He calls her a lot when son is with her/us and always seems moody or upset (i.e. hanging up calls, not expressing his emotions) and is willing to hang out with her and son when im not around. She goes along with it. She always asks what his deal is what hes dealing with and he has a hard time expressing himself. Yet she knows everything when i go to work and see her again. She says totally over him and they both agreed to co-parent and relationship is purely platonic. They were tog. 6 years and split a year ago. And she assures me that they are friends and need to be for son. Sometimes he calls late at night knowing im there just to "check in" on son when everything is fine. And shes always quick to respond and help him through his problems. And he has a gf and family. He cheated on her a year ago. Is it possible that she is leading him on or something and he gets hurt cuz she wont pull through with leaving me or something? Lol been a time she would walk around the house in booty shorts with him there and me not there. Also, she stills has pics of them on facebook. Lately she seems to want to go places they used to go and now she suddenly started vaping one of his favourite e-cig flavors..

Does it mean he stop the phone from ringing the first time?

So I think that my crush is hot I'm very sexually attracted to him but apparently he thinks the same thing.. like he treats me like a celebrity when he sees me ether he's moaning not being able to control his hormones or he's too shy doesn't talk to me but talks to all the guys around telling them how hot I am every movement that I do it's a big deal to him hell go running to the boys.... sometimes when I see him just always shy.. I  think he's hot too how to get him to calm down? He clearly thinks I'm hot so do I I think that he's hot when I see him I think dammm also he's daddy.. tall,light skin brown skin, great personality, he's everything I just wish he treated me like he treated everyone else I hate being "special"

What is a good comeback to say when your guy friend says "All you girls seem to do is cry" All guys want is pussy and no personality

A guy visited my church 1 week ago (He is a pastor and is 35 years old, I am 26). He was there to preach and after the service he approached me and I asked him about his wife and he said he was single. He mentioned that he was currently going to the same university I am and he said he wanted to hangout. I said yes, my classes start in March so I told him that I would hit him up when I was on campus. He then said he would like to see me that week so I then said let's meet up tomorrow. We met up the net day, I extended my hand to shake it and he went for the hug. We had lunch in the cafeteria and he seemed serious talking about his life and we were going back and forth. The conversation was great. Afterwards, we went to the library since he had to study and I was doing some other work. We took about 2 breaks and chatted a bit more and when it was time to leave he said he really enjoyed hanging out with me and invited me to his birthday party that weekend. I said yes and right before he left, I told him to take a picture of me holding a book that I found. He took it, handed me my phone to see if I liked the photo and then took the phone out of my hand to take selfies of us together and then he left.  Fast forward to Saturday, I go to his party and meet his friends, he greeted me and talked to me for a bit and then proceeded to talk to all of his friends, I didn't know anyone else there so I proceeded to talk to people and I ended up having great conversations with his friends (both male and female). I decided to do that all night rather than to follow him around which I don't know it that was the right or wrong move.  Anyway, halfway through the party, I go to the kitchen to get some water and he follows me there. (Now the day I met him in church, he said he liked my hairstyle. The next day when I saw him at school he said, "what happened to your hair?" So to his party, I made sure to have my hair the way I had it in church the day of his party). He follows me into the kitchen and says, "You have you hair the way I like it."  I just smiled and thanked him for inviting me to the party. I told him I was having a great time and that I wanted to hangout with him more but he was leaving to El Salvador in 2 days. He said that we would hangout again when he got back. Later that night, I was hitting it off so well with some of his closest female friends that they invited me to hangout this weekend. Anyway, when I am ready to leave, I look around and he is nowhere to be found. HE LEFT without saying goodbye which to me was a bad sign but then again he is a grown man getting his PHD, has a job and leaving to El Salvador, maybe he had to do homework and general work before he left. Idk I texted him thank you for inviting me and he said he enjoyed watching me at the party enjoying myself so I guess that is a good sign. That was it, I haven't texted him nor did I ask him when he gets back or try to make plans with him, I will wait until he gets back.  I figure if he is really interested, he will contact me and we will continue hanging out but the fact that he left without saying goodbye in person has me worried…… HELP!!!!! 

