Ex husband and I divorced 2018. He was toxic with my kids and i. We had one son and goes to the same school as my other children. I recently found out that the school was allowing my ex to request the kid's be pulled out of class to talk to them. When I enrolled my kids to this school I was already divorced and did not put him as an emergency contact. He goes visit our son at school but request to speak to my children no blood relation to him.  Is this legal????  Is the school allowed to do this?

A friend of mine who is a us citizen married a girl from Asia, for 21years they had it great with 3 beautiful kids. Until he sponsored her parents, and then her brothers/sisters- Sad thing is now she doesn't need him anymore and filed for Divorce. He was under the impression that she will come to her senses and withdraw the Divorce case, apparently she is not and in couple of weeks the court will make it final.  Why she waited 21 years?  because it took 21 years for her sponsorships to be completed, and they are here in the US. What can he do? Can he deport them or seems like perjury or am i wrong - please let me know. 

I cant take it anymore my wife's son is the world's biggest pain I pay all the Bill's make sure they have food and they're healthy.  Yet she always takes his side no matter how rude or wrong he is. I can't just ask him simple questions without him doing this little scream hes rude always talks back if he doesnt have his way he starts throwing things and screaming yelling kicking the floor hes 7 years old and she doesnt tell him anything she simply always thinks that we should break up if I cant accept her kids . Yet she sees the problem and does nothing .. her daughters a sweetheart and shes so much harder on her. We're about to have a daughter next month and I've been trying to make it work for the sake of our child but everyday it runs threw my had that I cant stand her son and I shouldn't be in a marriage where I'm not happy and. Have no say in anything. I've done more for these kids than thier own father has ever and yet I'm the bad guy for getting tired of  how he acts.

I told my ex he was everything and higher den me. Im smarter now boo i hope. It had him confuse thinking he can treat me like dirt. Now i aint making dat mistake. I know now aint no man higher den me and i aint wanna stroke no man ego like dat no mo. I aint that blind no more. You aint all dat , Ex boyfriend ! He was fooled by my praises

Me and my wife were watching the ID channel it was about a young girl who was murdered back in the 90's. It makes me sad to see stuff like this especially when it comes to kids. Is it OK to cry ?

My wife had a bad dream that I was abusive to her I would never do anything to hurt her she knows that. I don't know why she would dream about it I'm the okly guy shes ever had no one in her family was abusive. I don't get why she had this dream. How can I comfort her ?

I get her point of view, and her getting upset with me for ignoring her is perfectly justified on her end. This is a problem that I have and I need to fix. A little bit about myself that I think is the root cause of this is that I'm a police officer, and have been for about three years. During my time in this career, I have pretty much trained myself to be a selective listener. When talking to victims or suspects, I completely block out any irrelevant or unimportant information and only pay attention to what is important to the case. A very beneficial skill on patrol because it helps me sort out unimportant information, and write up good and detailed reports. Unfortunately, it has transferred home. I can be sitting right next to my wife, or she'll walk right by me, and she'll say something. I know I hear her, but I guess my brain just tells me it's not something I need to respond to. Obviously, she then gets upset that I don't respond to what she tells me. Any advice on this? Probably just as simple as telling myself to pay attention more, but it's good getting an outside perspective on things.

I stopped believing in marriage a while ago. I saw so much evidence already that I'm backing off. Women tend to divorce men left and right and it's disgusting. It's also in the statistics Google it. They say it's 50 percent ppl who divorce each other but I believe it's higher now. Now I just rather live with a partner but not bring up marriage anymore. I know women always want to get married but how can I just refuse marriage on them but in a nice way but without breaking up 

Im still married but my husband and i seperated two years ago and has been living his life while our kids and i are homeless and struggling. Hes out of state. Im im Indiana and hes in FL ive never gone for child support because he abused the children. " the reason for me leaving him" i he wants nothing to do with us and we want nothing to do with him. But he needs to pay for these kids. I cant do it all alone. Im just afraid of him taking the kids across state lines and what he could do to them. Hes been to prison and had an abuse case out on him for hurting me while preg. Before someone asks why i married him in the first place. He wasnt like this till we had kids. He was loving and kind. Then we had our son and with in two years he had switched 100% he was always the one who worked and when we seperated i was left with nothing. What do i do? What can i do? 

In the old days, body fat was considered feminine and women often weighed more than their husbands, but they weren't often taller. Are taller woman, shorter man marriages more common today than in the days of yore? Marriage$ & Divorce$

Can you be the custodial parent after a divorce if you are on shore duty? 

If both parties agree not mandate court ordered child support, can you just pay the amount agreed to pay in the divorce decree? 

I served my ex divorce papers. He signed them and returned them but I didn't get the green return slip and it's been two weeks and if I look at the tracking number it doesn't show anything. What should I do since the court requests proof I served him even though he signed and responded to the petition. 

