someone brings it up he usually makes excuses saying he's "testing" our relationship to see if we are ready, but than tells me that we are not ready at all and that I need to work on myself. There was this other time that he blamed it on his parents saying that since they got divorced that he's scared it will happen to us so he doesn't want to get married.  I don't know what to think or do honestly? I just need some advice.

We have been married for 9 years and she didn't start cheating until 2018. She cheated one time but claims that one was only a kiss. I noticed when I started working longer hours and coming in the house late that's when her eyes started to wonder. I was spending less and less time with her but she had to know it was so we could have this great future and wouldn't have to stress about money so much. We didn't spend Valentine's Day together because I worked all day. So I recently find out she cheated again but this time sexual and she is PREGANANT!!!! My heart is shattered because I always thought she was the love of my life. It started with her missing her period and then she kept throwing up everywhere everyday. We thought it was a stomache virus but it wasn't going on way too long to be a virus. Had her take a pregnancy test and she was positive but I was like ok hold on we always use condoms how is it positive. Unless there was a small tear I didn't know about. She saw the positive test and immediately lost her mind. I was comforting her and hugged her and I was like " we will get through this. I know we don't want kids but we have options" and stormed out of the doctors office. I chased after her and she was still crying. I hugged her again and said we can get through this. And she was like " no we can't... it's not yours" and I was like " what?" What are you talking about did you cheat on me" did you sleep with somebody else???? She was like " yes I did and yes we did sleep together. I don't expect you to ever forgive me or be with me again. So you can just go on with your life". She refused to get back in the car after me pleading with her. She sat on the corner of the road and after a while I just gave up. I'm furious but I still don't want her sitting on the road and getting ran over.

He's a wonderful guy very ambitious funny romantic attentive family oriented amazing relationship with his mother. However I feel like I can't talk about my mental health issues with him because he gives off that vibe of being freaked out. I told him I felt like I was having an anxiety attack and he was like don't start that again. And it made me feel really bad about myself. I want to be completely honest with him about everything in my life and i would hate to have to pretend like I don't have anxiety or depression because I do. I remember talkin to him about the root of my anxiety and how my parents were abusive and I never really had anyone to lean on for comfort and he completely ignored me when I mentioned that. He was like " hold on. I'll call you right back." He gives me great advice in other areas of my life and he supports my career he even wants me to me his mom. For Valentine's Day he went all out with roses on the bed and wine and chocolate. My ex husband who I divorced a year ago wasn't romantic at all and romance is something I always craved.,but my ex husband was very patient with me on my anxiety and he took me to my therapy sessions he made sure I took my pills and he comforted me when I felt like I couldn't go ok anymore. on the other hand I want to be able to talk to my boyfriend about my anxiety and want him to be able to comfort me. Am I asking for too much.  We are 30 

My husband is in training for truck driving and has been on the road with his trainer now for a month...he told me his trainer is verbally abusing him and belittling him and he doesnt allow him to sleep leaving the radio turned up making it where he isn't rested enough to safely drive the trainer also took on a load that's was illegal and made my husband drive...he has to wait to call the company and his councilor on monday...he has said the guy has physically wore him out and he just cant do this nor does he feel safe...my question is **how does he get home since he is on the road...**

Hi everyone, my husband and I have been married for 4 years. I am in my mid 20's and he's in his early 30's. We have a 2 year old son and a 2 weeks old son. My husband wanted us to start having children immediately after marriage, I got pregnant after year 1 of our marriage. I work full time, i go to school online and I do cleaning and cooking, etc. by myself. My husband is a disabled veteran so he has income, so he doesn't work. We live alone without any friends or family members around. After I first got pregnant I became so drained and tired doing everything, being a student, a wife and a mother. My husband started to complain that we are not having sex as often as we used to. I tried to fix the issue regardless of how tired I am. I then got pregnant the second time and during my pregnancy I became extremely tired and I was in alot of pains. My husband started saying he felt neglected again so he malice me. I gave birth 2 weeks ago and I am so stressed. My husband said I stopped being a wife and he needs a divorce so that he can get someone to make him happy. He is also very disrespectful and he said I am doing too many things. Btw I have to work because he alone cannot pay the bills. He hasn't hugged or kissed me since I gave birth and my birthday was last week and he didn't even remember even though I reminded him the day before. He told me yesterday that I was the biggest mistake he ever made in his life. He has never been a person open to get counseling. Advise?