Maybe she seems.boring or something. She is verrrrrrrryyyyyy calllllmmmmmm

my guess is that an extroverted social woman would want a extroverted social guy 

obviously if she doesn't know you and is a random stranger you can't expect that ever since that would be creepy and weird to expect that from a woman, but how do I get a woman to fall for me and trust me so she can show me her privates and feel comfortable expressing her nudity to me? 

So a good friend of mine, let's call her X, was crushing on this guy, and his friends were all trying to set them up together. All was going well for a few weeks and then suddenly his friends told her that he now liked some other girl. So X is now heartbroken because she's been trying for quite a while to find love. I'm not exactly the best with emotions because I never want to appear shallow by saying something like "Oh, he never deserved you anyway". And I don't wanna seem like I'm telling her what to feel by saying "You shouldn't be this upset over him, we're literally freshmen in highschool and you two were never even dating". Please help! I don't really know what's the best way to help her out. Thank you!

I like a girl, But my dilemma is I don't have my drivers license yet. Should I try to date her anyway? I feel odd maybe making her do all the driving until I get my license. I don't know what to do. Please help.

So I told this guy that I liked him a month ago and he told me that he really likes me and that he gets very shy around me because I'm "very pretty". I thought everything was going good, but recently I found out that he has been flirting with this girl and giving her hugs and stuff. We hung out over the weekend and he was all shy, but it was fun. What's the problem....if he likes me so much, why is he flirting with this other girl, who I'm sorry, but is half as attractive as I am if I'm being honest. What's the problem? What should I do, should I tell him that I've heard things have been going on and that I wanna know what he thinks of us? Anything will help.

He and I have been friends for 8 years and I am in college while he is home. We have hung out one time since I have been in college because of that. We talk a lot and he told me about this girl he liked and he wasn't sure if she liked him. Well, she invited him on this trip to Mexico with her friends and family. He is a little nervous because he likes her, he doesn't know her friends, and he doesn't know her family. I was jealous because he is my buddy and I wanted to hang out with him this summer when he was going on this trip. So I asked if he needed a wingman and he was saying he'd consider it. But it isn't his trip and I feel like I am doing the wrong thing by asking to go. He is my best friend and I want to help him out and make sure that he has a friend that he knows and doesn't feel third wheeled for the week that he is there. I also know that his mom is very paranoid about him going, so I know that would help calm her down. But I asked him and it didn't feel right asking. I told him that I thought I stepped over the line, but I don't know if I made the right choice with what I did.

After the day we broke up he had another girlfriend. I got so mad at him, but I couldn't blame him, I guess I was a really bad girlfriend for him. I tried really hard while he wasn't giving any effort. He looked really sad when I dumped him,  but turns out he was faking it or it was only that moment. My friend later told me he was with another girl outside as soon as I dumped him. And I realized it was true when he was wearing a pink scrunchie. I need to know. Please don't be mean in the answers. Its been a hard couple of months for me.  

A little over a year ago, I started working at a new place. A male coworker started talking to me and we slowly started to get to know each other. He was interested but I was hesitant because he is younger than me. We continued bonding and started to take lunch together everyday but I noticed that he was starting to like me more and continued to pursue me. After having to reject him a few times, he slowly started to back away and now we are not talking as much anymore. I am not sure if I am started to like him but I think I am catching some feelings for him. If I were to give him another chance, would a guy just brush it off because his ego was bruised?

So I am an intern in a class in college, and I kinda like one of the students, but he's only 20 and I'm 30. Would it be weird if we dated? We both are friendly with each other, say hi and bye, and I caught him smiling at me for awhile after the teacher said something! 

What was that? What were you doing? Why does your browser history look as if you never figured out how to unlock the phone to begin with?......usually being asked as I walk into the room

Been talking to this girl and told me. She doesn't want be in a relationship, dating or talking to anyone. So I move on.... now the girl who Im still friends whom I tried to get with is mad.... I don't get it why!?