I honestly want to have another baby but not with my cheating husband.  I know we won't last forever since he's been cheating on me and it looks like we will be getting a divorce sometime soon because of his cheating and affairs. He is in the Navy and we have been married for almost 17 years.  I love him but he doesn't treat or respect me like he used to and I am tired of it.  I really want to have another baby because I want my child to have a sibling, but I don't feel I could bring another child into this world with a horrible husband and a cheating spouse. What should I do? Should I just forget about it? And just live with having one child? I am turning 39 soon and of course for women the biological clock is ticking. I think maybe one more child before I leave this earth? But should I look into fertility treatments? I know my husband and I won't last longer, because I'm tired of his cheating and I know I don't deserve it. Please no bad feedbacks, just an honest feedback thank you! 

My ex-husband didn't cheat on me, or anything. Neither I or my ex-husband are wealthy. We are the typical working class people. When we bought our home, we bought a simple 3 bed 2 bathroom 1,500 square foot home in an upcoming suburb of Dallas. When he met his current wife he (in 2016) and I had been divorced for five years. He payed child support and he would come and pick our son up for his visitation, regularly.  His new wife is 20 years younger than my ex-husband. She didn't have any kids when they met, and he was working an average job, making about 60-70K a year.  Fast forward, after they got married, 2017, he has chosen not come see his son anymore. No phone calls, no nothing. He does still send his child support check. In 2018 she gave birth to a son, which my son has never met. I finally found out where they live, and it is a 12,000 square foot mansion in Dallas. The new, young wife, is a worth over 50 million dollars. My ex-husband still works at the same job he had when we got divorce, and he pay is still the same. However, one of my friends say that because my son deserves to live the same way his dad is living, I should be able to take him back to court and they will base child support on his new wife's income.  What are your thoughts? What would you do? Especially since our two lifestyle are drastically different, and my son hasn't even been invited over to see his new little brother?

If my husband always initiates sex, and I want to start doing it, should I ask or talk to him about it or just do it spontaneously without asking? 

Do you think it will bother him....

I couldn't imagine sticking around here asking and answering questions u til I'm level 7. As much as I feel I've been making a positive contribution, I feel ultimately this board has been detrimental to not just me, but all marrieds that frequent this site, regardless of your excessive overindulgence with past lovers. But why can't I satay away!!!!

So, any husband who marries such an women with such past records, should they too be ready to get dumped like the exes once she gets bored again like before? Because the other exes too might have dreamed a future with her, but she destryed them. So, tommorrow she moght destroy her husband's feelings and dreams too?

Being raised by two narcissist/sociopath parents, my natural inclination has been to willingly sacrifice even the knowledge of my own personal desires from a man. It just becomes all about him like I don't exist. Thank you everyone

My wife doesnt make hardlt any money in retail she has a small amount of money to help but not much. But she's been begging for a family vacation she said vacations like that help her with her depression. I have to pay for the snacks we will need while on the road, the food we will for the restaurants, the park tickets, the hotel, everything. We haven't been on vacation in 3 years because of how expensive everything adds up to me. My wife said she's tired of my complaining because she doesn't understand because she's not the one paying for everything. I told her I have to pay all the bills on top of all this extra stuff like vacations and stuff She said " please stop talking about bills. I'm trying to relax and enjoy myself on the vacation. Life is too short to constantly be talking about bills all the time." My son who is 23 and his fiancé recently went to Paris but both of them make a ton of money so they were able to work as a team to pitch in. It's hard when one person barely makes any money.  I even had to buy her underwear since she doesn't have any. I can't believe she is this broke. This is sad.  My wife has been wondering why I've been hot headed and snappy about everything is because I'm not mad she's broke and not contributing. And my sister in law was talking about " how do you let your wife look a mess in public wearing pajamas" and I said " I'm not buying her new clothes, I pay for enough. If she cant afford clothes so be it" 

My partner told me that she loves to work with me under the same company/organization(we are both medical laboratory scientists) and I honestly said that I feel uncomfortable with that. What are your thoughts about it? Or similar experience 

Hi. I am a step mom and having a hard time adjusting. My husband and I have been married for 9 months. He has the sweetest children (3 and 6 years old). I am having major anxiety about them. I've known them for 2 years and we are close, but it's like I get anxious every time they come to our house. They always expect me to play with them, which sometimes I don't mind, but I just don't want to the majority of the time. I feel like if I don't play with them then they won't like me, so I'm stuck in a predicament. Also, I get really nervous trying to show them affection (saying I love you and giving hugs), because they have rejected my hugs in the past, but have now accepted them and they give it back in return. They show affection towards me and hug me, but I'm afraid if I say I love you to them, they will feel overwhelmed or they won't say it back. How can I not feel so anxious about them? Is it bad that I don't say "I love you." To them a lot? This has been so hard for me. 

When I searched one up it said that she has a husband named Richard and that she has two girls... she never told me that.  When I searched the other professional up I found out that she was gay and got married to another woman and adopted a black child. They live within 5 miles away from me and that she lived in this street which was worst than mine.  When I searched the other one I found out that she had another job working part time in a art field 

What is the difference between healthy and unhealthy if there is no such thing as too many lovers?

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Can she help her husband to save his dignity and self respect in front of people and held him face himself in mirror after getting such humiliated treatment by the wife's exes for no fault of his. What can she do to save him and what should she say to her lovely exes who were her love and sex partners before dumping her?