I've been kicking this idea around but not sure if I want to sink 2 hrs 45min into a dull movie. You recommend or no? Please ladies, only comment if you had a brave and adventurous marriage.

I'm 34 going on 35 this year. I got married a little later in life. My husband wants to wait a year to have children. At that point I'll be close to or at 36 years old. I feel like maybe I'm getting too old to have children. I'm worried I won't have any and by 36 it just seems old to have kids. I'd really like to have 2. A majority of my friends have children already. 

My husbands sister WILL NOT get a job despite having an education in a highly demanding field. She could easily have her own car and place from the money she could make but she stays at home on social media all day. I asked her into our home while I was pregnant 2 years ago thinking she could work and pay bills to help us save and the whole time I was pregnant she wouldn't work! I even found her faking job applications! I told my husband she has to go before we have the baby because we can't afford to take care or another grow person. She moved back into her father's basement and still hasn't gotten a job all this time. I know your wondering why I give a damn well the problem is my husband pays her cell bill which is 100 a month and she occasionally asks him for cash even though she has a bf. She will be 25 in March and she will have never had a job. I will add that her and my husband are from another country and so is their father but my husband and his dad have really made something great of themselves. The problem I'm having is the extra money going out of our house to a grown woman who won't work.

My husband and I have been having some issues at our townhome. (It's been h*ll) We went away for 2 days. It snowed and we did not clear our walkway like we were supposed to (We were gone) We had asked my husbands brother to come by and do it. HE NEVER SHOWED UP.  Our neighbor did it for us. (We thought he was doing us a favor) INSTEAD he apparently went around the entire neighborhood complaining about us and how mad he was and how we don't shovel our walkway (When we do) We have enough issues with this neighborhood (believe me) we are selling in June. We just want to get through these last few months in peace and quiet that's ALL. Now I'm worried we are going to have even MORE issues. My husband is furious.  Mind you this is someone we trusted, have cooked dinner for, my husband has taken in his trash can out on trash day when he forgot, we've shoveled his walkway when he was gone.  Should I be mad? Should we say something? My husband wants to kick his a** but that is not going to solve a thing. 

The whole time we've been married it always seemed like he craved attention and had a jealousy problem. Our son recently got married and have their own house and I brought up grandkids to my husband. He had an attitude problem and seemed unhappy about it. Talking about dirty diapers and everything. I told my husband they will obviously be taking care of their own child so what's the problem

Those papers that people are served with when their spouse files for divorce. Are they the actual divorce papers for them to sign if it's an uncontested divorce or what exactly do those documents say?

Ladies, please tell me you made an attempt to even look good for Valentine's day dinner!  I mean, me and the wife went fully dressed up to a class/pricey establishment to celebrate Valentine's day. To my horror, my visual senses were assaulted by some of the worst displays of bad fashion in recent memory. Ladies!  Does it say to wear blue jeans? How about some frumpy top? No? Then answer me this:  How is you gonna show up to Valentine's day looking like that!? Thank goodness the wife put youalls to shame.  Good god.  I had the best dinner of my life with my beautiful lady despite being surrounded by you trolls. Please make a better effort next year for your long suffering dude's sake at least! You would think having so many past lovers would teach you some trick or two.

Hellooooo my fren!

So we met years back and he really liked me but i had a bf at the time..over the years i became single and he got married..but we remained friends and acquaintances. Now he is going through a separation and i am single, we hooked up and had sex..then one night we had plans and he canceled last minute so i told him not to contact me anymore because he is not reliable for me and the whole married thing turned me off. He apologized and said i deserved better etc etc..yesterday he messaged me and said he was filling out the divorce paperwork and said it was a mutual thing between him and his ex to be wife. Should i lay low and see how it becomes or walk away now?

So I have seen several disturbing things in the last few months... All the signs of cheating, lying and financial deciet... Of course, he just calls me crazy and gets defensive.. is there a way (other than a discovery from a divorce proceedings) that I can find out if and what other finances/assets they have? We have been married for a decade- I know when they are lying and I can feel that something isn't right. I've done lots of research and digging, and even been to several financial branches for more information- but how can I get "hard evidence" as he puts it...?