I feel like I'm alone in the world. I feel like no one can love me for the goodness that I have or the heart that I have that I can love with. It's like people cant put their faith in me and just realize that I care about them. I just wanna die right now because of it. I realize no one can love me and no one does. I'm truly feeling alone in the world. Is it me? Did I do something wrong? I know I get mad at people when I'm in emotional pain when rejected but that's obviously because I'm hurting because everyone proves to me they cannot love me. What'd I do wrong?

"I would rather go climb, but I'll go to the game with you if you really want me to"  Context: my boyfriend says he doesn't want to do almost anything I suggest, and I finally told him that I am fed up with it and him being negative and resisting everything I try to do with him - seriously in the last 6 months he has not willingly agreed to do anything with me other than stay home and watch movies and climb on mondays and wednesdays with our climbing team.  He occasionally thinks of things he wants to do and I am usually down.  During our argument, he keeps insisting that "I would rather go climb, but I'll go to the game with you if you really want me to" is a neutral statement, so he is not being negative saying it and him saying it shouldn't make me not want to make him go to the game, even if I want to.  Thoughts?  am I rite?  Is that a negative statement? Does me asking him if he wants to go to the game imply that I want to so saying that he is willing to if I want to is an invalid statement anyways?   Thanks for the responses.   Ok lets be fair, he has done one or two activities without complaining but thats it

I didn't start dating or have sex till after college, I never was the party type or experienced any hookups in high school. didn't actually start working until my 20's I am financially independent and have a job and college degree, but I feel like I missed out on life. I mean I guess you can say I was always a good kid, never abused drugs or alcohol, never got a girl pregnant, never cheated on a girl. never got arrested, I never get into much conflicts with people.  but at the same time I feel like maybe I should be more adventurous? 

my best friend moved out of state for college and we had been dating without a real label or discussion for almost a year leading up to it. i didn't realize how deep my feelings went until it was too late. we said it would end once she moved but every time i've seen her since moving things have happened between us and i really don't want to move on from her because things feel so right between us but i know she's not interested in long distance. i don't want this to ruin our friendship but i feel like there's no way this can go where it won't damage our relationship. i'm scared to talk to her because i don't want to hear her answers or get rejected and make things awkward between us. most of all i'm terrified of ruining how close we are because she's my best friend but the thought of watching her date someone else makes me feel physically ill and i'm not sure i'd be able to which isn't fair of me. please help haha.

Like a really ugly guy with a really pretty girl?

Ok so I've been "dating" this guy for about 5 months now and He told me he loved me already and i did too because truthfully honestly i really do. But i asked him what we where and he said nothing, and then I asked him if he wanted a relationship and he said " i just got out of a 3 year relationship I'm just trynna chill right now" but then he almost treats me like a booty call... well that then I'm the one that always has to hit him up first... he'll just leave me on read and just stuff like that... like at the beginning it was nice but now he kinda treats me like he's not interested... or like we'll spend time together and it be all cute and nice and back to normal... but then it goes back to the same mean stuff... can i get a perspective on this ??? Like what could i possibly mean to him? Do i just let him keep doing me like this ? I tried talking to him and all he says is sorry but keeps doing the same thing... is he using me ? Do i give him time? Guys what does this mean ? Cuz i can't be out here loving a guy that doesn't love me  And yes we do have sex 

Why or why not? 

How would you feel about a partner doing it?

There is a girl that I'm falling for but problem is that she has a boyfriend of 3 years. We have known each other for 6 months but really only gotten to know each other for 3. We text or call each other everyday and we have a ton of chemistry. I told her i liked her and she told me she likes me too but she can't leave her boyfriend because they been together for a long time. I told her i understood and tried to keep my distance but she finds a way to talk to me. She told her boyfriend about me and recently they had a huge fight where her boyfriend gave her an ultimatum that she stops talking to me completely or he will break up with her. We talked on the phone one final time where i told her how i felt about her and she said she won't let me get out of her life completely. We haven't talked in 3 weeks in which i was starting to accept that i won't see or talk to her again but i recently learned that she got hired where i work. While its great that i will get to see her i feel it will also be torture and i kind of wish she didn't take it so i could forget about her completely. What should i do?

Chances are that you may have a spiritually healthy relationship with your partner.  But is your parner your Soul Pair, created for you and you for them?  Is your relationship spiritually reciprocal?  Think on the experiences of your relationship and quickly estimate the good with the bad on a set of scales and decide if the good outweighs the bad.   After a romantic activity with your partner how do you feel afterward?  Do you feel whole and appeciated, or do you feel anxious and lacking.  If you feel the latter, your partner may be cheating you spiritually.  They may be using your body to gain temporal pleasures with you while not caring about your spiritual health.  In a severe case your partner may be malicious and intend to cause you emotional and spiritual harm.  Whatever their motivation for intending to inflict harm to you emotionally and spiritually, you should casually be aware of the indicators that your partner is not True to you.  Does your partner tell you what you want to hear or do they tell you what's in their heart?  If they are telling you what you want to hear, their intention is selfish, because they don't value your insight into their heart or they are hiding their true heart.  If your partner is hiding their True heart, that is a valid indicator they are contrary to your emotional and Spiritual health.  Do not remain with a partner who is not True.  If you know they are not True and you remain with them, you will suffer even more.  It is better to end an unhealthy relationship with an untrue partner and miss out on some temporal pleasure then to risk long term or even permanent emotional and Spiritual damage to your Soul.   And remember, if you are good and True in your heart, God will reward you with your Soul Pair that God specifically created for you, and you for them.

I am a stay at home mom of two, and living with my fiance. He obviously goes to work and pays the bills and groceries, etc. But for the last two years he has done nothing but tell me I need to start doing better at cleaning the house. Every single day I do dishes, feed my children and do laundry while he sits and plays video games or sleeps. Am I wrong for being upset for him not helping around the house? I feel like even though he pays the bills he should still be able to help me with small things, but every time I bring it up to him that he doesn't help it causes an argument and he tells me the house always looks like crap and I need to do better. I just need opinions, thank you for me ranting on.

My new BF and I had met on dating site and during 4 months of dating, I secretly knew he was still on the dating site. Then he said I love you on Feb 15th. A day after that, he still checked the dating site. But then on the 18th, he removed all his pics and added just a picture of the beach. He also changed his name. He hasn't logged in since. Why doesn't he just delete it?

I met this girl in high school 5 years ago. We were pretty friendly with each other, for example I would post the"tbh" posts on Facebook and she would like every last one. We were also friendly in college. We both went to the local school, but we wouldn't see each other often. Of the times we did, she seemed happy to be around me. We ended up talking at the library once for a few hours before I had to leave. It got real deep, we talked about family and a bunch of other stuff. Or if we had a class we would sit together and do homework and stuff like that. Between then and now, she got a boyfriend. Once we hung out before class doing homework and he showed up, he barely even looked at me or even said hi, it seemed like he was jealous. Here's why I ask this question: She texted me last month out of nowhere, saying she found her old phone with my number in it. We texted for a while but she ended up dropping the conversation. I left it alone but she texted me a few days ago, and the same thing happened. The first time makes sense but why text me twice, especially if she's just going to drop the conversation. Should I make an effort to stay friends and text first? I could take it or leave it, I haven't seen her in forever. I doubt our friendship would change if I didn't do anything.

My best friend was asked to go to Mexico with a girl he likes. He's still unsure what she thinks of him, but he's most likely going this summer. I was going to ask him about going on a trip like this with a few of our buddies since I'm always in school and he's working in another city so we never get to hang out. When he told me about the trip, I was kinda jealous because he's my buddy and we aren't going to be able to hangout, but he's kinda nervous because it's her friends and family and he doesn't know any of them. I told him if he needed a wingman, he should hit me up. His mom is also kinda unsure if she's going to let him go, so I thought that a way around this was to say that if he's able to get me to come along, his mom wouldn't have to worry because she knows I travel and I'm responsible, so she knows I'd look out for him. I jokingly told him the wingman thing and he said he'd consider it. I told him I was just kidding, but if he was actually considering it, that'd be pretty cool. Now I'm worried that if I do go, I'm just gonna be a third wheel sometimes, but I also don't want him to be a third wheel in front of her friends and family, especially since I know drinking and the beach isn't his thing, so I feel like he'd be comfortable with his best friend there. But I feel needy or clingy and like I'm trying to hard to be a part of something I'm not supposed to be a part of. Should I try and see if I can actually go, or should I just stay out of it entirely?