In my humble opinion, it does, I'm 27 and have never seen my father again, he abandoned mom, brother and me when I was 7, and brother just ONE. Indeed, I may sound a hateful person (I think I'm not) but If I ever stumble upon him I'd react aggressively. Your opinion? 

Should he hung his head in shame whenever they pass indirect comments to him about howhis wife fully enjoyed with them and screamed with pleasure and moans for them before they dumped her? Because its their nature and because of them other people in the soceity too comes to know about the natire of his wife theirby creating humiliation and unpleasant situation for the respected husband. Because he cant mess with them, as whatever they said are not false and is true and the husband only came to know about it after marriage when he aaked his wife if it was true?

I use to think that married women had it better but majority of time they have pressure of cooking, cleaning, and worry of cheating. Idk about single women, my relatives said it sad that some women never marry but some marriages can ruin your self esteem and life. 

The ring finger

If they are adopted?

I have always thought my husbands best friend was a little "weird." He has always kinda creeped me out. He has a wife and the 4 of us would go out on occasion for dinner or drinks. The other night he just came by himself to dinner without his wife. My husband was there obviously. When my husband got up to use the restroom and he started telling me how he liked me and found me sexually attractive but could never date me because of my husband and his wife. I was VERY VERY uncomfortable.  Apparently he took the fact that I stopping by his house to bring him extra firewood days prior (my husband asked me to drop it off on the way to the store) as an indication I was interested in him. !?!? There have been a few occasions where he and my husband will go out drinking and I had an inkling he would purposely drink too much so he had an excuse to spend the night. I have always put my foot down and not allowed him to stay. Maybe that makes me a terrible person I don't know.  Should I say something to my husband? I feel like if I do I'm opening a huge can of worms between me, my husband, his wife. I hate drama and conflict and have enough going on right now. Should I say something?

A rape is a rape is ahainst will 

Maybe I'm wrong.. but I swear if a millionaire woman and a 20k per year man had a divorce, that man would not be able to take half her stuff.. but apparently (maybe I'm wrong) if it's a millionaire man and a 20k per year woman, she's allowed to take half his stuff

Instead it should have been opposite as in love marriage both knows each other very well about everything including sex, so it should have been lower compared to arranged marriage where both of the partners were virgin and agreed to marry and stay together forever without pre marriage sex? Does that suggest that love marriages are just a game where all can jump from one marriage to another? Whereas in arranged marriage people triesto adjust more with each other and gives more effort to save the marriage and keep their vows?

She has no problem being alone, basically, and needs a lot of personal alone time, privacy, and wants to spend a lot of time alone together with her husband. And before anyone asks: yes, she wants to be married very very much and wants it to last permanently

yesterday i ordered half dozen blue roses to my partner. the company called me that he did bot accept them, threw the roses to the delivery man, pushed him and scratched him. when i confronted my partner he said he didnt and didnt take because couldnt understand how he pronounced my surname. he denied being violent while shop people are saying something else. im not believing my partner and he is saying im on their side. what should i do?

The last time he got any was around Christmas time. It hurt and wasn't any good. 2 months prior I had our 2nd baby. Here lately he's been asking and I'm just so tired and I have no desire to even do that. I know my Adderall makes me not want any either. (No will not go off my medicine.) I'd like to give him some, but I don't know how to get in the mood for him. Advice? 

Basically when I met him he was with his wife. They were always really fond of each other. They would never fight, they were always texting etc etc. he never once said anything bad about her to me or anything. He really loved her I thought. He never once mentioned that he wanted to divorce her.  The other day he called me and told me he was getting divorced & I didn't believe. He wouldn't tell me why he was doing it and even got mad at me and ended the phone call . He got the divorce a few days later. I asked once again why???? He said because he's going overseas to his home country and he doesn't know when he'll be back . (No one overseas knows he's married) That is total crap bc he 1) owns a business he cannot neglect longer than a month 2) he bought the plane ticket back right in front of me. Besides that's not a reason to divorce someone. He's obviously is going to come back so what was the point. He acting like he would never see her again.  After getting divorced she has been sleeping over his house nonstop. Pretty much dating her STILL.   So why get a divorce yet still stay together ?  She was extremely devastated by his decision understandably bc she thought everything was great as well.  Idk. He has been really upset about it but.... he's the one who wanted the divorce. So he's been MIA out my life ever since. Anyway... why did he want to divorce her?   She's young -19 & he's 29. They don't live together. Been together for 7 months