There's this girl and she used to be a good friend. I ran into her a few days ago after not seeing her for 5 years and I just ended up telling her so much personal stuff I dont even tell my friends. Im a really secretive person but when I talk to her, its different. Idk why she has this effect on me, she always did. She used to like me 5 yrs ago but I just wanted to be friends. We did make out a few times, but I didnt like her like that and I was immature because I got jealous when she moved on and our friendship got screwed up for awhile. When im with her, even after 5 years of not seeing eachother, I feel so open, ive never felt like this before except for my family. Is this love? Im kinda **** at understanding my own feelings. 

Man I hate hurting people. I didn't like him in that way but I didn't know how to say it to him without hurting his feelings :( I didn't want to upset him. I would give him excuses, and I thought he would stop chasing after me but he didn't. And then when I finally broke it off with him in person it broke his heart. And now I'm crying myself to sleep because I didn't want to hurt him. I just feel so terrible, please give advice on how to not feel so awful. 

So, last year I started seeing a guy. We are both gay males. So, after a few months we became a couple after discussing everything. He has another friend who is female. They had a big fall out last year and have just become back talking  He visits her home regularly and is very friendly with her fiance. My partner told me he did not have Instagram but yet a few months back I found his private profile on it in a profile photo with the girls fiance where they looked very close. When I said this to him he blushed and said he did but didn't use it. I found it all very odd. My partner has really changed ever since he got back talking with them both. He has been arguin with me and keeps brining up her fiance saying he is handsome etc. He told me before also that when she is there at the house, the two guys touch eachother and flirt etc etc and she watches and enjoys it.  He also told me a few weeks back that he didn't wanna be in a relationship anymore and would prefer to be friends so I left him be. I told him that I thought the whole situation of what is going on is a ticking time bomb and I'm glad I'm rid of him.  However, after two weeks my ex texts me asking me how I am. I was polite and responded. He kept texting a few days ago but I ignored him. That situation is far too messy.

She 27 years old, 5'8 and weights 120 lbs and she says that I'm like her chair that she loves so much, I'm like just saying ok, I don't mind in fact i like her weight sitting on me Im just puzzled as to why she does this? 

I been single since high school am i the problem. I think it's just me not wanting to get caught up with a baby or with someone who's toxic....idk then i keep thinking i'm better off alone free from problems.

After standing in for a singer in my brother's band, I developed feelings for one of the members. I really didn't want to but I did. Now my brother is leaving the band and I'm not a part of it so if I don't confess my feelings soon I probably won't see him again.  Thing is, I'm 15 and I've never confessed to someone I like this much or asked someone out before and romantic feelings kind of scare me. Should I confess/ask him out or should I let it slide? If so, how? Is this even enough info? I'm an awkward bean, I'm sorry.

Seeing him for about 4-5 months,mostly hanging out going to eat , movies, sleeping over . We had both talked that this is a friend with benefit type thing and he told me he is not ready for a serious relationship. But the past few months I had started to meet his friends, hang out together , spent New Years with him, Christmas gifts etc . He started to call me a lot everyday and we would talk for over an hour. Then on Valentine's Day he asked to go to dinner I had agreed but as the day came I felt extremely sad and anxious and I told him I can't see him today because we are not a couple and it will confuse me and send me mixed signals and I feel sad. He told me he understood and apologized for being confused himself .  He was silent 3-5 days, I finally texted him asking if I made him upset and he just told me he is depressed and wants to be alone and not spread his negativity. I tried to be kind and just wish him well and take care. He then told me the other day he wants to see a movie with me but he won't be available for another week(he set the day once again) I said I missed him a lot and I will get the tickets for us.  Still ..he won't reply for hours and when he does it's a few words/doesn't respond or pick up at all.  we r not together but he used to call every night and text often and now he won't  respond and I feel angry/sad  and just want to ask him what he wants from me or what are we? Should I wait to ask in person if I ever even see him again or text him now?